October 5th, 2012
10:46 AM ET
Chris Brown: Is there such a thing as loving two people?
With a revealing video he posted via Twitter Thursday, Chris Brown wants to show his true self.
Admitting to an unseen cameraman that he was "a little drunk," the 23-year-old singer expresses the desire to be honest and confesses that he's been "stressed out."
"It ain't about the music, I love my fans, I love everything," Brown said. "It's just ... when you share history with somebody, then you tend to fall in love with somebody else, it's kind of difficult."
It's unclear when Brown taped the video, but it would be easy to presume that he's referring to his current state of affairs. As Brown speaks, the video cuts to images of Brown partying recently with his ex-girlfriend Rihanna, whose relationship with Brown imploded after he assaulted her in 2009. The video then cuts to footage of Brown with his latest ex, 24-year-old model Karrueche Tran.
"Is [there] such a thing as loving two people?" he asks. "I don't know. I don't know if that's possible. But for me, I just ... I feel like that."
Brown posted the video following his unsolicited admission that he'd broken up with Tran in the midst of rekindling a friendship with Rihanna, whom he's being edging closer to over the past several months. Since the beginning of the year, the two have collaborated on music together, embraced at the MTV Video Music Awards in September, and this week they were spotted more than once hanging out together.
In his statement Thursday explaining his decision, Brown said, "I love Karrueche very much but I don't want to see her hurt over my friendship with Rihanna. I'd rather be single allowing us to both be happy in our lives."
At the end of his confessional video, Brown said that he was "being real. I don't want to hurt either/or ... I'm not trying to be a player, a dog. I'm not none of that. ... I just care. Too much sometimes."
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Let’s just get down to it. Regardless of whether Chris Brown has any musical talent (he doesn’t) or whether this album is any good (it isn’t), the man recently brutally assaulted a woman, and is still regularly invited back to award shows and worshiped by ‘Breezy’ fans worldwide. Which is, frankly, disgusting. And for those of you out there saying you need to separate the music and the man:
Chris Brown beats women. Enough said. Don't encourage his actions.
Two people? You mean he might be in love with someone besides himself? Not likely.
i'm ok with whatever–
Guess it depends on how many cellmates you have, huh?
Chris Brown loves Chris Brown.
if i was not heavy–i would get rihannas pixie haircut.
I'd like to fling dog pooh at both of them...
wooohooo fun times!!!! birthday round 3 whoooohooooo!!!!!!
chris you do what you need to do...you know what i mean???!!!
see 1 for dollars 2 for extra x...i agree–Go Chris....keep 2
Football Fun-do i ever understand these freekin games....no i just have fun-lol
He is a punk he needs a beat down and then a beat down and then a beat down and another beat down – he hits because he has a tiny penis and can sing the high notes because he has no balls
dickburton? its ok hon...however that explains the sob behavior.....i can sing a high note that will break your ear drum.
its louder then a vehicle alarm.
U cannot say he had no dck because he DOES Y u so interested in it Dont give your opinion unless youre ready to back it up Give logical reason and explanations and maybe then i'll take your crusty self seriously
he's single he can see 5 if he wants......look at your own DYSFUNCTION before you look at CHRIS BROWN'S.
mind your own business–
Chris was a little younger and much dumber. Hopefully it won't happen again. I think that you can love two people. I can love Denzel Washington and Simon Cowell at the same time. On a serious note, Rihanna had been acting out of control in the recent past. I'm sure she will calm down and be more content now that she has her Breezy back.
money these stars make off of bloggers...its in the millions......
keep o$e there for funds...keep 2 for the right reasons...
Dude, you know you are waxin both those a–, You will figure it out when one says "no more". Dude you are twenty one or ee yoa, I dont't want to here this love crap.
HE'S SINGLE HE CAN SEE 5 IF HE WANTS....STFU ALREADY
i would treat #2 better...its a better deal
on i phone...mpark...seacrest american idol right....if thats what your doing your going to nail it...
my god...we'll all be there
Oh GROW UP! REAL love doesn't look like that! You don't love either one of these women....otherwise your choice would be a 'no-brainer'. Do the right thing and stay single.
family cruise to italy...k?
not going to oscars either if i cannot get tkt–its too far away yet.....i'm still worried about mpark
Rihanna is a putz - Chris Brown is the one i feel sorry for–
That's because your a fool
depends-if i am more serious with someone...i won't go to la–she needs family there....k
she has the dwts gig...backstage!!!!!!!!
has back stage interview at dancing with the stars!!!!!!!!! who's flying in!!!!!!!
check out fb
You mean yourself and someone else? Why is this guy still here? After beating his girlfriend he then trashes a a studio room – Now he has some stupid tattoo – Maybe you can sing I try NOT to listen to you as soon as you are on _ i turn you off. You ave no business being in the public eye – It is NOT love when you are beating someone, it is NOT love that you tatooed a lookalike onto your body it is NOT love if you want to cheat on anyone. God may have given you a cool voice but you know what? YOu are not doing the right things with it If you want respect you have to respect others first
If he cared so much, he wouldn't have beat the tar out of Rihanna...sorry, but I don't buy it and neither should she!
I would take chris right now if he called.
Well Amanda that's because your a looser and one of the reasons these guys keep beating on women because females like you forget what he did and give him a pass. You have lowered the standards of the way men need to act and you have set women back. Lets see how you deal when it's someone in your family getting her face smashed, but hey you would probably forgive him after he beats your daughter....so have fun in the future being controlled and living in fear
she's just a washed up noodle who can't cut and paste well either-–
Chris Brown should have 4 or 5 women at 1 time
for some reason i'd still f-ck chris–let's go play for abit....
this is 90% riri...your right..don't pros...this is too much fun watching her
should bang 2 people...as long as he's satisfied...
