Backlash brewing over Aniston using 'R-word'Jennifer Aniston’s press tour for “The Switch” hasn’t been without controversial debate, but this time the actress seems to have said one word too many. The 41-year-old star made her way to “Live! With Regis and Kelly” Thursday and let the word “retard” slip in the middle of a self-deprecating remark. Aniston was chatting with Regis Philbin and Kristin Cruz from Los Angeles radio station 103.5 about her Harper’s Bazaar Barbra Streisand photos. Cruz asked how she got in the mood to “really embody” Streisand, and Aniston replied, “I play dress-up. I do it for a living, like a retard.”
The audience chuckled, and guest host Cruz kept rolling with a follow-up question, but the comment hasn’t gone unnoticed. Many are reacting on the Web to Aniston’s statement, with some on Twitter saying that her use of the word has led to a loss of respect for the actress - one person even tweeted that they're thinking twice about heading out to see "The Switch." Meanwhile, The Special Olympics Movement has issued a statement of their own. “Special Olympics is always disappointed when the R-word is used, especially by someone who is influential to society,” the statement reads. “The pervasive use of the R-word, even in an off the cuff self-deprecating manner, dehumanizes people with intellectual disabilities and perpetuates painful stereotypes that are a great source of suffering and negative stigma.” The organization added, “We hope everyone will take our pledge to stop using the R-word and promote the inclusion and acceptance of people with intellectual disabilities at www.r-word.org.” Jennifer Aniston's representation has not yet responded to requests for comment.
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Could it be that our f-ing problem is that Jennifer f-ing Aniston is someone "influential" in our society?
ugh.
As a real life singing supeheroine and disabilty rights activist, I am very angry at Jennifer Anniston, because she violated every American Disability Rights Laws, because of her disabaphobic behavior!
I hope that she gets to be scared straight about her disabaphobia, otherwise I may have NO CHOICE but to arrest her and send her to St. Elizabeth's Hospital in Washington, DC, to be scared straight by John Hinkley Junior himself and have her kept there until a Federal judge gives her a Show trial in Federal Kangaroo court, in which she will be found guilty of her crimes against the disabled and sentenced to indefinite life imprisonment at St. Elizabeth's Hospital for what she did, being that she needs to be taught a lesson that disabaphobia is A FEDERAL Hate crime!
Bad use of words by Aniston to describe uninteresting things in her life. I guess that's one way to get free publicity because her movies really suck. They really do. She's thanking God for all those "Friends" reruns that pay her great residuals.
Words seem to morph and change meaning throughout the generations. When I was a kid, people with mental/intellectual disabilities were referred to as being "retarded" or "mentally retarded". This term is almost never used anymore to describe people of special needs. Instead, it has become a slang term referring to people of "normal" intellectual capacity who is behaving in a foolish/stupid/silly way. Much like the "N" word is used by kids of today in a completely different way than it was used by previous generations. When I was a kid, being a "geek" was a bad thing...now kids refer to themselves as 'computer geeks', or use the term "geeked" to say they're excited about something. I can give at least a half dozen other examples like these. People who insist upon being offended by words that are used in a completely different way than they were in the past need to realize that its the INTENT, not the word itself, that they should be offended by. Why are we, as a society, not as outraged when celebrity African Americans use the "N" word as we are by Jennifers use of this word? Because they're not using it in a disparaging way....and either was she.
Please can we focus on the real issues and stop nitpicking?
This is news? Shes nots bashing or making fun of anyone but herself. People need a life. And news organizations need to stop posting this garbage. When I do something stuipid, I feel like a retard. When others doing stupid things they act like retards. Growing up , every friend we had was a retard. BIG DEAL!!!! GET OVER IT!!!
I promise you, had she used another epithet, this would not have been called a "non-malicious slip of the tongue." This usage means "I am stupid just like a retarded person" - that's the only meaning it has - and people with intellectual disabilities are not stupid. They vote, they purchase - and they're paying attention.
People need to stop being so sensitive. I mean really it has gotten idiotic where it makes news when someone commenting on THEMSELVES can not say the word retarded. Get an F'ing life and quit the constant whining! I don't get why the people in this country have gone from strong, independent, self sufficient people to such whiny, weak stomached, babies that think the world owes them and everyone should watch every utterance the comes out of their mouths.
I thought the r-word meant "rigger".
arguing on the internet is like the special olympics. it doesnt matter who wins, your all still retarded.
this issue is retarded.
This whole story is retarded
IT'S NOT LIKE THE RETARDS ARE GOING TO KNOW...
the word "retard" when used to describe thoughtless, funny behavior – IS HILARIOUS!! maybe we need to redefine the word
People who say 'r-word' should be shot.
This is R-tarded!
This story is GOD DAMN RETARDED. Shut the hell up up you god damn retards.
Everybody keeps saying it was a slip of the tongue..
Who can I call to get her to slip me the tongue?
Just askin'.
@Nadia I use the G-word every Friday when my GARBAGEMAN picks up my trash... Oops, I meant "Sanitation Engineer". But I still like to fly, because my STEWARDESS is so attentive, Oops, I meant "Flight Crew Member". Gay used to mean happy, until some lame group tried to co-opt it for themselves. Retard, retardant, retards were industrial terms until another lame group tried to co-opt it for themselves. Those people that hate the word so much, make sure you buy your kids NON flame retardant costumes and clothing. Watching your kid spit like a piece of chicken on a grill may rekindle your love affair with the word.
Then again, why bother saying anything... The whole issue is retarded.
Haha, I usually call people special instead of retarded when they are being retarded. Is calling someone special offensive as well?? How about stupid, does that degrade stupid people everywhere?
retards.
It's only ok to say that word if you say it like the fat guy in "The Hangover." reh-TARD
Oh for crying out loud, anyone jobless or losing their homes today? Grow up you retards.
Is it just me, or is this entire "story" and "controversy" ... retarded?
Get over it. This hyper sensitive society of our is just one of USA downfalls. Friggin rretards
RLarsson, it is would HAVE or could Have, not would of.....English, people!!!
Hmmm....... who was really offended by this? Couldn't have been real 'mentally challenged' people... cause they probably don't even understand the word. So it has to be some normal, intelligent people who are all bent out of shape because they have nothing better to do. Get real and think about the real problems that are all around you ....and use your valuable time and intelligence to resolve them.... unless you really are retarded...... in which case you probably have no clue what we are talking about.... so never mind!
Merriam – Webster's definition of the word:
a retarded person; also : a person held to resemble a retarded person in behavior
First used in 1788
The Marklar is such a Marklar. they should marklar the marklar with a marklar.
Maybe this would have been more socially acceptable if she had pulled out "The Hangover" and pronounced it 'ri-tard.'
Shenanigans! We have been told repeatedly that people with learning disabilities are NOT retarded, SO if someone uses the word retard we shouldn't assume that they're using it as a slight against people with learning disabilities...unless the people that are offended actually believe that the people they're defending are retards. The whole argument is therefore preposterous....and retarded.
I really think the ARC needs to get over it.... Can you tell me what the ARC stands for? Like calling the kettle black.... I dont think alot of people are mad at Jen, I think they are mad at the overall people who are acting like cry babies... WHAA WHAA WHAA (baby crying) I have a family member that has a mental disablility and I dont call her that but I do say it in a conversation sometimes. Not changing my ways, YOU change yours....
Have a nice day!
Seriously??? Stop being so hyper-sensitive. She was not insulting specially challenged people at all. My sisters and friends use to call each other that as kids playing around. Not being rude to anyone. Society is so intent on, Oh you hurt my feelings, crap. Get a life and grow up!!!!!! There is more to life than worrying about someone saying the so called "R" word. Stupid People!!!!! And I dont care if I hurt your feelings by calling you stupid because you know what the truth hurts.
CNN please do a better job at monitoring comments. While I appreciate lively comments it appears most of the statements posted here are just discourteous ones – proof of how incredibly malicious and thoughtless people can be. As the parent of a child with special needs it's horrifying to see what has been posted.
This situation is being blow completely out of the water. Who cares that she said retard? I just said it. Here's the thing, people use that word in various meanings and situations every day. Just because she's sort of a celebrity doesn't mean she has to talk differently or behave unlike regular people. Its not the R-word. Its not a swear. The word is retard. And it is not specific to anyone unlesas. You take it that way. Get over it! PEOPLE SAY RETARD EVERY DAY! She does not have to apologize. America needs to pull theirs heads out of their asses.
hi
What's the big deal? Retards don't have feelings. lul this is GAY
This is retarded. I loled
Why are people so sensitive, and easily offended???? I have a Down's Syndrome child, but am not offended by someone making a simple comment like Jennifer Aniston's comment. Absolutely harmless! Our society is completely going overboard with this hypersensitivity. Honestly people, how would you like every word you utter recorded? To all of those raising a bunch of noise on this...get a freakin' life! Oh no, my last comment is bound to offend millions, because people will take it as the highly offensive F word...
There are retards and then they are people with mental handicaps. These are two different concepts. In today's vernacular retard does not refer to mentally handicap, much like gay no longer means happy.
This is totally being misunderstood. It is a word that "was" commonly used by the generation of kids that grew up in the 80's up to the early 90's. It was never a direct attack aginst down sydrome or special needs children. It was a word that was used no differnt then bogas or knarly or "rad man" or everything like this and totally like that...... Please I plead with the public and the families of special needs children not to take offense to it there is noway Jen meant it that way.
I don't think she meant anything mean by it. Ger off her back! These slow news days are tough,aren't they?
i think she did not mean it in a bad way. she is sweet,and funny. she would never hurt any one on purpose!! i call my husband that just playing around with him. but i never mean any disrespect to the kids and older people, when i'm playing around with him. don't be to hard on her. i don't think she would hurt anyone's feelings. i love your bubbly personality,and funny sweet movies. i like your movies, because i can let my kids watch them. i don't have to worry about any dirty talk from your mouth. i thought you handle your stolen man with grace. you are a good woman and actress.
STOP IT. PEOPLE ARE WAY TO SENSITIVE. IT IS GOING TO GET TO THE POINT THAT WE ARE NOT GOING TO SAY ANYTING. WE HAVE BIGGER ISSUES IN THIS WORLD THAN TO KEEP LAMBAISTING PEOPLE FOR SAYING THINGS THAT ARE NOT INTENDED TO BE IN POOR TASTE. PRETTY SOON FREE SPEECH WILL BE A THING OF THE PAST.
Who the hell cares? Get a life people.
i call people retarded almost every day......and they deserved it
The problem with political correctness is that everyone will inevitably get offended, which is ironic given that it is what is trying to be avoided.
Double Plus Ungood: Eurasia has always been at war with Ocean and East Asia. Take her to Room 101 for re-education........
(God help this politically correct world, or thinking will grind to a halt. Funny- we call "Ebonics" a "language", refuse to teach proper English to Americans; refuse to teach them foreign languages in order to communicate with others, and spend millions on reducing communication to the level of my 4-year old nephew. Trouble ahead, my friends....)
She's not intelligent (obviously). She's not funny. She has no authority in any field whatsoever. As far as I am concerned she can say whatever she likes: R-word, N-word, F-word – the more the better. Maybe this way people will eventually realize that there is (and never was) no point in listening to her drivvel.
Claire – Agreed, it is crude to taunt retarded people, or fat people, or ugly people, etc. It says more about the person doing it, than the target. I think it hurts you more than your brother. However, that does not mean Jennifer Aniston cannot call herself fat, ugly, or a retard; I think you know that.
30+ years ago, as a junior high student, I went to Guidance to try to stop the "retarded girl" from being whipped outside the school by a bunch of other mean girls. They kept correcting my language, rather than jumping up and taking action. How about imbecils? Is that a better word? I'm talking about the politically correct retards in the guidance office of course!
This is still The United States of America...is it NOT? We were given the right of free speech were we NOT? Let's have a discussion about what is happening to our rights. If someone wants to use the 'R' or 'N' that is their right. We as humans have a right to voice our opinions as to whether the words are offensive or not – but to demand an apology is not within our rights. Live and let Live!! I do not believe that Jennifer Aniston was being malicious or that she uses the word to describe anyone with a mental affliction. She is an actress not a Supreme Being. The meaning of the word retard is: To cause to move or proceed slowly; delay or impede. GET A DICTIONARY PEOPLE!!!!
when i heard this story i thought it was pretty retarded
Really? It scrares me SO MANY people have decidied that of all the ISSUES happening right now in our own neighborhoods and communities, in out NATION all around us...oh and yeah ONLY OUR ENTIRE FRIKN WORLD that the one they are going to come out to voice an opinion on is this woman using the "R" word !!?! Some"Twamatised Tweeters" might even go as far as reconsidering going to see the latest movie in theatres that the "R" word using monster is STARRING in. To these people so troubled I offer ... anather "R" word, REVALUATE
I'm 51 and the word "retard" was never used to describe mentally challenged people, but people who were slow. If you look up the meaning, it is used as slang to describe the mentally challenged The meaning of the word is very different. It's like using the word gay to mean lame, it's a word. Meanings change.
So, in a country where we hold freedom of speech so high it sometimes rises above public safety issues, at the same time, we demonize certain words and call it "wrong" to use them.
Oh come on.. My name is Chuck I am a special olympic state champion gold medalist in the state of Ohio 400 meter dash...I hear people use the R word all the time... It doest bother me at all...
Those on here saying it just to say it, are just showing their extreme immaturity. It's knowingly saying things that you know are hurting people, what's that say? By the way Replying by insulting only proves it's more true. Many people hurt by this don't say anything for a long time, if at all, but they remember. Eventually it can lead to relationships ending, & even loosing your job! People w/disabilities are a protected group of people, & the r-word because of it's history is listed as a slur or a Derogatory word. Yes like other words people continue to use them, but if someone uses the n-word, most see them differently from then on. Those of us w/disabilities, or that love someone w/one, think of the person differently, & hurts like a knife. Statistics show most people will have a disability sometime in their lives, even more will know someone w/one. Do you really want to wait until then to realize, & possibly hurt & alienate those around you?
People with disabilities, btw that's the PC term w/few variations...it hasn't changed in at least 15 yrs, so aside from an individual persons preference, that is the respectful way to say.
Every person varies, but most of us w/physical disabilities are called that while in public, & treated very differently. It was a medical diagnosis, but is used to degrade others, or talk about something they hate. It goes way deeper than a passing comment or word for most. Most don't call things they hate leukemia, that also is the same.
For those who are to ignorant to know, & Ann & other parents on here, it is not true that people w/certain diagnosis can't be helped, or will never be the same. They may not be exactly the same, most I know, even the kids are too mature to attack others, or call names on a thread. They weren't helped properly before, & sometimes not taught at all. Now I & others have seen them do well, & better than most could ever know w/out truly seeing. There is hope, & possibilities, which is one reason why so many want thoughts about them, & treatment of them to change!
Quick a rich white person slipped up on being sensitive to tards.
Quick sue her and show the world the USA is just a bunch of tards who hate white people...
Only minority retarded can sue, quanities limited act now
I am not a fan of Jennifer's but I think she didn't intend to insult anyone except people who fashion their hair like Barbra in the 60s. There are many words that people used before "politically correct" became the thing to do.
We should always be aware and choose our dialog carefully. I'm sure Dr. Laura would agree.
Wow really i bet everyone has used the word retard more than once in there life. even those parents that have mentally handicapped kids. There was a time when u were young and didnt have a retarded kid so im pretty sure you ppl that say i have a handicapped kid you dont know what its like, are being GIANT HIPPOCRITS. atleast we live in a society now that accepts them and not throw them in the mental ward at some loony bin like they did back in the old days. GET OVER IT. Its not like she said hey your kids retarded and started hitting herself in the chest with a club hand.
The R-word? Please, are we 5 years old? I was taught grammar, I learned when to be silly. Can we say we have gone to far; that is we cannot say any words anymore without someone taking offense? I hear this on the news and had to look up what the "r-word" was. I thought people that were slow, were now called special needs. If one used an item with a retarded affect, such as a hand grenade, should I instead have said the grenade had a r-word release? Come on people, lighten up. Learn to stop putting so much hate in every day language. I have wondered why my grand kids can't spell or use code words when texting; now I know. They do it for fear of offending anyone.
Everyone seems to notice that Jennifer Anniston is pretty, but no one seems to notice that she is dull, boring, and completely void of any charisma. Angelina 's got her beat – hands down!!...in every aspect.
Jennifer is a total B_ _tch, i would like if she would love to be callled that
Her "slip-up" was even further evidence of her immaturity, self-centeredness, and ignorance. I bet Brad Pitt is more thankful every day for his lovely and classy and thoughtful partner, Angelina Jolie.
"Retard"? Hell, I clicked on the headline automatically thinking the supposedly "offensive" "R-Word" she used was "Redneck". That said, let me suggest one thing for all you people out there who are actually upset about all this- GET OVER YOURSELVES. The word "retard" has many different definitions, including that of "Social Retard", such as people who need to get a life instead of getting all atwitter over things said on TV by "celebrities." Get a hobby. Make an appointment with your dermatologist and get a prescription for something that will help you grow a thicker skin, people. Sheesh.
Well said, possibly more to the point than I was. I remember when it was bad to be called a red-neck; or so they thought, I don't know anyone that was ever offended. I was called a Polock when I was a kid, my relatives came from Poland, so what?
I have a precious son who is 38 years old. When he was 2, he wasn't as emotionally developed as I thought he should have been. After years of testing, he was diagnosed with organic brain disease. In those days, we only used retarded as a description. I was never comfortable with the terminology. I used retarded because I didn't know better. I responded to your comment for the same reason you did. What's the R word? Please, stop with being afraid of the English language.
Where is George Carlin when you need him? Most of the words that we grew up being told were so very bad, and that if used, would get our mouths washed out with soap are now being used in prime-time television with no censorship at all... But now I cannot watch classic cartoons from 1945 without seeing censorship all over the place! If we as a society are no longer concerned with censoring words once deemed too harsh for the sensitive ears of children, then way are we now being told to censor ourselves from using words that some deem too harsh for the over-sensitive ears of so-called adults??? Or could it be that our reality is actually a society full of overgrown children?
Hey, I'm one of the lucky ones. If someone called my mentally retarded son a "retard", he'd never even know it. I always knew there would be a silver lining in this dark cloud.
MANISTON IS RETARDED THOUGH. SHE IS DUMBER THAN A ROCK AND SHE KNOWS IT. UNTALENTED AND UGLY AS HELL!!!
aLRIGHT!! Everybody calm down..... Ok, now get spastic again! RARR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! o_0
People need to get over the fact she used the R-WORD come on America grow up..... We have people with out jobs in this country, fighting a war over nothing. and people are worried about the R-Word grow up America
actually, diane..., everytime we use that word whether we're being playful or not, a mentally insufficient person dies. so be careful. thanks.
I have a 33 year old retarded child and it is hell on earth. It's obvious to me that Jennifer Aniston was making fun of herself while using "retard" and it didn't faze me one bit. It's just a word. However, I do feel bad for those that take it personally and I can understand it too. I think it's better to look a little deeper and judge the intention behind the word. I just don't believe that Ms. Aniston intended to hurt anyone (but I'll bet she won't be saying it again in public
People who get all worked up about this are just retarded!
Soon Big Brother will come out with the list of words we can and can not use. I say the hell with it lets use'em all.
We need to stop being such oversensitive and politically correct sissies in this country. The people in the Special Olympics are retarded. That's why they're there. Deal with it. Why be offended by something that accurately describes you? Why do we pretend to live in a world where nobody calls you what you are? It's not a put down. Tis' just what it is.
I am SO sick of all the whiners infringing on my (and EVERY Americans) right to freedom of speech. N-word, R-word, C-word G-word, get a grip people! Every time someone uses one of these bad words its like the end of the world! Im not saying people should go around spouting these words at every turn but when someone does just shut the hell up and deal with it, its life. I hear words I dont like every single day, but its that persons right to use those words. And Im sorry media people, its NOT worthy news when someone does say them, find something worthwhile to report, GOD (oops G-word) knows this great country have plenty of news worthy problems at the moment that need reported!
CNN you call yourself a news network and this is your story? Really!? Some famous person offended someone... Wow! That is amazing and really important in my life I can tell you. What ever happened to real news networks? You know the ones that reported real news and events that mattered in our every day life. You don’t think with all that is going on in the world every day that there must be something more important then this? Who cares if someone said Retard? According to the 2009 census there are 307,006,550 people living in the USA. One of them said retard on TV... You find this significant? Forget how many wars were started, how many people died of famine, what science and medical breakthroughs happened, how many natural disasters killed thousands of people or what our politicians are doing ....No No lets focus on the fact that a celebrity said retard and some people cried. Don’t feel too bad though. I am sure they won’t cry as much as the countless Americans who have lost their jobs, homes and cant feed their families due to the poor economy or the mothers who have lost their sons in the war. Those poor offended people are much more important in the wonderful country where it is our job to make sure no one cries......boo hoo. CNN please stop embarrassing yourself. It is hard to watch.
I couldn't agree with you more....
I can't believe people are even wasting their time on this. What a complete joke! What ever happened to free speech! I wonder what word will be added to the don't say list!
Didn't anybody learn anything from watching the movie "There's Something About Mary?" Cameron Diaz covered it with Matt Dillon.
That's just it. (Diane) We grew up saying retarted. just meaning stupid. The same as gay. Meaning weird. We didn't know what they meant, so we used them in a different contexts. It's them that keep brining it to the forefront and connecting the two. I can't tell you how many times I've started to say "That's so retarted!" Only to just catch myself. Sure, not so adult, but hey, it's ingrained. I have utmost respect for both (I have a gay nephew and step-brother, and used to take care of a handicaped woman) and unless you're looking directely at the person and addressing them as such, there shouldn't be a problem. Take it in context with the conversation and there should be no problem.
Do any of you know or deal with people who have disabilities? I teach my children not to make fun of anyone, not to use words that are hurtful. Is it o.k. to use the "N" word? Or use words that describe a persons family's national origan? Can you say the "W" word for Italians, the "M" word for Irish, the "S" word for Puerto Ricon's? Why is it o.k. to say the R word? It's not about political correctness, it's about simple respect. I ask for nothing more and will except nothing less.
Complete overload of political correctness!!
Shut up Bruce's Megan. Get over it. That word was fine years ago and then someone decided they didn't like the way it sounded and told everyone that it was hurtful. It's not a bad word, it's just a word. and if you can't get over it, then you are hopeless for getting hung up on words. It's people like you that are SEEKING reasons and ways to get mad at the world that makes the our lives a little less bright, thanks or that. . She wasn't even using it in a maen way, she was't trying to be mean.
The definition of retard means to slow down, or be slow. Get over it, she wasn't talking about your kid, the world does not revolve around you. There are 6 billion other people here too, make some room for us.
After reading many of the above comments, few have demonstrated the correct use of the English language.
Most have chosen to use nothing more than labels in expressing their veiws.
Many of those lack the knowledge and or experience of associating with individuals with cognitive impairments.
All of those at one time or another have experienced the pain of being the recipient of derragatory words.
And with out a doubt, everyone seems to lose their sense a humor when it is about them.
Maybe, if everyone makes a minimal effort to be a little more respectful of one another...this world will decrease the amount of ignorant bullies in it!
Good people that say a word that others consider offensive because it is an abbreviation of some word used in different contexts by other generations should not be demonized. Also the one reply referring to the dictionary meaning is correct. I do not associate the word with human beings at all ! Aniston is the most respectful celebrity on earth and I would believe that she meant nothing hurtful whatso ever. The people bent out of shape over this should take a good look at their "chip off the shoulder mentality" and freakin get a life !!!
I guess we will have to check out every pep peeve now before we speak oops! wonder if anyone have a problem with pet or peeve. You are all idiots. morons, get a life. She said she was a retard, not any of the idiots who are complaining. Or may be they think they are retards. If the shoe fits wear it.
lol who cares....she has nothing against retarded people, its just a word.
sometimes a hippo'll get very upset and attack, so i'd leave my jenny alone, because though she is not el hippo, she might start to bite. instead, try to feed her some yeast. this could please her and then maybe she never lash out and say the retard again. thank you. ~bradley~
This story is retarded.
