March 18th, 2010
05:11 PM ET

Jesse James apologizes to family

As reports of trouble in his marriage to actress Sandra Bullock grow, the following statement was given to CNN Entertainment/Showbiz Tonight by Monique Huey-Jones, publicist for Jesse James: 

Statement from Jesse James

"The vast majority of the allegations reported are untrue and unfounded.  Beyond that, I will not dignify these private matters with any further public comment.  There is only one person to blame for this whole situation, and that is me. It’s because of my poor judgment that I deserve everything bad that is coming my way.  This has caused my wife and kids pain and embarrassment beyond comprehension and I am extremely saddened to have brought this on them. I am truly very sorry for the grief I have caused them.  I hope one day they can find it in their hearts to forgive me."

soundoff (205 Responses)
  1. Judi K

    So very sorry, Sandra. Too bad this book turned out just like the cover, when we had all hoped you found a diamond in the rough, like you really deserve!

    March 22, 2010 at 4:20 pm | Report abuse |
  2. karly

    remember during one of her acceptance speeches, she was sooo giddy about jesse saying "you're hot, i want you"...this is just so sad he would do this.

    March 22, 2010 at 2:20 pm | Report abuse |
  3. chaz


    March 22, 2010 at 12:58 pm | Report abuse |
  4. Donna

    Jesse- If you cherish your wife the temptation are easier to fight.

    March 22, 2010 at 12:23 pm | Report abuse |
  5. nessa99

    I just feel so bad for her.. after she finally trusted someone and got married at 40, someone with alot of baggage and a bad boy image, and she publicly showed that hes not who we all thought he was.. I feel so bad for her.. shes probably so humiliated. We all love ya though!

    March 22, 2010 at 12:01 pm | Report abuse |
  6. carly

    someone posted something saying we all make mistakes and that he deserves another chance...hello he broke a vow and sandra just won a oskar! she doesnt need him

    March 22, 2010 at 11:39 am | Report abuse |
  7. Byron

    It is amazing that people would want her to leave. Cheating is not ok but I think it would be better to help them find out why things are not working. The selfish attitudes of I don't need any body that is not good to me is causing more people to figure out how to avoid things that to fix things.There is a possibility that she is not all who we beleive she is?

    March 22, 2010 at 10:41 am | Report abuse |
  8. John

    Bad luck Jesse... never mind, there are plenty of fishies out there. People conveniently forget that it is a totally arbitrary 'rule' that we 'have' to be with one woman only. Never forget, you make the rules! Yep, it's your world, and if you want to have multiple concubines, well, those who don't like it, don't have to go for it... they can go and make frightful noises about it at their tea parties (see comments below)... but, at the end of the day, it's got nothing to do with them...

    March 22, 2010 at 9:40 am | Report abuse |
  9. JamesB.

    A man that cannot be trusted is not a man at all....

    March 22, 2010 at 8:36 am | Report abuse |
  10. Jesse James is a Loser

    Sandra, you did what every woman should do if their husband cheats....WALK! I am proud of you. I am glad you didn't stay with the jerk like some of these "other" women do. It shows you have respect for yourself.

    March 22, 2010 at 5:19 am | Report abuse |
  11. Scotty

    What did he do wrong? That tatoo girl is HOT!

    March 22, 2010 at 1:42 am | Report abuse |
  12. mushymushroom

    First heard of this whole Sandra-Jesse-and-Tattoed-girl brouhaha I'm like... "No....! Not to Sandra!!!!"

    She seems to be very sweet and the fact that the recently concluded awards season wherein Sandra declares her love for Jesse and then this...Oh my gosh...she totally don't deserve this.

    I just hope it works out for them. I'd be alright if she divorces him, but I'd be also glad if she'll be stronger and hang on...just look at Elin right, she is trying to fight for her man even if it hurts big time and that is very much telling of what kind of a woman and wife she is.

    God bless Sandra! 🙂

    March 21, 2010 at 8:51 pm | Report abuse |
  13. D.J.

    To all the guys who've said that it's Sandra's fault: to the left, to the left, everything you own in a box to the left. If you guys think that that kind of mentality will serve you well in your middle age, you better think again.

    March 21, 2010 at 7:30 pm | Report abuse |
  14. bob

    he is a tool.....but on the bright side..sandra will be freed up soon..whats up baby i am waiting here for ya....

    March 21, 2010 at 7:27 pm | Report abuse |
  15. jim

    There are 2 choices. Either sandra forgives him or they split. Any way you look at it all of our comments mean nothing, and we should leave them in peace

    March 21, 2010 at 6:14 pm | Report abuse |
  16. CommonSense

    Why aren't you ladies feeling bad for the woman that Jesse was with that he left for Sweetheart Sandra? You know, the one that was pregnant with his kid. Sandra got what she deserved, she played with fire and got burned. There are worse things going on in this world than this silliness.

    March 21, 2010 at 4:21 pm | Report abuse |
  17. CommonSense

    Why aren't you ladies feeling bad for the woman that Jesse was with that he left Sweetheart Sandra for? You know, the one that was pregnant with his kid. Sandra got what she deserved, she played with fire and got burned. There are worse things going on in this world than this silliness.

    March 21, 2010 at 4:21 pm | Report abuse |
  18. Reality

    You freaks talk like you personally know these people. WOW – a Hollywood couple dealing with infidelity. Who knows what's going on there. Everybody is "poor Sandra, poor Sandra". Maybe she was a complete B to deal with. Sandra this, Sandra that .......... give me a freakin break. I'm not condoning infidelity, but this happens every day with celebrity couples.

    Good for you Jesse. You got a little strange. Maybe Sandra will change her ways and treat you right from now on.

    March 21, 2010 at 4:07 pm | Report abuse |
  19. stnick

    Bottomline -
    You are truly incredibly talented and beautiful
    no man in his right mind would treat you the way you have been treated
    Jesse - Youre a LOOSER buddy get that tatooed on your forehead
    the world now knows it - God Bless

    March 21, 2010 at 3:16 pm | Report abuse |
  20. brad

    El Gordo, it has everything to to with will-power, strength of character and love. You sound as if perhaps you'd use that lame old "biological" excuse to play around. Not every man is a dog. We make the right choices everyday.

    March 21, 2010 at 2:25 pm | Report abuse |
  21. paltonis

    I was going to write an anti-men comment but thanks to Ron I thought better. You are so right, Ron, and thanks.

    March 21, 2010 at 2:15 pm | Report abuse |
  22. Ken

    Wasn't he married when Sandra met him?

    March 21, 2010 at 1:57 pm | Report abuse |
  23. Bigup

    Maybe, just maybe, these beautiful, gorgous, SEXY wifes are not performing in the bedroom. Not condoning when men stray, but just think about it...

    March 21, 2010 at 10:23 am | Report abuse |
  24. Donna E

    Wow, El Gordo–YOU are probably the same type of person who does this, too-and you feel completely justified in doing it. Guess what? Lots of guys may look but they don't touch, despite your little theory. People like you, Jesse James & Tiger Woods think that the rules of society plain don't apply to them–they think that their wealth puts them in a position of power, and that power lets them do what they want. Just remember, once people know what type of person you are, they will never, EVER trust you despite what they tell you. They will snigger behind your back every chance they get, because you disgust them. Women who fawn on you will always be sleazy people–just like you. Normal people will never trust you, and that will always amaze you. Jesse James and Tiger Woods will never have the chance to have a woman of quality ever again–they will never be trusted again. Grow up-before you waste your life.

    March 21, 2010 at 9:49 am | Report abuse |
  25. Rod in Texas

    Sandra Bullock belongs with Keanu Reeves? She is not his type... she lacks a penis!

    March 21, 2010 at 9:40 am | Report abuse |
  26. Axel

    Oh, please... Some people will cheat on their partners, that is a fact of life. But not everyone does, and it isn't just men that cheat on their wives. Women cheat on their husbands too.

    March 21, 2010 at 6:54 am | Report abuse |
  27. Marissa

    Everyone is feeling sorry for Sandra. Well, what was she doing hooking up with that dirt bag to start with?
    He's basically a tattoo'd biker dude with a history of sleazy women. He just lived up to his image. Sorry Sandra, shame on you for lowering yourself to that scum bag.

    March 21, 2010 at 6:37 am | Report abuse |
  28. Mitch

    What a douchebag!! I'm a guy and I think he is an idiot!! Sandra should live her wonderful life without him and don't look back. Such a huge lack of character and intelligence!! He gives Long Beach a bad name!!