Adele always wins about anything she needs to know...k?- guys head over to other sites for some fun.....not from this CP 1 and 2 of course..lol
Rihanna is damanged goods-
Adele always wins about anything she needs to know...k?- guys head over to other computer and sites for some fun.....
Rihanna is damanged goods-Adele will never be-
he has alot on his plate with that nightmare
no...he's stuck with them until he dies...we win
d-problem or past mental illness?...
Rihanna and every other woman needs to stay away from this guy. He doesn't love anyone, just trying to feed his insecurities. He needs to get some help to get thru whatever issues he's NOT dealing with. He is an abuser and as a woman's advocate against abuse I can say he is playing on Rihanna to get her back and it seems to be working. He knows her weak spots and she needs to strenghten them.
Well I like the kid and the chic too and dont see no problem with them kids getting back together.
This article is beyond stupid, just another pinhead celeb airing his confusion.
For the record, sure one can love 2 people (or 3, or 4, or 5; get it?). Some people have more loving natures than others.
However, when it comes to really being "in love" 1 or 2 recipients is probably the max.
"is it possible to beat on 2 chicks? I don't know.. but that's how I feel" lol
Better question, can Chris Brown find even one person to love him ? I seriously doubt that.. He's disgusting..
Chris Brown can't even love one person.
What an immature tool posting this for the world to see. He doesn't want to hurt his new ex so he blabs to the whole world about it. Just makes me dislike his untalented *ss even more
Rihanna is a nasty woman who looks like a guy. He was better off with that fine piece of ... Tran. She is smoking hot.
No you can not love two woman! I hope the two involved do not buy this ploy of selfishness to try to be with them both at the same time. If they do buy it they will get a triangle, broken heart, and possibly a std. Furthermore you can be full of lust for two woman. I pray these woman are smarter and that they do not buy the bs. Maybe they will agree to meet each other alone, and both of the woman will agree to dump you lying as*!
What are you, 12 years old?
A woman has no idea how a man's mind works. You can love more than one woman at a time. And look at the flds cult members. They have relationships with multiple women. He'll I bet even mittens wishes he could bounce his wife and pull in another. Ann has lost her charm over the years. Mittens can do better.
It's obvious that he loves himself and Rihanna (himself a little more).
Chris, you need to become a member of a polygamist sect of the Mormon Church, or just not get married and have all the loves you want. As long as the women are in agreement, there shouldn't be a problem. Right?
we'll play on the other site....then beddie bye
is a wonderful girl who got wrapped up with emotionally disturbed coke head.....he is better now and wants to see 2 people. that is a story that should have never been published. if a mistress comes around...nothing should ever be mentioned to anyone.
that spelling of mine again–
Just because he wants to get back with Rihanna dont mean nothin . If he thinks that beating a women then try to get with them is ok then im going to go on myspace and tell Rihanna if you do get back together .Why?
all your paperwork involved all the intelligence you've worked so hard making these blogs sound so above everyone meanwhile we have this thing wrapped up july 10th–and why would i boink a man from town and tell you about it.
ahh sweetie its ok...just keep writing and be smart–go yanks k? .......sorbet and dcaf cap please.....
happy birthday to me..
i am so dumb sometimes
meanwhile we had it all by july 10th...the poor thing had so much work, it was involved and so much intelligence that had to be us on this summer project--baaaaaaaaawaaaaaaaahaaaaaaahaaaa....i'll have the sorbet and a decaf expresso..thank you and happy birthday to me - 🙂
meanwhile we had it all by july 10th...the poor thing had so much work, it was involved and so much intelligence that had to be worked on for your this summer project–baaaaaaaaawaaaaaaaahaaaaaaahaaaa....i'll have the sorbet and a decaf expresso..thank you and happy birthday to me –
she's so abused emotionally, she can't even operate a computer correctly without messing that up.
shut your iphones down-baaaaaawaaaahaaaaaaawoooooo....this salmon is deelish....
I'm a chrianna fan, but this current situation is complicated. I don't like it, but I'm excited about it 🙂
don't worry whoever you are-now go have great s-x tonight....baaawaaahhaaa...
walked into all the "setups"... we have it we know who it is for months–its still walks into what we say
shut your iphones down and forget the pigs
got the last one right–hate to say it but its more Rihanna
then put the run in–she has to make a decision i told her 2 tmes
What did Chris Brown say to Rihanna after she got 2 black eyes?
Nothing. He already told her twice.
your realize you have to make a decision right?
this article makes no sense....
Human trash. Plain and simple.
As the song says, "If you can't be with the 1 you love, love the 1 you're with". 🙂
You're young and rich. Love everyone.
Lust is Lust....
he thinks is best...i can relate to Chris Brown's edge.
And you sound about as simple-minded as he does.
it always did......i have an edge more then most know about....only few people know my edge
she was his first love yet he wants another one. good.
Can you love only one parent? Can you love only one of your children (if you have more than one)?
The appropriate question to ask is not whether a person *can* love more than one, but whether one is *allowed* to. And if the answer is no, the next question to ask is why.
If you realize that you love more than one, and/or are willing to acknowledge your partner may have such feelings, and those feelings are stronger (as they should be) than your worry of what others might think...then you might be ready to dare explore beyond the artificially narrow limits our current society places on relationships.
Google "polyamory". Such feelings are more common than you might think, and are only growing.