Good grief! Are we ALL becoming hyper-sensitive to language? The 'R' word, 'F' word, 'N' word. Pretty soon we'll all be talking to each other in code. Isn't that what 'texting' is doing already? If someone is broadcast 'live', then we take the chance of hearing something that might offend. Anniston did not use this word as disrespect to a group, she was trying to jokingly describe herself. EVERYONE knew this! Mountain out of a mole hill, folks!
I can see why brad left her, he became interested in someone who could use her mind.
Sorry, that was a retarded post.
A bunch of bull....retardedness tsk tsk tsk
I have an idea, let's start using the word "special" when we mean "retard". We can even use the "hand quotes" signal when we say "special".
Let's use the phrase "shell shocked" until we have to use the phrase "battle fatigue". Let's use "battle fatigue" until we have to use the phrase "post traumatic stress syndrome". Let's use "post traumatic stress syndrome" until someone comes up with an easy to say acronym that doesn't imply mentally or socially crippled, (until it does, that is).
Lets use the word handicapped instead of cripple, until, that is, we have to use the word "challenged". Let's use the word "challenged" until we have to use the word "special". Let's use the world "special" until we have to start using the phrase "less socially and physically adaptable", or even "a little weird but with cause".
I cant say retard anymore???? how retarded!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
jennifer anniston as i have always felt is shallow self centered and ignorant. always very mindful that she comes across as humble and kind, hers was not a slip of the tongue. she just said "on camera" what i'm sure she says behind the cameras when she is describing something that she thinks is dumb which goes to show her mindset on situations in life. she has never been a role model to me or for me. what has she done while anjelina jolie is making a difference in the world????
Oh lord here we go again. Now they're calling it the "R-Word" and from now on anyone using it is going to be on CNN and have to meet with "retarded leaders" and undergo psycho therapy and then tour the country apologizing.
It seems like the only way to be free of these people (and by these people I mean jack asses that think they are owed penance any time someone fails to adhere to their delicate sensitivity anywhere anytime) is to simply not care at all! if you don't care at all then you can call people F4GG0ts and retards in your movies all day long and nobody bothers you. They only go after you if they think they can bully you!
I stand in righteous judgment of Ms. Aniston and her hatred of others. Thou shalt burn in the hellfires, Ms. Aniston.
I work with children in Special Education, and I can honestly say that I think people need to chill out. Let her say stupid things. Who cares? Why do people hold this woman on any kind of pedestal? This whole country is retarded.
This whole story is retarded. Mental retardation is a term used by everyone including proffesionals to describe a medical condition for decades. When i set the ignition timing on my car i will either advance or retard the timing. Is it wrong or degrading for me to retard my timing. At the end of the day it's only a word and i think the people who are against the use of retard must be ashamed , embarresed or insecure . I think the word retard is here to stay and i don't believe it is dimeaning in any way.
ok so while we are tarring Jennifer Aniston let's not forget the use of such words in the various sitcoms that we all watch not to mention the late night talk shows! gheez !!! a learning curve in there somewhere ????
OK, words are not illegal or whatever... when is the book burning starting?
First I would like to answer the "stick's and stones" propenents. May I counter with "the pen is mightier than the sword".
The word you seem to be so astonished at others objecting to it does not just hurt. It scars for life. Secondly, the word was not used as a noun. It was used as an abjective to describe Ms. Anderson"s job. Probably the only thing she could have said worse would have been R N. Not so many would have been yelling get over it then.
This being news is retarded
Ridiculous!!!! The 'R word', the 'N word', the 'F word'!?! What, are we all six years old? Words are just that, mere words, which do no harm to anyone that doesn't originate in their own, overly sensitive heads. Words have only the power over us that we choose to give them, and people so self-consciously tangle-footed by ludicrous PC sensibilities aren't worth the effort it takes to continually placate them.
How ridiculous (another r-word!) is this? Since when did the word "retard" make such a big stink when people use it? Let's report on more important things, no one cares what word Jennifer Aniston pulled out of her ass this time. It's retarded. Yes, I said it- someone please write a blog about it!
God, I'm such a retard....I don't get what all the fuss is about!?!
Maybe we ought to stick to news worthy items and skip the "retarded" worry about what words are not deemed POLITICALLY CORRECT! It's really getting boring. Actually, the definition for retard is slow. So, I guess we can't "retard" the growth of bacteria anymore either, huh?
Oh come on people, she wasn't intentionally insulting anyone. I love how hyoporcracy runs deep in our culture. All of you perfect people out there make sure you post how bad Jennifer is before you verbally abuse your significant other or swear at someone in traffic! Oh, but I guess as long as it isn't on TV it's OK right?
People are overreacting, yes it was bad that she said it but I doubt she intended to say. Aniston comes from a generation of people who used that word often when teasing each other in high school (and in adulthood). It is offensive and cruel to use that word but does anyone seriously think that Jennifer harbors any cruel or abusive feelings towards differently abled people?
Per Zach Galifianakis, it's pronounced, "r'tard."
Give me a break! The "N" work, the "R" word, the "S" work, the "A"..... who are those politically correct morons with so many hangups! Geez, WHAT A BUNCH OF RETARDS!
It's "r'tard."
I would just like to say that I have a brother that is mentally handicapped and all our lives we have treated him no different than any of our other siblings. He has grown up to be a great person and mostly self-sufficient. I credit a lot of this to our mother, who never let him use his handicap as a crutch. And, yes...when we were young and playing around...we ALL called each other retards! It meant nothing!!!!
Obviously many of you do not have a child or are just ignorant rednecks! !
My Mother always referred to herself as being a "cripple." Then later in her life she was told that was wrong. She then became" handicapped." Then she was wrong again. She became" physically challenged." All these changes in referring to her disability hurt her more than when some one would say she was a cripple. In fact in the last few years of her life she referred to herself as being a cripple and had no ill feeling about it.
Sarah Palin defends Dr.(i use the term loosely) for use of the "N" word but is offended when people use the "R" word (and i don't snicker snicker mean republican)>Grizzly grow a pair of Cajones and just hibernate or better yet take care of your family.
Jen... apologize for it, don't say it again...even in private... and move on.
Thanks language and thought police. Do you descend from the Nazis? Do you realize you'd fit right in with that mentality?
OMG people....she said retard....get over it. People say it all the time. Some of the things people throw a fit over is just insane. How bout we worry about more important things & quit being so uptight. It's a freakin' word....Come on now.
I am nearly 50 and can say that the word retard is a word we all grew up using. I will not bow to overly sensitive types who feel that it demeans people with limited mental capabilities. If you ARE one of those people, I would not call YOU a retard! But I will call my best friend or next door neighbor a retard, because the shoe fits.
While I'm setting the record straight, let's talk about handicapped drivers. I get behind a handicapped driver who is going way below the limit and I get upset with them. My wife says "honey, can't you see they're handicapped (by their license plate)?" My response is "Just because you're handicapped doesn't give you the right to drive like a d*ck." Case closed.
Please! If it weren't for all the retard posts on here, how else would I entertain myself at work?
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There, I just outdid that retard Dr Laura!
For those of you here that think it's OK to use the word "retard" in a derogatory manner, and with such glee, and towards those that disagree with you (like on this board), do you teach your child the same word? Or other derogatory words? What if he/she were called a retard at school? Or a race-related derogatory word? Then it would be different, right? Then the word hurts, doesn't it? Have a little sensitivity and tolerance towards others on these boards. My child has special needs but he is intelligent enough not to use derogatory words towards others. Seems like some of you could benefit from following his lead.
A credible organization thinks Jennifer Aniston is influential to our society? Now THAT's re..... oh wait ..... FOOLISH! If you grew up in certain decades, there were certain phrases we used that are now considered horribly un-PC. Sometimes I have to think twice before I open my mouth – I nearly let the phrase "Indian-giver" pass my lips this morning; I can understand when, in a certain comfortable frame of mind, it's easy to let these phrases or words slip; I don't think she meant anything by it other than she considers what she does for a living to be simple (compared to what us "real" people have to do to earn a paycheck). Now, if you really want to get me riled, ask me how I feel about the deliberate use of the "N" word in songs, movies, and speech (and I don't mean by Dr. Laura). I feel THAT is a word that should never be used in any situation, yet every day it is commonly used by a large percentage of the population without protest.
Typical Hollywood leftie. Maybe she should go have a cigarette with Julia Roberts and Sandra Bullock
RETARD RETARD RETARD RETARD RETARD RETARD RETARD RETARD RETARD RETARD!!!!!!!!!!!!! Who cares! she has a right to call herself anything! People are just idiots!
And New Jersey is spending how much money to take the word "feeble-minded" out of all legislation as it is old fashioned. Replace with "differently abled" i suppose. If Aniston has said "like a differently abled person" would the Special Olympics still have reacted, and against what? Maybe differently abled people like to dress up and that is not a bad thing, is it?
This crap will never end. Somebody somewhere is always tired of someone else's crap, chooses to call it offensive, and suddenly a new dictionary entry is spawned, and an organization comes into being around it.
It's only words people.
RETARD RETARD RETARD. Get over it! "Mentally challenged" people, or whatever they like to call themselves these days don't even use that word anymore! People are retarded and you can easily be such without having any mental issues, it's more of a "slang" or whatever you'd like to call it. I am so sick and tired of being politically correct all of the time. The people who are worried about this are... well, retards.
Here's an idea – quit publishing things like this and they will go unnoticed, at least for the most part. When I was growing up, and not that long ago, we used that word all the time. Not to poke fun at someone with disabilities but to make fun of ourselves for the most part. It is only hurtful if used derogatorily towards someone, especially someone with disabilities. I've heard many people with such disabilities use the word to describe themselves or someone else in a joking manner. The word has no feeling associated with it until one is used and has a reaction to it. If you find it offensive tell the person referring to you as such, and hope they don't do it again. If they do you know that was the purpose If not it was an honest mistake. We all need to get some broader shoulders and quit stressing over the little things.
Oh good grief chuck brown! Don't we have more important things to worry about than which super loser said what today?? Oh...wait...apparently I don't. ha ha ha.
You don't call a retarted person a retard. You call your friends retards, when they're acting retarted.
I'm waiting for Sarah Palin to defend her free speech rights.
You know the people that say it is ok to use the R-word is so insensitive. If you had a child with a learning disablitiy you would not want somesone using the R-word to describe you child. We as a human race need to be more compassive toward people that have a learning disablity and include the 99% of the people on this blog.
Give me a break. This is the dumbest controversy. She called herself a retard because she was just expressing how uncomfortable she was recreating iconic photos. Here's a person who obviously doesn't take herself too seriously. Good for her and it's nice to see. But then these morons in the media and people who play records backwards get all upset. Sorry, but I didn't get the memo that retard was a restricted word like the N-word.
What's next? Will FAT be off limits because fat people will get upset?
This is what we get on a slow news day, a whole bunch of s nit-picking things famous people say.
stop looking at ways to be offended...............
My mother is mentally and physically handicapped and I do not take offense to the word "retard" unless someone is directly calling her that word. In fact, most mentally handicapped people are not offended by the word unless someone tells them they should be. They aren't so self-conscious about that word that they get insulted when someone is making fun of themselves and not them. If someone tries to say that's because they don't understand, maybe it's you that doesn't understand. My mother knows exactly what it means and has sense enough not to be insulted unless someone is insulting her. I don't care much for Jennifer Aniston, but I don't think she deserves all this negative publicity. If she's going to be berated for something, it should be all the crappy movies she has made. Friends has been the only good thing in her career.
you have no idea how much i love pie. aniston, if you like pie, i love you. thanks. -M.L.
For those of you trying to claim that the term "retard" is not considered derogatory, see #4. Aniston was clearly using the word in a self-derogatory manner." No, she wasn't describing anybody else with that word, but she did use it. She has the ability to influence other people, particularly younger fans, so she should set an example. With great media power and celebrity comes great responsibility, right?
from dictionary.com:
re·tard /rɪˈtɑrd, for 1–3, 5; ˈritɑrd for 4/ Show Spelled[ri-tahrd, for 1–3, 5; ree-tahrd for 4] Show IPA
–verb (used with object)
1. to make slow; delay the development or progress of (an action, process, etc.); hinder or impede.
–verb (used without object)
2. to be delayed.
–noun
3. a slowing down, diminution, or hindrance, as in a machine.
4. Slang: Disparaging .
a. a mentally retarded person.
b. a person who is stupid, obtuse, or ineffective in some way: a hopeless social retard.
5. Automotive, Machinery . an adjustment made in the setting of the distributor of an internal-combustion engine so that the spark for ignition in each cylinder is generated later in the cycle.
Sticks and stones can break my bones but names can never hurt. Get over it RETARDS.
Now there's an "R" word good grief!! this is ridiculous soon everyone will need to speak in Letters and acronyms because you may offend people. that's' RETARDED!
As a parent of a child with special needs, I find it extremely offensive. I myself am guilty of throwing this term around when I was younger, but since I have been blessed with my beautiful daughter, I would never EVER think of it again! I would never want anyone to refer to my daughter using that term! Until you are blessed enough to know and love someome with special needs, you'll never know the true offensiveness.
Sorry about your retarded kid. What's funny is you say you used the word before you had the kid. But yet now you expect others to not say it (just like you did) before they've also had a retarded kid, unlike you. Hypocritical, don't ya think? Also, why do you find the term offensive? Just because you were told you should be offended by the word? That's my guess.
This article is retarded. RETARDED! I feel for Ms.Aniston, she has a right to say things in any which way she pleases. I'm sure she meant no harm. Its RETARDED that its even an issue, when more pressing issues are happening around us. How about the fact that half of my family is unemployed and losing their homes, how about my aunt we severe medical issues now has breast cancer and is having to pay 100,000+ dollars for treatment when she's unemployed. How about gas prices, hunger, healthcare, jobs, taxes, etc, etc, etc. RETARDED.!!! Lets keep it real and focus on other issues then this RETARDED b.s. we have to consistently be fed ..... as if we were retards.
I hope those posting online here wouldn't support the use of derogatory words by your children or grandchildren, even though you wholeheartedly promote it for yourselves. I will not allow my children to use derogatory words to describe somebody because it promotes intolerance. And it does hurt people, particularly children. My son is a special needs child but is intelligent enough to know that other children see him as different. Would the word "retard' be allowed on the playground? No. Why? Because most of us want our children to be more tolerant. Anyone in the public eye (Aniston, Limbaugh, Emmanuel) should know better and not promote the use of derogatory words by using them through the media.
I am so sick of the 'politically correct" police judging every word that is in our vocabulary and our use of it.! Since when is it so bad to use a word like 'retard' when the words of rap songs and the like are so much worse? I haven't heard of the PC police condemning those words! What ever happened to our First Amendment right to free speech? Get off that bandwagon & leave us alone!
Whoopdi freakin do
So many of you are saying "no big deal, they are just words" well this just shows the level of ignorance and intelligence is this world. We are all responsible for our words. If you have ever held your crying Mentally Handicapped Sister in your arms while neighborhood children throw rocks at her and call her the "R"word, then you might understand the sensitivity. Shame on her for this!!! No longer a fan!!
Oh pleeeeaaaasssseee. There are so many other horrible things that people do. Isn't there anyone else to rag on today? "Oooops" guess I shouldn't use the word "rag!" Women who haven't gone through menopause might be offended!!!
This is well, retarded. Not much of a "free" country when I have to check the list of unacceptable words before I open my mouth.
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Aniston is from a generation that didn't have hang-ups on "bad words" but were used loosely with no offense to the people that are in that condition.
But I realize that the times have changed, that in the USA, we've regressed to some over HYPERSENSITIVITY in our culture. You don't really see this in other countries.
I'm no big fan or follower of Aniston, and to some degree, she has to realize the kind of world we live in and the powers and or groups that try to control expression and freedom of it and speech, freedom of letting out a bad word ...in 2010... of all years.
All this Hypersensitivity is getting a bit too much, but again, its part of a new social thing in the USA where its such a mixed pot of cultures, people, etc. and all want to be "respected".
Oh for goodness sakes! Do you all want to know what the big darn deal is? The fact that she's a celebrity and is using a derogatroy word no matter the context. Honestly? We all hold celebrities to a higher standard. I don't condone using the word by any means and I do support stopping the use of it in a derogatory manner but do all of you people seriously think anyone cares that you say it all the time? No, and if we did this article would be about you. Does it really hurt to stop saying something just because someone says it offends them? No. Geez, people need to learn a little compassion for others.
I can't believe this is a news story. We are officially out of problems in this country
OK, America. Keep Your Mouth Shut!!!!!!
RETARD...RETARD...RETARD...RETARD...RETARD...LOOK I JUST USED IT FIVE TIMES. OH BOY I BETTER WATCH OUT SOMEONE IS GOING TO GET ME. PEOPLE NEED TO GROW UP
Newspeak. The principle that the dictionary shall be shortened every year and words torn away to produce a smaller vocabulary for self-expression. This discourages free thought and opinon. Doubleplusgood if you ask me!
This entire conversation is retarded.
When I was still in Grade School my band teacher, frustrated that we weren't playing our notes up to par, told us right up front, "you are not retarded".
I think she should be in prison.
Anyone who is offended by this is obviously a retard.
Oh, PA-LEASE. Give me a freakin break. Soon we are going to have only a handful of words we can safely speak without someone with no backbone getting offended!! GROW UP PEOPLE!!!
So she said retard...so what. Who really cares except the news media, and weak minded people.
This country has real issues, and saying "Retard" is big news? Move on PLEASE! Oh and speaking of retards, why do we need to hear what Palin has to say every freekin day? Argh!
What ever happened to, sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me? This whole thing is retarded!
I get very very angry every time someone on the news says they spread fire retardant on a wildfire. They have no idea what it's like to be a retarded fire. If they did, they wouldn't use that term.
Come on guys! She was just saying it, she doesn’t mean to hurt anybody. People are too sensitive about the use of some words, but actually do much more harm to people everyday. They don’t say the words that can hurt people…they hurt people and go with that!
Using the dictionary's definition of the word, this is a retarded story – the R-word is really RAIN. Ask any event planner. You don't say the R-word while planning an event.
Well, it's true. Aniston is a bit retarded. I mean, mentally disabled. Errr, handicapable....
I'm always amazed at how easily this word rolls off of peoples' tongues. Jennifer was being self-deprecating and she likened herself to behaving like disabled individuals whose quality of life is, well, NOTHING compared to hers, or for that matter, most of the insensitive idiots in this blog. Do you use that word AROUND disabled individuals? If your answer is 'no' you should think about not ever using it irregardless of their presence. Their life situation is NEVER funny. Sorry–you want to get my back up, disrespect my daughter. YOU have the intelligence to find another adjective to use, don't you?? Jennifer just lost all my respect. I thought she was a smarter and more compassionate person but apparently not. I hope none of you ever suffers brain damage. OMG...then it would be about YOU, right?
Here we go again. An organization is getting its nose all out of joint.
Please do not tell me that I can't use a word that is in the dictionary.
People are becoming too over sensitive about what a person says, especially if this person is someone famous etc.
Just suck it up and move on.
I will not be taking any oath etc. not to use any particular word spoken in the english language, thankyou.
The word RETARD is in the dictionary and has a few ways it can be used including a persons mental state.
Darren
What is wrong with people that their feelings are so easily destroyed? What happened to "be and adult and get some perspective?" Are we so hard up for some reason to be offended that we can't say particular words anymore? If we give up our right to express ourselves, using the words that society recognizes as the most descriptive words for our needs, will those words next be taken out of dictionaries? Are we that lame? That moronic? And BTW, MORONIC is a clinical term. Go ahead and get offended.
I grew up in California and it was an everyday thing to say to friend, "don't be such a retard". Though knowing it is not being sensitive to say it, there is a whole generation of adults that just might slip and use the "R" word because they grew up hearing or using it.
Give her a break, I'm sure she didn;t mean to hurt or demean anyone.
Go Jennifer, I think you're great!
Oh my god, get over it! Why the F are people so sensitive these days. She said retard. WHO CARES!!! You really think telling a retard they are handi-capable makes them less retarded? Jesus people.
This is amazing. Let's all just back away from this one and go one with our lives.
Dear God, are we going to get to the point in this country where we have to watch each word we use for fear of offending someone? We really need to get a grip.
I can't believe that she was so retarded to say retard on national TV. I still like her though.
I'm not upset by what Jennifer said, or what Dr. Laura said, and my opinion should count twice!
There is nothing wrong with that word. As a student in the second grade we shared a classroom with a boy whose mother was drunk when she was pregnant with him. We were told by the teachers he was retarded, his mother said he was retarded, and yes, he was retarded. He was a slow learner. Is it so bad to use a word that we were told was fine one day but told later in our lives is taboo? We need to grow thick skin if we are to survive as a nation. When did we decide to become so sensitive? Freedom of speech is slowly being taken away from us. Look what happened to our right to privacy.
Oh My God – with all the neurosurgeons posting here why do I even vote for they cancel them out! Listen to Dr Laura's point on the first amendment as why she's going off the air – does one has to worry over words used because they have celebrity? People dont have to like what someone says but that's life, grow a spine and get over it! We live in a candy a$$ society where everyone needs to be special. Cut me a friggin break, kindergarten graduation, elementary graduation – lets make everyone feel special before we go out and hug a tree. Seriously how many Retards out there were actually listening to and offended by these remarks – guessing not too many – they were too busy buying the shiny new helmets to wear on the short bus to go back to school. Oh my – I'm so sorry if I offended any of you out there – NOT!
Aren't we all getting just a little nuts about every little slip-up. Geez. Chill out all you people who have nothing better to do than to analyze every word out of a persons mouth. We all have our day.
y'all need to GROW UP.
Wish somebody had told the Rutgers women basketball players that
This story is retarded.
who cares ...hello...SHE'S AN ACTRESS!!!
ITT: retards getting mad about some retard saying retard
STFU U RETARD
At what point will there be no words to speak? Are we a nation of free speech? When will we get Americaback?
This article is so gay. sorry if i offend anyone.
I think the fact that this is "Big Breaking News" is retarded
This controversy is retarded. That is what is retarded. People always crying about what others say, not what they do is retarded . Relying on celebrities as role models simply because they are on TV is retarded. Allowing someone you don't even know to affect you with their words is retarded.
I am not offended by the "R-word" (RETARD), but just so you know, the new "politically correct" term for r-tards such as myself is "Differently Abled". Just call us DAs LOL! Seriously though. It's a word that has different meanings depending on the context. It doesn't offend me or any of my "Differently Abled" friends so why in the world should it bother those who are close to us?
This whole thread is retarded!
Is America becoming a bunch of hypersensitive exaggeratedly politically correct herd animals?
C’mon let’s get an f’ing spine!
While yes, the R-word is just a word, one that I too have been guilty of using many times, but the point that the Special Olympics is trying to make is that while it is "just a word" to some, that word can be the most hurtful to people that have any type of disability. And until the day that your child comes home from school with eyes that are red from crying, because they have been teased and called that r-word, you will never understand the effect that word actually has. I am a mother of two children with learning disabilities, and it is not easy for them to develop a "thick skin" and shrug it off as "just a word" As their mother I want to do everything in power to keep them from getting hurt, and by educating people about how cruel some words can be, I hope that it will make a difference in one persons life.
Waiting for Obama to chime in on his take of the situation. Does he think she acted "stupidly"? This is right up his alley – it has nothing to do with what he should be focusing on.
The people in the press are the Retards for running this crap as "newsworthy". Retards.
Bunch of Retards!!!!
Look she used the word "retard" which means slow down delay. Now if she would have said retarded then I can see this being a big deal!! Retarded means slow in development. She never said it like that!