    March 21, 2010 at 3:08 am | Report abuse |
  29. mds

    Jesse, you lost the best woman you will ever have in your life......go back to your skank type of trash. Sandra, gave you true fidelity, trust, loyality and love and for you to stupidly waste it on a whore.

    March 21, 2010 at 12:33 am | Report abuse |
  30. chele

    He seems to have a history of going for some prettyskanky women, except for Ms. Bullock, who at least is not a porn star.

    March 21, 2010 at 12:32 am | Report abuse |
  31. Michelle in VA

    Like so many of these "bad boys", Jesse could only walk the straight and narrow for so long....This was an 11-month affair, not a one-night stand. He apparently is one of those men that prefers to sleep with sluts, but wants a Madonna to mother his children. So sad for Sandra and the children. If she is wise, she will not take him back under any circumstances.

    March 20, 2010 at 11:20 pm | Report abuse |
  32. jim atmadison

    He cheated on Sandra Bullock with a circus freak. That officially makes him the dumbest man in America.

    March 20, 2010 at 10:18 pm | Report abuse |
  33. CINDY

    Blah, blah, blah.... you can't make a silk purse out of a sow's ear. Jesse is just plain old trash. Sandra could have done a lot better.

    March 20, 2010 at 10:05 pm | Report abuse |
  34. oceanbear

    It's really hard to believe that this guy would "fool around" with trash like that when he's got such a great looking lady at home!

    Maybe the "Tiger Woods" syndrome is contagious!

    March 20, 2010 at 9:34 pm | Report abuse |
  35. alumette

    If you are an eagle, you cannot soar with turkeys. Sandra made an attempt and she failed. She really tried but...why? what is wrong with her that she would settle for that kind of man? She needs major shrink time. Low self-esteem? other things we do not know about? Deeply buried personal issues? She needs help to move on so she may make better decisions about partners.

    March 20, 2010 at 8:55 pm | Report abuse |
  36. alumette

    El Gordo: good point. No need to be a lesbian. Just give up relationships and sex all together. There is a wonderful life out there solo! ..and if the physical need comes up, there are great stores with toys no one can resist or compare. Hello! freedom!

    March 20, 2010 at 8:40 pm | Report abuse |
  37. alumette

    On the other hand...this wild chick he seems to dig has 2 kids herself. Maybe they can get together and raise a family of five kids and have a great time. The funny thing is....a few years from now, she will dump him for a new model. Such is life. Maybe Sandra can just move on and forget about these five years she spent building a family. A mirage my dear, a mere illusion. Some things in this world are not met to be and you will be the better for it. Ironic that raising someone else's kid gave you that fabulous reward. Where is that karma when we need it?

    March 20, 2010 at 8:34 pm | Report abuse |
  38. alumette

    If Sandra has a really good relationship with his kids, my guess is that she will keep it up yet keep him out of the picture. Can she raise his kids without him? If she loves the kids....sure. They may not lose their home after all, just their cheating dad. Could be too much for her to handle.

    March 20, 2010 at 8:27 pm | Report abuse |
  39. Anne

    I know of a hilarious ebook. The Art of War Against Fat.
    Sun Tzu's ancient treatise, The Art of War mashed up with parodical weight loss musings.

    March 20, 2010 at 8:20 pm | Report abuse |
  40. alumette

    He is pulling a Tiger. I am so sorry. I was bad and it was all my fault. Yeah! and......what's new? There is a word that comes to mind : scum.

    March 20, 2010 at 7:55 pm | Report abuse |
  41. Donald in CA

    To late for jesse to apologize, the damage is done. But Sandra should have known better to marry a guy name jesse james who was married to a porn star.

    March 20, 2010 at 7:42 pm | Report abuse |
  42. hate sexist crap

    Sorry Sandra. I believe about 90% of men are unfaithful, and only 10 %
    true. Hope you find, the next time around, one out of the 10 percent.


    just because your stupid at pickin boys to be with there are plenty of men that are faithful.

    oh and just as many women cheat as men

    But sandra you can get just about anyone you want forget him

    March 20, 2010 at 7:15 pm | Report abuse |
  43. SFDT

    Maybe Sandra Bullock shouldn't be so stupid when it comes to choosing men. She's not 17. She should be long past her "bad-bay" phase. Even where the attraction in undeniable, perhaps women should start employing the same double standards that men long have: that's the kind of guy you sleep with, not the kind of guy you marry. Other than the unfortunate fact that this came out so soon after she won the Oscar, there is nothing surprising about this. Sandra Bullock certainly deserves better, but she should have realized this before she married him.

    March 20, 2010 at 5:59 pm | Report abuse |
  44. Stefano

    Jesse, you won the lottery with Sandra and you gambled it away…….a fool will always remain a fool…….Sandra, I guess you know the answer to the question…..”Can love and a committed wife change a man who has had multiple marriages (including one to a porn star), drug issues, etc.?”………Well, enough of that experiment…..move on…you are an elegant lady with strong values……there is plenty of sunshine left in your future.

    March 20, 2010 at 5:41 pm | Report abuse |
  45. Dan K

    Men want to have sex more than women. Alpha males are even more prone to feel as if they are entitled to extramarital affairs. Escaping this biology would translate into evolving. Is humanity truly spiritually and ethically evolving?

    March 20, 2010 at 3:16 pm | Report abuse |
  46. david

    All the guy did was get a little on the side. What"s the big deal? I don't understand why he's even apologizing. It is probably all Sandra's fault anyway. If she spent a less time with self-aggrandizing movies, and more time cooking and cleaning like all women should, maybe the guy would have had fewer mistresses. I think Sandra needs some serious therapy and perhaps a few home economics courses.

    March 20, 2010 at 3:15 pm | Report abuse |
  47. Kevin

    Sounds like Elisa is living in lala land. Women are just as guilty as men when it comes to cheating, cheating isnt something only a "man" does. Its just women are a little more smarter then men, thats why they never get caught. As far as religion is concerned, do you know all your preachers secrets? I bet you might be surprised!!

    March 20, 2010 at 1:35 pm | Report abuse |
  48. MG

    Cheating with a "skank" is so degrading to Sandra and so humilating. Why should she forgive you? You are a "Bad Boy" and don't deserve another chance with such a good woman as Sandra. She has helped you with your struggle to gain custody of your little one from another "skanky" woman. What do you want, Jesse? You had it all. You are deserve all the bad you will get from your "poor judgement".

    March 20, 2010 at 11:09 am | Report abuse |
  49. Frankee V

    Sandra, my heart aches for you because I have been on the other end as the person who got cheated on and it is by far one of the most painful events to have to endure in one's life. Know this, I met someone after who I adore and she is the same way with me, this sad sack was not your soulmate, you are both beautiful and talented. I am a huge fan and I will pray for you that GOD will give you strength and courage and you will come out of this shining. Take care of yourself and don't worry about what anyone has to say. It is what is important to you that matters. God Bless You

    March 20, 2010 at 9:04 am | Report abuse |
  50. D in MN

    This has nothing to do with Jesus. Just another weak willed person who can't respect the commitment they've made. Keep praying for them though. Gives you something to do I guess.

    March 20, 2010 at 7:50 am | Report abuse |
  51. Rod in Texas

    Once again the "holier than thou" crowd is out beating the bushes. When these two got together, I didn't think the squeaky clean girl would be twisted enough for the biker bad boy. After they seemed happy for so long, I thought maybe Ms. Bullock MAY actually be a freak in the sheets. Now I wonder. Hollywierd has always been known for philandering spouses... do we expect it to change? If so, its time to pull off the rose colored glasses and face reality.

    March 20, 2010 at 7:47 am | Report abuse |
  52. Brenda Reed

    What an "apology"! His first remarks were that MOST of the rumors/statements were untrue. And then the usual mea culpa - I am so sorry, etc. But sorry for what, since he already said the rumors were untrue? I guess he thinks none of us can read the real message here: "I did not do anything wrong, but I am willing to say that I did, in order to get Sandra back." Sandra Bullock is a finer lady than that jerk deserves.

    March 20, 2010 at 4:41 am | Report abuse |
  53. Danny

    This may surprise some of the radical feministas here, but women are very capable of cheating, and they do so more often than men. Many guys have come home to find their wives or girlfriends shagging some big muscular jock. And if it isn't lust that drives women to do it, then it's security (or lack of it). So please, ladies, quit acting so innocent and hurt, and go back to your soap operas or steamy porn novels. There's enough hypocrisy in the world already.