Rihanna needs to move on...I'm pretty sure Tina felt the need to come back to Ike the 1st time, also. But, we all know how that turned out. Chris still has anger issues he needs to work out as evidence by his immature tweeting over the past year or so. Maybe this needs to happen to allow them both to get the other out of their system for good. I hope she doesn't, however...just my opinion.
especialkly if your don't the person that well
for years now.
its more passionate–
Heres the test: Think about being with each women for the rest of your life WITHOUT being able to have $ex with her. Which one would you choose? The one you choose is the one you really love. Otherwise, its not love, its lust and it will fade over time. (I'm not promoting abstinence, just the fact that $ex makes us act in, lets just say, irrational ways even when compared to love)
he can see 4 if he wants......
no respect for her whatsoever
This way he can have one while the other heals in the hospital.
he does it anyway. ha.
you truly need a butt buddy...
you deserve it
It is not possible. I have tried 🙁
"I prefer three myself. But it's hard enough to get one."
Woody Allen (Love and Death)
you want another then go for it. this website is like 1 person speaking 85% of the time...if your going for another...
don't do it here...
numba 2? if your on this piece of crap website....stay off
its his business...i agree #2 will just need the respect of it being quiet–
oh chris, u cant luv 2 women @ d same time.pls
he needs a buddy/friend who will really be there for him when he needs her. rihanna maybe the main girlfriend
but he may need more release.
Love comes from the core of you inner being, love is united, not divided. One can care deeply for two however, one could never divide unconditional love.
he wants 2 women .....maybe he can love both
he may need a extra butt to take him out of insanity
to f-ck 2 women....he needs extra activity
you can love 2 women it has nothing to do with maturity--he wants both...simple
9 is good
I'd like to take a large steaming dump on each of them.
LOVE God, LOVE your neighbor, LOVE your enemies, LOVE the brethren, husbands LOVE your wives...
That lists 5 to love, so I would conclude that one should be able to love 2...
But of course Brown means can one love two women at the same time – the answer is no. Honor says that one must let go of the first to love the second – commitment is a matter of love – if you can't commit you aren't loving, in reality.
well, i have low-enough self-esteem that i actually clicked on the link, even tho i completely disrespect this little pvnk.
here's the thing: "loving two people" simply means that you are not mature enough to decide. sure there are tough relationships, but if you can't decide which one of these people you want to be with, then you have not found your true love. becuase if you're the kind of person to have emotions those strong, then you will know it when you're in love. let go of both of them and fall in love with yourself (no, really, not just like superficially as you already are), and start from there. being alone – outside of a one-on-one relationsih – is a wonderful thing and promotes personal growth
okay that was a poorly-worded and not-proofread post. the point stands: if you can't decide which one of these is "your true love", then you haven't found it yet.
haha, he's a player , abuser and cheater. But women are dumb so yeah you can get away with it
Leave them alone if the chick wants to get hit upside her head that's her choice. If Chris wants to fool around with many girls thats his business. He can afford it. Stars are people just like us. And judging from Rihanna's videos they have a ticking time bomb relationship. I like it. You only get about 2 dudes in your life that you can be yourself and not be judged.....they have that connection. Who can say that about their relationship. can you party with your man....I mean really. Without him saying something against it. They are young – rich- and fabulous! If yall want a poster child for DOMESTIC ABUSE its not Riahanna! Go to a Domestic Abuse shelter a pick one of your choice!!!
YES! YES! YES! A person can love more than one person successfully. Its a matter of personal choice.
pomogamy dot com can teach you all a thing or two.
As for the abuse issues....
YES! YES! YES! A person can change. Some of us are stuck in our own mental ways & thought VERY OLD ways of living. The mind, body and soul can evolve. Have faith in positive progression of all types.
Check out Pomogamy and learn more about the many positive forms of relationships that exist.
Our lack of respect, appreciation and understanding of tradition is why we are so stagnant and have not yet figured out how to live with and amongst each other successfully.
its what he wants.
alot women do not.
not mine....let the guy do what he wants--yes you can love 2
let the man do what he wants.
"I'm not none of that." But you sho' am stupid!
Limburger cheese should be renamed Sarah Palin cheese.
Loving two people at the same time is emotional bigamy.
Wow! Talk about a loss of credibility!
Rhianna you blew it.
You have no more sympathy from the public.
Godd luck with that one – you're the new Tina Turner
good for him....then everyone is happy
one may be a boring nag...the other isn't
It would seem that the problem isn't that he's in love with 2 people. It's that he's in love with 3 people and the one he loves the most is himself............
decision to love 2 people. he gets what he wants from both
thats why he needs a numnber 2
I'll drop a number 2 on him.
we never bribe who we are with to remain with us...that is in poor taste
Its not only possible it happenes every day. Every time you re marry its you sayin I love another ! If the situation came into play where both of those people you married at one point in your life were ok with each other being there and you meet them at the same time. and your relationships matured evenly. then youd be in a situation where you love two people. its that simple......where's my emmy???
a man can love 2–no problem–hackers also should due jail time
Don't you mean three people? You're in love with yourself and that right hook you landed on her face a few dozen times. You need a massive beat down, then you need to go to jail full time where you belong.
I support deep infatuation. Its a feeling that is amazing.
Love is universal and it comes in many forms......but no man can serve two masters, and hence no one can love more than one. When someone is in love they are wholly and entirely committed to just one, they both share a love, which cannot be divided or subdivided with another. So if someone says that are in love with two at the same time then that is not true love....
That is a deep infatuation.
Well i for one would not accept such a love, for if my man says he loves me then be it he is mine, but if he says he loves also another then i would let him go.
he is a coke head.....which is what caused him to do what he did....
he wants to love 2 people...good for him
i support 2 loves
cnn thinks any democrat that farts as newsworthy. Certainly a criminal like brown is newsworthy per cnn standards.
I really want to see more articles about flamin fairies that just want to pack fudge!! I be as fruity as they come. Any pillow-biters out there?? Drop me yo digits!!