I understand that, yes people are being a little over reactting but still I think most of you guys don't get it. The reason some of us are a little upset is because the use of the term (Retarded) is overused and very rude. It hurts people. What if I went up to you and started going off about how you were retarded and I was a complete stranger. The problem is is that most people use it to get attention..or in this case more attention Jen wanted someone to go over to her and say.. "oh Aniston you are not retarded, your wonderful" But she ended up offending people.
How freaking stupid. Seriously, people have lost it...I think they're all retards...
Who cares. Our media tries so very hard to sensationalize everything. Jennifer Aniston is an actress. I'm sure she regrets her word choice. With everything that is going on in the world, this is news? Give me a break. It is so hard to find anything interesting to read or watch on tv these days.
Dee Dee Dee
You know what's funny.. when most people use the term "retard" they're not referring to people with mental handicaps. They're nearly always talking about a friend of theirs who is flailing around or otherwise acting like an idiot.
To be honest, I can't remember one incident where someone said "What a retard" and was looking to make a joke about people with mental handicaps. I've never once heard someone look at a mentally handicapped person and say "Wow, look at that retard." In my opinion, anymore, it's just a term for acting stupid... and no one but the Special Olympics seems to try SO HARD to keep that term as an offensive word for the mentally disabled.
I thought the R-word was "Racist". That's what I hear about 500000 times a day.
I think that it's fine that she used it in this instance. She wasn't referring to a person with special needs. Those involved with the special olympics and special education issues object to 'retard' because it now has the connotation of 'stupid'; this is exactly how Anniston was using it, to refer to herself as acting stupidly. Obviously she wasn't saying that she was acting like someone with Down's Syndrome, or autism; that would make no sense. So, if the special needs community feels that that word does indeed mean 'idiot', then they have nothing to be upset about, because her use was correct. Unarguably, she could have chosen a different word and avoided the stir, but still, it's silly.
You are all F-tards!
This whole thing is just retarded.
Okay so I get it people slip. But as someone whohas spent the last 30 years working with people who are developmentally disabled I know first hand what it is like to see the look of hurt on someones face when they are called retard when in fact they are "retarded". I hope that many of the posters above never have a child with a disability only to eat their own words. Its not about policing what people say or being politically correct – its a hurtful word to many. With the increasing rates of Autism in this country it is more thank likely that one of the poeople here who thinks that "retard" is not a big deal will likely have a child with Autism. Jen just needs to say sorry and move on. The rest of you _ would it be so difficult to try not to use that word?
NEWS FLASH!! JENNIFER ANISTON IS NOT SMART! UPDATE AT 11!!
Come on retards, get over it. Give me a break.
who gives a sh**
This story is retarded. Who cares?
The real story here is how hateful and divided Americans have become. We unfortunately live in a time of Palin-isms where hate speech in the US is commonplace in politics and every day life. Americans are hated world wide for their lack of compassion, empathy, and the inability to understand others not like themselves. I challenge all of you to travel and hear what people think of you as an American, it is not pretty.
Show some respect, compassion, and empathy for others not like you.
Whether it is race, disability, religion, err on the side of compassion and understanding. If you find that you do not understand an issue then study it. Reading my fellow Americans responding to this blog saddens me. I live in a foreign country and am constantly trying to repair and explain that Americans are not bad people. When you rant like uneducated children and show the world that you are out of touch with sensitivity, civility, and reality you leave me with nothing to work with. Sad indeed, I am embarrassed for you and you should be to.
Jen, Thank you for your intelligent post. If more people were as considerate as you maybe our country wouldn't be such a cesspool of inverted thinking and prejudice based social interactions. There is still hope, but at times it seems to be fading.
Has anyone seen Glee? They have a woman with Down Dyndrome on the show and her interaction with the character Sue is so heartwarming. It just goes to show that we can learn about living in the heart with pure love from those who are not corrupted by the runaway mind or the runaway mouth. Aniston made a mistake. We all do but she needs to think before she speaks!
Good grief! People should just get over it! Why have we become so sensitive to these words that some people take them out of context and demonize a person for simply uttering the words. This is Censorship! The last I checked, we are supposed to have freedom of speech in the USA!!
I call my kids Retard when they act stupid, it motivates them not to. Retard Retard Retard, big deal, its just a word, people need to get a life.
Holy hell, I'm glad she didn't use the "N" word, or else we'd have to run her out of the film industry.
I'm sorry, but some people are retarded. Retardation is a clinical term. Retarded is a clinical term. Retard is a clinical term. This is a TOTALLY ridiculous controversy. Someone referring to themselves as a "retard" does NOT in any way, shape or from automatically cast aspersions on retards.
Backlash brewing? I don't see any backlash except that constructed by the media outlets trying to invent a conflict.
And seriously, "the R-word" is more offensive than retard.
This whole "forbidden word" crap has gone entirely too far. Next thing you won't be able to say your white dress is ugly because I'm white and I might be offended because you think I'm ugly too. What a bunch of idiots. It only makes me more inclined to say whatthehellever I please. Call me anything you want. I really don't give a d*&n. If it's true, it's true. If it's not, it's not.
This is retarded.
Please tell me all of you people who are saying that her comments were not bad....did you feel the same way about Dr. Laura? Isn't degrading retarded children just as bad as giving a black person a horrible label? My thought is that she will get a walk for her poor misguided "mistake" and not be crucified like Dr. Laura.
Hi Cathy,
I am white and my co-worker is black. Yesterday we listened to the Dr. Laura tape and neither one of us was offended because she wasn't calling anyone a N****R, she was using the word to make a point. (A*d I only S***** out the word because using the N word is against CNN policy)
aren't people always telling blacks to not be so sensitive? how is this any different?
I'm tired of all the backlash where every word spoken is scrutinized and torn down until someone thinks they have a newsworthy story. Apparently most people have WAY too much time on their hands (including me, because I read the article)!!
I mean really, are there not more pressing matters. What ever happen to sticks and stones? Have we reached a point where we hang on every word waiting to be offended? I wonder sometimes if people just like to be offended so they can try to make the other person grovel for forgiveness. It was an off color comment but, WHO CARES!
Give freakin people a break. I mean she does a lot of good work and she is being persecuted because she said "retard"? I mean is this the new Nword? Which is stupid too. I could care less what people call me because I just consider the source.
No I am not always aware of what offends everyone, but who can do that? People are so easily offended, thin skinned, and looking for reasons to be upset that it is difficult not to offend people anymore. It isn't like she is the President who said it. She is just a person like we all are, fallible and not perfect. No one is!
Well there was this one guy....
Retard is a medical term much like obese until we eliminate every medical term from our vocabulary retard stays.
Ok, let me get this striaght, I cant say the R word the N word the F word the P word the k word the D word the LMNOP word, the W word the V word. Not many letter left. I'm sticking with Hebrew – they got their own fresh alphabet that aint screwed up by the political correctness pirates! Dont people know its not the word but the intent! We are so going down for being stupid. Can I say that or does it offend the Stupid People League?
Well, as long as it's not the N word, she'll be fine....
Lighten up and Get over it people- stop being so PC, you make me sick with all this over-sensitivty! GO JEN GO!
I'm going to exercise my 1st Amendment right: This whole issue is retarded.
All of you who are claiming "get over it!" are at the same time crying foul over a mosque being built near Ground Zero and claiming how insentive it is to people who lost friends or family there. HYPOCRITES!
Yes, we may be too PC about some things but as a human being with compassion for others, if someone were to tell me my words or actions hurt them, I stop doing/using them.
The majority of the comments out there show me why America is getting dumber and dumber and lags way down behind other countires in I.Q. tests despite the fact that we have the largest economy and "are #1" (yeah, right). Look at the names you use: "Fifi", "B-Dog", "Mojo" - really?!)
"Youth ages, immaturity is outgrown, ignorance can be educated, drunkenness sobered, but stupid lasts forever. "
Actually Cara, I think protesting the Mosque is stupid, just like protesting a church or a temple would be stupid. To judge a group by the evil extremists is a dumb thing to do. So because some EXTREME PSYCHOPATHIC Muslims did something super evil we shouldn't allow the peaceful kind to worship near ground zero? That's dumb.
"Yes, we may be too PC about some things but as a human being with compassion for others, if someone were to tell me my words or actions hurt them, I stop doing/using them." <– Cara, so what if I told you that you driving your driving your minivan or whatever you drive really hurt me because you are ohhh keeping our nation dependent on oil, would you stop driving? Or if I told you that your long hair upsets me because it reminds me of my grandmother who passed away, would you keep your hair up on the chance that we might run into each other? Exactly. So you live your life, and I'll live mine and if something offends you, GET OVER IT!
For the record, America isn't getting dumber and dumber... AMERICANS might be though.
The people who make a big deal about this are the true retards.
Welcome to the age of hyper sensetivity and political correctness. It's a joke how people think we shouldn't say certain words cause it may hurt someones feelings and then we need a group to come out and defend them. Stop taking things so personally and get over it. This is just the beginning where the speech police start banning words that they deem inappropriate. ITS JUST A WORD so go obsess on something else.
The fact that the Special Olympics feels Jennifer Aniston is influential on society is retarded.
This story is so retarded. Who cares? De-de-de!
the big question is who is worse–people who use the R-word, or the ultra-politically-correct? In my opinion, it's the latter who are bigger A-words.
How many people in this world say that world, ummm alot, for them to make a mountain out of a mole hill is very RETARDED!!! She wasn't even using it in that way!!!! SO GET OVER IT!!!!! People make up stupid crap to try and pick on celebritys, whoopee if she said it.
Clearly we need to resort to a system of nods instead of speaking because heaven forbid someone get offended!!!!!!!
Hey B-Dog! You're a retard!
Now even though I don't mean this (as their comment was my favorite) I am curious – have I offended B-Dog or someone who knows a retarded person (perhaps one who looks very sweet when they pick flowers and smell the wrong end!)
Yes... I'm VERY offended lol
iM FROM THE 60s AND THINK THIS IS retarded oops I mean who are these retards complaining ? oops I hope she dosen't blink an eye over this retarded experience. oops I will stop saying this . What a bunch of dunces and morons.
What a joke, Special Olympics has a chip on its shoulder. They made up an issue out of nothing, like they are the censor police. Why is it not okay to use retard but okay to use every other synonym? It's dumb. It's stupid. It's retarded.
The "R Word"... Seriously????
What a retarded article.
I HAV IT! YOU MAKE VER Y ANGER! DONT MAKE FUN OFF ME OR I GET SADN! GO BISCUIT!!
My God people – I'm sure she didn't mean it in a malicious way...PLEASE move on....has there been nothing you have said that may have slipped out? Only difference is, you are not under constant scrutiny like Jennifer is...I completely respect this woman – what a life she has led and still manages a smile...
By definition, a retard is a person who is stupid, obtuse, or ineffective in some way.
So, in the context of her answer in the interview, Jennifer Aniston was actually using
the word correctly, mocking herself for her unimportant life. (Applause)
So, any person raising a stink over this is, in fact, a retard.
Got to be kidding me... This is retarded.
Get over it. Its a word!!! If she called someone else a retard fine, but really?? In the context it was used its so ridiculous that this is an issue AT ALL!
The only group labeled by, yet not offended by the word "retard" are people who are retarded. They don't know what it means, and I am pretty sure they don't care.
I think it is funny that we want to use bigger words to label them. Try explaining to a retard what "mentally challenged", or "special needs child" means. Of course, to do that you would have to tear them away from their Duplo blocks and Sesame street.
If you are offended by this, I suggest you take a lesson from the retards. Live one day at a time, and stick to the things you like to do and understand well. Put the cross you are trying to carry down, because after-all, much like a retard trying to do calculus, your effort is cute but you are in way over your head. /sarcasm
This whole story is retarded.
She called herself a "retard." What is the problem?
Ya bunch of retards!
In the grand scheme of things what she said was no big deal. UGH, GROW UP AMERICA! We used to be a country of tough, thick skinned individuals. Now we're a bored and decadent nation of whiners looking for an excuse to complain and create drama over nothing.
I find myself more, and more, and more ashamed to call myself an American everyday....
And we should also ban the word "intelligent." After all intelligence only has meaning in terms of concepts like ignorant, and stupid. Indeed, let's bar all words so that no one will ever be offended again. Then we can communicate like most animals do – by signs. Of course, someone is liable to find offense somewhere in an unguarded facial expression.
I have a kid with a disability and don't appreciate the "Rword", I 'm not going to correct any of you. One day you will become disabled and slow. The young will be calling you the R-word, maybe then you will understand what I mean!
Grow a brain first, People!
DO ANY OF YOU PEOPLE HAVE JOBS? if not, get one. you all have way too much time on your hands.
what a bunch of ree-ree's
Retard is a bad word now? Cmon folks...lighten up. This country has become WAY too sensitive. Then again, if the people who lived in this country were tougher we wouldn't be in all the problems we have now.
oh no... words... the true enemy. Recall the troops and forget this Al-Qaeda thing! We need to forget about immigration law and healthcare. We need to focus and work on persecuting someone because they said.... a word!!!!
Jen is decent looking so its ok. If a fat chick said it that wouldnt be cool.
killretards.com
Hey Jenn, 'not cool'.
People will cry about everything. Bless their hearts. Reminds of the new commercial...."Maybe we need to take you to Mamby-Pamby and get you some self confidence!! You Jack-wagon!!
MOVE ALONG LOSERS! WHO CARES
She has nothing to apologize for. It is a perfectly acceptable word. Just because some organization wants to "redefine" its meaning does NOT suddenly make it be redefined. If someone is actually intending to attack or mock mentally handicapped people, that is unacceptable regardless of whether they say "retard" or "retarded". Its the INTENT that matters. Let's stop letting "vocabulary police" curtail our freedom of speech. Words are simply words!
The only retards are the ones who try to make an issue out of the word "retard."
Political correctness has gone overboard. I'm hoping for a backlash that will straighten this all out. Jennifer isn't attacking challenged people, she grew up like the rest of us using this word as a generally descriptive word for someone that does goofy stuff. If it's obvious that she's not putting down this group or people, give her a break. This shouldn't even be a news story.
The word "retard" is in fact in the Webster dictionary "kept back, hinder". Now what? Rewrite the Dictionary??
I guess the Special Olympics people should have a beef with Airbus (the airplane manufacturer). On an Airbus, upon landing, the autopilot voice tells the pilots to "Retard, retard, retard". This means simply that the pilots must manually close the throttles and apply reverse thrust.
Maybe they will have Airbus issue a fix to change the wording to something more 'appropriate'.
Why is it that some people believe that if you change the name of something that it somehow changes what it is? If someone is referred to as retarded, mentally challenged, slow, special, etc. it still doesn’t change what they are.
This is so retarded.
have you seen my baseball?
I'm glad that I am just little ol' me so that every single word I ever say won't be criticized by 'scandal crazy' media!!!!
Are you kidding me? This is what all the hoopla is about she said retarded? This PC crap has got to end. Anything anybody says can or could be hurtful to others feelings and that's what this all boils down to is feeling. My god people is everyone out to which-hunt anybody that has and sort of star power today? We are becoming a country full of pantie-wastes! A bunch of little school girls with nothing better to do than bash someone over the use of a silly word.
Jen you're still my huckleberry! You and Kate Hudson are my dream women!
I believe there are certain contexts for using the "R WORD." One example of an appropriate use of the word is "The media are a bunch of retards that make issues out of arbitrary crap."
We, as a nation, have become far too sensitive. Everyone has to have something to be offended by or they feel they aren't being Americans. I'm sick of words being referred to as "r" word and "n" word. What are we all a bunch of ear muff 4 years olds nowadays?
I have a sister who is retarded (apparently, now she's mentally challenged until that becomes offensive). I grew up with the word and never thought it offensive, at all – even when used casually (we never called Kathy a "retard" and don't feel the need to – actually I think she's pretty smart). Now, if you call my sister a "retard" in a disrespectful manner, I'm going to let you know what I think of you.
If someone called someone else a "retard," it had nothing to do with my sister – who is a gift to our family – I'd say she's the sweetest girl in the world but she's got a temper. I just never equated it with my sister's condition. It's only my opinion and my experience but I just don't think Jennifer meant any disrespect or harm. Move on.
the word llama offends me. could we please stop using it in society?
I am confused....when did retard become non PC or for that matter slang or a slur?
For crying out loud the R word, The N word, The C word, The B word. Aan't we all just ignore it? We've become a country of whining babies.
I like retards. They are fun to play with easy to trick. Also I think Jenn A is very hot looking. Admire the beauty.
I don't use the word retard. I usually use the word Mongoloid. It sounds funny to me for some reason. Like "Jack! you just spilled coffee on me! You mongoloid!"__
I have to wonder how many people with mental retadation would have even known about this mole hill if the media and a few overly sensitive types hadn't turned it into a mountain.
R is for R-tard
Who cares? Retards won't even notice.
What the heck is the R-word?
This article makes no sense to me.
Anyway, Jennifer Aniston is an imbecile, an idiot-a moron.
you're all a bunch of retards (the way it was pronounced in the movie the hangover)
1) a vast majority of this nation's leaders are retards 2) an even larger percentage of those who "report" the news are retards 3) about the same percentage of the people I know are retards and I spend my fair share of time acting retarded. Get the heck over it. Some word will always remain in the vocabulary to describe acting less than intellectual, and someone will object to that one too.....why is retarded not ok, but saying stupid is? How about dumb? How about slow? When someone cuts me off I am not going to call them a "f'n intellecually challenged individual" I am going to call them a "f'n retard" or worse....I say again, get over it
I like tards – they are fun to play with. Very easy to trick and hide from. I also think jennifer A is very hot looking. So everyone just calm down and admire the beauty.
Stigmatizing a celebrity to make up a news story is so transparent. They must think we're a bunch of retards.
The First Amendment says she can say whatever she wants. As Americans we have the right to express our dissaproval (if we dissaprove) through our wallets. Offended? Don't see her movies. I won't see this one anyway, because I think she's a pretty lousy actress.
Why is it okay for the younth and some adults in America to run around an call everything "GAY"! Like that blouse is so "GAY and He/she/it is "GAY". Are you all say that it's fabulous and fantastic or are you saying it like that "sucks", He/she/it's terrible! Pull it together and put away the video games and become an actual memeber of the living society!
Funniest comments ever.
Retard retard retard!!! So tired of this everything so politically correct, big f'in deal she said RETARD get over it!
Stop being so sensitive people. She meant no harm in her use of the word. She was being self deprecating and wasn't targeting anyone.
Society is just way too darn sensitive. Give me an f'n break people. Sick of everyone crying about a word being used cuz "oh, you just hurt my feelings now I have to sue you and make you an example!". RETARD-it's in the fricken dictionary, why can't one use it, especially on oneself?
This story is retarded, why is it even news?
This whole PC crap has got to go!! I'm 44 and my cousin who is 1 year younger than me is retarded, not mentally disabled. Oh, we can't use that label, it's hurtful, my ass. That is how this whole, "I'm ____-American" garbage started. Look up the definition of retarded in any dictonary. Should, slow, doe-eyed be dissallowed also?? People, get a clue, it's life and the sooner you get used to it, the better.
This is really insaine. The "R" word? It's time for the P.C. culture to go away.
You know what... at the end of the day, a word is just a word and I agree that intent behind that word is the issue.
The problem is that the vast majority here don't seem to see what's wrong here. That the casual use of a word, that has hurtful or derogatory meaning... to any group... especially when that derogatory term characterizes that group into a stereotyped box claiming "that's the way they are"... is wrong.
It is completely different when someone uses to refer to their own group. Which frequently comes up in comedy. Most people won't look strange at Chris Rock or Paul Mooney use the n-word, if Woody Allen or Jerry Seinfeld are self depricating about being jewish or if Josh Blue or Christopher "Steady Eddy" Widdows use hateful words that were thrown at them growing up with cerebral palsy.
Why is it ok? Because if you're in that group others are hurling that word at... you've live in that life.... so IF YOU CHOSE to take hate speech... which is exactly what it is... and turn it back on people and take the power away from it by using it yourself... You've earned it... you're in that group and it's your right.
My sister in-law was normal in the womb and got caught in the birth canal for 48 hours with a constant reduction of oxygen. She was a little slow at first then had a seizure in the night when she was five. When her parents found her she was blue and almost died. She never got any older mentally and has been like a 5 year old ever since. She grew up in the 70's when kids would throw rocks at her and call her the r-word. It meant she was less than others... not normal... not a person.
It's like a slap in her face when she hears it even today... and it's a slap in the face to her mother and her sisters when they have to hear it. Even in casual conversation....
The piont at the end of the day is how are you meaning that word?
you're being such an n-word – you mean negative stereotypes towards black people... right?
you're being such a f_g – you mean negative stereotypes towards gay people right like being feminine... right?
you're being such a j_w – you mean negative stereotypes towards jewish people, usually in regard to money... right?
So when someon says you're being such a r-word – you mean stupid right... but towards what end... so stupid you're like someone with the actual term ... mental retardation, or mentally challenged... or developmentally disabled.
Your attempt to sound hip or cool... just slapped someone in the face.
One day... I hope... these words will be like words from hundreds of years ago... that now mean nothing are are just something brought up in linguistics classes... and that they'll have no power.
You say it's too far... we're too sensitive... where does it end. Well maybe when the words are just words... and when they don't refer to a slang terms... that put people in boxes and characterized them as less than a person.
but maybe I'm just being a f_g for being sensitive to my fellow man... or an n-word for trying to relate to the plight of others... or an r-word for thinking it would make any difference to those of you who have no willingness to open your eyes.
That's just my penny times 2
JimmyNice
Who cares!? I guarantee EVERYONE who is offended uses words they would normally gripe about in private or w/ their friends. Get over it. America has gone SOFT. SOFT I TELL YOU.
Oh brother. People need to get a life. Too many people are so overly sensitive that they go through life miserable because they are offended at the drop of a hat.
I say, "Bravo Jen!"
Retard as a verb means to slow down. Retard as she used it referred to a person who is socially inept. She was not referring to the people with mental disabilities. But even if she did call a retard a retard why is that bad? A retard wouldn't even know it was an insult they are simpletons by definition. How can it be hurtful if it's true and they are ignorant and unfazed?
Do all of you throw the N-word around like you do the R-word? Both are derogatory, so why the double standard?
What I find most objectionable is the X-word thing; R-word, N-word... If you exist at that level of political correctness, you know what they mean. If not, it may confuse you as to which word they really mean. It is as if the actual saying or writing of the original word is what is offensive. In truth, the manner in which any word is used can be offensive. Words themselves are not. Even the N-word... Do you know who I hear use that one most frequently? The very people that are supposed to be so offended by it that polite society has banished it to a single letter... no that it really fools anyone.
I'm such a tard for reading these posts, on NO! the t-word
I work for a company that represents people with disabilities. Retard, really isnt a great word, but everyone and there mother uses it. Plus, in the context it is used about 99.9% of the time, it has no real berring on someone with a DD, and when you say it, are you really thinking about some one with a DD?? How about if she said "Jesus Christ", well is that okay! Come on, words are words, we do need to toughen up beyond words!
So do we now have to stop using the word "downer?" Is it going to offend someone who thinks we should be more sensitive to people with Down Syndrome?
I grew up with a brother defined by the school system as 'educable trainable mentally retarded.' He is bright, very funny, a hard worker, and loved by everyone who knows him, so I understand the sensitivity. I do not, however, believe in condemnation for someone calling themselves a name, especially as it slipped out and was not intended to harm. People need to grow up.
This is retarded! Who cares, who doesn't say something is retarded! Get on her when she says “I play dress-up. I do it for a living, like a mentally disable person”. Regis sucks anyways!
i think it's time people stopped to re-think about how words can hurt. IF A PERSON FINDS IT REALLY NECESSARY TO POLLUTE THE EAR WAVES WITH NEGATIVE DISCRIMINATORY AUDIO, GO AT IT, I UNDERSTAND YOU'RE RETARDED YOURSELF. but, when the next crazed kid snaps at school, and starts shooting everybody.............uh huh, are we communicating yet? Like my Uncle Paulie says, "Be Nice"....(or else!)