    March 20, 2010 at 2:37 am | Report abuse |
  54. El Gordo

    Ladies, let us face facts. The majority of men will sleep with another woman even if they are married. Perhaps men should be better or different, but they are not. We are built by evolution to be unable to resist a lovely, intelligent, willing woman. Some of us occasionally cannot resist a good-looking, intelligent, willing male. It is how we are built. It is a pheromone thing, and has nothing to do with will-power, strength of character, love, or any other imaginary quality.

    You are also programmed to create a family of your own. Not every one of you, but most of you. I can see that it bugs you when your guy just won't play the part you expect him to play. If I were a woman, I'd be a lesbian.

    March 19, 2010 at 11:50 pm | Report abuse |
  55. osu mom

    Michelle is from Eastlake ohio a suburb or Cleveland. She was a cheerleader for Eastlake North High School and ran track, She graduated in 1996, so that would make her 32 not 24. She can't seem to get her own life story straight! By the was she wasn't amish, I don't recall amish cheerleaders!

    March 19, 2010 at 11:21 pm | Report abuse |
  56. ann

    truley , she needs to let him go .. yes it hurts, But a women doesn't need a man to complete herself.

    March 19, 2010 at 8:51 pm | Report abuse |
  57. Puka

    What a JERK!!!! He is what he is! Scum of the earth. He does not deserve another chance! Sorry....he has no excuse. He should never have done what he did! I truly hope Sandra Bullock does go back to him! She deserves so much better than this!

    March 19, 2010 at 6:55 pm | Report abuse |
  58. Patricia

    This is so sad. Sandra thought she had the best guy in the world for her and he turned out to be the jerk everyone else already knew he was all along. Dump him Sandra. There is someone better for you out in the world.

    March 19, 2010 at 6:15 pm | Report abuse |
  59. Lindah

    These men are only sorry because they got CAUGHT.

    March 19, 2010 at 5:44 pm | Report abuse |
  60. Heinz

    Everyone here makes noises as if only men did that type of dastardly thing. I have been married 3 times and found all 3 women lacking in honesty and loyalty.
    Also giving Sandra the advice to dump him, I think that is a decision she needs to make for herself. No one else knows the details of the situation as she does, nor how she feels about it.
    So keep all your 'wonderful' and 'Christian' advice to yourself. It doesn't help her.

    March 19, 2010 at 5:29 pm | Report abuse |
  61. supahJ

    People- it's not cheating, it's an addiction. Luckily, it's a treatable condition. In fact, there is still a warm seat available for him down at a recovery center in Mississippi. Godspeed Mr. James!

    March 19, 2010 at 5:15 pm | Report abuse |
  62. Canadacool

    Sandra Bullock has always belonged with Keanu Reeves...Their chemistry is undeniable and I am voting for Keanu.

    March 19, 2010 at 5:05 pm | Report abuse |
  63. Carole

    I have to say I feel so very sorry for many men, I'm not saying ALL, because they seem to not have been given the "self control chip" when their brains were configured. I will just never understand why sex, hot or not, means more to them then their reputation and the people in their lives.
    Tiger and Jesse and the rest of you who are walking this line.....look beyond the end of your #%&!$ try to find something that matters in life other than sex and self satisfaction before life runs out. I guarantee than if you are a typical human being about the time you hit 75 you'll be wishing you had looked deeper into life.

    March 19, 2010 at 5:02 pm | Report abuse |
  64. Dee

    We don't know exactly what happened, and it's really none of our business. I think Sandra and Jesse need to decide where to go from here. God bless their family one way or another. I don't think anyone should judge, if she wants him back she should go for it and not be influenced by what others may think. People make mistakes.

    March 19, 2010 at 4:54 pm | Report abuse |
  65. Tom

    Really? Another "I am sorry I got caught" opology? It's not like he was drunk and had a one night stand that he could blame on the booze. He was sober and decided to do it... over and over agian... what a loser.

    March 19, 2010 at 4:43 pm | Report abuse |
  66. Wendy Earle

    Sandra, RUN do not even walk away form this loser! He took "HER" year away from her. He does not deserve this wonderful person to share there lives together. I feel just terrible for her embarrassment.

    March 19, 2010 at 3:51 pm | Report abuse |
  67. Sisao Tresed

    Hey Jesse,
    Remember that first chick (your first wife). The one who kept the books and organized what would have been another junkyard Long Beach welding shop? The Mother of your first kids? Remember her Jesse? The one you promised to love and honor?

    Oh, that pesky broad.......I'm sleepin' with A-list movie stars least I was until that Bombshell bimbo let Sandra know that Jesse James liked more of a carnival environment in his bedroom. So, let's see, wife #2 and kids, step aside while this rag tag bike builder starts up with the next woman. After all...Jesse didn't get his reputation by playing by the rules, so why are we so confused when he behaves like the pig he's always been? BUT, hope springs eternal in the land of "feel-good" so, don't slow down Jesse, PARTY ON DUDE!

    March 19, 2010 at 3:20 pm | Report abuse |
  68. Ron

    We all stumble and we all fall, and all of you that are judging Jesse/Sandra are wrong. We are all broken and have no right to point the finger or justify actions. This is a private matter that deserves the privacy for Jesse/Sandra coupled with love and support whatever their decision. I am deeply saddened by what is transpiring here for both Jessie and Sandra, however, you who judge and point the finger, cast that finger back at yourself. Then walk that mile in the shoes of Sandra/Jesse of how it would feel if it was broadcasted to all these gossip mongering columnists that only care about ratings, cash and the misfortune of others. My heart goes out to both of you Jesse and Sandra and hope for the best for both of you, no judgement just love and compassion.

    March 19, 2010 at 2:29 pm | Report abuse |
  69. Str8 Outta Tx

    i dont take anything away from an appology, but he need to be ready to change. if you appologize, it's not changing what's already been done, but it's more like a plea bargain where you promise to learn from your mistakes. i doubt that's the case here.

    March 19, 2010 at 1:37 pm | Report abuse |
  70. Eve

    If they'll cheat with you; they'll cheat on you!

    March 19, 2010 at 1:29 pm | Report abuse |
  71. Tiffany

    Good for her for not staying. Why anyone would take a chance on losing their family just to sleep with someone else is just crazy.

    If I hear the word "apology" again before this month is out I am going to scream. It does not solve or fix anything.

    March 19, 2010 at 1:21 pm | Report abuse |
  72. Nessus

    What an idiot. He was so lucky to have someone like Sandra, who is beautiful, sweet and loving. HE IS SO STUPID.

    March 19, 2010 at 1:05 pm | Report abuse |
  73. be4real7

    I am so sick of these men lately having these affairs, and all they can say is Im sorry. They are sorry....... This is getting really old...... Woman have got to stop putting up with this trash......

    March 19, 2010 at 12:56 pm | Report abuse |
  74. lm

    when will sex rehab start? Isn't that what they all do?

    March 19, 2010 at 12:54 pm | Report abuse |
  75. Jennifer

    What gets me is "THEY" always want to say "I MADE A MISTAKE"! How do u make mistakes that last years.?? Mistakes su realize after the 1st time.. not years into ..

    March 19, 2010 at 12:44 pm | Report abuse |
  76. Dallas Dame

    Long-ago quote by my mom to a fool-around male relative: "Well, _____, if you're going to be led around by your (fill in the blank), I can't help you." Single is single; married is married, Jesse. You didn't speak up, apologize before you got caught, only AFTER.

    March 19, 2010 at 12:40 pm | Report abuse |
  77. ang

    Please, Sandra should have known that he was a womeniser. After all she took him from his last partner and child! Karmas a bitch!

    March 19, 2010 at 12:24 pm | Report abuse |
  78. lewwho

    Sandy he was a cheat before you met him and he's still one. Clearly, he's got ego issues. It didn't take long before he persued another lady because it's easier to than dealing with his own insecurities.

    March 19, 2010 at 12:16 pm | Report abuse |
  79. justme

    Enough with the "if a man isn't getting what he needs, he will stray" B.S. Most women love crazy sex and would love to have more with their men, but the guy's ego gets in the way and he loses interest in his wife – some weird mom complex or something. If you can't stay faithful, don't get married. If you're already married and you feel the need to stray, have the decency to leave the marriage before you mess around. It will still hurt your spouse, but at least you won't humiliate them and scar them for life.