What is your problem? This is obviously an "entertainment piece" with nothing said about politics. Read stuff like this or don't read it. If you want slanted political info, read FOX,
you don't like the comments...change the channel
he's helping himself and has a new girlfriend ...no problem here.
its capable to love 2 women or men for that matter.
Oh em GEE! Who do I talk to about getting back the 37 seconds it took to read this? CNN needs to drop their entertainment section, stat.
would you like to have ice cream later meangirl - i'll show you my hopper if you interested
they need to find out who they are
is not a big deal anymore–i have quiet life why would i live in chaos with the wife...ridiculous
Why would I want the chaos of a wife when I have my butt-buddy here next to me! He pumps my plump rump with his big ol stump daily!!
number 1 maybe not have been the right person. Man Or Woman for that matter.
If anyone decides to be a #2 its their business.
becausee the woman here...do what they are suppose to be doing--Chris Brown should have 2 if he's unhappy
in my family–the girls in this family are secure as wives and don't nag their husbands to the point of them wanting to blow their brains out......they go watch a game with their guys friends and get home asap.
he wants 2 good for him i say-
may be a total bore....seeing others is accepted.
many people love more then one–i actually speak to people an not screens 24 hour a day.....it can be done
if the girlfriend is a demanding fart...he's going to look for another that's life
You need to know who you are and what are you looking in a wife.
Chris Brown is incapable of loving anyone....wanting to control people through violence yes. Definition of a looser, yes. Party who gets the biggest looser award, CNN for reporting this article, yep lets keep young girls thinking getting beaten up and abused is the way to go.
Hahahahaha........go for it CB. Rhianna is apparently like the proverbial GONG, she needs to be struck now and then
mtchewwwww!!!!! waste of space.
Like a Lost Boyz song. "I'm in the mix, I'm in love w 2 women, and I don't wanna let either of them go."
My favorite music is from dem jig-a-booo rappers dat put out da violent slams!! Hey, I also like to get slammed by a niggg with a super sized meat stik!!
don't let the other go–just keep your mouth closed
The fact that CNN would pretend like this sociopathic anthropoid has something valid to say is just further evidence of how worthless this network is. My, how low this society has sunken. Congrats, culture-destroyers. Job well done.
lack the common sense to understand that a conversation of this depleted magnitude serves only to make the majority of readers feel incredibly horrified. Primarily, it is because you seem to disregard the fact that this individual beat up a woman, admitted it by apologizing (only to save face), and then goes forward knowing he has the support of a fan base made up of mostly women. If one of these women were your sister or friend, you would allow it based on celebrity? What does that teach kids about role models? So, it is safe to say that self-esteem can be easily traded for a lapse in celebrity.
the kids will be raised perfecting...should not even be an issue-
He is actually talking about himself as his first love... then all the women who come second.
It is possible to love two people, but not in the same way and it is selfish!! Also of course she may have started the fight, however he is a man and a trained fighter..he beat her! He could have controlled her..
You certainly can love two people at once. I've been in a committed relationship with two women for nearly 5 years now. We're all quite happy and our needs are fulfilled, the children provided for, and enough love to go around. We've all lived in the same house for 3 years, and i think we'll be here a long while. But it requires perfect openness and honesty, something most people aren't equipped to deliver.
Well you are "perfectly" superior to the rest of us then aren't you.... full of yourself.
I'll take who is Mitt Romney for $500.
Did i say i was superior to anyone? I was just pointing out that unconventional relationships aren't always a trainwreck.
Seyedibar, I agree. Don't listen to the other people. Polyamory is a completely legitimate thing. As "Girlfriend Number Two" to an incredibly loving boyfriend, I can testify. I also have smaller flings on the side in addition to being in love with him. He's been with the other girlfriend for longer than he has been with me, but he loves us both equally and I would never doubt that. And the other girlfriend and I are friends.
Some people are wired for monoamory. Some people are wired for polyamory. Me, my boyfriend, and his other girlfriend just so happen to w wired for polyamory.
However, take note that I really don't give a darn what happens in Chris Brown's life.
I hope they get back together, and hope they keep their hands off of each other...it's so obvious they love in each other
Yes! What a dumb question. Sure he can be torn with two women who want a relationship with Chris Brown. Rihanna still loves Chris Brown and no one can stop that. If they want to be together so be it in my book. Just think about that fight a few years back, Could it be that she started that fight in the car? Yes people as I have thought. Let them live their life please and get your own.
What a twit. Of course it's possible to love two people in fact it's is best to love many people. It's just not advisable, nor save nor good for relationships to be having exclusive intimate affairs with two people.
He needs to hook up with that hoe Minaj.
maybe she likes it a little–or a lot–rough–or maybe she suffered brain damage the first time around–doubt he will change-Rihanna–get out while you can–peace, love and speed-
Geez hes 23 years old and not married -still finding out who he is. Give the guy a break. Its really kind of amazing Clinton the President cheats on his WIFE lies to her and the american pubic – and people still admire him WHAT
Here's a hint. If you keep looking for people to "love" you will keep finding them. Being in a REAL committed relationship means NOT looking and just loving the person you are with!
Then how do you get "wtih" someone to start with? And, what if you are "with" the wrong person? I think you have over simplified things.
Sweet cherry pie
Chris Brown–that's the only reason
they have 2 people they can relate too...they have 2 people they want. its happening all over now.
Why is the D-bag getting any sort of press at all?
I liked this song in it's original version. I think it was called "Ike and Tina Turner"
For starters, maybe Beatherdown Brown should start a professional relationship with a therapist and group counseling. He clearly STILL has issues to work out. Try being single, stay away from the booze, find God, get your life together! Any "woman" that would even consider being with someone like him has some sort of emotional issues. And I am pretty sure she (Rihanna) has some issues of her own to work out. Young love? Nope, just a violent, addictive cycle. What great role models!