BREAKING NEWS!! This release, issued jointly by Aniston and her publicist is about to hit newsdesks around the country:
"During a recent interview aired on 'Live! With Regis and Kelly' I made an unfortunate semantic choice when referring to myself in a self-deprecating manner. My casual, unplanned use of the R-word was not intended in any way to make fun of individuals with learning or developmental disabilities. Although the word was used as slang, in jest in an off-the-cuff remark, it was a thoughtless decision for which I am truly sorry. I hope that someday, somehow to be able to help rebuild the lives I've shattered.
Truth is, I love retards. Some of my best friends and former co-workers (Return my calls, Schwimmer!) are retards. In the harsh light of day cast by this controversy, I feel this is a good time to reveal the fact that I am in fact repelled by rocket scientists, brain surgeons and computer programmers, but am forcefully attracted to retards, idiots, morons, and f***wads of all shapes and sizes without respect to nationality or creed. I eat 'em up. I can't get enough of the little D-words. I used to imagine Forrest Gump when I was intimate with Brad.
I never said I was a perfect person. Give me a little credit, will you? Credit for being someone who tried . . to be the best interview she could be. I am guilty . . guilty of love, in the first degree!
Once again, I truly apologize for the pain, suffering, and any retard riots my actions may have caused. I can do better. I will do better. And make sure to check out my new comedy, 'The Switch,' opening this weekend at a theter near you!"
Love, Jen
I hate that the PC Police are allowed to take words away from us because someone has used that word in the pjorative.
There is nothing so demoralizing as having our rich vocabulary stripped from us by people who think they know what is best for society. This is what Big Brother did in George Orewell's 1984
Retard....Wow, who's to say she wasn't talking about the idiot in charge of the US??
I wonder how many of the people that are so outraged over this actually do anything to help the mentally disabled population. 9 times out of 10 people are just complaining to hear themselves speak.
If the country were in the midst of a depression, if hurricane katrina were pounding the gulf coast, if san francisco fell into the pacific ocean, if BP blew up the world – no one would give a rat's ass about jennifer anniston using the retarded word. Those who complain about such things really need to get a life...and thank their god for how good they really have it.
okay, here's the deal – people who are uneducated enough to use the word Retard to refer to a mentally handicapped (or is it mentally challenged now?) person are going to continue to use the word in that context no matter what Jennifer Aniston or the Special Olympics say....those of us who use the more politically correct terms are not going to be drawn into using the politically incorrect term just because Ms. Aniston let it slip out on an interview...everybody should really take a chill pill on this stuff
into the abyss go the fools of earth. for she is not guilty of hatred, but mistake. should she be eaten by the fires of the universe? no. she is not evil. she is human. forgive. to be pompous is too a form of ignorance, and i shall smite thee. damn apes!
This article is retarded!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
People are so easily offended these days. "Oh my GOSH, she used a word that offended me! Wahhhhhh" Shut up you bunch of whiny, nothing-better-to-do-than-get-offended cry babies.
That is retarded.
Bunch of retards on this board!
RETARD, RETARD, RETARD!!!! Give me a break!! I can't believe some people are so sensitive over something like that. Jennifer Aniston is a wonderful person and doesn't deserve this.
Hey you bunch of morons,pretty soon the whole alfabet will be used up with N,R,ect words.
Wow...this story is completely retarded.
????? Whats next ???? Oh he said the X-word... The word she said is retard. She was not using it in malice or to degrade anyone in anger. Soon dummy or dope or twit will be outlawed. Time to move on to the next story....
One of my co-workers today said the recession could continue to retard our company's sales. Should he go to jail or just get fired?
Derp
So retarded! Guess what...one of the definitions of retard when used as a noun is "a person who is stupid, obtuse, or ineffective in some way: a hopeless social retard."
So why are we all upset that she defined herself properly?
she should have said RA-tard
To all the people who think it's OK to use the word retard, please spend a day at a Special Olympics event. You will never use the word again unless you're a complete "a**hole".
hello...that's is exactly what the word means. I'll use it until the definition changes.
Websters New Collegiate Dictionary: Slang for : A stupid or foolish person. Looks like the word can be used in more than one context. I think Jennifer meant to use it in this context. These sensitive folks took it out of context.
Retard – as in this argument is retarded.
Retard.
Lincoln said, paraphrased- "It is far better to keep your mouth shut than to talk and remove any doubt about your ignorance."
If my son was born with a mental disabilty, I would try to teach him that the world can be cruel and some people may use words that are unkind. But go forward and be strong. This campaign is counter-productive. Sticks and stones may break my bones, but names will never hurt me.
When will the campaign to eliminate the word "lame" from our vocabulary start? Doesn't that offend people who are disabled too.
Give me a break. Political correctness goes too far in this area!
What is a retard? Someone suffering from mental retardation (slower than normal growth in the their mental faculties). The word should be no more offensive than parapalegic...it is simply a descriptive term (although generally used pejoratively).
She was simple making as comment which compared her, as a "normal" person in terms of intellectual development, to someone who is mentally handicapped. A humorous, self=deprecating comment which has been blown far out of proportion.
I will say the R-word.... and not care.. Retard! there i said it... do something about it.
What's the problem? Last I heard the word "special" is now used to descroibe the developmentally challenged. She used the word in context and with proper meaning.
–verb (used with object)
1. to make slow; delay the development or progress of (an action, process, etc.); hinder or impede.
–verb (used without object)
2. to be delayed.
–noun
3. a slowing down, diminution, or hindrance, as in a machine.
4. Slang: Disparaging .
a. a mentally retarded person.
b. a person who is stupid, obtuse, or ineffective in some way: a hopeless social retard.
5. Automotive, Machinery . an adjustment made in the setting of the distributor of an internal-combustion engine so that the spark for ignition in each cylinder is generated later in the cycle.
Give me a break...don't we have other issues to deal with these days? How about the 'U' word...unemployment or the other white meat 'F' word foreclosure! Do people sit around with pen in hand and write down every offensive word spoken on TV. Let's breakdown some off those rap songs we hear all the time! Jennifer Aniston should tell her critics to kiss her 'A' word!
"perpetuates painful stereotypes"
What, like *being retarded*?
Just because the usage of the R word is part of our society does not make it right. Everyone that thinks that obviously does not have someone with mental disabilities in their life. Has this been blown out of proportion? Probably, but that is not the point. The point is the word is very hurtful to a large segment of the population because of the hurtful manner in which the word can be and is used. The usage of the word portrays the user as an ignorant, uneducated human being. If you don't care about hurting other people at least care about making yourself out to be a classy person and find a different adjective.
This whole situation and the fact that this is considered "news" is retarded.
The controversy over this is RETARDED.
Times have changed, and the R-word meaning has been reclaimed to mean dufus or idiot. At the utterance of the word it doesn't bring to mind an mentally impaired person. Much in the same way gay no longer means happy and carefree.
are you people seriously arguing over this on a blog? some people will be insulted about anything, no matter what. have we forgot about the all the REAL issues in the world?
"The R Word"???? Are you freakin' KIDDING ME? We are a nation of hypersensitive half-wits. (Better?)
The fact that this is an issue or people are upset is RETARDED! What’s next, people with low IQ’s getting upset about folks calling themselves or others dumb?
She actually used the word in it's correct form.
From Merriam-Webster Dictionary: "retarded – slow or limited in intellectual or EMOTIONAL development or academic progress."
Since she said, “I play dress-up. I do it for a living, like a retard.”
Like a retard in this case would be someone with slow or limited EMOTIONAL development. Cause she still plays "dress up". She wins.
I'm just thinking that all the guys on here who see no big deal in using the word are the same idiots in high school who made fun of the handicapped kids. I agree that it's getting a bit tricky to know what words to use but "retard" is a word that is easily avoidable and worth the effort to do so. My brother was called that to his face for most of his life. And I'm sure people say it behind his back even more. I personally hope that all the kids that did it will lose their job, their house, their family and end up on the street and show up too late to get any free food at the soup line. I just can't stand you. Now if you really use the word innocently, I only have a request to ask, don't. But if you do it's your choice as long as you show empathy for those kids. Most of them know they're different and wish they weren't. Horrible to witness the numbere of punks out there.
By definition, a person who is a Retard is Retarded. The definition of retard is "to make slow; delay the development or progress of (an action, process, etc.); hinder or impede.' So in all fairness, a person with who is "mentally or developmentally challenged, ie. slowed or delayed in development, is in fact, a RETARD. Also, by definition, when used as a NOUN in the derrogatory sense, it is defined as "a person who is stupid, obtuse, or ineffective in some way: ie 'a hopeless social retard.'" Therefore only if it is used in a derrogatory manner can it be considered offensive. Jennifer Aniston, though quite possibly may be a retard in the derrogatory use of the word, was not being derrogatroy in nature. So, she's good.
I love American media. Stonings in Afghanistan, Iran building up their Nukes, Britain lays off everyone at RBS in Ireland, N. Korea fuids with S. Korea over artillery barrage, Pakistan under water....and what does CNN have on the front page...Jennifer Aniston saying 'Retard'.
I like to visit CNN to gate the latest on Hollywood gossip...they should not label themselves a news source...they're pretty much like TMZ.
OMG this is so stupid...I'm pretty sure that when she used "the R word" (lmao) she wasn't referring to the poor mentally challenged people. The fact is that retard is an actual word and not just restricted to the term 'mentally retarded' that so many people connect it to. Now, if she were to put her arm up to her chest and make a 'retard' face as she said it...then maybe I could see what all the hooplah is about.
This is ridiculous. The "R-Word", as it is termed, is being stigmatized like the N-Word. They are nothing alike. Retard, as a word, has many other definitions and can be used in a variety of ways to describe anything that is slow or underdeveloped. The N-Word is just derogatory and has no other use but to be derogatory. But to say that I can never use the word Retard again is myopic and only displays that our society has an incredibly small vocabulary and has no idea how to use words.
This story is RETARDED. There I said it.
This is not news, it is retarded
I've worked with mentally retarded people and their level of kindness, lovingness, fairness, honesty, their humanity, surpasses many, many "normal" people's.
To use the word "retard" casually is insulting and ignorant. To say that "it's just a word" is utterly wrong...of course it's only a word, but words are the substance of ideas, and have real consequence. In this case, the use of this word is a means to dehumanize a group of people, saying that they're "less than human."
This is retarded. Everyone needs to get over themselves. Either it is a word that is proper to refer to the mentally challenged or it is not. If it is a proper way to refer to the mentally challenged, then she shouldn't use it in that way. If it is not, then what are they upset with. She didn't call anyone who has a disability retarded.
Get over it!!! It was a slip of the tongue that meant nothing. Everyone is so over-sensitive. This should not even be news.
R-word? Total surprise that it was "retard" – thought they meant "republican". I know Aniston would never stoop so low as to say that.
this whole discussion is, ret***ed. I can't believe this was even brought up.
I couldn't type retarded cause well, might offend someone. WOW
The fact that this story is wasting people's precious time is in fact....Retarded! Its a figure of speech. Words are used in many different contexts and ways. For example the use of the "N" word is acceptable among friendly conversation between African-Americans, however it is also can be used in a much more hurtful and demeaning context.
Oh no, she said that?? What will we do? How will we survive? WHO CARES!? RETARD RETARD RETARD...
Regis: Is it OK to say that word? Is it ever OK to say that word
Jen: It depends how it's said. Retarded guys talking to each other seem to think it's ok.
Kelly: But you're not a tard, they're not retarded, my husband is retarded.
Jen: Oh, I see, so a word is restricted to slow people. Got it. Can't do much about that.
Regis: I can't believe someone like you is on the TV spewing out the "retard" word, and I hope everybody heard it.
Jen: I didn't spew out the "retard" word!
Regis: You said "retard, retard, retard" and I hope everybody heard it.
Jen: Yes they did, and I'll say it again: retard, retard, retard" is what you hear on HBO.
[Crosstalk]
Jen: Why don't you let me finish a sentence? Don't take things out of context. Don't Simple Jack me, leave them in context.
OK, if it's OK to use retard liberally, whenever one pleases, then I think I should be able to say, f.a.g, d.y.k.e, k.i.k.e, s.p.i.c, n*.g.g.e.r and ANY other word I want whenever I please with NO repercussions whatsoever. Give me a break. Making fun of people with disabilities is the last frontier of accepted behaviors.
It is fast becoming popular to try and hang someone based on a passing comment and frankly, I've always found those who stir the pot to be without a spine whatsoever. They're cowardice and shifless people who bang the drum and yet offer society absolutely nothing in return. I'd just as soon like to see them all loaded on a boat and sunk deep in the gulf.
I have a sister that is mentally retarded, and I am very aware of the misuse of this word. To me it is pretty clear that Jennifer Aniston meant no harm. We are all guilty of this slip-up!
Media stigmatizing a celebrity for their own purposes is so transparent. They must think we're complete retards to fall for it again.
Oh...friggin' waaahhhhhhhhhh!! Someone's feelings are hurt. One commercial comes to mind.....you Jack Wagons!!!!
I wonder is Ms. Palin going to defend Jennifer now. People are saying they are not going to see her movie over her "free speech" rights. Isn't this the same as Dr. Laura??
She called herself, the word, not anyone else. Society has gone absolutely crazy. People can't even talk about themselves.
Come on!! Everybody uses the word retard and retarded to refer to people being silly or acting unintelligently. I'm so sick of this politically correct stuff. So what, there are people in this world who technically/clinically are retarded. It isn't necessarily being mean to them to refer to yourself in this way. Calling someone else a name to hurt them or belittle them is VERY different than calling yourself something. Hell, idiot is an actual term used to describe a mental condition like retardation at one time. Shoud we all just never say anything that could construed as derogatory to anybody ever? Lighten up retards!
retard??What was she thinking!!Mentally challenged is just so much better!!right??? uh no,it isnt- what in the hell should we call these people in americas obsessed bs political correctness then????
what is so retarded about this, is that most of these people saying they hate Aniston or that they never liked her and never will... are probably so called Christians. Who are supposed to FORGIVE those who "trespass against them"
Get over it, the word means something. Its not at all comparable to the N-word. The people who are offended are people who have retarded, I'm sorry, handicapped, oh wait that offends too, um... slow, crippled, challenged, disabled.... children and take offense for their child. As though any utterance of the word is directed at their kid. Are we going to have to stop using fat or obese, because people with overweight children take offense to the word fat.
What about all the other words that could be used.. stupid, idiot, moron, etc. Can't use those descriptive words because it offends idiots, or the parents of stupid people.
Most people use the word about non-retarded people, no adult should point to anyone with a physical or mental impairment and make fun of them. Children can be cruel, they make fun of their peers, and use ugly words. Even those of you who think their children are perfect angels, they can still be teasing kids at school. Teach your children not to make fun of people, whatever their disability or abnormalities. Perhaps they never will, but odds are, someday someone they disagree with will make an argument they dislike, and they'll say " You're retarded" or "You're an idiot" because its simpler than to refute or argue about what was said.
Our media and organizations are SO quick to jump on people when they slip up. This is NOTHING. Give her a PASS!
I mean, COME ON! Havent you ever said anything that was accidentally hurtful? Didnt you want to be forgiven?
We're talking about THIS when there's real news to talk about!
We're ALL RETARDS!
Let me get this straight: Jennifer Aniston gets criticized for using the R-word, and Dr. Laura gets criticized for using the N-word. Both critiques are fully justified, but why is there no outrage when political elites, talk show hosts and others routinely say much worse every day about Muslims? It seems like attacking Muslims is the only way to get a free pass these days. Disgusting!!!!
Yesterday I wanted to use the "M" word but found out nobody was offended so I thought about the "A" word and so on and so forth until i ran out of letters so I Have to be quite for the rest of my life. GET A LIFE PEOPLE
I cannot believe this story, The Special Olympics people issued a statement. Are you kidding me....what's next....this is unbelievable. I suspect these people that throw a hissy fit everytime somebody uses a word they don't like will try to establish the Homeland security council of "Terrorist Language". Communism anybody??? Just kidding of course....Alledgely of course.....
CNN is 'tarded.
Sniff, whaaaa, she called me a poo poo head. Whaa....... We're letting a minority effect the majority. It's so retarded!. Retard... reeeetaaaarrrrrdddd...... Just words. Deal with it.
i was born WAY too late in this world. i can't stand all this political correctness and i can't stand how thin-skinned our average citizen became. look, nobody was trying to be malicious in any way here. jenn wasn't pointing and laughing at some special Ed kids or anything like that. i for one think this whole situation is retarded.
countless americans died for our freedom of speech – the same freedom that lets all you oversensitive crybabies whine about your damaged feelings in these posts.
another point – the 'N' word and the 'R' word should not be classified in the same category. i've helped coordinate and run winter special olympics in erie, PA. i've seen and heard what ignorant people do and say to some of these kids. (and had appropriate action taken against those hurtful people) i've seen reactions to the 'R' word by special needs kids and reactions to the 'N' word by african americans. the 'R' word motivates those kids to be better and strive to overcome their adversity. in one instance, a skier had 2 runs. after his first run some punks were laughing at him because of his special needs. on his second run he shaved almost 4 seconds off his time and wound up winning the gold that day.
the 'N' word is a crutch – nothing more. i wont go into details because i dont want any racial equality activists sh!tting a brick.
bottom line – grow up america
LOL is this where we are as a society now? Or is it just the pointless media? We have actually been lowered to the point of calling it "The R-Word" ??!??! WHAT??! I don't have a problem with saying "retard" in casual light-hearted conversation. It's funny. As long as you don't descriminate against an individual or make fun of any particular individual for being mentally challenged - GET OVER IT!
why the hell are my comments not posting???????
I find the word "and" offensive.
It never ceases to amaze me what the press blows out of proportion. Paleeeeease!
As a special educator, I can tell you that many people are offended and deeply hurt by the "r" word. Until you see a young child cry because they have been repeatedly called a "retard", you cannot say people are too oversensitive. People with disabilities have been persecuted throughout history. Mandatory sterilization was performed on people with disabilties late into the 20th Century. The "R" word is a serious issue, because it demeans an entire population of people that are human beings, not a word.
Kids cry about a lot of things, but we dont make that into policy.
Mentally challenged people (aka retards) have a tough burden. But so do a lot of people. Should we outlaw the words "bald" or "ugly" or "pimple" too?
Life is hard. Stop making it harder.
Actually I'm more upset over her use of the H-word followed almost immediately by her use of the the L-word. The she has the gall to use the M-word with several instances of the O-word sprinkled throughout. W#en Wi!! thi$ &nd?
Get a life will ya! You wouldn't say sh_t if you had a mouth full! You eff'n liberals survive on self pity and couldn't make it on your own unless you could blame someone else or sue them. Pathetic!
Give me a break. So what she used the word retard.... She was referring to her actions and nothing more.. I know you have the right to point fingers at others since your perfect. But not everyone else, Jennifer no apology needed.
retarded.
the word retard is ldefined in the dictionary as being slow.
Yes, we will have to burn her for that mistake. What a bunch of hypocrites you all are. Like you have never said
anything that you regretted. Too bad these movie stars aren't perfect.
Hmmmm. Semantics are very strange in this country. Blacks can call each other N______, but anyone else doing it is asking for trouble, even if the tone was the same. Same with Jewish people, and count me in on this one. We can refer to ourselves as Jews in a friendly manner, but if a non-Jew calls us a Jew (even though we are!) it takes on a menacing, provocative tone. I think it's more about the history of persecution of the group in question. It's still them vs us.
Very well stated.
Good thing she didn't say stupid because my dumb friends and I would of been offended.
This is soooooooooooooooooo retarded!!!!!!!!
This is ridiculous... anyone offended – get over it! There was absolutely no malice intent when she said that... This entire discussion is retarded!
People....get a grip! She didn't mean anything by it. It's not like she was shouting at someone with Down's Syndrome, "Hey retard!" She just didn't think before she spoke which happens to us all. Get over it! There are more things in this world to be worried about than some stupid celebrity not watching what they say. How is this news anyway?
Who's the reatrd?
The mere fact that this is being discussed is retarded. Why are we worried about offending people that drool on themselves and can't function in normal society? They're retards. The Kennedy's had it right. A member of your family is some kind of a gimp, you send it away to live in seclusion. Do they even know what the word "retard" actually means? Can they comprehend that?
Come on! She made a poor choice in words. She did not kill someone or break up a marriage. We still have freedom of speech in this country (until the republicans are back in power). If you have never erred in judgement, you should get a talk show and help the rest of us.
Simply another example of the Pussification Of America (POA)
this whole thing is retarded... why is there not the same outrage when a rap artist uses the N-word?
I firmly believe that if you use the word you have the mentality of a 16 year old. The supporters here all seem to believe it's okay to use the word. This is an entertainment site, so I suppose the commentary makes sense.
I'm overweight but am offended when people call me "Fat". I prefer the term "Gravatationally Challanged".
How about "laterally enhanced?"
It's a good thing she didn't reference blondes....there are alot more of them that could be offended.
I have deep faith that Sarah Palin will come to Jennifer's defense as quickly as she came to Rush's.
What a bunch of retarded Re-Re's
Who cares? people say retarded all of the time! It's not like there is 400 years of racism attached to the word
People have the same right to object to the use of a word as other people have to using it. "Freedom of speech" cuts both ways, and the First Amendment never meant being able to say whatever, whenever, to whomever, without fear of consequence. People who speak in public these days need a thicker skin because of how widely and quickly their words can spread to someone may have reason to take offense. That's just life in the Internet Age.
But I do sympathize with Jennifer. That's a slip I might have made if I was famous enough for people to hang on my every word.
And who made "retard" a bad word anyway? Special interest groups. I know several retarded adults and kids. They are my friends and ARE NOT insulted when I call them retarded. Most of the ones I know and love think the the only reason they are possibly offended by it is because these groups have made it that way. Which is retarded. Literally.
Oh for the love of god... get over yourselves ... stop with the pity poor me i've been so horribly oppressed and victimized bs.... wake the eff up america this political correctness bs has gone way too far. now days everyone is offended by anything anyone says about anything. some one said a word. they didn't take a 2 x 4 and beat you with it till you were a quivering heap of flesh. YOU HAVE NOT BEEN VICTIMIZED ... GROW UP, AND MOVE ON!
This is so F'n retarded! Why is this news??? Bunch of F'n retards at CNN!!! If it's not some story about white people are all racist, is stupid crap like this. What happened to CNN???
I have a child with special needs. People make mistakes, and I think we all need to lighten up a bit. Somehow, people managed to look the other way or forgive Obama for HIS comment. The discussion is fine but keep in mind we are all humans, complete with frailties, and imperfections. We all make mistakes.
I think this P.C. stuff is starting to get a little out of hand......
The definition is "to make slower or later." Society has assigned that word to the mentally disabled. So, horror of horrors, she defined what she sometimes felt. Give her a break. I shudder to think what would happen if someone was filming or taping our every word. In the Hollyweird World, she is an honest, classy, dignified lady. Go report on the others who live for this attention.
The country is falling apart, millions of people are without jobs, Pakistan is under water and this is a top story on CNN? I have heard filling space for a 24/7 news channel but this is absurd. Obviously, I don't know Ms Aniston personally but I am sure she did not think to offend anyone on purpose. It happened, move on. Yeesh
There will never be anyone satisfied with anything. People will either A) be seriously offended over the comment, even though she MEANT NOTHING BY IT; or B) others (such as myself) think it's utterly ridiculous to blow this out of proportion. I can understand how people who deal with, love, or have anyone mentally challenged in their life will be offended because it's personal, but you need to step back and realize that this was not directed at anyone..she was making a statement and the last I checked she didn't mention any names. I believe people need to find better things to do. She's a good person, move on.
you know it is not a big issue when many people, me included, will look at the story just to find out what the 'r word' is... I think this is a case of everyone needing to get over it. She was attempting to be self disparraging and did not succeed... move on.