    March 19, 2010 at 12:16 pm | Report abuse |
  80. big g

    It takes two: something went wrong in the marriage. Two people that get married should share everything together, I mean everything. If your out of town, you go together or not at all. Being married means doing things always together. If you don't like that, then don';t get married. And you have to be proud of one another in everything, accomplishments, etc. Apparently, her husband did not like her being out of town and getting a lot of attention. Seems he felt not important enough and wanted that from someone with no class, stupid and dumb, not to mention ulgy, completely opposite of his wife, just to up his ego, and that seemed to satisfy him. I hope she does not forgive him, cause he will do the same later in life. I know, been there. They feel they got you back, so hay why not again.

    March 19, 2010 at 12:06 pm | Report abuse |
  81. Dove29240

    I like Sandra Bullock....but what did she expect? Jesse had been married a couple times before. She should have known there was something wrong with him from the get go.
    She could do way better than Jesse James.

    March 19, 2010 at 12:01 pm | Report abuse |
  82. Cindy

    To E...your are an idiot.

    March 19, 2010 at 12:01 pm | Report abuse |
  83. Cam

    What a looser. Had one of the most beautiful women in the world then went to that thing?!? They belong together to losers...

    March 19, 2010 at 11:53 am | Report abuse |
  84. Joanne H.

    I have been a huge fan of Sandra's for many many years.....she is a beautiful woman and a wonderful actress. I've watched her interviews when asked about committing to one man (or marriage) she couldn't find the right one...and when she does, look with the guy does to her. Then he has the nerve to say, " I will not dignify these private matters with any further public comment". I'm just wondering why....if he hadn't been unfaithful to begin with he would have no need to defend himself or dignifiy comments to Sandra's fans. I hope she keeps walking...once a cheater always a cheater. SHAME ON YOU!!

    March 19, 2010 at 11:50 am | Report abuse |
  85. Kaos

    What was he thinking? I mean really.....have you seen who he allegedly cheated on Sandra Bullock with? HOLY! Sandra get every test you can to make sure you did not catch something.
    It is really too bad – I thought they had a chance. He seemed like a stand up guy on Celebrity Apprentice last year. Such a shame. Ms. Bullock waited a long time to find the "right" guy to marry. I guess you just never know......

    March 19, 2010 at 11:46 am | Report abuse |
  86. Patrick

    Come to me Sandra! I'll treat you right Baby!

    March 19, 2010 at 11:45 am | Report abuse |
  87. Maria

    From an ex-wife of someone that cheated, lied and created devastation for the family unit – I ask why? Why do men want to hurt the ones they supposedly love and then publicly apologize for hurting them – hoping and praying for forgiveness. Here's a hint, if you don't want to hurt the ones you love, buck up and grow some... don't do things that will hurt them in the first place.
    Weakness, cheating, lying and wrecking families is not an attractive quality in any human being. Put it this way – men, could you imagine this heartache directly being done to your mother or daughter? It's a painful experience going through this and I hope Sandra is strong and does what her conscience tells her to do. Only Sandra can fix her hurt.

    March 19, 2010 at 11:45 am | Report abuse |
  88. Cindy

    I think the problem is men don't want strong, independent, successful women. Let him have the ho..they deserve each other.

    March 19, 2010 at 11:39 am | Report abuse |
  89. Lou

    I am so sorry for Sandra. She really seems so in love with this "amazing" person. This is going to hit her hard because of the way she really feels about him.

    Time will be the only thing that is going to help right now.

    March 19, 2010 at 11:39 am | Report abuse |
  90. steve

    I have a hunch that she knew of his cheating before the awards. All the comments she made before, during and after the award show was actually a womans scorn. Is so, what poise she has!

    March 19, 2010 at 11:38 am | Report abuse |
  91. 2thedogz

    You think guys go into these trysts with "mini-me' doing all the thinking, that 'mini-me' just renders their brains incapable of thinking 'this is wrong, I shouldn't do it?' Get real! They dive in knowing exactly what the repercussions are. They CHOOSE to hurt their wives and families.
    That's right folks, they MEAN to cause pain. They have the power to walk away, and choose not to. They aren't sorry they did it, they're sorry they got caught.
    So no more of this 'the last thing I wanted to do was hurt my wife' crap. It's EXACTLY what you wanted to do. Cheating = Pain, you can't have one without the other. Quit blubbering otherwise when your sh*t hits the fan.

    March 19, 2010 at 11:32 am | Report abuse |
  92. San Diego

    FIrst off...leave Jesus Christ out of it, if that was the case, then ministers and priests would never cheat, get real.
    Second, Jesse, yesterday I liked and respected you.
    Today, you're a douche, you married above yourself and well...enough said.

    March 19, 2010 at 11:13 am | Report abuse |
  93. Anna

    How could he do that to someone so beautiful with someone so ugly, not that he should be doing it at all!! Cheating is so wrong to begin with but what crossed his mind(or anywhere's else) to do this to such a beautiful and supportive person?

    March 19, 2010 at 11:07 am | Report abuse |
  94. Tom, Long Beach, California

    sure glad the couple has all this genuis advice to lean on.......what a bunch of idiots

    March 19, 2010 at 11:07 am | Report abuse |
  95. Emanuel

    Well, it seems the husband gets the blame and the harlot who committed adultry gets a pass. If you say anythig about Jesse James then you should be just as condemning toward her.

    March 19, 2010 at 11:07 am | Report abuse |
  96. Lisa

    What a jerk, Jesse will never find another as good as Sandra. I hope that tattoo witch gets hers, I'm sure she was just jealous that she didn't have what they had so she wanted to ruin it. Sandra should just move on there are plenty out there that would kill to be with her....

    March 19, 2010 at 10:54 am | Report abuse |
  97. chica


    March 19, 2010 at 10:51 am | Report abuse |
  98. jcwgpwg

    Two things I don't get....

    If you still wanted to screw around, why'd you get married in the first place?!?

    And two.....

    Have they seen who their wives are!!! Elin and Sandra are two beautifull successful women. Why would you need to look anywhere else?!?

    March 19, 2010 at 10:46 am | Report abuse |
  99. devon--oklahoma

    The whole thing is disgusting......why get married in the first place? He couldn't even stay faithful for 5 years?

    That "Bombshell" woman should be ashamed of herself......why on earth would you brag about having an affair with a married man? Are you truly that desperate for fame and attention? These people should not be allowed to procreate.

    March 19, 2010 at 10:30 am | Report abuse |
  100. Tracy

    he left his pregnant ex-porn star wife to be with Sandra...the guy's a sleaze.

    March 19, 2010 at 10:29 am | Report abuse |
  101. P-Dub

    Cheating is that...but c'mon women....enough with the dry-spells and "not in the mood!" Us guys have an animial instinct for the good-stuff...and you knew that when you started the relationship.

    March 19, 2010 at 10:24 am | Report abuse |
  102. texas

    remember hope floats

    March 19, 2010 at 10:21 am | Report abuse |
  103. E

    Everyone is saying poor Sandra like they know personally that she was so wonderful and was a perfect wife; that kept her household happy and was always there for her hubby. She must have been a great friend, companion and rocked his world, so it is all his fault. I'm sick of these wives playing the victim. Mrs Sanford (SC Gov wife) you kicked your husband out of the house and refused to speak to him before his famous trip to South America. I'm sure Elin and Tiger were not June and Ward Cleaver. So lets all stop crying for these wives who create their own messes and then have to live with the result.

    March 19, 2010 at 10:20 am | Report abuse |
  104. marjilos

    i know your a brave woman. i hope that your family be w/ you. in times like this. take care. you can do it.

    March 19, 2010 at 10:04 am | Report abuse |
  105. Robin Bush, NJ

    Sandra doesnt need this man! She has sucess all on her own. Why would someone cheat on her? She has it all plus. I would take him for everything he has and move on... gracefully. He must think to cheat with some trashy tattoo model, oh ya she has style and such grace, what a joke. That bimbo cant compare to Sandra on any level....... You are what you cheat with..........................I hope Sandra does what she feels is best for her....... My thoughts and prayers are with her....