I agree with all but the God part, although finding something he can care about besides himself would be nice. He still doesn't get it, and any woman who would be with him has some issues. I can't stand him and wish that the bad boy image wasn't something that seems to pull woman with issues in. Ugh. He is a child with too much money and too many yes-people around him. He could have relationships in private without dragging the whole thing onto monitors and in public. Ugh.
Chris is in love with 2 people...let it be...its his busines anyway
Chris, you go right ahead and play with that live hand grenade you're talking about.
Not me. No way.
I don't see an issue here
as to how anyone would feel if this were their sister, friend, cousin? I am now under the impression that when she came home with a fat lip and black eye, you would probably rather get the new single (of auto-tuned retreads) than ask if they are alright. In reply to an earlier comment, how can it be okay because he is "done with all that"?
once the abuser beats the sh-t out of you...he's done with it, its out of his mind, onward he goes–in this particular case he battles with cocaine use.
Chris Brown can! ...because he def...DEFINITELY knows what love is...
chris wants to love 2 people....so let him.
he wants 2 WOMEN
beating two women is more challenging than beating one; wrap your mind around some sense and self-esteem/
are you all talking about this idiot? He BEAT up a WOMAN. Worst of all, I see women on here showing support and advice such as "follow your heart". What does it take to realize HE BEAT UP A WOMAN? I read the article, so. I am just bewildered how anyone can support a WOMAN BEATER.
Agreed. I am so sick of people saying "He paid his dues, now let him live his life".How about NO.
Well said! Stop rewarding him for acting that way, and really who cares? Ugh.
wants 2 women a the same time...its his decision
Chris Brown a young he does not know what he wants. He needs to stay single and not try be so serious because he is not mature enough to be in a committed relationship. Just date and have side dips.
is a good guy and wants both relationships...so what.
should i ever have to make this sacrifice...2 is it ....no 3 and 4.
multiple partners are accepted now and people do it. if i were to give myself to a person (2) i just want my privacy respected and keep the time with him to myself.
these are talks that would have to be with the man or woman you are going to make that time for.
What did he say? I don't speak jive.
multiple partners is accepted now and people do it. if i were to give myself to a person (2) i just want my privacy respected and keep the time between me and him personal.
these are talks that would have to be with the man or woman you are going to make that time for.
He beats you once, shame on him. He beats you twice, shame on you.
Just ask Mitt Romney. He's a Mormon.
everyone in a life time have difficult moment and i guss this is one of such moments so Chris follow ur heart and do the rgt thing.
Can you? Of course. Many many people over the course of life find themselves loving more than one person. Wondering what to do. It happens easily when you have a close group of friends who spend all their time together. Love is easy to do. Responsibility, morality, ethics, those are the parts you'll find get blurry when you love more than one person. Especially hard is when they are best friends. Good luck Chris
@ Claudia, Houston, Tx... Married people cheat more than single people... Let's just let that little bit of brilliance sink in for a minute. You're genius astounds me
Love is rarely "equal". If you're with someone and then are attracted to someone else it's pretty much over. I mean, who would stay with someone after that?
It's called Polyamory. It's real. But it's for mature, emotionally stable people who aren't full of themselves like 99.9% of the world.
Charlie Sheen beat his wife with their twins? Did he have one in each hand or tie them together by their feet & use them like nunchucks?
Really? He's an abuser, plain and simple. He needs help, not a girlfriend.
We love and support you, Chris! Everybody makes mistakes. Don't let it get you down!
What's this "we" stuff? The dude pounded a woman's face, that's not a mistake that's assault. He did it once, he'll likely do it again
What the H does he know about love.....anybody who can unleash violence on another human being doesn't have the capacity to know love. He's a very confused little kid who's trying to pretend his normal and sympathetic to women. It's too transparent for me.
Shouldn't this buttclown's 15 minutes of fame expired by now?
Does this "trio" of lovers know about one another? I doubt it. I must ackowledge the fact that some cultures accept this practice.
He's too much in lo ve with himself to GAS about anybody else.
Well, we know most of his effort is loving himself...so there's one person.
as long as everyone stfu..there should no problem and in our modern world "if the man treats #2 like a human"
she also picks up the tab. Ri does not have training there...she was born there...Ri's training is from another state.
Rihanna lives quiet and she wants it quiet–i don't blame her.
Yes, it's possible to love 2 people. That's why this ban on polygamy is BS. It's enforcing the idea that love must be between 2 people but not more than 2 people!
its a quiet release for chris.
I think what he really means is "is it possible to tap two fine as $ es and not upset anybody. And it is as long as you claim to be mormon and live out in the middle of nowhere where nobody cares what you do.
by definition love is eternal and all consuming. when you have love in your heart how can you be stingy and only give it to one person. It is possible to love alot of people in different ways for diferent reasons. the question is can you be romantically in love with more than one person. Yes. Ask the polyamorous people. They do it. Ask abraham and the old guys from wayyyy back in biblical times they did it. maybe for politics, maybe for breeding but in some way they had to have feelings for those they married at some point or its forced slavery and rape. So yes it is possible to love more than one person at a time. The real question is can you handle it? Are they cool with it? Do they know that you are splitting your attention, money and affection with more than one person. Selfishness, jealousy and stinginess are the trademarks of western society. The arabs have a saying, that goes you can have more than one wife if you can afford to care for them all. Most men dont have the bank roll that the young man in this article does. So I would tell him have fun, spread the love but deal with the consequences. Be up front with the women (ITS not like they dont know you get panties thrown at you everwhere you go). If you are upfront you will be surprised to find just how many women will actually share a man rather than lose him when he is made of money. Only poo B**** get to be selfish.