Honestly, just turn on TV most anytime and it is offensive. We really need to not worry what some celebraty who has no clue of reality says. It`s just a word and I`m sure all of us have used it sometime or another.Get over it.
Have you ever seen an actual MR person call another person a retard? That is funny.
I think we should give Jennifer a pass because she was referring to herself and not an individual., and besides that she is such a cute retard!
Really folks really? How retarded is the special Olympics for getting retardedly stupid over a damn word that the retard Aniston said about herself. I mean why are we all acting retarded. People have been saying retard since the short yellow bus was created ok so get over it retards!!!!!
When did we all become so politically correct and hyper-sensitive ? This isn't news and yet it's popping up on my news sites. Pure lunacy. Besides, the term retarded is a an accurate term. Developmental retardation defines the condition. C'mon, this whole thing is as silly as labeling homeless people as "residentially challenged" or the garbage man as a " sanitation engineer". I guess I should call the local catholic priests " repentent juvenile fondlers " instead of pedopliliacs. Hay Carumba.
Maybe they should ban the word from the English language and fine anyone who uses it.
The worst thing one can do is to let these celebrities talk! They are not brains, they are play actors – keep them in their place. Nothing they say is important, or to be taken seriously. News people – stop interviewing them, as they always put their foot in their mouths.
What if she said mongoloid instead? Would that be the "m" word then?
There are some ignorant ppl posting on here.
My child has Down Syndrome. Every time that word is used like it has no power it makes my child an easier target.
Words have power... rather I am the one giving them power or not. If any of you had a child or loved one that had to deal with an insensitive society you would be more considerate.
I don't hate on you for your ignorance. I just wish you wouldn't flaunt it so much.
Let's ask Dr. Laura if it was inappropriate
This story is just "retarded". Aren't there more important news stories?
Who are you calling Uncle Tom?
Thank G-word that there's only room for 26 {letter}-words. Our skins have gotten so thin, I'm about to go F-word crazy with this stuff.
Jennifer Aniston needs a topic that is outlandish to generate publicity for the move she has out. Period.
Look at the size of this comment section and all of you are helping her get FREE publicity!
I got your "R" word right here - RIDICULOUS. Get over your politically-correct (so you believe) selves.
I can't believe all the comments about this being a PC issue. Taking offense to this particular word is not new. People stopped using this word years ago because it is offensive. I brought my kids up to never use it. And honestly I don't know any educated person with class that continues to use this word in this day and age. The only people who use it are Ralphie May and low class or uneducated people.
Just curious, what if she slipped with the "N-word" in an off the cuff manner????? Would we be so forgiving then? What is your opinion?
Jen just can`t keep her big mouth shut can she? First the O`Riley mistake now this. Can`t she just shake her ass and wiggle her boobs like always and shut up
I bet if Angelina Jolie had said that you people who think it was an innocent slip of the tongue would voice an entirely different opinion. As long as it's someone you like, it's ok no matter what they say or do. If the President had said it, you all would storm the White House like the villagers in a Frankenstein movie. Hypocrisy has free run in this country now.
omg, talk about lawyers at the bottom of the sea!!!! lol
Let's get Sarah Palin in on this argument.
Sarah – what was you were saying about First Amendment rights and the use of the N-word by Dr. Laura... shouldn't the Special Olympics people back off since Anniston was exercising her First Amendment rights?
Can't have it both ways.....
So what is the difference between Jennifer's "R" word compared to Dr. Laura's "N" word? Well hopefully now individuals can see the difference and how it was interpreted! Just some food for thought!
the r-word? you kidding me?
Gawd, she is hot
RIDICULOUS!!!!.... i can't believe this story has yielded 1200 comments... our society has too much free time on our hands if we're all getting butt-hurt over JA saying "retard"...
Get a life!!
The Special Olympics calls it an intellectual disability....It's not a disability...it's a defect...If you are born with it, it's a defect, if you were ABLE, then at some point became UNABLE, due to an injury or disease or something outside your control, THEN it's a disability...
I hate all the PC flack this story has gotten. Everyone has different levels of mental acuity...so if I say something is dumb, does that mean I disrespect all people who are not as smart as I am? Also, demeaning a person is OK, but demeaning a general class of people (no one specific person) is bad? Give me a break...Keep it moving people....Move on.
She offended me by saying it. No wonder she could not keep a man. I did not know she was so inferior on an intellectual level. I knew she was a loser who can't stop tanning but I did not realize how much the tans were effecting her. No wonder she could not keep Brad Pitt. I dont pity her old looking ass anymore.
This is the most retarded story I've heard all week.
I would never want to offend mentally disabled people, or anyone with developmental problems. However, I don't understand how the word 'retarded' is now regarded exclusively as slang for the mentally disabled. The definition of the word is: "v. to make slow; delay the development or progress of (an action, process, etc.); hinder or impede; n. a slowing down, diminution, or hindrance, as in a machine." Why can't people use the word for what it actually means without offending mentally disabled people?
What utter nonsense and a waste of time. The Word Police are having a field day lately. We're turning into such wusses. (Gee, I hope "wusses" offends somebody!)
I really can't believe all the fuss with our PC correct society! We have so many problems in this country and OUR World and we are so pre-occupied with every thing that spouts forth from everyone's mouth. Our 1st Amendment rights give us the Freedom of Speech! Does it mean that everything that's spoken is always appropriate of course not but it does mean it's a RIGHT! If, someone chooses to use vulgar, careless or offensive words, speech or expressions it is their right to do so. Is it the RIGHT thing to do? most of the time it's NOT but it's still a Right! Unfortunately we can't police the whole world and make sure everyone behaves the way our society dictates that's Really Communism...however the way things are going presently in our country, where everyone is divided and has a need to express disdain for their fellow American's we might not be that far from a controlled society where Govt. rules everything only time will tell if that's the Plan.
LOL @ WOW's comment! I didn't know what the "R" word was either. Guessing I must be RETARDED RETARDED RETARDED as well!!!
Why oh why is everyone in a huff over this?? No one associated with "mentally challenged" people really use the word retarded anyway. So why can't we use it to describe something silly or stupid? It's not referring to Speical Olympiads or people with traumatic brain injuries. It's not like people are hanging outside of a Down's Syndrome workshop and hurling insults. Get over it people.
Why oh why is everyone in a huff over this?? No one associated with "mentally challenged" people really use the word retarded anyway. So why can't we use it to describe something silly or stupid? It's not referring to Speical Olympiads or people with traumatic brain injuries. It's not like people are hanging outside of a Down's Syndrome workshop and hurling insults. Get over it people.
It's totally gay to use perjorative language like "retard."
We've all used that word at one time or another. We shouldn't use it and this is a lesson that we need to be more mindful of what we say. Let's learn from this without beating up Jennifer Anniston.
Seriously people???? for those who are offended by this do us a favor and get a life. A major slip-up and an honest mistake. This women has been an active member of many charities and for people to pick on her over something so silly...just damn stupid.
Get over it people! Don't you have anything better to do? What a bunch of retards.
Oh shut up! I'm so tired of political correctness.
All of your who hang your hats on political correctness, are retards.
Get a grip people. Try being "on" 24/7 and having every word you utter scrutinized by the entire world. She mostly stays out of the limelight and now we know why. This was a slip of the tongue. I have a grandson with developmental delays and I am certainly not insulted by what she said.
This is so retarded!! People make such a big deal of this kind of stuff. And by making a big deal out of a word like retard they themselves are categorizing.
I am so sick and tired of people being offended by words! What ever happened to freedom of speeech? There are way more things to be offended by. Look at the hundreds of thousands of men and women who fight the wars. Look at the shipload of almost 500 of Tamils arriving at Vancouver expecting the Canadian people and government to suck it up and give them refugee status. what about the animals and children being abused and discarded every single day somewhere in the world ?? And then people have the nerve to b-h because of words? I personally, have made it a practice to completely stop supporting by contributions and/or volunteering to any organizations that are "offended" by words.
ok, i'm africam american so I can understand (even if I do not agree with) certain people getting offended by certain terminology – for their own individual reasons. However, the "R" word is in no way comparable to the "N" word. Mentally challenged people have not been enslaved, tortured, exploited in mass as have black people. I'm not saying they have never been discriminated against, but the word "retarded" was not used in anywhere near the same context as the "N" word.
People are way too sensitive about everything these days, then when they are accused of being overly sensitive they try to compare it to the "N" word.
I was really bummed out when Jennifer Aniston used the R word. I'm a teacher and i always correct my students when i hear that word used. I would suggest that she does apologize, because that would just show how great of a person she is and teach others that the R word is not a very good choice at any point. Unfortunately people still use that word and it needs to stop. Maybe this was a good thing, because people of all ages love Jennifer Aniston and would maybe realize through her mistake that it is very offensive to special ed. people and their family and friends. I never want to offend anyone, but as a person with family and friends who are special ed, I've always used the words special ed or challenged. I know in my heart that Jennifer Aniston did not have any bad intention and in fact did just choose a very offensive word. I'd love to see her apologize and give a quick lesson to those who do use this word. Mistakes happen, but that word is a very offensive word- so it would mean a lot for her to correct herself.
People need to grow a thicker skin. Get over it; it's just a word. Society is full of a bunch of weenie babies these days. Who cares what names people call you as long as they don't phsically hurt you? And she was referring to herself anyway. So not a big deal!
Get over it... big deal
Jennifer can say or do anything she wants. luv her.
This is ridiculous and Americans have lost their mind. The word "retard" is also in french, meaning delay or lag. I am sure that the French have no problem using that word since it actually means something other than an insult to a particular group of people (compared to the N word). I believe English is the same. Hello? priorities people!.... starving babies in Pakistan and HIV babies in South Africa...anyone out there?
People need to understand that she was talking about (R)tards....not retards.
Wheres my drool cup dam*it
Who cares... I can't believe that we are really THIS worried about being PC... I respect people with disablilties but the stuff that we complain about in this nation is getting to "retarded"!!! Go worry about something that matters...
Don't you dare criticize a hollywood actress. DOn't you know they are more in tune with everything than you or I are???
I think you have to be a complete "retard" to be so sensative about the use of the word retard. Idiots!
I only clicked on this because I had no Idea what the "R" word was. I feel like a real retard now!
Ask yourselves this question- do we really think Jennifer Anniston hates the mentally-challenged and was actively trying to denigrate them? Comparing this to racial or ethnic slurs is just stupid.
OMG! Come on people, she did't mean to offend any type of handicaped person. This is getting so ridiculous. Jennifer, don't you even think about apologizing. The whole is retarded.
FOR ONCE...the majority here have got it right. Must have been a reaaaallly slllooooow news day to pull this out. No harm, no foul, Jen.
I was more offended that she didnt show off that sweet body more.
Geeez!! I saw the headline and actually clicked on the link to see what the hell the "R-word" was.
PC-ism is so outta control.
Oh for crying out loud – get over it people. REALLY!! It's a word. Just a word. Since retards aren't called retards anymore, it's just a term. Move on to something really important to expend your outrage on.
Yawn....
It's "ritard"
So much a WOT. I guess the fire department will have to start calling flame retardant ..."that stuff that makes it hard to start a fire" Lighten up people....
Ever wonder what is wrong with our society? it is to much sensitivity and the fact that everyone thinks they need to be a victim. Grow up people, remember the old saying sticks and stones? So people, unless you are singled out and spoken to, don't assume that when someone or a celebrity says something they are picking on you. Try and remember, nobody can make you feel happy or sad or upset, you have to allow yourself to feel that way.
Pity she didn't use the N-word.
Sarah Palin would have befriended her as a BFF.
Oh, and while we're at it, Sarah Palin IS a retard.
Downs syndrome children are NOT retards, nor are those born with neurological and developmental handicaps. Stupid, ignorant, bigoted people ARE retards.
Even Bugs Bunny made a funny......What a maroon.
this is all very retarded
Its today's society that empowers these words to mean more, not the person using them. I have used 'retard' many times but it has never been in relation to the mentally handicapped. A friend does something stupid and you call them that, its pretty much like saying 'idiot' as a way of joking with a friend or if I do something myself, I may joke as that as well.
Who says that when she or anyone else uses the word RETARD in the way she did, that it was referring to mentally challanged people? I say "stop acting like a "tard" to my daughter and she knows I mean "a mindless idiot" and not "a mentally challanged person". Can we still say MORON?? Or will we offend people with an IQ under a certain number? This is RIDICULOUS!!!!
What about the use of the word retard when it comes to music? Are they going to start going after long dead composers becuase they used that word to mean a slow down of the music? You cant pick and choose when this word is acceptable to use, and when it is not. This is another example of a harmless, and commonly used word that was hijacked by some numbnuts and turned it into what is not considered derogatory. Another example of this would be the word "gay".
If your in special ed is ok when your late for the teacher to say you were tardy? People are too uptight.
soon we'll have to limit our language to 687 politically correct, unoffensive socially approved words...
Even if it was intentional . . . are you serious? This is really a problem? How much longer before the word "the" is offensive, too? Who's next? Mimes?
I think the Special Olympics statement is very VERY appropriate. Look at what they actually said. They understand the context it was said in, articulately explained why it's still offensive, and suggested that everyone stop using that word and instead try to promote inclusion and acceptance. Great! This is exactly how civilized discourse should go if we want to move towards a more harmonious diverse society. They're not looking to crucify anyone, just work towards a better end. Instead of promoting that end, the media outlets come in and try to stir up controversy. Just look at the headline to the article. Backlash brewing? Shame on you CNN.
What a tard.
Oh give me a break. This is what makes the news? Take a look around, there are more important things going on in the world than this. People need to stop fueling this kind of useless information. In the grand sheme of things, who really cares what she said.
Theres nothing wrong with what she said! She is human too, she can use language she wants, she didnt swear or showed the finger.. Everybody Using that word, n because she is a celeb dsnt mean she not supposed too!! too much attention to who and how n when said!!!
"retard" was a word in the dictionary long before it came to have negative connotations. Does that mean that we are never allowed to use the word? It simply means to "render more slow in progress." Not all people mean it as Retard, sometimes it's just an adjective. People are making a big deal of NOTHING.
Name one single person who hasn't used a similar phrase in their life. The Special Olympics people need to pull the cord, stop the politically correct express and hop off. What does terminology mean? The same thing as 'politically correct' terms. Look, I'm 47 and when I was in grade and middle school the term was "retarded". Simple as that and everyone knew what you meant. Now they all need specific labels and precise terminology like "autism or "Asperger's syndrome" or some other such nonsense.
Does anyone else realize how stupid, err... retarded... we are starting to sound. First it was N-Word, now R-Word, soon we'll have to ask for F-Word Free Dressing... I can't imagine the confusion that's going to bring! Soon enough, we'll have a language complete free of any sort of negative describing words, all of which will be replaced by -Word proceeded by the appropriate letter.
"F-word free dressing"
Nice.
retardretardretardretardretardretardretardretardretardretardretardretardretardretardretardretardretardretard
Seriously people????
THIS WHOLE CONVERSATION IS RETARDED & YOU ARE ALL A BUNCH OF RETARDS!
Maybe she meant Republican.
This is a non-issue.
She didn't meant to insult anybody except herself.
I thought the "R" word was "Republican" I was FLABBERGASTED LOL
As the Parent of a Special Needs Child. who is by definition Retarded I can tell you that using this word out of context is Hurtful. We deal with words like Dummy, Stupid, Tard, Retard... everyday...
I don't really think Ms. Aniston was meaning anything derogatory about someone else, she was talking about herself.. Unfortunately that was just a really poor choice of words. What I would say to her and others that use that word, Please us another word.. think before you speak.. There are those that are terribly hurt by it..
I use the word daily. I work with people who are just plain ol stupid. I have never met so many uptight people. That word was used in the 50's and 60's to describe mentally underdeveloped people. Now We use it to describe simple brain farts when we forget to close the garage door when we leave the house.
This country better wake up and stop worrying about the little things and see the bigger picture.
YOu know who gets offended by the word retard? RETARDS!!
actually, the only people i know who get offended by it are people who know retards. typically, all of the retards i've known over the years could care less.
OK, for all of you who don't seem to understand what the First Amendment means: she's not being censored for saying "retard." You're not either, for anything you say. Only the government can censor you. You can say anything you want, the problem is that the rest of society can then rip you a new one for being offensive. That's not censorship, that's society. I don't care if it was a "slip of the tongue," she's a freakin' actress, she should be able to control what she says–except she's not a very good actress. And, no, for all of you who think it has multiple meanings, there's only one that matters, and it's offensive to people with mental disabilities. Why has our society become so rude and crass that we no longer seem to care if we offend people left and right? That's the issue here, not whether you can use the word "retard" in conversation.
WHO CARES! This is ridiculous. . .
I use the "R-word" a lot, but not in reference to people with "mental disabilities." I use it to talk about people or things that are stupid, senseless, or unreasonable. Individuals with so-called "mental disabilities" or "handicaps" or that are "special" (i.e. "Special" Olympics) AREN'T stupid, senseless, or unreasonable. Nor are they "special," they're pretty much just regular people like you and me; none of us are special. Except they probably don't waste their time reading retarded articles like this.
Also, take a hint Special Olympics and others: the terms "special," "handicapped," "mentally disabled," and others, are more insulting than "retard." At least retard means "to slow," i.e. their neural development may have been slowed during embryogenesis. "Mentally disabled" is just directly saying "your brain doesn't work right." How is that not insulting?
So, "Special" Olympics -
Everything has been politically correct because of retarded liberals. They are offended by certain words unless it benefits them.
Oh for God's sake... oh wait, I said God! Hope I didn't offend someone!
OMG!! I thought the Black Eyed Pea song said 'Let's get it started in here'...what a retard.
I am a "retard" and I am offended. I don't think people understand the pain and trauma one with disabilities experiences every day of their life, especially growing up with mean children in the school system. A little sensitivity goes a long way. When educated Hollywood stars use this language it makes it "ok" for the rest of society to do so as well. If you are going to make billions while creating American pop culture you are responsible for what you say. Jennifer Aniston if you are uneducated you can afford to attend a University, go back to school and learn to be gracious and kind and not a "mean girl".
First Obama, now Aniston... Can't anybody just speak and not have to double-think every. single. word. that comes out? It's getting annoying that the media is playing all this up when no one I know cares.
Maybe in the near future,that's how we gonna interact in America, you can't say the word anymore, so you have to talk like, F word,N word,R word,B word and all the other words that you can come up with,but only use the first letter.
but seriously, does it make a big difference if you say,for example, to your friend, "You're an R-word!", or curse the person like "F-word You!" because it means the same!!!
oh yeah, and this is in US right?the LAND OF THE FREE? and THE HOME OF THE BRAVE,that is if you brave enough to say what you want to say and not too coward because you think you might "offend" someone.
This is stupid. It is also retarded. It isn't a slip of the tongue. It doesn't show her "white-trashness" as some people are saying. This is what it is: a socially acceptable description commonly used by all races, creeds and economic classes in modern American society. Is it nice? Not especially. Is it meant to devalue a person in the way the "n-word" does (as several on this board have hinted)? Not at all. At one point in time, idiot had a much stronger connotation (and was an actual defined term if i' correct). We got over it. I don't think she should alter herself one bit. THAT is retarded!
RETARD RETARD RETARD! OMGZ CALL TEH POLICE!
Better yet, call the school principal and let him know the children are using the computers again.
Grow up, learn some compassion or you will find yourself all alone at the end.
We fire people for using the "N" word and the "R" word is certainly just as bad, if not worse. People with low cognitive skills deserve our respect and compassion. It is ignorant and unexcusable for anyone to use this word. Jennifer needs to spend some time volunteering in special education to understand the the tremedous challenges "R" people face in every aspect of life.
This crap has gotten so old. Childish, "R word"... "R word" this and "N word" that, first of all, this is America, and we can say any thing we want, I'll be damned if I am going to let someone else tell me otherwise. Second, everyone needs to just mind their own business and quit minding everyone elses. If people would just mind their own business, the world would be in a much better place.
Oh, and RETARD, RETARD RETARD!!! As in this whole "R word" crap is RETARDED!!
GET OVER IT! This country has gone SO overboard with political correctness! What is the politically correct term now? We can't use "disability" anymore right? It has to be the word "challenged" or something to that effect otherwise someone will be offended. If this is all people have to worry about in their daily lives then they are damned lucky! There are REAL problems that need to be dealt with in this country, and in the world, MUCH more important than what word someone uses. Jesus people get a life!
It seems like the overwhelming majority of people are getting tired of the way society is so PC. This is the first time I've heard of the word "retard" referred to as the "r-word". I've got to say, I used to work at a summer camp for the ARC, which is an organization that works with _______ people (not sure what the correct PC term is right now), and even I think the term isn't offensive given the context. By the way, ARC stands for the Association of Retarded Citizens. What does that tell you about the word? Clearly at one point it was not offensive, even to those people. Jennifer Aniston did not mean it in a derogatory way, slandering those people, she was referring to herself. Stop being so hyper sensitive and spend your time helping people who really need it.
Ehen using the word mentally retarded to describe a medical condition, this is acceptable as this diagnosis is what patients need to receive social services. When someone is using the word retard as slang or a derogatory term, it is offensive. Anniston appears to be using the term as a self-depricating term; however her use of the word is in a negative sense. Mental retardation is a medical condition, not something to make fun of. Anniston needs to apologize for her use of the word.
I really don't think she meant to offend anyone with her self-deprecating remark. Our society has become hyper-sensitive. Political correctness ought not be used to bludgeon people who slip up and say something that was not meant to offend. Get over it people. It's nothing.
Its not about what you say..its about what you are saying making you sound like your not too bright. I always think of a dumb kid when I hear that word being used.
All of you left-wing hollywood lovers...would not be quick to defend some conservative personallity...if she or he made the same comment. Look at how you recently reacted to Dr. Laura and her usage of an offensive word. The left is so full of hypocrisy!!!
Most of the comments here seem to be saying that it's just a slip-up- obviously it's the media who like to stir the pot and make things into big deals instead of letting things go and letting people move on.
"I feel like a Red-headed step child" I had to say it to see if the red-heads come after me for slander!
The world is becoming a very sad, sad, place when one cant even make fun of themselves. If I were Jennifer, I would just stop doing interviews. If you cant talk freely without worrying you are going to offend some group, why talk at all. I'm sure it was not her intention to raise such a bruhaha. But I'm an idiot – dont listen to me.
Does anyone wonder if retards have a derogatory term for normal people? But then again, what's a normal person really like?
The mindlessness continues. Think about it, the term retarded came into use because the previously used term was felt to be derogatory. At what point in time will we be told that the phrases " R word" and "N word" are too derogatory. After all, does anyone NOT know what word is meant by " R word"? Do you think it is okay to call a black person "N word" ?
This brouhaha and the fact this is even newsworthy is retarded. What a waste of time, effort and atoms.
This is ridiculous. Everyone says retard to mean everything but mentally challenged. No one even calls the mentally challenged that.
I used to use the term "Libtard", until I realized that it was offensive to the mentally challenged to be compared to liberals.
From the looks of these comments, I would have to say that very few people are offended by the word, retard, and the ones that are probably have a family member that is mentally slow in some shape or form, and somewhere along the way, someone told them that the retarded population took offense to that word...which I doubt they do, so it gave a few a soapbox on which to climb, so here we are...I use it, my husband uses it, my kids use it but not around the one family we know that has a mentally challenged daughter...just out of respect and/or COMMON SENSE, which nobody seems to have anymore!
Who really cares? Probably about 100 people out of 300 million in the U.S. Most of us are tired of all this political correctness B.S. It's completely retarded!
Has anyone ever read the definition of retard? There is no picture of disabled people and there are many definitions for the word retard. So do we just remove it from the dictionary because it is offensive to some? And how did "bootylicious" get in the dictionary, that is a "retarded" word.