    March 19, 2010 at 10:02 am | Report abuse |
  106. Lisa

    This is such an unfortunate situation and I really hate it for Sandra Bullock. She is so beautiful and seems so open and honest, and I can't imagine how humiliated she must feel–it would be bad enough without being in the public eye. Stay strong Sandra and only do what is best for YOU!!
    and, ali g–you are an idiot! People that think like you are a%&holes who think that everything is about sex. You need to grow up just like Tiger and Jesse and all the other cheaters out there. If a man wants sex with anybody and everybody at his discretion then DON'T GET MARRIED!!! DUH!!!!! And I bet you don't have a wife OR a serious girlfriend, and if you do, I feel sorry for her.

    March 19, 2010 at 9:58 am | Report abuse |
  107. wtfiswrongwithpeople

    Wow so much of this keeps happening I bet the shock factor will soon be dimished and this will just all become acceptable. I am so sick of infidelity. Why get married if your not going to keep it in your pants.

    March 19, 2010 at 9:55 am | Report abuse |
  108. vsad

    I know how she feels I found out two years ago that my husband cheater for five years after our son was born. Stay strong and try to forgive its better for you.

    March 19, 2010 at 9:45 am | Report abuse |
  109. Scott Asplund

    Women all are attracted to bad boys and when the bad boy behaves badly they are shocked, go figure !!!!!!

    March 19, 2010 at 9:42 am | Report abuse |
  110. Bboy

    I swear she does not look like a woman. I think she is drag. Something doesn't look right.

    March 19, 2010 at 9:37 am | Report abuse |
  111. trey

    well, you can take the most beautiful / cool woman in the world and there is a guy who is tired of fucking her.

    March 19, 2010 at 9:29 am | Report abuse |
  112. beast


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  113. Alek

    Jesse James is a piece of trailer trash. I was amazed when I learned they were dating. However, this latest development does not surprise me in the least.

    March 19, 2010 at 9:19 am | Report abuse |
  114. ajward

    Is he sorry he did it, or sorry he got caught?

    March 19, 2010 at 9:18 am | Report abuse |
  115. Debs

    Feel so badly for Sandra Bullock, she really loves this man and he betrayed and humilated her.
    I wonder if those tears he was shedding at the Ocars were his guilty conscience making him feel bad?
    Hope these two people who seem to truly love eachother can work it out.

    March 19, 2010 at 9:17 am | Report abuse |
  116. Chris Wynn

    LET – HIM – GO, Sandra.

    You are a GOOD person & you deserve to be with an equally good person.

    It breaks my heart that yours is broken 🙁

    March 19, 2010 at 9:13 am | Report abuse |
  117. tine

    why the need for a public statement? he needs to be talking to sandra. Yes – he is in the wrong. i don't care how bad he thinks he had it.... adultery is never right. even if they do get back together it will never be the same.

    March 19, 2010 at 9:13 am | Report abuse |
  118. Jason

    I'm one of those guys who cheated on his wife. It's just being horny. Nothing else to it.

    March 19, 2010 at 8:49 am | Report abuse |
  119. darlene d

    I feel bad for Sandra and the children involved. That's why it pays never to get married. Some men cannot be faithful no matter what their circumstances. There are so many women who will do whatever a man wants just to say they have one and it doesn't matter if that man is with someone else or not.

    March 19, 2010 at 8:48 am | Report abuse |
  120. chickfromga

    Been there and unfortunately odds are once a cheater always a cheater. Sandra, you deserve better. The real victims are the children.

    March 19, 2010 at 8:47 am | Report abuse |
  121. SCUM

    Is what James is and always has been.
    Sandra, He does NOT have your back.

    March 19, 2010 at 8:35 am | Report abuse |
  122. Atlanta

    Bottom line...if a man feels his relationship was at a point he needs to stray, be a man, get your house in order and after you have done the respectable and honorable thing then stray all you want. Nothing more than pure selfishness. Very sorry for Sandra and the children.. We get one chance in this life and Mr. James has blown it.

    March 19, 2010 at 7:59 am | Report abuse |
  123. LaLa

    Behind you 100% Sandra! You are a strong, beautiful, talented woman who deserves nothing but the best, so dont settle for less!

    March 19, 2010 at 7:55 am | Report abuse |
  124. RUSerious

    Jessie James just might be wishing he was a dead man when all is said and done this time. Hell, most of us never even gave him a second glance till he became Mr. Sandra Bullock.

    Sandra, WE still love ya. No one thinks any of this is your fault.

    As for the tatoo does it feel being the most hated woman in America right now?

    March 19, 2010 at 7:54 am | Report abuse |
  125. smrtnygal

    One comment-once a cheater, always a cheater! Sandra deserves better!

    March 19, 2010 at 7:27 am | Report abuse |
  126. Nanny

    For such a private woman ,away from her public job, this has got to be another kick in the crotch. Her of all actors I see as not liking her private issues aired in the public arena. It seems like it took her so long to find that guy who would be right BESIDE her and this has got to seriously screw with her that she made a mistake trusting anyway. Plus she has been forced by his stupid behavior to leave an already troubled little girl who's had one mother removed from her life. Nice Jesse...real nice. The apology should have been for your family privately...period.

    March 19, 2010 at 5:53 am | Report abuse |

    Hope it was worth it... J.J. your a real jerk

    March 19, 2010 at 5:21 am | Report abuse |
  128. hahababy

    sorry darling.....

    March 19, 2010 at 4:26 am | Report abuse |
  129. patsy

    No one knows what goes on in a marriage relationship. You can guess and imagine all you want, but unless you are one of the people involved you don't know the details. All we know is that it is no longer working for them. The whys and wherefores have to be left to them.

    March 19, 2010 at 4:21 am | Report abuse |
  130. pami

    I will never watch monster garage again

    March 19, 2010 at 4:18 am | Report abuse |
  131. buddy

    The amount of sex, or 'exciting' sex with your spouse really has little to do with cheating. Rarely is cheating based solely on sex, it is usually just an excuse. There is usually something else lacking in the relationship ~ people who truly love each other can work through infidelity with professional guidance and help in understanding the underlying cause. And, yes, it is possible for a marriage to emerge victorious if they are able to identify what is lacking and work together to strengthen the relationship.

    People we dearly love make mistakes. However, having said that ~ should the cheater continue to make the same mistake, this is usually a charactor flaw on the part of the cheater and CANNOT be fixed with any amount of love, understanding or counselling.

    It's sad that Sandras' belief that she had built a strong emotional foundation with this man, has been shaken to the point of destruction. And, even sadder, is the reality that these children will now lack the influence of a loving, protective and strong female role model in their lives.

    Sandra Bullock needs to know that she needn't be embarrassed by the actions of Jesse James ... we cannot control the actions of those that we dearly love ... she needs to follow her heart, not the rantings of other people/public around her! Only she knows what she needs to do, or not do, in order to either help this man or move on to find a more stable individual to build her life/future with.

    May she be as truly strong as she appears in order to get through this ~ my wishes for her are long and lasting happiness ~ may she find what she needs.

    March 19, 2010 at 3:46 am | Report abuse |
  132. Sean

    Sandra Bullock just won an Oscar a few weeks ago. Major bummer. If I were in her position, I would not stand for that crap. I would divorce his auto zone butt in 60 seconds flat! Man, I thought Sandra Bullock would be walking on air for the next couple of months after winning her Academy Award.

    March 19, 2010 at 1:30 am | Report abuse |
  133. karen hayes

    Wait a minute.....he met Sandra Bullock in 2003, married in 2005 yet he has a 5 year old daughter with wife number 2? So did he cheat on that wife with Sandra Bullock in order to father this child? Was Sandra Bullock "the other woman" who had Jesse James LEAVE a pregnant wife? Are they all cheats?
    Looks like it's just Sandra Bullocks turn to get cheated on.......
    reap what you sow...............

    March 19, 2010 at 1:22 am | Report abuse |
  134. Jackie T

    He is NOT apologizing because he means it he is apologizing because he was caught and he is pissed off he doesnt care about his wife and kids f he did he would of never cheated I think she (sandra) is a gorgoeus woman inside and out and this sh*t bag doesnt deserve her I read that he was only using her and on the apprentice he looked like a dirtbag cheating piece of crap I never have liked him and never will he looks scummy

    March 19, 2010 at 1:09 am | Report abuse |
  135. ElizabethClaire

    Sandra needs counseling to find out why she hooked up with such an obvious loser. He looks like (and acts like) a sleaze. This is not a matter of forget and forgive; this guy is bad news, a cheat, a liar, and obviously not well adjusted. Wasn't he married to a porn star? Sandra may be a star but she obviously has self-esteem issues to marry such a weirdo.