And whose definition is that? One of the reason for so many divorces is that it proves that love is not eternal and not about 2 people only.
they need go somewhere - where its quiet and be with somebody where they can be more themselves and
not on pins and needles.
its more accepted by many now - he makes the decision the party does not want to do it anymore.
that is not a soul mate...
and they are not-
Chris is a single young man and free to date and love anyone he pleases and if it's someone whose single from his past that's their business. Married people cheat more than single people anyway, so leave Chris alone. Futhermore, Rihanna still loves him, she said it herself on Oprah, some people are just soul mates.
If he's her soulmate then she'd better take a self-defense course! Maybe he has changed, I"' give him the benefit of doubt. But in love, real true love, no matter how mad you get, love will keep you from trying to physically harm that person that you say yo love. Oh some credit for the "married people cheat more than single people" comment. There's no cheating when there is an absense of commitment.
they are separate relationships...just keep quiet
Uhhh, sure. Move to Utah but you need to define "love".
OMG! Is that Frankenstein?
Yap crs it's ryt, we just understudy about it
Wow James Brown is looking good for his age
This is why I cant read blogs.
CNN what are you thinking?
This is now how I percieve your audience...yesh
I agree! He beats a women and is celebrated for it with further attention from the media? Shame on you CNN!
Chris brown i will rather suggest u stick to one or no cos at the end of the day the spirit of double dating might ruine ur career.chris i love ur song. don't judge me,n pls trade care fully
no erin moran at all....don't worry about her forehead bro. we know for sure.....big zonkers, big heart and butt will be back to position...we had no problem with her butt out of position either..dats right girl...we love you outta position too!...
good fake ....
No matter how pretty or handsome the bag is in which you put garbage....inside, it's still garbage!
just want to say WHOOOO CARESSSS CHRIS BROWN BOY OH BOY THIS IS REALLLLY BIG NEWS MORE IMPORTANT THAN THE PRESIDENTIAL ELECTION OR THE WAR IN SYRIA OR WORLD HUNGER OMG GET A LIFE THAT THE PUBLIC DOES NOT HAVE TO SEE OR HEAR ABOUT AND LEARN HOW TO SING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
From her Iheart gig, Rhianna's really one hot sIut, and she likes to play rough, so you can't blame Thug Brown for wanting that. Her thighs are getting like Beyonce and she has that forehead thing going on though, so in a few years, she'll just be another has-been rag-doll! These two deserve each other! Let's hope they both don't end up like ERin Moran!
Charles Cohn, loved chocolate chip cookies.
I think he should try. If it doesn't work, I'm sure he'll find a way to beat 2 women.
If that's a proposition, touch me and I will kill you.
i can't touch your...your not real...remember?
2 wants shhhhh...thats it!!!!
as we support his decision of 2
Bro with 2
Chris Brown- this kid is only 23 years old! he's a spoiled punk. he does not know his ass from a hole in the ground yet. Who cares what he thinks or says? It the most irrelevant thing since Kim Kardash-a-trainwreck.
Still does not change the fact that you can love as many people as you want, it is called being selfless.
Some people might think that they can love two people... or even three, four or ten. They can have an emotional attachment to and an affection for more than one person, but emotional attachment and affection are not the definitions of love. Love is a verb that requires giving. When you love one person as a husband or wife, it means that you have to give of yourself completely. That person is the first and most important person in your life, right behind God. The apostle admonishes husbands to lov their wives and to nurish and cherrish her as he would his own flesh. This is an alusion to the biblical idea that in a marriage, the two would become one flesh. It doesn't say three, four or ten will become one flesh, but two. And practically speaking, you can't fully give yourself to more than one person.
Here's a humorous story. In college, many years ago, I took a trip to a mideastern country with a tour group of guys. One of the guys (all college age) thinking that everyone in a mideastern country had multiple wives excitedly asked the tour guide (a man in his 50's) "Taj, Taj! What's it like to have more than one wife?" The tour guide just politely said, "You don't WANT more than one wife." (He was polite but it looked like he was thinking, "darn fool kid.") I've remembered that always.
All I see is extremist nonsense. That is not, and will never be the definition of "love". "Love" is wanting what is best for another person. That is why there are different kinds of love, all with the base "wanting what is best for the other" definition.
Wanting what's best for another person is part of giving... but only part. The reason why all you see is extremist nonsense is because you are not fit to receive wisdom... and in my old days I would have said much worse. This truth will be here long after your dead and gone. So you're not worth my time.
Why don't u tell this BS to the Mormon Church. Some of those guys have 5 wives and all living in the same Home. So, I'm quite sure the male loves more than one of them
I do believe we can love more than one person. I do truly love my girl friend. Also, I will never stop loving my late wife. It is two very different types of love, but it is there.
Chris Brown is a useless turd that thinks it can sing.
keno? would you like to grab a starbucks coffee at 3? i can see your doing nothing so let me know
wachoo doing girl
The answer is yes. Next question please.
My response to everyone: u mad bro?
get moving...stop bossing other bloggers around
get the steppin
Yes, you can... but should you? Probably not. In this guy's case, that'll be twice the jail time, so I'd have to just say NO.
Wow..is this a porn site..gigidy
Chris Brown is an idiot. His "music", if thats what you call repeating the same sample over and over again with stupid auto-tuned voices, is all flash with no substance. He'll be a faded memory in 10 to 15 years. Just another product of our one-time-use consumable throw-away culture.
of us are able to see the idiocy that makes up American Pop Culture which, as is invariably transparent, is alright with beating women and getting continued support.
rihanna fine with once a week ... he won't beat the crap out of her anymore..there is no reason to
He loved her so much he beat the living @# out of her. And she loved it. Two peas in a pod. Like attracts like.