This is worth writing about?
this article is retarded
This issue is retarded! The only reason this has even become an issue is because of retarded Sarah Palin. Get over it!
This article is retarded.
Just think with everyone being so careful about possibly, maybe, might, somehow insult someone, we can all be so completely, utterly politically correct in every tiny word we might, maybe, possibly even consider uttering- we can all stand around saying nothing.
Good thing she did not utter the S word cause single people might be offended, and then its a good thing she did'nt call us guys "men" cause that could be offensive too.. I am male, I find "man" to be offensive you know.. its has a "cave man" image to it.. I want to be seen as more enlightened and so I prefer "male" to describe my gender.. but hey then again.. why refere to my gender at all .. that's offensive..
ENOUGH- she was just speaking.. jesting, being funny= and having fun..
Did I offend any of you RETARDS out there????
Come on!!! This is no different than someone saying they're "Having a blonde moment!!" Get over it already!! How about we look up the definition in the dictionary and then our friends that are making an issue of this can be humbled.
–verb (used with object)
1. to make slow; delay the development or progress of (an action, process, etc.); hinder or impede.
–verb (used without object)
2. to be delayed.
–noun
3. a slowing down, diminution, or hindrance, as in a machine.
I can't figure out how to post a comment. What a RETARD I am!
As I said before when one of Obama's cabinet members used it...The word represents a literal meaning to many people especially of the EAST Coast. The word "retarded" means to 1. To keep delaying; to continue to hinder; to prevent from progress; to render more slow in progress; to impede; to hinder; as, to retard the march of an army; to retard the motion of a ship; - opposed to accelerate. [1913 Webster]
2. To put off; to postpone; as, to retard the attacks of old age; to retard a rupture between nations. [1913 Webster].
I have said that some of those among us are "socially retarded". It is not an attack on a mentally impaired person but a reflection of an individual who is socially backwards or inept.
GIVE HER A BREAK!!!!
Good grief....you can't say knee grrrr...you can't say retard....you can't say gay without offending some little sensitive nancy boy or idiotic reverse racist clothed in minority. You know what to hell with all you poof balls. I'll say what I want and if you don't like it move to a Communist country that oppresses free speech and maybe you'll find some happiness.
Good Lord! How and why have we become so politically correct? You have to watch everything you say or the word Nazi's will come after you. American's need to stand up to this ultra liberal nonsense and protect our First Amendment Right to free speech. We've seen law enforcement citing people for using certain language in public. That is so un-American and must be stopped.
Everyone needs to get off of her back! There are alot of ppl that call themselves retards and dont mean it to offend anyone. My aunt is in her mid 40s and has severe downsyndrome, and i STILL will use "the r-word" as theyre calling it. Its the people that take it in a bad way that make the word mean what it does....
anyone who gets in a tif when someone uses the term 'retard' has to be a retard themselves.
NO_ONE had the right to not be offended. Get over it. And get a freaking life people.
I use that word all the time. I use it because it has another meaning other than the hurtful term directed at mentally challenged people. From the sounds of it, she was using it in the true sense of the meaning of the word. PC has gone waaayyy too far. Get over it!
Wow, sure seems like a lot of words white people cant use. a list needs to be made
there is a list, it's called a dictionary
Why do retards always say "first amendment, free speech, blah blah blah" when this stuff happens. The 1st amendment just says the government can't stop you from saying your retarded nonsense, not that people can't get mad about it.
I'm not so sure the disabled people are the ones pushing this one. It's usually the parents or some other non-handicapped person running a group, consisting of other non-handicapped people, with a few handicapped people as their poster people. My cousin got Reye Syndrome before they knew what it was. He, himself, says he's retarded. To him it's something that just is, not something shameful that must be hidden behind big words.
I love the word retard – it just sounds great calling someone who does something stupid – a retard
I did something dumb as a kid – my parents would tell me not to act like a retard
You are not going to call a person who isn't of sound mind a retard – it is something you say to regular minded people when they do something dumb – to degrade them
It is a word – just a word – so the press and sarah palin can stop being overly sensitive wimps – and get on with it
I am not entirely sure what this has to do with Sarah Palin, or any other person in politics. Is it because she has a handicapped child? This has to do with someone's personal feelings, and Sarah Palin (or anyone else for that matter) does not have an influence on what people find offensive and hurtful. I personally do not find the word hurtful, but I don't see how you people can point blame at political figures. Why does everything always have to turn into politics, can't this just be what it is truly about–A nation that has become too sensitive and are worried about people using words like the "r-word" and the "N-word". We are a nation at war, and we are offended by words. SAD SAD SAD!!!
Palin was one of the individuals who took offense to Obamas use of the word when he said he "bowled like a retard" or something in the same guise
Then she got angry at the 'family guy' episode – where it was a character actually voiced by a girl with down syndrome who didn't want people to feel sorry for her
Retard: slow or limited in intellectual or emotional development or academic progress. Big deal. We all get like this every once in a while. Give her a break!
We grew up with that word meaning silly and goofy - why does everyone want to lam baste every word people say - there is a WAR going on mudslides, hurricanes etc...... MORE IMPORTANT things in the world– than an innocent slip of the tongue.
I have a child with cognitive disabilities. This is a slip of the tongue, no big deal. I understand the need for educating others on appropriate terms to use in being respectful, but to tear Jennifer down is actually more offensive. She is a delightful person, leave her alone.
Didn't she call herself the "R" word? Maybe she should be mad at herself
RETARD, RETARDED! It's a word and shall always be used! Talkin bout this is freakin retarded!
All this bad press for Aniston over the most RETARDED things. I smell a deliberate effort by ANGELINA JOLIE to marginalize Aniston!
and this is news why?
This just keeps getting more and more ridiculous. Every time I read the news, some "special interest group" is offended by something someone has said. Our society has gone way overboard with these "forbidden" words. I agree with some of the other posters in that people need to get a life and stop being offended by someone's off-handed use of a word. I found an interesting excerpt on another website regarding "political correctness". I hear the term so frequently these days, I thought I'd share it.
Regarding political correctness: It was a term used by the communists at least in the early ’30s and possibly before that, but usually not in the presence of non-communists. It was used to describe what communists were required to believe.
It was used in print in “The Communist Party, A Manual on Organization” by J. Peters. It was published in 1935 by the American Communist Party, but for distribution only to Party members. It was not available to the public. The government obtained copies and it was used as an exhibit in all of the cases against the Communist Party leaders. J. Peters was Whittaker Chambers’ boss in the communist underground — the espionage apparatus.
Peters wrote on pages 26 and 27: “We do not question the theory of the necessity for the forceful overthrow of capitalism. We do not question the correctness of the revolutionary theory of the class struggle laid down by Marx, Engels, Lenin and Stalin. We do not question the counter-revolutionary nature of Trotskyism. We do not question the political correctness of the decisions, resolutions, etc, of the Executive Committee of the C.I., of the Convention of the Party, or of the Central Committee after they are ratified.”
C.I. stood for Communist International. The point here was that political correctness was always consistent with the orders that they received from Moscow. It is right that the term was used by the red diaper babies who served as the core of the “new left,” the feminist movement and other totalitarian groups. It was defectors from these movements that brought the term in to general use, although the government was aware of it as early as the 1940’s.
The phrase “politically correct” was a common phrase among American Communist Party members in the ’50’s. My mom’s aunt was a party member and used to apply it to her niece’s lapses from the liberal creed. I think the phrase got into more widespread use among liberals in the mid 60’s when Communist front groups like Women’s Strike for Peace and the National Lawyers’ Guild and Fair Play for Cuba made their influence felt in the anti-war movement and the Democratic party. I heard the phrase a couple of times at Harvard in the early seventies from members of the Maoist Progressive Labor party whose parents had been members of the Communist Party and left because they refused to de-Stalinize. Then later it was apostates from the left who made conservatives familiar with the phrase.
What is better than winning a gold in the Special Olympics? Not being a retard.
I am so sick and tired over all these over sensitive people. Pretty soon we will have to stop at every word we speak and make sure we are not saying something to insult some group or person. Go watch Blazing Saddles and loosen up world!!!!!!
I have three kids; two with mental and physical handicaps and one who is what the PC crowd call "typical". My "typical" child has stated on more than one occasion that we are all disabled in some way or another, therefore we are all retarded in some way or another. It's a word, it only becomes harmful if it is said in a hateful/harmful way. Jenn, you are fine by me.
I would like to F-word the R-word and N-word, because the C-would is messing up my P-word.
Retarded, retarded, retarded, retarded, retarded!!!!!!! I'm so sick of all of you American Idiots (thank you Green Day) who have to play the "not politically correct" card every time someone opens their mouth and says anything that can be taken offensively by anyone. So if I say the word "The" some "retard" is going to be offended somewhere on this planet, so I might as well not speak anymore right? WRONG! Grow a pair and stop being PC idiots. YOU are the problem with America.
give her a break. who, amongst us, have not made a faux pas? yes, this was stupid and silly – but, in the overall scheme of things, not a big deal. i am sure that she does more good, than not, while supporting non-profits of many kind. So, chill.
Some of you are being really offensive with your use of the I-word. Please refrain from using "idiot". I – words around the world are feeling offended.
thanks
I want to know where it is written that we have the inalienable right to never be offended? Get over yourself, you self righteous fools and stop making a mountain out of a molehill. If someone uses a word AND DOES NOT IDENTIFY A SPECIFIC GROUP IN RELATION TO THAT WORD then accept it for being slang and get on with your life.
The retards that are on the lookout for any use of a word that could be construed as denigrating need to get a life and stop the alienation of their 'sacred cow' group. It only causes divisiveness and perpetuates whatever form of "-ism " they want to abolish. Short, dumb, stupid – all are valid descriptions and trying to get around it by using "challenged" only points out that these people are MORE different than most would otherwise assume them to be.
It's getting to the point where you are not aloud to use words that start with any letter in the alphabet. I mean what the apple is going on. Oh great I probably offended some group now.
Well thats just retarded.
I love the word retard – it just sounds great calling someone who does something stupid – a retard
I did something dumb as a kid – my parents would tell me not to act like a retard
You are not going to call a person who isn't of sound mind a retard – it is something you say to regular minded people when they do something dumb – to degrade them
It is a word – just a word – so the press and sarah paling can stop being overly sensitive wimps – and get on with it
This issue is r e t a r d e d
Aniston is a stupid (C)word She has no class, and just whines and whines about her broken heart!
"Rainman practically bankrupted a casion and he was a ra-tard"
Let's all just sit on our hands and look for mundane reasons to get offended. Political correctness has gone retarded in this country and people just need to lighten up. What a bunch of whiny losers to make an issue out of something like this. The rest of the world is laughing at us.
The only problem I have is retarded people can't help the way they are. Those that use the word and condone the use in an inappropriate manner are the "C" word.
America is rapidly descending into a pitiful state, occupied mainly by dribbling idiots.
Now, did I just offend someone? Good.
YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING ! ! ! Why don't they just publish a book of words that are politically correct . Use of the "R" word, this is getting out of hand . What about the "Q' word, is that OK America , please give me a break !!!!
Political Correctness in this country is just soooooooooooo overboard. Yes it was probably not the best thing to say but it's not a big enough issue to warrent all of this. The U.S. has become a nation of little crying sensitive babies. Oooops did I just offend babies? It's coming down to a time where we need a list of words we can say as so many people are offended by the smallest things now. Everyone needs to grow up and spend energy on more important things, such as the gulf oil issue, homelessness, gangs, etc. We've come to a point where she will be expected to publicly apologise or be ousted. I'm so sick of everyone crying all of the time over words – enough already! Yesterday it was the N-word and now today it's the R-word. What's next the S-word, the P-word, the B -word, the C-word? Let's grow up. We can't even say the supposed bad word now in a news story heading as it might offend someone. Let's get real here, people get offended and that is life. Down the road we will all be making grunting noises because all of the words in the English language have offended somebody. We really need a good war in the U.S. so everyone will pull together and stop making such a big deal over such small things such as a word. If Jennifer were to go around continuously using the word "retard" in a demeaning way then it might be a problem but it was a one time word slip. We've all done that so let's just let it go.
Seriously – GROW UP AMERICA!
The N-word, the C-word, the R-word, the F-word, won't we run out of these "abbreviations" eventually?
Wow, what a retarded article.
OMG--ARE YOU KIDDING ME??? SHE DIDN'T MEAN ANYTHING OFFENSIVE. THIS HAS BEEN A WORD USED BY JUST ABOUT EVERYONE AT SOME POINT AND THE WORD = THEY DID SOMETHING THEY SHOULDN'T HAVE DONE. GIVE ME A BREAK.....THE MEDIA AND CERTAIN PEOPLE NEED TO WORRY ABOUT THE ECONOMICS AND THE MAN YOU VOTED IN TO BE PRESIDENT. WHAT ABOUT THE MUSIC GROUP BLACK EYED PEAS THAT HAD A SONG LET'S GET RETARDED IN HERE AND THEY HAD TO CHANGE IT TO LET'S GET STARTED. PEOPLE, PEOPLE, PEOPLE.....NO WONDER WE ARE IN THE STATE WE ARE IN....FREEDOM OF SPEECH DOES NOT EXIST...BTW, SHE CERTAINLY DIDN'T MEAN TO OFFEND ANYONE....AND SOMEONE ON HERE WROTE JENNIFER'S COMMENT WAS THE SAME AS DOCTOR LAURA...YOU POOR SOUL....IYOU SHOULD SPEND YOUR ENERGY ON 'IMPORTANT' ISSUES......
I like Jen Anniston and this is very unfortunate. I think she will take this and change her ways and some good will come out of it. She does owe an apology tho .. especially to Regis.
Honestly people can we just let silly stuff like this go and focus on more important issues! We have unemployment, homeless people, uninsured people, growing poverty and a growing education gap and we're making THIS an issue?!!!
You know what's stupid? When people bring up the First Amendment in discussions about things like this. The First Amendment is about the GOVERNMENT not censoring speech, and about people being able to say what they want without fear of reprisal from the GOVERNMENT. It's not about common courtesy, which is what THIS is about. I'm no saint...I've dropped the R-bomb plenty, but I'm not on TV, where the mentally challenged and their loved ones can hear me. You can say whatever you want in your living room, but if you call people things they don't like to be called in IN PUBLIC, some of them are going to get upset...regardless of whether it's a slip of the tongue.
Ok, so president bin laden can make fun of the Special Olympics and there is little outrage, but Aniston says that and suddenly its a hate crime?
this whole thing is retarded!
This word has been removed from the Palin/teaparty dictionary
When a person is an unknown , poor and making ends meet every day, words probably
don't matter that much because nobody cares. Sure, you could get into fights and get beaten up or you could win the fight.
But if you are well known, famous, makes a lot of money on tv, radio , movies etc. you can't
say those hurtful words. If you do , be prepared to lose respect from others and your peers, lose
your position and forefeit your powerful and influential position in making money.
First amendment right is ok, but in reality it has it's limits. Can you imagine Washington,Churchhill, Jefferson, Mother Theresa, saying those hurtful words to harm or injure others.
Why do we need to 'R'estrict people from being 'R'egular people – don't we have something called f'R'ee speech?
What is happening to us?! Every letter of the alphabet is going to get tagged at this rate. Get over it – really. 'R' word, F word, N word, S word, A word for kids, D word, L word, come on... the more people make a big deal, they just further alienate and further SEGREGATE their 'movement' – this 'R' word tag is bunk!
Signed 'R'ick
Screw Political Correctness!!
I'm Sofa King We Todd Did
Just shows how quick media is to pick on celebrities. Once they slip up by accident it is on the news everywhere. Jennifer made a mistake which I don't even see so offensive. I am sure she didn't mean to offend anyone. How many of us when we are joking around with friends use the word. Media needs to not make such a big deal over the littlest of things. There are bigger problems in the world that they should be covering. They are "retarded". Yeah I said it so what. Or like in The Hangover "Ratard"
what a retard
Like anyone on here has never accidentally said something they didn't mean... We're all so noble and superior hiding behind our computer screens analyzing other people's past actions.
Grow up.
Free speech is gone in this country, that word was common during her youth, we all used it freely. Get a grip people, cannot use handicapped, retard, special needs, nothing is right anymore. Political correctness is now robbing us of free speech and it's totally retarded........
Retard only became a six letter word because of that idiot Sarah Palin. it's just like many other words out there that have a double meaning, but are only offensive when used in certain settings or with certain elements. I call myself retarded all the time and mean that I'm being stupid or silly. In fact, once when talking to my friend about how people treat his sister, who IS mentally disabled, I called those who treated her badly retarded!
Also, would it be bad if she had used retarded to talk about the economy? If she has said, "The economy is retarded right now." Would she have caught so much flack? Because the economy is retarded, by definition, retarded also means, slowing down or a delay in development. Using retarded to describe a mentally disabled person is actually a slang term.
A ton of people have already said something similar to what I just said, so I will stop there and not continue to repeat them or myself. i don't want to seem retarded...
Retards!
I wonder if Palin is going to rant on about Jennifer's first amendment rights to say what she pleases? Or does Sarah only support the rights of those who spout racist slurs?
She said it once and about herself. unlike Dr L. who repeated the N-word several times and used it against another person
This is getting out of hand. WHO makes up the rules on what people CAN or CAN'T say? If we CAN'T say it. Then REMOVE it from the dictionary and abolish it from the English language. Until we take those steps and go that far – ALL English words are fair game.
Palin/teaparty has removed this from their new dictionary and has refudiated its usage.
Methinks this is a bit retarded as well....
The Special Olympics is just a bunch of retards anyway, who cares. Let them gimp around in sweatsuits.
I do hate when people use that word, but at the same time, aren't we all human and don't we all slip-up at some point? It must suck to be under a microscope 24/7 and have everything you do and say analyzed. I'm sure she didn't mean to offend anyone by the comment so let's find something more newsworthy to discuss.
Shhhhhh, no one speak, somone may get offended. People need to be less sensitive. It’s not like she was pointing at a handicapped person yelling “RETARD”
Is there a replacement Land of the free I can move to?
So if I say N!GGER RETARD is the f**cking world gong to collapse?
Retard? Who doesn't say that word nowadays...? I know I call people that all the time. It's just not the same as mentally handicapped to me. I'd never call someone in that condition "retarded". I reserve the word for the average idiot.
Retard in French means to be late or backwards....So should the French langauge have to apologize???
Lol....this is the dumbest story that I've read in a while. I can't believe that someone got paid to write this.
The R-word...How retarded!!! How is this even a story.
OMG! Enough already!! Why is this news?!?!?!?
It was a mistake. It was fine to say it 10 years ago when the world wasn't so dang sensitive. Jeeze. Get over it already. She didn't say it maliciously towards a mentally handicapped person! She said it in a silly way about herself. Yes, not an intelligent statement, but definitely not something that should have activists up in arms.
Showbiz tonight is asking Jerry Springer to weigh in morally?? Shows you where their heads are at!
I'm really tired of Jennifer Aniston. What talent does she actually have anyway. What has she done to contribute to anything worthwhile?
I feel like such a retard for commenting on a lame-o blog...oops! Gosh, it's kinda easy to let a politically incorrect slur slip out, especially a brand new one like the "R" word which became officialy off-limits just...what...this past week? I'm trying to remember which retard got offended and put it on the map... DARN IT! Ugh! Did it again. Sorry!
There's a "www.r-word.org"???? That is just so....retarded.
I have a family member who is mentally handicapped. I am not sure why the word retard is so offensive. It is not like she is saying "like a mentally handicapped person!" Then it would be offensive. We do not use the term "retard" to define the mentally handicapped any more. That word was used when handicaps were not understood. It is a clinical term that doctors still use "mentally retarded," but you can't judge someone because of a word they used. Millions of people use it in their daily life. I am so sick of people judging celebrities because they are not perfect. No one is perfect, and if you judge someone by one little word, you are a sad, sad person. There are far worse "crimes" to be worried about!
Everyone of u people have said something that u were not proud of. Something u let slip......But now u condemn Anniston....cmon people get a life.......So she said retard, 30 years ago everybody used the word and nobody blinked. Put your minds to something more substantial. I bet most of u are Sarah Palin followers....Now if ever the word retard fit........LOL
Charity: "these are also the same people that also still use the N word". What "these people" are you referring to? As far as I read, the person had not been identified. Perhaps you should stay out of the debate since you obviously want to bring in something unwanted.
Funny that so many people run around in circles screaming 'the sky is falling' and seem to have forgotten the basic notion of free speech. Who cares if you like the word 'retard'. I don't like whiny imbeciles who try to make everyone else think the same way they do. Plus, one of the meanings of 'retard' is 'a person socially inept' so the it's basically a bunch of retards crying about this because they're too inept to deal with it any way except by seeing how loud and stupid they can be.
The society still failed to realize that it isn't WORDS which create the objective reality, but just the other way around.
we have become a nation of panzies and freedom of speech bashers, she has the right to say what she wants, you dont like it TOUGH, go and die. its a word, she hasnt hurt anyone by saying it, emotional distress? to whom the retards or to their families who have dumped those kids on public welfare and raised our taxes to pay for them??
if you dont like the word, DONT USE it, but to take it away from some one else's right to say?? thats pure BS.
would a real retard be offended anyway? i mean really?
Remember that show "Life Goes On?" Remember the episode when that one kid called Corky a retard? That was awesome. Someone finally treated him like any other person, which is exactly how the people crying over the use of the word retard want people with mental retardation to be treated. What was more insulting, calling him a retard on the show, or using him in PSA ads to say that he was too smart to use drugs? Doesn't that imply that he's stupid because he has Down Syndrome?
The "R" word. The "N" word. Soon we will not be allowed to say anything without being reprimanded. Come on America grow some "B" words!
The Sanition Engineers Council is raising a stink because of all the poop-heads.
RETARD:
1. Someone or something that is abjectly stupid.
2. Short for "mentally retarded", as in being a large number of bricks shy of a load.
3. Someone who attempts to gain political power or leverage by objecting to a word and claiming that people should be forbidden to utter it.
also TARD, RETARDED, TARDED
Seriously Americans – this is absolutely moronic!!! Oops I just said the M word!!!! Now the morons will be after me!!
Seriously, who cares that she said retard? and WHEN did we start calling it the R-word? I'm pretty sure the only people that give a hoot are a bunch of retards anyway. So what. Jennifer Aniston is hot and her blatant disregard for the feelings of the mentally challenged only make her hotter. Sorry, but its true.
Here is the dictionary definition –
Retard
–verb (used with object)
1. to make slow; delay the development or progress of (an action, process, etc.); hinder or impede.
–verb (used without object)
2. to be delayed.
–noun
3. a slowing down, diminution, or hindrance, as in a machine.
Slang: Disparaging .
4. a. a mentally retarded person.
b. a person who is stupid, obtuse, or ineffective in some way: a hopeless social retard.
5.
Automotive, Machinery . an adjustment made in the setting of the distributor of an internal-combustion engine so that the spark for ignition in each cylinder is generated later in the cycle.
This is retarded
If you had a retarded child you would not like people using that word as a putdown. Peace out.
so freaking what? do I have to watch how I fart because some one is going to be offended that people fart?? grow up people,, bunch of panzies we've become
I am a black man and we as black people can sometimes be a little "hypersensitive" and I think the same thing applies here, the girl made a mistake people, a slight slip of the tongue during a a self deprecating moment, she didn't intend to hurt anyone or parents of children/adults with challenges.. Translation, everyone needs to relax.
The context she used the (oh my God. I can't believe I'm placing it in quotes as if it's a bad word) "Retard" is acceptable. She used retard to describe herself because....maybe she did something retarded?
Saying, "God I'm such a retard!" is completely different than saying, "God, I am a disabled person with a medically diagnosed metal retardation!"
Apples and oranges folks. Calm down.