    March 19, 2010 at 12:47 am | Report abuse |
  136. Martha

    What else is new. Cheaters .....Are.....Selfish....Pigs. And when you toss in "fame", money, power, women at your beck and call and always traveling....its a recipe for cheating. They all say "I'm sorry", but its not sincere, they say it because they know its what you want to hear. This is the ultimate betrayal, and it goes either way. Men or women who cheat. Selfish Pigs! They always say "I still love you", insert puking sound bite please! You love me yet you slept with another??? Don't you mean ...'I LOVE that you take my clothes to the cleaners, take care of the house and kids, make my dinner and make me sandwiches for the game' – You cannot be in love with someone, truly in love, and cheat on them? Its the last thing you'd want to do...and that's hurt the one you are "in love" with. And its so true when they say, once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater. I have never met anyone who only cheated once – and why do they always cheat with some downgraded piece of.... something tells me this is not the only woman he has cheated comes the text messages and voicemails! Sandra deserves so much better. What a piece of garbage.

    March 19, 2010 at 12:36 am | Report abuse |
  137. Kamela

    She did the smartest thing she could of done. The work it takes to rebuild the trust in the end is not worth the price you have to pay and no matter what you do it will never be what it was or what you once hoped it would be. Once they cheat its over and done.

    March 19, 2010 at 12:36 am | Report abuse |
  138. Rebecca

    Sandra only you can make the ultimate decission your heart feels is right. Walk away your a beautiful talented star and this makes me sick to hear of what Jesse has done. I watched the heart warming speech you gave on oscar night when you won the oscar. When you gave Thanks to your Mother and Jesse I felt your heart was truely speaking. There are not many actresses with such wit and talent and grace you are a talented individual. My advice is leave Jesse don't fall for the I'm Sorry bull.

    March 19, 2010 at 12:30 am | Report abuse |
  139. Carole

    It breaks my heart. Sandra Bullock did not deserve this. She waited a long time to get married & thought she had found the man she wanted to spend the rest of her life with. She talked a lot about how lucky she was to have him. No wonder he was tearing up when she said this at the Oscars. He knew what a scum he was to her.I can't imagine how much she is hurting from this. I hope that there is someway they can stay together. Maybe she loves him enough to make him a better man than he knew he could be.

    March 18, 2010 at 11:43 pm | Report abuse |
  140. Mark8252

    I cannot for the life of me understand why anyone cares about the private life of these people. Gee.....heaven forbid if you are responsible for your actions.

    March 18, 2010 at 11:42 pm | Report abuse |
  141. herb

    jesse james is the biggest douche bag to date. no matter what happened or who is to blame the fact that he let his wife go on national tv and give him heartfelt and loving accolades on the biggest night of her entire life... all the while knowing the story about to break out yet he just sat there and got teary eyed like he's an angel. MAKES ME WANT TO PUKE!! And seriously, that tattooedfacewhorebag trying to get in on sandra's moment?!??!! WTF!!!

    March 18, 2010 at 11:37 pm | Report abuse |
  142. Forgive & Move on

    She can forgive him because it will be a better healing experience for her. He was married to a trashy person before Sandra and he just can't seem to pull himself away from such low life. She's better than him and will be ok should she decide to move on. No one on here can post anything that compares to Jessie's hurtful and vulgar behavior if TG is worried about children reading this. Their friends will be talking about what their dad did to Sandra through Facebook, twitter, and in the classroom. Jessie has affected everyone in his family by his selfish behavior.

    March 18, 2010 at 11:24 pm | Report abuse |
  143. ray

    sandra wasn't giving up the hoochie, so jesse went to the hoochie store.

    same old story, lady won't give it up, so mans gotta do what a mans gotta do

    March 18, 2010 at 11:21 pm | Report abuse |
  144. ET

    I like the way TG commented on this unfortunate event. You have a real heart of gold and I commend you for taking such a very enlightened message in your comment. I hope other people will do the same. And I also wish the best for both of them.

    March 18, 2010 at 11:14 pm | Report abuse |

    If you don't take care of your partner's needs, someone else will.
    It's that simple.

    March 18, 2010 at 10:52 pm | Report abuse |
  146. Jordan

    Sandra is such a wonderful person! It's so horrible that Jesse would hurt her, what a Jerk.

    Sandra please keep on moving forward, you deserve so much more!

    March 18, 2010 at 10:46 pm | Report abuse |
  147. Loren

    I can relate to Sandra and I'm a man. You meet a woman and they are just overwhelmed that a kind, curious, sensual,generous, thoughtful, intelligent, respectful man exists. They want to get to know you. They want a life like yours. Then there's the problem of giving up the old life: lies, drugs, narcissism and worse. They have to stop writing the 'checks' their ego cannot cash and live a genuine life. A life within the constraints of the real world with honesty and truth......and they simply cannot do it.
    They then go back to their behavior patterns and the good person, who was fooled by the show that was put on, really needs to just move on.

    When this happened last time, it was as if this person I loved dearly was knelt in front of me, had a gun put to her head and the trigger was pulled. And, when I looked up at who was holding the gun, it was someone who looked and sounded just like her.

    The hardest thing for Sandra to realize is that this amazing man that she thought existed, does not and he never did exist. That's going to take a long time to accept, because you cannot believe you were that wrong about a person. And yet, you were.

    March 18, 2010 at 10:35 pm | Report abuse |
  148. Sharon M.

    My first reaction is to wonder who strung those words together for him. Because, anyone stupid enough to betray not only one of the most beloved women in America, but also his 3 children, who've been mothered by Sandra for the past 5 years, is clearly too stupid to put a sentence together.

    Betrayal can never be completely forgiven, no matter how hard anyone tries, or may want to try. Under desperate circumstances, someone might be able to try. Betrayal of a wife and children, destroying an entire family structure .... just proves this bastard doesn't deserve anyone decent in his life, much less custody of his children.

    By leaving this low-life, Sandra Bullock has proven that she's to be admired for more than just her acting ability. My heart just bleeds for her, that she considered him the love of her life, and his children were loved as if they were her own. She lost a family she adored completely, all because he couldn't keep his ego in check. Also, his infidelity hit a whole new low, in that the woman he chose to boink looks lower than a crack whore.

    Our beloved Sandy will bounce back from this, better than ever, having learned a life lesson about trust and betrayal. Her acting ability, when the roles have been right for her, has been stellar. This life experience, as horrible as it is, will enhance her acting ability.

    We can't help who we fall in love with. But, because of the pain I know this joker caused to Sandy and the children who've known her as a mother figure for years, I wish I was in close enough proximity to this Jesse asshole to rip his testicles off.

    March 18, 2010 at 10:25 pm | Report abuse |
  149. ali g

    Screw her. Does anyone notice this keeps happening. Its called give guys some real bedroom time and we wont wander off. Its a warning to all those wife's' who say i've got a headache, i want to read, blah blah blah.
    Go ahead read while I bang some hot porno chick. President Clinton, Tiger Woods, Jesse James the list is endless. A man has needs that has to be filled. She obviously didn't fill it. Either fill it on a regular basis or they will wander off.
    She can take that oscar and put it on the pillow next to her
    Its probably the only man she will be sleeping next to for a long time.

    March 18, 2010 at 10:20 pm | Report abuse |
  150. mommy36

    Jesse James you are a filthy disgusting pig and I hope you suffer endless pain as much as you have caused those who truly loved you. You are undeserving of health happiness or wealth.I hope you realize the filthy visual images that now accompany the legacy you are giving to your children along with their genetic inheritance from you, I hope that sticking your penis in that filthy tattoed whore was worth it.

    March 18, 2010 at 10:11 pm | Report abuse |
  151. mj

    Jesse – the pain and anguish you are putting your wife through is something you can never fully realize. You threw away true beauty for a cheap thrill, to feed your ego, self worth and just get off. Astounding selfishness. To top it off – Sandra's humiliation is public fodder. Congrats – your selfishness has destroyed everyone in your life that loves you the most. Please, go see a SA therapist and get your pathetic self to church focused on recovery.

    Sandra – I'm so so sorry. I can say that I know what you are going through – but having the world in on your pain – would likely send me over the edge. Reach out to your friends and loved ones – let them help you. I pray that God will provide the people you need right now and the support to help you heal. That saying that God never gives you more than you can handle – bs. I think he does – but he will provide others to help you if you will accept it.