What he really means is, "Can I get away with beating the @#$@ out of another woman?"
is a great girl, she sings, she loves life, loves her family–what more can one say
This is a troll comment I hope
Rihanna is an idiot. They have a toxic, volatile relationship, & she's probably addicted to it. I can't judge, I was once in the same position, but I'M NOT IN THE PUBLIC EYE. Shame on you, Rihanna.
the only thing i would ask is low key.
love is love....
Can't he date Kim Kardashiam – she needs a good beating.
but VERY funny
you can love 2 .... just stfu
chris? just don't tell her.
people keep hating , but he just laughs all the way to the bank
All the money in the world can't heal you or make you feel better about yourself when you know you're a lowlife.
To: Chris Brown
From: A woman that can kick YOUR ass!!!
some people have no life, your going to kick his ass because he is still in love with his ex girlfriend... please find a life this is there business
dee? would you like to date sometime? i'm bi
Kim, you are a genius. "This is their business". Yes, and since they are celebrities this garbage is being reported as news. Thanks to those Kardasian idiots everyone knows that if you want attention you just need to create drama. Also, I believe dee was referring to the fact that Chris Brown is a known woman-beater. Probably something a genius like yourself would overlook when considering whether or not to get involved with someone...
him and that Karruecehe girl are just not a good match
what is lol??
then you have to keep quiet
The more he speaks, the dumber he gets...
as long as he can wang chung and be a decent boyfriend...not a problem
would love to see her naked. her boobs are shaped so beautifully.
Chris was her first love they knew each other before they got famous and they were best friends, I bet that love there will never die.. I am all for love
pretty sure the love will die when he beats the crap out of her again,,,,,,,,,,shes a weak woman
What a load of garbage. You're an idiot. Tell that to the women who get kicked in their faces or will get raped or murdered by some vengeful ex or even abusive husband. People should stop listening to their music. Given the fact that you're ok with this, you probably aren't capable of comprehending the problem and how moronic little girls will see this as a green light when Their future boyfriends beat them as well. They are both wastes of life.
When a man or woman doesn't know what love is, or what falling in love means, it's easy to think they can fall in love with every woman or man they encounter. Real love's foundation is daily loyality, committment and trust.
they are two adults they can do whatever they want who really cares??
he definitely has enough wang for 2 people!
i can handle it...
RUN, Rihanna, RUN. Faster, FASTER!
MIND YOUR F-CKING BUSINESS.. I SAY WHATEVER THE F-CK I WANT TO SAY
GET THE STEPPIN
Charlie Sheen beats up his wife countless of times and he doesn't get this much hate, Tiger woods wife sends him to the hospital , and nothing happens. the double standards you get when you are black and do something bad in hollywood is hilarious
Thank you Latoya! I was reading the ignorant posts (Dee) and I was wondering if the disdain was equally distributed towards "other" celebrities who have abused their spouses... Charlie Sheen as you mentioned was in the news within the past few months for spouse abuse and drug abuse and he was given a new show! He beat his wife with their twins at home. Where is the backlash and negativity for his repeated offenses (Yes plural). This man’s transgressions are glorified, written into scripts as characters for him to “play”. He is completely glorified for is lunacy. He as given a commercial wherein he drives a car around a home proclaiming to love being on house arrest – with a shot of his ankle bracelet no less. Are you kidding me????? A plethora of celebrity men and women have been arrested for abusing their spouses, none of which are acceptable, but it's amazing how easily they were forgiven but Chris Brown, for some reason people are having difficulty letting go. I'm sorry did he hit you or your family member? You ride so hard for Rihanna, does she know who you are? Is she cutting checks for your unrelenting support? Or are you simply so miserable and hateful that you cannot let go of a situation that even the parties involved have gotten over. I’m sorry, life much? Get one please.
No...people are stupid and the fact is that the media hyped this up plenty more than sheens antics. So now, more people know about Mr. Brown then they do about Mr. Sheen being an abusive waste of human life. Sorry....no double standard. They are both trash and this woman is sending a message to her young fans...like it or not. Sure forgiveness is great but you still have to respect yourself and wait better for yourself. It's very sad that she feels alone enough to have to resort to this. There are billions of people on this planet, and there are many goods guys among them. Chris brown is a deeply flawed individual as well...and listening to him Nowak now mad then makes me think he doesn't fully comprehend his actions and thoughts because he simply doesn't have the mental capacity to understand.That takes years of training and working on the self...he hasn't had enough time yet.
he made mistakes and his helping himself..that's fine with me.
Go away woman hater,why does this news site feel the need to pay attention to this woman beater and criminal?He should be in prison sharing a cell with a huge hairy guy called rock.His music sucks big time and he is a waste of human genetics.
I guess that's why even after what he did he still sells millions of records and is very popular with teenage girls... such a hater lol
Actually, YOU'RE dumb. This is what happens when truly dumb people learn how to spell from txting.
Romney and the Mormons would say YES.
Love as many as you need.
The media broke these two apart
She was forced to break up because her ass was kicked...
the only thing that separated this to was the media , Rihanna was forced to break up with the guy she was still in love with because of the hate
The only thing that separates you from spelling is the ability to use a dictionary
They are both adults. If they want to get back together, then that's their choice. If he beats the crap out of her again, then I hope she doesn't run to the media and say "poor me". Who could possibly feel sorry for her again? Not me! If she wants to take that risk, then suffer whatever comes your way.
Rihanna NEVER asked for sympathy, at the time if you watched the interviews she just wanted to be left alone and not talk about she never advertised it, it was the media that kept bothering her
I never said she ran to the media the first time. I said if it happened again.