It would be interesting to see JA's reaction to a fellow actor who is quoted in an interview about his/her work with her saying that, "JA is so retarded in everything she does – no one should take her seriously – ever!" when asked about her capability as an actress... then she MAY understand what it means to be on the other side of this comment. As a parent with a "retarded" special needs adult who is struggling to make it on his own in the world – I fail to see why this word is used to describe ANYTHING. Wouldn't it be refreshing to see her evolve one of these days since she always asks her fans to take her seriously. Put yourself in the shoes of the special needs community – Just sayin – think about it
Obviously some of you, who don't think it's a BIG Deal, don't have children with special needs. We aren't still in the 60's or 70's !
to Pam
Ii thought it was about offending the retards not their families? it sounds like you just dont like the lot of life alotted to you by god/nature,, grow up and handle it..
retard, retard, retard, retard, retard, retard, retard, retard, retard, retard, retard, retard, retard, retard, retard, retard, retard, retard, retard, retard. Oh my, did I say the "R" word!? What is this Country coming to when we get offended over using the word RETARD? Do people even know what it means, (cause to move more slowly or operate at a slower rate), not chocolate milk lover.
screw you buddy!
look she could have said like a democrat and that really would have been insulting.
Why does the media give this nonsense that much attention. Talk about the war or the pakistan floods or maybe even how bad our economy. They spend so much time on useless subjects like this and its pathetic. To be honest if he didnt say anything after the video about her saying 'retard" I would have never noticed. Grow up and get on with life. The word Retard should not be the most talked about topic on cnn.com right now. Its really sickening.
Seriously! Are we all this frigging sensitive. Its just a word "RETARD".Get over it. This world has made everything so sensitive. Don't step on anyone's toes. Geesh! Watch what you say or do. What's next gay is a no no...we will have to use gender challenged. The word retard means slow or to delay. "I was so retarded this morning I missed the bus" It's in the dictionary and i will use it as I see fit. RETARD!!!
Mel Gibson use of the word c*** is far more insulting than Jen feeling like a retard playing dress-up. All you complainers just go find a job or a frigging hobby or something and stop sitting there complaining about nonsense. Go help Pakistan or something
Aren't we getting a little too sensitive to political correctness. I used to use "retard" all the time, but it never meant I felt less about those that are actually mentally challanged. I mean come on lets get back to understanding the intent of the word and not the actual word itself. She did not mean to demean anyone, she was only describing the silliness of the act of dressing up as a adult. Special Olympics leave her alone.
I can see the follow-up article to this now. "Backlash to backlash about using the word retard..."
Here we go... the Semantics Police retards are at it again. The very idea that a particular word is "damaging" and must never be uttered is retarded in and of itself. Jennifer Aniston is no rocket scientist, but neither is she a retard, and her reference to herself as a retard was obviously self-deprecating humor. The retards who object need to get a life, and refrain from seeking political power at the expense of our personal liberties. I myself pledge to use the word "retard" much more often in the future, as it is a highly descriptive word and very effective in describing someone or something that is abjectly stupid. RETARD RETARD RETARD... RETARDED RETARDED RETARDED... RETARD TARD... TARD RETARD... TARDED RETARDED... RETARDED TARDED... RETARD TARD RETARDED TARDED... RETARD RETARD RETARD RETARD RETARD!!!!!!!!!
I doubt that discussing this will change anyone's opinion, since people seem staunchly in the "I'm offended"/"It's no big deal!" camps ... but here are my two cents anyway: Aniston made a nervous mistake and should be forgiven. However, it was a real mistake – the r-word is offensive and should be, just like many other words that were acceptable in a less tolerant post, despite the fact they have always been offensive.. The Special Olympics isn't necessarily jumping on Jen -they acknowledged it was an off-the-cuff slip-up. But they have to use this opportunity to inform the public about the inappropriateness of such words. This is how they spread the word. Sadly, Jen had to be the catalyst, but I bet you she won't use the word again, along with a lot of other people who hear about this story. (And hopefully a lot of you who think we should just call eachother insulting names all day long because it's too hard to think of alternative words. Laziness is not an excuse for rudeness, my friends.)
How are you still alive with all that blood leaking from your heart?
This whole thing is retarded. Yes, I said retarded. If you're offended by that word you're a retard. Hey, sometimes the truth hurts. Stop being so retarded or people will think your a retard.
This report is retarded!
I try not to say the word because I have friends with children and family with disabilities. Still, it's a frigging slip of the tongue... for most people, it's a word they've been using to mean "stupid people" and not the disabled. I think the PC crowd is being WAY too over sensitive when they monitor every word everybody says. Aniston was being self-deprecating, meaning she was like "I wasn't particularly smart." And to say "I will not see her movies anymore" and "I lose respect for her" is just overreacting. Cheers.
Gee I thought the R word was Republican. Now that's a nasty word.
Empowering the word only makes it worse, what are we children, grow up! Sticks and stones will break your bones but words will never hurt you. I hear fat little chunk monster children don't want to be called obese any more either, maybe we should just keep changing what we call everything so everyone walks on egg shells forever. Or maybe just maybe we can all grow a pair and teach ourselves not to give in to childish derogatory use of our language so retard and the obese can go back to being exactly what they are meant to be, simply words.
Your comment is retarded
Well, let me get the duck tape and we will make sure nobody utters another word ever! It seems everything these days is a jab against someone and could only be constued as ignorant or hurtful. Ultimately, was Jennifer out of bounds....not at all. Just listen to the context. She was clearly refering to herself and NO ONE ELSE!!
I don't use the word retard. I usually use the word Mongoloid. It sounds funny to me for some reason. Like "Jack! you just spilled coffee on me! You mongoloid!"
Yep, I'm with the other (probably thousands by the time it's over) posts here, except for a handful, GET OVER IT! Please, there are so much more importatnt things in life that watching someone's every word. Jennifer is a very bright, funny, and caring person. She was commenting on her own behaviour. The word "Retarded" is gone from the vocabulary concerning those with mental disabilities. It changes by the PC decade. Here's one for you....where I'm from when we have forest fires, the planes drop "Fire Retardant", it is reported almost every night on the news. Oh, better have those "bad" news anchor people watch what they say!
OMG, she made a mistake and used a word that has been in our vernacular for the last 40 years. She seems like a good enough person, let it go!
The whole thing is retarded.
WHO CARES.... Retard, retatd, retard...... its not a horrible word and all thos "PC" people need to shut the F_ck up. Whining about such trivial garbage is killing this country.
ITS A WORD. Words dont hurt. I dont care what people say. Words dont cause damage. We convince ourselves they do so we have excuses to complain.... Its time to stop
ok so why is the word so bad...it's the people that get offended by the word that make it a bad word...what if people with dissabilities didn't think of themselves as retards??? It would make a big difference I think...It's these people that keep our society from outgroing the word...as if the people from the special olympics responded to this...It means that they think of there athletes this way right? She did not use the word to make fun of people with dissibilities so get over it. I have a few family members that have dissabilities and in no way shape or form do they think of themselves as retards...the word is just a simple word as any other word...GET OVER IT!!!!!
As a daily user of the word RETARD, I think people need to just shush. Mentaly Retared. Slower, a bit stupid, dumb, not playing with a full deck, has a hole in their screen door, elevator doesn't go all the way to the top floor, etc.
So, all you retards out there crying like the NAACP when a white person spouts a big fat NAGGER at the world, grow some skin.
Peace
How absolutely SILLY. We need to go back to the politics of the 1970s. Words are words people.
Hypersensitivity to semantics – as exemplified by the ridiculous furor over the use of the so-called "R-word" – is nothing more than a well-worn strategy for gaining power at the expense of personal liberty. It is also RETARDED.
Leave Jennifer ALONE! She is not meaning anything in a harmful way and people need to stop being so HYPER sensitive. My sis-in-law is mentally handicapped and I NEVER take offense to people saying RETARD. We say it all the time and NOT to be creul just meaning silly or goofy and THAT is what Jen meant. Come on people let's talk about something that matters like economy or that the Obama's are going on ANOTHER Vacation while people aren't getting food.
This has gotten out of control. What happened to free speach. Free as long as you don't offend anyone ? That ain't free. Some people need to put their big pants on and get over it ! Flippin babies. Oops, did I just offend all babies ?
Retard is still a word, people who take offense simply think retarded. Like most people I'm getting sick and tired of this gay politically correct crap.
I thought the "R word" was "Republican"
Retards are retards.
why dont we just stop speaking with words? lets go back to grunting the caveman way, then nobodies precious little feelings will get hurt.
I'm not a huge fan of Jen, but willing to give her a break, don't think she meant it to offend, though she did say "I'm a retard" .... I do understand that this word can really upset and offend someone who is special needs or has a relative with special needs when the word is used like that. I just won't use words that I clearly know will upset others, out of respect for my fellow humans, others that don't care say " I say what I want and who cares if someone is hurt"....to each their own and I guess we're all raised with different morals and values. I also hate "the N word", "that's Ghetto", "that's gay", and "Poor White Trash"!
Are any of us actually working today?
everyone who has posted (including myself) has applauded CNN for this retarded article....
If this keeps up, pretty soon we will have to speak in acronyms!
Webster's definition...
Main Entry: re·tard·ed
Pronunciation: \ri-ˈtär-dəd\
Function: adjective
Date: 1895
sometimes offensive : slow or limited in intellectual or emotional development or academic progress
SOMETIMES OFFENSIVE: Which means if you actually tell it to a person with the affliction.
My take on it, if it is in the dictionnary, you can use it, period.
BTW...
The P, B, C, N, words are in the dictionary but defined as disparaging.
PGOTPCBWAST1A.
It’s so sickening how this country is just drowning in its own political correctness. If anyone’s retarded it’s the media for spending time on retarded stories like this one. Is there really nothing else going on in the world that you have to report on what some airhead celebrity said on some show. What’s even sadder than that is the majority of America thinks this is news. The average American today can’t go 4 hours without their daily celebrity gossip and new crouch shot of Lindsay Lohan getting into her car.
I believe Nick Swarden said it best, "Sometimes sh** is just retarded."
Cowboy up crybabies!
My cousin has moderately severe autism. Some people have called him a "retard"...and then me or his brothers kick said person's butt, because the word is INTENTIONALLY used to hurt in that case.
But if someone is just saying "retard" in vernacular conversational context...WHO THE F CARES!
GET OVER IT YOU GD CRYBABIES!!!! I don't care if your kid has Down's or whatever, learn to deal with reality and stop being a bunch of self-obsessed wimps! If you and your kid are so easily damaged by the comments of others, then YOU are the ones with the problem!
I find it laughable that so many would defend Jen here. None of you have to "watch what you say", you are just an average person with no influence. People like Jen and Dr Laura have hundreds of thousands if not millions of fans. Everyone knows that people, suck as yourself, are naturally followers. If these people are allowed to use derogatory language whenever they feel it will perpetuate the use of a harmful word.
I'm willing to give her a break, don't think she means it....but I do understand that this word can really upset and offend someone who is special needs or has a relative with special needs. I just don't use words that I clearly know will upset others, out of respect for my fellow humans, others feel I say what I want and who cares if someone is hurt....to each their own. I also hate "the N word", "that's Ghetto", "that's gay", and "PWT"!
So...when Special Olympics weighs in on this what are they saying about their athletes? To me it almost seems like a put down to theose who are competing to respond to this gaffe.
What next....is saying someone is blonde going to be offensive?
here's a concept...who cares?!?!? first amendment!! she's hot and cool and I think she's funny, and she's American and therefore has the rights to free speech all of us un-famous blokes enjoy...
It seems a lot of you are offended that someone could be offended by this.Ill agree its a little silly,and Im not the most PC person on the planet,probably the opposite-but if I can avoid hurting someones feelings by avoiding certain words,it isnt a big deal for me.If anything,I care more about the feelings of those who this might offend than I do people who are offended by PC-ness(actually I HATE those people)
big deal if you say the R word or even the N word,but at least have some tact and apologize if you inadvertently offend someone,its the nice thing to do and makes life easier
just because I live in the south and have a small farm I am offended when someone calls me a redneck. where is the sensitivty for my feelings.I mean redneck implies I am backwards and a country hick which is totally not true. should I go on
The word Retard is a mean and hateful word. Like the N-word, it should never be used no matter what the situation. Next time she should use the word "Tard". It's much better.
Does that mean that I have to stop calling Apple fans 'Great Big i-Tards' ?
No. It means people need to get over it. Words are words. And this is a First Amendment issue.
Being afraid of words is retarded.
Get over it. Some people are retarded.... and everyone should have the right to say whatever they want.
Seriously people, for a country founded on Freedom of Speech and expression we seriously have a problem with people trying to infringe on your rights to do so.
I think she should be able to say what she wants... and I will defend to the death her right to do so.
And anyone who doesn't agree with me is a retard.
Yeah, seriously, WHO CARES?????? She said the R- word! Ohhhhhhh my god! Can't say the R word, Can't say the N word , can't say the F word.....soon will be WHAT CAN I SAY? Whatever, people!!!!!!!!!!!! Move on and let people speak their mind without interupting.
The word is 'RETARDED' saying 'The R-Word' just gives it more power.
Say the freaking word, and people can just get over it!
I still use the "R" word today but I use it in referring to people that do retarded things, not people with disabilities. We've all seen someone do something stupid or "retarded" they show them on TV all the time.
Um...... When did being retarded become so bad that now it is being treated like a racial slur? Look up the word in a dictionary it can be used for descriptions as well so lets all just chill out and ask what retarded person is offended by this and not just there parents being up tight
Someone asked why people can't used the entire word and not just a letter? If it's ok to do that with this word, is it ok to do it with the other big "letter only word"?
It wouldn't be an English word if we weren't supposed to use it ever. It's ridiculous to not be "allowed" to use a word. It's not like she was calling someone else a retard to their face. Leave this story alone and put something else on the front page – like the combat troops leaving Iraq.
Now we don our gay apparel... fa la la la – la la la la...
What ever happened to the days of "sticks and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me". We are getting way to conscious over a word. Is this what we have become as a society, a bunch of whiners?
if you were offended by her comment, you ARE retarded. Now put on your helmet and walk go away!
Retard means to slow something. Retarded means slowed. I have pity for those who may be suffering from mental disabilities that may have been previously labeled with this word, however, if we stop using this word for that purpose and use another, won't that word just become a bad word as well? Is it right to force the total ban on the use of that word for any and all purposes? How many words are we going to ban in America? I think that if words, whatever they are, are used in a derogatory manner, that is one thing, but I don't see the point in banning them for other uses by condemning anyone who dares utter them for any purpose.
When someone says: "the N word" or "the R word" they are still making you say the real word in your head whether you want to or not. So, really, which is worse. America get over yourself and stop whining about words that make you feel bad.
People who are offended by the word "retard" are retarded.
Ummmm, "Retard" is the common American word for "stupid" or "funny looking" and has nothing to do with handicapped people.. Those of you whom are offended by this are ignorant and have NOTHING better to complain about in their lives.. Grow up... You are retarded...
I think it is retarded that all you retards are acting so retarded about some retard calling themselves a retard. I say it about myself all the time, and believe that once you realize you are a retard too you will get over yourself and enjoy life in it's beautiful simplicity rather than spending your time complaining about silliness.
Retard! Retard! Retard! Retard! Retard! Retard!. You don't like it? Kiss my white butt. Oh goodness, I said butt. I'm sorry.
CNN, you like to cause controversy. A real news organization would not give this story the light off day. You are the new Hedda Hopper on acid!
I say that anyone who complains needs to get a freaking life. Quit being so damned sensitive, shut the Hell up, and move on.
Why has everything have to be taken so negatively?
I'm Italian and if someone says Dago without a smirk as if its a curse it does not bother me.
If the word is in the English dictionary I think the use is OK.
She did not call a person a "Retard" she was speaking about her not being slow.
this whole situation is retarded
If you look up the word retard in a dictionary it does not say that retard stands for a mentally retarded person or person with developmental disabilities anywhere except under slang terms. Gosh people have nothing better to do than make every little comment a person says into huge news!!!
You can't compare a word like Retard to the N word. The N word has no other purpose than to be derogatory. Retard has mutliple defintions and it not universally known as a "bad" word. I have a DD nephew and I use the word retarded all th time. It's about the context that matters. I saw, "that's retarded" all the time to refer to a stupid idea, but I would never say "you're retarded" to someone who truly is. I'm sorry, but you can't compare the terms. There is no context for the N word that is harmless if used to describe someone.
people make mistakes – people are sensitive to the things that touch their hearts – ignorant people frequently share their ignorance. Try to see the good in people and ignore their flaws. Be empathetic to those who do not have the awareness of their ignorance.
If i do not have a child with down syndrome, i'm not experienced enough to share my views.
Voldemort!
Are you people serious? My sister has a mental handicap. I suppose every one of you goes up to black people and calls them the "N"-word? No, you don't because you are a coward in fear of getting a beatdown. Calling a person the "R" word is cowardice, because you aren't afraid of them because in general they are the most loving people you could know and there isn't a beatdown headed your way from them. HOWEVER, they have loved ones that would be more than willing to drop a shot accross your jaw. People need to wake up and grow with the politically correct times. All of you has a term which offends you... Try being stereotyped by it and having to hear it all the time, you'd kill yourself. These people with these handicaps are a thousand times stronger in spirit than anyone on this page including myself.
Thank you! Finally! You know, my Down's Syndrome sister is a Global Messenger for Special Olympics, and she's met two Presidents of the United States, the Shriver family, movie stars, NBA and MLB teams, and the governing board of Northwestern University. She has better writing skills than 95% of the people on this board!
Ya wanna know what's really juvenile? Realizing something you do or say is wrong then getting all defensive and rationalizing why it's okay, and why the people complaining about it shouldn't be offended or are some sort of "nazis". Grow up, admit when you are wrong, and change your behavior. You won't get anywhere in life until you can do that.
I call myself retarded all the time and it isn't meant in any derogatory way TOWARDS "mentally challenged" people. Leave her alone and stop taking everything people say nowadays out of context. I highly doubt she was ridiculing anyone. Why does nobody have anything better to do no than analyze every word coming out of peoples mouths...pathetic.
"R" word? I first had to watch the video clip just to find out what the "R" word is! Having made this into an 'issue' is preposterus!! She/we can call ourselves anything we want to call ourselves. A group of people lashing out that such use is offensive, is, well, offensive. It is plainly obvious Jen was not using the word retard in an offensive, or insensitive manner. If taken to court we all know very well Jen would win based on her/our freedom of speech. I'd like to suggest that society get over this crap. Nowadays something said always seems to offend someone. Retard is a quite natural word to be expressed in every case but one; When talking to, or about or around those who are mentally challenged. Of those who may have seen this clip; Hey, it was about herself, not you! Get over it! Let's move on.
This Political Correctness thing has gone waaaay too far. You are acting retarded!!!!!!
give me a break. I'm not a fan of her's but she did a slip of the tonuge. I've heard a lot worse and network TV.
If people are so concerned and upset about this, you need to get a life.
I say stop the nonsense. Retardation is a birth defect. So is a mole in the middle of your face. If she had said she looked like she had a large mole in the middle of her face, no one would have cared. Good Lord people, she wasn't trying to humiliate a retarded person. Go get mad at someone if they are intentionally humiliating someone. Until then, shut up!
Is this really worth debate? She told it like it is
Ok, if we use the N word all hell breaks loose, people are forced to resign from their positions and have to make public apologies. So yes, I do find it offensive that Jennifer Aniston (who I thought had more class) goes on national television and says the word retard.
You said it too
LOL...Heres my take on the word.
A****** word
B**** word
C*** word
E?
F*** word
and the list can go on and on. So be carefull what word you use in your vacabulary since all words start with a specific letter in the alphabet. People need to grow up. Retard is no more of an expression as dumbazz.
Silly me, I thought the "R" word was Republican.
Seriously, would someone who is mentally challenged even be offended by the "R" word in the first place? Whose feelings are we protecting here?
Yeah, you know, my Down's Syndrome sister is offended. She was called "retard" by kids she ran circles around in the brain department, a lot of them people like you, who think that "retards" can't actually feel or think. Doesn't make it any less painful for her, though. And if you were called a moron on a regular basis, I suppose you would constantly tell yourself, "Oh no, THEY'RE the morons," and it would make you feel all sunshine and happiness? Use of the word "retard" has become a form of bullying, but I guess it doesn't matter, because the kids being bullied supposedly aren't smart enough to realize it. And guess what, people? Who do those bullies learn the word "retard" from – YOU, the parents. Way to go – you're really making the world a better place for the disadvantaged.
@ I can't believe you people... when you become retarded, you can decide then how retarded people "feel" about this word. Besides, the word became offensive when someone started taking it offensively. If I used the word "knucklehead" to describe you, or a situation, or anything, i'm sure this word wouldn't make you want to post on CNN.com about how what happens in another persons life makes you so angry... unless you're an overly sensitive retard.
Yea, when she used the word "retard" she, of course, meant to demean every person with any sort of intellectual challenges – she, of course, showed her total lack of empathy and humanity and should be eviscerated for her lack of charity and her mean spirited, bigoted views...
Or maybe, just maybe, she innocently used a word that every single one of us uses to describe something silly and goofy. The world has gone mad – this whole issue is retarded and the people who are "offended" are thin skinned, ignorant idiots looking for drama and problems where none exist.
I'm sorry, but that is common usage of the word 'retard'. Overly sensitive people need to get over it. By the way, 'stupid', 'idiot' and 'moron' used to mean the same thing, but have become common usage words in the same way that Aniston used 'retard'.
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Did not want to offend anyone by exercising my 1st admendment rights of freedom of expression. So I guess my comment to the politically correct community is grow up, if you find yourselve offended, change channels, turn off television or the radio, walk away from the conversation and by all means keep it to yourself, because I am tired of your BS and frankly will go out of my way to annoy you as must as possible. Why you ask, because I find your goody two shoes over protective demeaner totally offensive and sicking. I can not express in words how offended I am by the politically corrects, new list of words one must not say with out out fear of being deemed insensative.
You know, I could call you retarded because your lack of spelling and grammar skills would suggest that you don't have an intelligent and comprehensive grasp of language. Would you like to be called retarded? Oh, I'm sure you have some skills – you have access to a computer, you can create sentences (albeit poorly), you can read... is it still okay for me to call you a retard? Hey, retard, go back to school and learn how to spell! Hey, retard, did your mom write this posting for you?
Here I thought the "R" word was "Rupublican."
Good Grief. Where is George Carlin when we need him???
You guys are all retarded
Anyone offended by this "IS" being a retard. Get over yourselves people – you're the reason we removed GOD from the Pledge of Allegiance. Maybe you could spend some of your energy doing some actual good in the world.
II have a sibling that is mentally challenged, and I have work in a group home for the mentally and physically challenged, and truthfully I don't find it that offensive, asinine and juvenile yes but not really offensive.
The thing is its a word, is just a word.
At one point in the past the term "IDIOT" was used only to describe a person that was mentally challenged, but people applied it to anyone that did something foolish.
The same is true with the word "DUMB", and "MORON".
In fact the words "SPECIAL" and "CHALLENGED" are used with the same connotation today.
If the new "TERM" for the mentally challenged was "young minded" people will soon use it insultingly as well.
The main reason I'm not insulted is because most sane people are not using it in regards to people with special needs, they are using it in the sense of a regular person doing something unintelligent.
I hope she gives no repsonse at all to all the "uproar".
Since when do those with a particular disability, whether it be Down's Syndrome or something else, have a monopoly on the R word? Why does everything thing when this word is said that someone is referring to them?
The are multiple definitions for many words in the English language and this one is no exception.
The word "retard" has morphed into something that goes well beyond the insinuation that one is referring to a specific group or class of people.
Jennifer Aniston is an incredible actress and a kind humanitarian and I'm 100% certain that her intentions were not do belittle or poke fun of a very special class of people.
Unfortunately she will now have to come out and state the obvious which is that she meant no ill will or disrespect toward anyone when making this comment.
I might just go watch her movie this weekend now to show support for her and to stick my middle finger up to the overy sensitive, politically correct masses that continue to grow within this country. Get a life people.