    March 18, 2010 at 10:02 pm | Report abuse |
  152. Eric James

    This news comes as no surprise to those of us who have had to deal with the lies of Jesse Gregory James, alias Jesse James. The man is a chronic liar. He claims ancestry that is not his. He claims speed records that aren't proven. He chronically defaults on contracts. His character is deeply flawed.

    The James Preservation Trust
    Representing the historical interests of the family of Frank & Jesse James

    March 18, 2010 at 9:56 pm | Report abuse |
  153. richard morehouse


    I admired your forthecoming as an individual... then I admired your motorocycles.

    Now you institute on of the seven deadly sins.

    You're an absolute jerk. What did Ms. Bullock ever do to you to deserve such raw treatment. Not so tough after all... begging for forgiveness.

    Best of Luck

    March 18, 2010 at 9:45 pm | Report abuse |
  154. Tracy

    I know that you will not read this, but you are amazing and an inspiration to all of us, I believe in your heart and Jesse's heart, I am in the business of kids and I believe in them do not give up on them...They need strength and guidance, I think Jesse is jerk right now but I do not know his heart, I love you and your heart and god will provide, let go and let god!!

    March 18, 2010 at 9:41 pm | Report abuse |
  155. Caryn

    Don't walk away Sandra...RUN...and never look back. You deserve so much better than that. And WTF is with all these idiots (actors, politicians, sports figures, etc) cheating on their wives and making public announcements of how sorry they are, how they messed up, how they had a lapse in judgement, bla, bla, bla...yada, yada, yada.. why would any one want to stay with someone who cheated on them? Once the trust and respect is gone what's left? Love? that obviously was gone when the cheating started... Move on Sandra and kick his sorry a#$ to the curb!

    March 18, 2010 at 9:30 pm | Report abuse |
  156. Vicki

    What next, sex rehab?

    March 18, 2010 at 9:10 pm | Report abuse |
  157. Kelly

    I can't believe he'd do that to her !!!!!!

    March 18, 2010 at 9:10 pm | Report abuse |
  158. nora

    I cannot believe that this man turned out to be such a friggin IDIOT! Jesse, you will most certainly win the Most Hated Man of the Year Award for this rediculous stunt. And for what? To be with such a SKANK! Married to one of the most beautiful and loved women in the world, and you sold her out for a piece of frigging TRASHOLA! That Trick is probably crawling with bugs......

    Sandra, hold your head high and know that although this should be a private matter, all of your fans are here for you, and we will NEVER sell you out like Jesse did. You will get through this, and you will find happiness again. Stay strong!

    Jesse, go to Hell!

    March 18, 2010 at 9:07 pm | Report abuse |
  159. Wayne


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  160. ElleG

    Tiger Woods thanks you Jesse! The public spotlight is now on you! You are now the most hated man in America...

    March 18, 2010 at 9:03 pm | Report abuse |
  161. teresa

    I am so sad for Sandra. I've been through this with my (ex) husband. If My husband had asked for forgiveness, I would have considered staying married. Unfortunately, he didn't care and moved on, without me and our two kids. If Sandra gets a chance to repair the marriage and wants to, I hope she does.

    March 18, 2010 at 9:02 pm | Report abuse |
  162. Martin Melia

    I Think that Jesse suck's for doing that to Sandra, He had a nice thing going with Sandra, and as I was waiting because it was only a matter of time and I knew that he was going to blow it. and that is what he did.......
    WHAT A JERK........
    From one Biker to another you suck Jesse.......
    Martin Melia

    March 18, 2010 at 8:57 pm | Report abuse |
  163. Thomas1OF12

    Why do guys who have everything throw it away? Sandra's husband, Tiger Woods.....the list goes on and on. I guess these guys don't know what self-control, morales, ethics etc mean. They deserve everything they get in this life and can't wait until God gets a hold of them.

    March 18, 2010 at 8:50 pm | Report abuse |
  164. trinity devine

    It is really not any of our places to judge this. It really does suck for them that one person, did what they did, another person told it for the money... and the other person was seemingly oblivious to the whole thing. Thus is the way of monogamy. Hollywood situations are probly even harder on monogamous unions than any other (aside from military families) given all the time apart and the seeming need for companionship on some level. I would hope they could work through it but once trust is broken, its best to just let it go and start a new.
    Positive thoughts to all those involved.

    March 18, 2010 at 8:49 pm | Report abuse |
  165. leo

    Jesse James should NEVER have cheated on Sandra.She is a good woman and Jesse will never find love and die a very very lonely man.

    March 18, 2010 at 8:38 pm | Report abuse |
  166. Sandra Fan

    Men addicted to porn seldom recover. He was married before Sandra to a porn-star skank and it appears he just lost the best thing that ever happened to him for having sex or an affair with another one. Kudos to Sandra for standing tough and leaving. WE have your back now, girl, you deserve much better than that sort of man.

    March 18, 2010 at 8:35 pm | Report abuse |
  167. jac

    I cannot believe what a jerk Jesse James is. He has a wonderful wife that is creative, beautiful, funny, talented woman and he goes and cheats on her. The female he was texting and seeing definately knew he was married and still saw him. I think that Jesse need his ego stroked like a immature man. He should put his big boy pants on and he a husband to his wife. She deserves the best and now Jesse is not.

    March 18, 2010 at 8:31 pm | Report abuse |
  168. midwestmatt

    I've had a brief personal interaction with Mr. James and found him to be incredibly arrogant and little more than a bully. Sure, he was pleasant with me but I got the sense he would just as soon punch you than to be nice to you.

    Go back to your tax dodging porn star ex-wife or some other tattoo covered piece of trash. Sandra is waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay out of your league.

    March 18, 2010 at 8:25 pm | Report abuse |
  169. grannysmith

    Sandra deserves better. If she and Jesse truly care for one another, I hope they can work it out. If not, Sandra needs to keep on walking.

    March 18, 2010 at 8:18 pm | Report abuse |
  170. appalled

    I love Sandra Bullock but why would he hold his marraige with her any more sacred than the one he was in with his then pregnant wife when he met Sandra and left that family? Sandra is facing what that wife did then.

    March 18, 2010 at 8:16 pm | Report abuse |
  171. Jennifer Walker

    Girl, come back to Texas! We've got your back. We'll always love you.

    March 18, 2010 at 8:15 pm | Report abuse |
  172. JS

    Sandra has always thanked Jesse for the success of her career...and this is what she gets in return. Walk away. You deserve better than that! If he doesn't see what he has...he'll soon find out.

    March 18, 2010 at 8:14 pm | Report abuse |
  173. katrinaspelvin

    Sandra is an intelligent, sophisticated, successful and independent woman. Jesse couldn't deal with a woman who's world didn't revolve around him. Check out his former wives. He cheated with this other woman who was just like his ex's. She was no threat to him, she is younger, and no doubt, he felt he could control her and the situation. He reverted to his comfort zone. Sandra strong, Jesse not.

    March 18, 2010 at 8:07 pm | Report abuse |
  174. Ann

    The old adage no longer stands we are not in the 60's and STAND BY YOUR MAN is no longer the mantra. Every woman needs to decide for herself what is right for her. The important thing for women to know is they have a choice. We also need to think about what we are teaching our children sons and daughters both about respect for ourselves and the ones we love.

    March 18, 2010 at 8:06 pm | Report abuse |
  175. Lynne

    The woman just spent many agonizing months in support of HIM, trying to help him win full custody of his daughter. She put her professional life on hold to concentrate on helping him through that tough time and this is how he repays her??!! What is it with these men who cheat although they have beautiful, intelligent, successful women? What more could they possibly want? Why is it that it takes a man to lose what he has to realize what he had was already special???

    March 18, 2010 at 7:40 pm | Report abuse |
  176. Arlene

    Sorry Sandra. I believe about 90% of men are unfaithful, and only 10 %
    true. Hope you find, the next time around, one out of the 10 percent.

    March 18, 2010 at 7:37 pm | Report abuse |
  177. Head Diva In Charge

    I am just so upset about this entire situation. Jesse – wtf?