Yes , because you truly know what went on that night and what he will do to her next
Got a bug up your butt or what? Did ah say anything about what happened that night? EVERYONE knows that he physically attacked her. We all saw the pics. Not to mention, he was prosecuted for the altercation. Hey, if you want them back together, that's on you. The facts are the facts.
You cannot disagree with ah.,,, her defenders/defender always comes to her rescue. I'm assuming he/she/they help her wipe her a$5 as well.lol
I don't know ah...... from anyone else on here. Just because you don't like this person, doesn't mean he wasn't speaking the truth. Sounds like you also have a bug up your azz. Am I right, Vixen? Everyone knows it's you, the blue troll. Why can't you just post like everyone else without starting some sh!t on a daily basis? Leave ppl alone.
Get a room
the haters will always hate, if you lover her go for it, just don't make the same mistake twice
prob. the hockers also
why do you people care and feel so passionate about something that is not your life??, if two people truly love each other there's nothing that really could keep them apart, in my opinion the only reason they broke up was because of the media, I mean Charlie Sheen beats up his wife countless of times and he doesn't get this much hate, Tiger woods wife sends him to the hospital , and nothing happens, like really??
Is there such a thing as being too stupid?
get outta here
I got your back Paul. Any woman who stays in or goes back to an abusive relationship is pretty much asking for what they get.
How do you Know? You must done had yo' azz kicked a few times.
doesn't bother me
Me either. That's her damn business. Some people need to get them some! lol!
as long as everyone can deal with it who cares...
He says he and Rhianna are "friends." Hey Rhianna – with friends like Brown, who needs enemies?
None of these Chris Brown types have even known "real love"! Its unfortunate that they see what they experience as love...If they are lucky they will know the depths of deep astonishing connected "love"...then they will know of what I speak.
These two sk-anks deserve each other.......
Why they got to be all that. You sound like a serious HATER! LOL!!!
Colored people problems.
we don't want you around..your a bad example–go find your wife
it happens...grow up..this is 2012
chris . if u stil feel something 4 rihanna den go 4 it bcos she stil loves u
What is up with his eyes? Bud?
isn't he embarrassed
No you cannot love 2 people...BUT YOU CAN BEAT THE HE$$ OUT OF THEM!!!!!! If she wasnt creeped out by the tattoo then she gets what she deserves, low self esteem is ugly!
So are the people who contribute to lowering people's self esteem. You ought to look at yourself before you point out what you think is wrong about someone else. I would like to think that you have great confidence and your life is perfect but I'm can safely assume different.
...just hit her a few more times, you'll get over it.
It is possible to love two people at the same time in fact numerous people. The question should be can you have True love for two people at the same time NO...because true love allows no room to love another being as much as the one you Truly Love.
I really hope he beats her in the face again, she deserves it.
GET THE H-LL OUT OF HERE...
He doesn't love Karrueche, he just cares about her but don't want to be with her. And Rhianna isn't his "Friend" they are dating again and don't want to put it out there just yet. Why do I say this? Been there, done that.
what are you referring to?
yes Chris, it is possible for you to love yourself and love someone else to! Keep trying!
IN MY VOLUNTEER WORK...GET OFF THE SITE..WE DON'T NEED YOUR NEGATIVE ENERGY
Yes, you can love two people. But it'll cost you an extra hundred.
More if you want them to love each other.
Beyond sick of Brown and the Kardashians.
your the usually embarrassment you always are...get outta here.
your deserve whatever you get PAUUUUUUUULLLLLLLLLLLL
Yes Chris, it's possible but you're gonna have to choose unless these two, undeniably brainless women, are willing to share.
WE HOPE NEVER HAVE YOUR FACE KICKED–NOW STFU ABOUT THAT POOR RIHANNA
CHEATING IS A BEATING PAUUUULLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL
WE HOPE NEVER HAVE YOUR FACE KICKED–NOW STFU
What Chris Brown needs to know is: when he beats up a second woman, does that qualify as "cheating on" his first woman.
wish a woman get beat up...your disgusting...go handle your dysfunctional life before you judge others
KARMA'S A BEETCH ISN'T IT>
WE HOPE YOUR WIFE CHEATS ON YOU PAUL...THE REST OF YOUR BORN DAYS....YOU DESERVE EVERY SINGLE
SECOND OF IT....
I really hope he beats her in the face again, she deserves it.
October 5, 2012 at 10:56 am | Report abuse | Reply
GREAT–PAULS BUTT GOES FROM HERE TO ITALY.– NO WONDER WHY HIS WIFE CHEATS ON HIM
GREAT–PAULS BUTT GOES FROM HERE TO ITALY.– DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT.
WE HATE YOU PAUL...EVERYBODY HATES YOU PAUL...GET THE F-CK OUTTA HER
THANKS -- HOPE YOU FAT ASS THAT GOES FROM HERE TO ALBANY DOESN'T GET EVER KICKED IN PAUL
i hope she cheats on him the rest of his life....karma's a biatch isn't it
If they are in fact back together, I really hope their relationship doesn't get violent again... but I believe it will happen again. Abusers don't change.
Every human is capable of change. It is up to others to deem and allow an individual a chance at displaying the change. Most times simple human nature does not allow humans to get past their own hate and distain for the persons previous transgressions. In a nut shell we all make mistakes and we all look for forgiveness at some point…
as long as i am alive i hope your cheated on-good catch cnn...all then nicki crap is in cnn also...
THANKS..WE HAVE IT
i hope your "wife" cheats on you the rest of your life
love 2 ... its very accepted now.
What was actually said: "OOGA BOOGA! OOGA BOOGA!"
How it was translated: "Is [there] such a thing as loving two people?"
I really hope he beats her in the face again, she deserves it.
If they are in fact back together, I really hope their relationship doesn't get violent again... but I believe it will happen again. Abusers don't change.