    March 18, 2010 at 7:35 pm | Report abuse |
  178. Marina

    My heart goes out to Sandra and her children. Life is hard, without all the celebrity status, it must even harder. I know they have wealth, but they still work for their families. Some men and women get caught up in the temptations placed before them. So many people do what ever it takes to have an affair with the celebrities. They also should be shunned. Cheating is Cheating. The pain is overwhelming but it will take great strength to go on. Our paths are laid out. We just need to release the pain and not allow it to consume us. The world moves on, we need to move on with it. Time doesn't wait.
    Sandra, you will be in my prayers.

    March 18, 2010 at 7:29 pm | Report abuse |
  179. anythingtosay

    Poor Sandra. She has a lot going for her and she is strong. Jesse, YOUR WIFE has class and that is something that you and YOUR skank Tattoo lady will never have. Wasn't Sandra helping you with the custody of your daughter..fighting hard for your daughter. Wow, you are an awful person.
    I hope Sandra is doing good. Keep strong Sandra!!! You have many fans rooting for you!!!

    March 18, 2010 at 7:26 pm | Report abuse |
  180. susie

    I feel bad for Sunny, she lost Janine due to drugs and her instability... Now she has lost Sandra.
    Jesse, come on now... three times at saying the vows, when are you going to take them to heart?

    March 18, 2010 at 7:15 pm | Report abuse |
  181. beammeup

    Sooooooo sad. Sandra is one classy lady and she loves Jesse so much. You can see it every time she talks about him or looks at him. I thought Jesse might be one of those stand up guys the way he talked about Sandra "taking his breath away". Are there any men out there that know what the meaning of being married is? My ex-husband cheated on my twice that I know of–probably more. However, he will get what's coming to him. Hopefully, Jesse is truly sorry and will do whatever is necessary to get that lady back in his life. He definitely seemed like a better man being with Sandra.

    March 18, 2010 at 7:13 pm | Report abuse |
  182. Adrian Cronauer

    It's no surprise that many people compare themselves to the James/Bullocks and commiserate with their situation without really knowing who the James/Bullocks are or the details of the situation. Garbage in garbage out. Look at all the crap written in this column alone.

    Aside from the 'public apology' which is obviously directed toward his immediate family, Jesse James, or whoever wrote this, has clearly stated that this is a private matter and everyone else should mind their own business. What I'm curious about is how many of media scourge will actually respect that wish and stay away. Celebrities are entitled to equal privacy and the media should not be entitled to mining rights. Is it that obvious that I despise the media? (rhetorical)

    March 18, 2010 at 7:10 pm | Report abuse |
  183. Jesse

    Will all make mistakes...I think u should give him another chance.

    March 18, 2010 at 7:09 pm | Report abuse |
  184. kitty

    sad to hear-nobody should have to deal with cheating-and when you have your private life SO out in the open-its really sad. Having a cheating spouse is hard enough when you are an average person-stay strong Sandra

    March 18, 2010 at 7:07 pm | Report abuse |
  185. Steelinspector

    The only thing he is sorry for is getting caught, period.

    March 18, 2010 at 7:01 pm | Report abuse |
  186. michele

    Jesse will never find anything better than Sandra - lame for him!

    March 18, 2010 at 6:49 pm | Report abuse |
  187. Marie N

    What is it with these women who make a point of sleeping with a married man and then spilling it all over the news media. Wasn't this tatoo model famous enough? Bimbo should have her @ss beat down. I try not to judge a book by its cover but the difference between Sandra and her is like a classic novel and a copy of Enquirer. My best guess is that the other woman has embellished the facts more than just a little. In any case our concern is for Sandra, who is in my opinion one of America's sweethearts. She looked so ravishing at the Oscars...a real class act that girl is. Our prayers are with her.

    March 18, 2010 at 6:49 pm | Report abuse |
  188. Mellie Lee

    Sandra was way too good for this guy anyway.
    She wins an Academy Award and now for the rest of her life it will be tainted with the fact that her husband was cheating while she was working on this film.

    March 18, 2010 at 6:46 pm | Report abuse |
  189. Ro

    Cheating is just so cowardly. I've said it before, and I'll say it again. If you don't have the cohones to be real, to be faithful, then don't get married. It's simple. And if you are dissatisfied with your marriage, get counseling or get out. Don't cheat. And women (of which I am one), we're the ones who control the situation. Unless there's rape involved, a man can't cheat if he doesn't have a partner. It shows a huge lack of self respect and respect for women to sleep around with married men. Be stronger.

    March 18, 2010 at 6:35 pm | Report abuse |
  190. cg

    that is true TG. to top it off it is their personal life and personal decisions, i hope they make the right one that benefits them all.

    March 18, 2010 at 6:29 pm | Report abuse |
  191. Jaames

    Now Jesse....Which step were you working when you had lust???
    Not worth drinking druggin' over boy...just workin' the steps harder and more efficiently now...with your Higher Power...
    13 years of steppin ...

    March 18, 2010 at 6:26 pm | Report abuse |
  192. Jaames

    Now I have to wait another 5 years at least, after the divorce, for Sandra to be mentally healthy again...booo hooo, I am saddened.
    Divorce for adultry is approved in the Good Book.
    Come back when you feel better Sweet lady...Jc

    March 18, 2010 at 6:23 pm | Report abuse |
  193. Jaames

    now I have to wait another 5 years at least, after the divorce, for Sandra to be mentally healthy again...booo hooo, I am saddened.
    Divorce for adultry is approved in the Good Book.
    COme nack when you feel better Sweet lady...Jc

    March 18, 2010 at 6:22 pm | Report abuse |
  194. TG

    This is hard to see and hear someone as sweet and beautiful as Sandra to get hurt by someone she loved dearly..and Yes Jesse seen your bad boy thing going on for messed up big time sweet heart..the lady of all colors walked into your life and now has walked out'll never live this down..

    But as God is my word..things can workout..Just ask me..Been in Sandra's shoes and yes things did workout 3 1/2 yrs later. Sandra loves him dearly and Jesse you love her too..

    Just open your eyes sweet heart. Sandra is the best thing you have ever seen around you. Sandra is a true real beautiful.

    It's really sad to see Jesse's chilren are feeling this pain again. Sandra want to make the childrens life better.

    And without Sandra. I pray to God Jesse doesn't get back into drugs again.

    Everyone please think of the children first before you post something sick about the father. Please remember this

    God be with them Both

    March 18, 2010 at 5:58 pm | Report abuse |
  195. LBW

    You will be fine Sandra. Don't look back.

    March 18, 2010 at 5:54 pm | Report abuse |
  196. Misty

    He will never know how deeply he hurt his wife and children – over some very foolish decisions. I bet he'd do anything to take it all back and change some things. Sadly, he felt it was easier to talk to some random groupie than his precious wife.

    Hopefully they will take their time and figure out what went wrong – and begin to heal. God bless this family – this is a very hard thing to go through.

    March 18, 2010 at 5:54 pm | Report abuse |
  197. alumette

    A learning curve for Sandra. What was she thinking hooking up with that dude? Hello! He is evidently the type that makes out with hooker style chicks. Gag. I hope Sandra did not get STD's from him.

    March 18, 2010 at 5:52 pm | Report abuse |
  198. Anne

    If nothing was done wrong – why the need for the apology? People usually only apologize when they've done something wrong.

    March 18, 2010 at 5:51 pm | Report abuse |
  199. Elisa

    What a tool! Why do men continue to hurt their loved ones over lust? It's because they don't have true morals! In their hearts they allow evil to enter their life because they haven't followed Jesus Christ in their heart. People need to reevaluate their lives and accept salvation through Jesus Christ to overcome temptations. are so wonderful and I'm so sorry you have to go through this pain.

    March 18, 2010 at 5:46 pm | Report abuse |
  200. MN1113

    Isnt that what they all say and do... lack of judgement and then go apologize?!?

    Forget it, same story same excuse.

    Sandra should just move on and write it off as a learning experience and cont. on with her successful career.

    March 18, 2010 at 5:40 pm | Report abuse |
  201. moon627

    whats up with these guys and their public apologies ? Does he think that makes him look like a better person ? He's just another LIAR cheating on his wife – shame on him and Tiger and on and on and on...

    March 18, 2010 at 5:21 pm | Report abuse |
  202. Shannon

    Yeah for Sandra. Walk girl! Nobody should stand for a liar and a cheater. That is a deal breaker in my book anytime. NOTHING feels worse than being hoodwinked by the one person that you have committed to.

    March 18, 2010 at 5:16 pm | Report abuse |

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