Last I checked we had this thing called Freedom of Speech in this country. Which means people should be able to say what they want to say when they want to say it. There are way too many people who get offened by the things people say, just deal with it and move on. I hope she does not issue an apology, she said it and that is it
This story is retarded
it's just a word. quit making controversy out of nothing.
Ever since Palin had a retarded baby and she used it to advance her political career, everyone is so high and mighty now about using that word.
Hence forth, no one can use the word "Green" because it makes me feel bad. And I will sue you if you do.
It's ok for JA to use the "R" word just like it is ok for Chris Rock to use the "N" word.
Sorry, but I don't have time to read this right now. I need to go retard the spark on my old Model A's ignition timing. Then, later, I'll have to retard the progress of some persistent weeds into my cantaloupe out in the garden.
this is f'n retarded, i like turtles
Please how f-ing ridiculous have we become! Doesn't matter what you say these days you'll offend someone. http://www.rword.org? WHAT??? That is seriously retarded... Ooops
With pardon to all the retards of the world: CNN is retarded!
I think it's interesting. People here defend Aniston's use of the R-Word, but not Dr. Laura Schlessinger's use of the N-word. Dr. Laura discussed the word's usage by black comedians, but you're not allowed to utter the N-word in America if you're not black. I find Aniston's use of the R-word to offensive b/c it promotes a negative image of special needs individuals, but I forgive her for the slip of the tongue.
I think you bring up some very good points. I think the popularity of the person, greatly enhances or diminishes what we regard as acceptable or not. Words and actions seem to take second place in 'celebrity'.
Moving on–hearing Jen Aniston's words being dissected again in the last few weeks, isn't so interesting. I think there are better stories to be told.
"Ooooh teacher! She said the R-word!" This is so ludicrous. Our society celebrates boorishness, stupidity and thuggery, yet we pretend to be so shocked when someone says something like this. And Special Olympics!! Get real! She wasn't referring to anyone but herself as a retard. You need to get over it. We all do.
It's retarted that we're even talking about this...
Well, sweetheart, when you can't even spell the word correctly, maybe you should reconsider speaking in public on an issue that you obviously can't comprehend.
"I think it's so retarded that everyone is making such a big deal about this" Jennifer, you have my permission to use my quote..
This is not a big deal. I got tired of this political correctness long ago. I always say what's on my mind; end of story. I live in America and I have the right to say whatever I want just as the next person has the right to say what they want. Others might not like some things I have to say and I might not like some things others have to say but that's life. Deal with it.
The only people who give a squat are losers with no life and crummy priorities Kids starving in Africa don't care, soldiers in Afghanistan don't care, i have a mentally and physically handicaped child with Williams syndrome and guess what? I DON'T CARE! She is a celebrity talking on tv under a lot of pressure–the politically correct police should direct their energies elsewhere–say, go clean up the Gulf Coast or donate time to a burn ward and don't worry about if my boy's feelings were hurt!
So you don't care if your child's feelings are hurt? Really?
I am so sorry for you. The fact that you are so selfish and care nothing about what is going on in this world outside of your little bubble, mskrd you completely ignorant. There are Soldiers fighting and dying for your freedom to not care about what is going on. Maybe you should care a little more about this world that you are occupying. Your child could benefit from someone who is a little bit more educated. I am not offended by Jennifer Aniston's choice of words, and I certainly believe in the first amendment and the freedom of speech!
at least she didnt slap her chest with her hand sideways like a real retard
So when I sometimes behave like an idiot and say it, whom do I offend? Chavez, AhMadInAJihad, Hitler, Idi Amin, Osassma, Bush, Come ON, Bring it!
whatever! retarded used to be acceptable. mentally retarded. got it? look up the meaning of the word retard. one day intellectually challenged will be horrible to everyone. we better keep those dictionaries handy so we can keep coming up with new words and phrases for everything. i personally still say, secretary, steward or stewardess. what is so wrong with those words anyway? who decides? i hate it that i can't use the word "gay" anymore when i want to imply lighthearted or happy.
People that make a big deal out of this type of thing are retarded.
In my fifth grade music class – yes I'm old enough to remember when art and music were taught in school- we were singing at the wrong tempo, and the teacher exclaimed, "RETARD RETARD". You can imagine how room full of fifth graders responded, but we all learned that "retard" is a verb that means to slow down. I hate when words are demonized because of people misusing them,
I would like some one to tell me where i can purchase a book telling me what words I can and can not say. Is there a list perhaps. This is getting to be ridiculous, people are to sensitive. What ever happened to "Sticks and Stones will break my bones, but words will never hurt me." We must all get a grip people. Chill out!!
If your child was disabled, perhaps you would be offended by the use of this word. And yes, it is comparable to the N word. And yes, Jennifer Aniston has the burden of social responsibility. And yes, there are more important things to worry about. And yes, some of you people are funny, but most are not. And yes, my child is disabled and YES the word retard can be used in jest, but when directed at my child there is a problem. Parents or loved ones that have loved ones with a mental disability absolutely have every right to be offended at the use of this word as a put down. So you blessed folks who have carefree lives with no burden of "retards" need not to weigh in on this, it does not concern you.
i totally agree with u the ones who dont have handicap children should not be even throwing comments because they dont know what its like i have 2 handicap children and its hell hearing peoples comments and snide remarks that word is totally disrespectful.
You say that if I do not have a child or other relative with a mental disability, that this doesn't concern me. You are wrong, it does concern me. It concerns me because you are telling me what I can or can not say to express myself. Unless I am making a comment to a person with a mental disability, my comment is not an insult to that person. The words "stupid and dumb" also used to be used to discribe a person with a learning disability. If I called a person with a mental disability stupid or dumb, it would certainly be an insult, but used otherwise, does not demean that person. Those who are offended are those, who like yourself, have a child or other family member with a mental disability. Why are you offended? Their disability is not your fault, so you should not be offended. Get over it!
It is getting so people simply shouldn't speak at all. No matter what someone says, someone will complain. There seems to be no tolerance, but maximum judgement these days. This application isn't sensitivity.
I HAVE USED THE WORD RETARD MANY TIMES, WEATHER ITS REFERING TO ME OR ANYONE ELSE!!! WHAT IS THE BIG DEAL OUT OF THIS? WHY ARE PEOPLE SO SICK AND ALWAYS CRITIQUE OTHERS!!! PAY ATTENTION TO OTHER MORE IMPORTANT ISSUES IN THIS WORLD!!!! CHEEEZZEEE!!! I LOVE JENNIFER ANISTON!!!! AND I DON'T CARE ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE SAY ABOUT THIS!!!!!!!!! I WILL SAY THE WORD RETARD WHICH PERTAINS TO ALL OF YOU!!!!!
I think that people really do have too much time on their hands that they are sitting and listening to everything that every famous person has to say...sometimes I think it all plays into being so jealous that they have to find something. Just get over it...this is offensive to you but what do you say that might be offensive to someone else?
She should have said that she likes to play dress up, like a special needs person. That would have been much better.
Sarah Palin had better keep her mouth shut on this one considering how she jumped to Dr. Laura's defense - unless she reveals herself as the hypocrite we all know she is!
It's stories like this that cause me to realize why half of the teenagers and young adults in this country are monumentally sensitive about everything. Every phrase that comes out of anyone's mouth is picked apart and analyzed to ensure that any political incorrectness is brought to the forefront. Then the person that said it is chastised and forced to give a rediculous public apology. Eventualy, we will be so hyper sensative that any country that wishes to attack us will only have to use "harsh" words as a scare tactic and we will just cower in the corner. I can see the headlines now.."North Korean leader calls Obama a poopoo head. US surrenders." I know thats a little overboard. But, i think my point has been made.
People get a grip. No one's first amendment rights are being trampled upon. Last I read it did not state that you could say what you want and there are no consequences. Whether it's the N-Word, R-Word, Fire, Yo mama, say it in the wrong place.. Get smacked. slapped, thrown in jail or ignored. Freedom has a price.
What's really sad it that "they" will probably let this slip just because Aniston is a well-liked, good person, that didn't mean to offend the people that get their undies in a bunch about the "r-word". Each and every person of status needs to be taken to the shed for the slightest offense. That way everyone can be losers like people that write comments about Jennifer Aniston stories.
I think that it makes sense to give Anniston a break, here... but I also think the use of the word "retard" should be something that we all try harder to avoid. There IS a stigma to the word, obviously, and the word is an abbreviation of "mental retardation." Calling someone a "retard" often comes along with a sneering tone, and it's pretty obvious that it is meant as a putdown, not just a scientific classification. The meaning that is really communicated is something like "incapable, unintelligent, weird." So the arguments that it is "just a term" don't really hold water, and it is hurtful to the folks who actually have MR, and their families (and friends). Another term that's like this is "schizo," which adds to the stigma of people with schizophrenia.
PC.... My goodness people get over it. The "R" Word has been used for years to mean goofy, silly, etc. It seems to me like everyone is searching for something to complain and whine about. I have family with down syndrome, and we certainly don't call them retarded.
Who is she afraid of offending, the retards?
Well, let's sit back and what Hypocrite Palin go from defending Dr. Laura's right to free speech one day to denying Jen her right to free speech today. Just watch. It will happen.
Honestly, it has only been in recent history that 'retard' has been associated with the Special Olympics or actually meaning anything derogatory. I rest assured no malice was meant when it was used by Ms. Aniston.
Why is everyone ignoring the 3000 lb elephant in the room. The most offensive part was the fact that she called an older person a retard on national TV! That is the most disrespectful thing I've ever heard. You should respect those that are older than you! I think what Obama said about the Special Olympics was way more offensive to people with special needs, than what she said.
The funny thing is I can type retard all I want (retard, retard, retard, retard, retard) and CNN doesn't screen it out. But if I type ni99er the comment doesn't get posted. Come on. They are words.
The difference in retard and the N word is that retard has an actual use. You can slow something down or decrease it (retard it). Example.....Retard the throttle, retard a chemical reaction, etc.....
Get over it people.
The time for PC is over. I think most of us are done with it. I agree the N word should be shelved forever, but RETARD, and other harmless phrases are just too commonly and innocently used. Enough already, I will use it whenever and wherever I please. What are you going to do ARREST ME? Don't be a Retard....
Has she checked to see if her manager/agent is not a retard. Have you seen her movies over the last decade? Girl Next Door isn't mature, how shocking
This article is retarded
This is retarded.
retard retard retard..... There is a big difference between retard and the N-word. I had to read the article to find out just what R-word these idiots meant.... Opps... I'm in real trouble, not only did I use the R-word I also used the I-word... How stupid can I, opps there is the S-word. I just better shut up.
How long has the word "Retarded" been around? Just because someone decided that term is no longer "Politically Correct", we are supposed to erase our memory banks so that that word does not exist anymore. I used to be a mechanic and if your timing was behind, it was "retarded". Do we now have to change that term because it may be related to the word that was used to describe a persons learning ability (which was behind the norm)? I think it would be cruel to call a person who is mentally challenged a retard, but to remove it from our vocabulary altogether is rediculous. What is the next word that some idiot will find offensive? Maybe the word "Idiot" That can have a negative conotation in discribing a person who is mentally challenged. When I was a kid, I learned a saying that is very true. "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but names can never hurt me".
Whoever felt this was news is a retard.
Hey, what do you expect she's an actress...
Retard! Retard! Retard! Say it loud. Say it Proud! It's a word! Stop trying to ban words! Growing up 15 years ago during the Clinton era it was called Mental Retard or Retard. Anyone you makes a slip up or is slow to come up with an easy answer or was just born with a slow brain is retarded. Who are you people?!? The people who are making the issue that Aniston said something wrong have the mental problemms
Retard Please!
People that are offended by the R-word can't describe themselves with the S-word! Plus, people who are the R-word don't understand what the R-word means anyway! So is anyone really offended or trying to get attention?
I don't know why we hold entertainers to some higher standard when it comes to what they say or what they believe. I care as much about this as I care about Susan Sarandon's view on Obama or Britney Spears opinion on Justin Beiber.
Yep! I think it's retarded that people are labeled as 'insensitive' when they utter mere words like... retarded or n*gger. Get over it. Sure, they're disrespectful, but regardless – they're words. It's part of the American culture.
I thought mentally handicapped people weren't supposed to be referred to as "retarded" anyway, at least that's how it's been embedded in my head. To me, they are mentally challenged or cognitively impaired – something much more technical. So why are people getting so upset when the word "retard" is used to describe an idiot? You can't say "don't call them retards" on one hand and then on the other hand say "you said 'retard' – that's really offensive to them." Talk about hippocritical nonsense!
You know we have serious issues when political correctness has gotten to the point that something like this is even considered newsworthy. . . . . .
This whole 'article' is RETARDED!
I find it very offensive that people now days are so sensitive
Good grief.....................it's getting to the point in this society we are using "letters" instead of words????? It's to the point ya can't say anything for fear of offending someone! As bad as it may sound, we're always gonna offend someone.......and most times it's not done on purpose! We have used these words down thru history and now out of the blue EVERYONE is supposed to change their vocabulary? I'm afraid that's not gonna happen. We need to just quit worrying about always offending someone. No wonder everyone is a bundle of nerves, we're always afraid of getting accused of being racist or offending someone!
This whole issue is retarded.
I understand the concern but it's getting crazy out there. This reminds me of the time Johnny Fever said "booger".
It's really pathetic when people go LOOKING for reasons to be offended just to get attention, which is what this is all about. These retards need to get a life!
Eveything in this country, every breath that everyone takes is dissected and ripped apart because of a 24/7, 365 media with thousands of outlets who are all trying to get an edge so they will file reports on anything, and everything with no real journalism. Why does 20 percent of the population think the President is a Muslim? Because the media told them that- and for all intents and purposes, continues to- because they will interview any nut case out there- OOO- I said nut case, I have just insulted nut cases, I mean mentally altered, I mean mentally challenged. I think the term handicapped is far more noble that "handi-capable", or "physically challenged". We are turning ourselves into neurotic, bland, supercillious, super-sensitive blobs who cannot tell left from right- or serious from casual. The media will treat this like Jennifer Aniston shot the Pope. Because they have nothing of importance to say- and they know because our people have become so dim-witted, that if they only report serious, important things, they will lose viewership. I would love for Anderson Cooper, or Brian Williams and the more respectable journalists ( including those in print) to say,I will no longer support the reporting of innuendo, un-fact-checked asides and rumor: further, I will write my copy in as unbiased a way as possible, only to report the facts, all of them, for the reader to determine how they feel about the story.
I would pay to see that.
Hello! The people who are advocates for the mentally challenged DIDN'T WANT THE WORD, so let us have it. It is a legitimate word, found in the dictionary, described as "to make slow; delay the development or progress of (an action, process, etc.); hinder or impede." If Jennifer thinks her "playing dress up for a living" retards, hinders or impedes, her in some fashion, then so be it.
So, JA's comment makes no sense, and is undoubtedly a stupid one, but it's trumped by the infantile response of "The R-Word". Seriously!? Words are meant to convey meaning, and contractions and shorthand do that just as well. When you say, "N-Word", it's the samed damn thing. Parsing language misses the point that you shouldn't be communicating the sentiment in the first place, and replaces it with, "words have magic powers". They don't. Retard is an insult, and if you replace that a sarcastic, "Special person" it's the SAME insult! I also find it ridiculous that Retarded can in any way be conflated with the history of the N-word (I'm white, so no, I'm not saying it) which is still charged enough to make people cringe. What I understand people to find offensive, is that self-deprication is achieved by comparing yourself to mentally handicapped people; THAT is the insult, not the damned word. People are so stupid it makes my skull ache.
Can't people find something more important to become offended by than a silly slang word that has been used in school yards for decades. Now if she had used the term in reference to a special needs individual – that might be something to raise a few eyebrows.
Depending on HOW she said 'retard', she may have been mocking the guy in 'The Hangover'... which was pretty funny.
Get over it people.
The word "retard" is of Italian origin and originally was used in a musical context. You find it regularly in many classical musical works and scores, and it's meaning is "to be slower in tempo". Are we going to take every musical score ever written and redact this word from each one? This is so silly.
Our society is becoming WAY too sensitive and politcally correct. No one likes to see anyone with disabilities, but by bashing someone who uses the word "retard" to mock themselves is ridiculous. Pretty soon we won't be able to use the term "chrome dome" when referring to a bald guy (which I am) or "four eyes" to someone with glasses. It's just words, people. Is this really "news"?
Yes it may of been a slip up and it may seem like people are cracking down on every little word being PC and all, but if you have a speical needs relative or friend, you can see the sadness in their eyes when someone makes fun of them, and saying retarded in such a way is making fun of them. This is one case where I agree with the backlash.
Who was making fun of them????? It's not as if she said she was acting like a disabled person. Please. I too have family members who have down syndrome, but this is way out of hand. It is a word people have been using for years to mean goofed etc.
re·tard 1 (r-tärd)
v. re·tard·ed, re·tard·ing, re·tards
v.tr.
To cause to move or proceed slowly; delay or impede.
v.intr.
To be delayed.
n.
1. A slowing down or hindering of progress; a delay.
2. Music A slackening of tempo.
[Middle English retarden, from Old French retarder, from Latin retardre : re-, re- + tardre, to delay (from tardus, slow).]
re·tarder n.
re·tard 2 (rtärd)
n. Offensive Slang
1. Used as a disparaging term for a mentally retarded person.
2. A person considered to be foolish or socially inept.
She certainly wasn't using at as a disparaging term for mentally retarded person.
I work with retards...
With all these alphabet type words that we are afraid to say...the N word, the R word, the B word....we'll soon end up not speaking at all. This is all so silly!
When I was a kid, I often heard the saying, "sticks and stones could break my bones but words can never hurt me". We have gotten way too ridiculous with this political correctness. People need to grow a thicker skin and brush those things aside. If they are easily hurt or offended by the use of a word, how can they survive the challenges and struggles of life?
Also, retarded vs. "Intellectually Challenged". How is that any better? Say I tell an acquaintance, "You are intellectually challenged." How is that different than saying, "You are retarded"? You are belittling the person in both cases.
When I saw the headline, I assumed "R-word" meant "Republican." Ha, an honest mistake
It's completely retarded that this is even an issue. I mean, how ga
Context matters!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I agree it is an offensive word. I can see why it is hurtful. If you care about certain people's feelings than use one of the thousand other words that can be used synonymously. My wife has called me on it when I've let it slip out. I try not to use it. But this no where near the stratsophere of Dr. Laura's use in terms of maliciiousness and intent. So, I say, good point, don't use the word....and done.
First you say it is about context, and then you miss that Dr. Laura's use of an offensive word was in the context of describing how that word is used by some black comedians, etc.? Huh? Dr. Laura wasn't using the "word" in a derogatory way. She was pointing out that it exists and is in use by blacks.
When I saw the headline I thought the R-word was going to be Republican.
I think it's high time that the mentally challenged community take the word "retard" back!
Why is the R word acceptable and ni**er, sp*c, w*p, and j*p are so offensive that their utterance can get you fired. It's the double standard that is so annoying. I agree we should all lighten up, but let's lighten up on everything.
"..influential to society.." ? There is something seriously wrong with a country that allows actors to be influential to its society. Ms Anniston is an actress. Not a member of Congress, the clergy, or a false journalist.
From the dictionary: Retard – a slowing down, diminution, or hindrance. She is talking about acting like a child as an adult... playing dress up. People over analyze everything these days, it's ridiculous!
Can we still say "Dork?" I too am from the over 40 group that used the work as a tag for goofy people. Don't say it so much anymore – hope if it slips I'm not crucified.
Good grief, give the woman a break! She's only human!
Grow up boys and girls .. its time for a reality chack. In real world, who has time for this kind of BS .. move on ..
It's getting to the point that any word with a negative connotation is politically incorrect to utter. Are we going to start saying the f-word instead of fat or the L-word instead of lazy? What about the s-word for Stupid or the c-word for Clumsy? I don't think Jennifer Aniston or anyone else who had a shred of compassion would ever call a mentally challenged person any kind of bad name. She was using the word in context to describe herself as being goofy and/or silly. I'm sure most of us have done the exact same thing at some point. Just like when you trip or fall and say, "Man, I'm such a spaz!" You're not trying to be degrading to anyone with a neuromuscular disease. It's just a figure of speech. Let's get back to news that really matters.
You know what, maybe it's insensitive to some people who care for and/or are related to mentally retarded people. But honestly, there was no intent behind the remark to disparage anyone. People need to get over themselves. Should we use that word, probably not. But neither should we say something is 'gay,' or drop the f-bomb. But the vast majority of people do. Since when in this country did we have to censor everything that comes out of our mouths?
jennifer, don't let the retards get to you. if the folks that care about disabilities were smart, they would realize the word is completely dissassociated in the public's eye with people with disabilities (to about 99%). let it STAY that way. YOU are making it worse by re-associating the word!
I'd bet plenty of the people putting Anniston down for using this word are people who use it on occasion, too. This whole thing is stupid.
She should be stoned to death. Oh wait, I thought we were the Taliban here. Get over it! We all slip, and those who don't, well, god bless you for being anal rententive... Uh oh, I said 'anal'.
Most people don't know that I have a little sister who is mentally handicapped. I cringe every time someone uses that word. It really is hurtful to use the term as an insult like that. My sister is a sweet person and worthy of respect, just like most of the mentally handicapped. But you can't go through life being offended by things that ignorant people say. I just brush it off and keep going.
who cares?
Who cares people,she messed up and said "retard"..If you get offended by a word then YOU are a "retard"....There's plenty of worthy news to talk about then what someone said....GET OVER IT..
People REALLY need to get lives out there! With all the crap that is going on now a days and everyone gets up in arms OVER words! Give me a break! I have better things to do that worry about this crap!
Alot of people use that word in sentences and do not mean anything behind it. People need to stop getting up and arms about the most ridiculous things. She is not an evil person and did not call anyone that word. She used it in a context that meant goofy, silly, etc. To everyone out there who is offended, get a life.
Political correctness run amuk. I don't like that word either, but to make a big deal out of a slip of the tongue? I think we have too many people in this country with nothing to do.
My 16 year old granddaughter "reprimanded" me for using the term midget instead of "little person." What is this world coming to????
Because kids have been told that "retard" is inappropriate and not politically correct, they now use the term "mentally challenged."
However, the special olympics folks are saying that "mentally challenged" is the politically correct term to use when referring to retards.
For whatever reason, the spcial olympics people don't want "mentally handicapped" people referred to as "mentally handicapped." Apparently, calling something by its most descriptive name is wrong. So, why can't "mentally challenged" be reserved for the politically correct term for "mentally handicapped?"
And, use the term "retard" to describe mentally un-handicapped people who are mentally challenged.
I one went to a "Sensitivity Training" the started off with the instructor using every racist and derogotory word I can thank of, and even some I didn't know. He then went on to explain why these words are racist and derogotory. Lesson learned from the training – Sesitivity isn't about not using those words, but knowing that when using those words that someome somewhere will take offense to them. So think, then speak, and if you use one of those words be prepared for someone somewhere to blow it way out of proportion.
Seems to me the media has nothing else to write about. CNN, go dig up some dirt on Sarah Palin, and leave Jen alone.
This is really retarded.
Why doesn't the Special Olympics embrace Jennifer as their spokesperson?
Look how well she's done, for a retard.
I think that we need to boycott Bic for selling Wite-Out. That's a slam against white people.
C'mon folks...
"Political turmoil and fractious, backward cultures retard development of the infrastructure required for economic growth."
You see guys...here is another way the word retard is used. So relax and go one with your day.
This is ridiculous. Where does it end? How many words must people be afraid of? I could care less what people say, what words they choose. Grow up, people, get a life and live YOUR OWN LIFE. Stop trying to rule the rest of the world.
Really the "R-Word" that's how we're referring to it now? What happened to free speech? Grow up people I'm sick of the hangs ups.
Wow! Now someone is in trouble for using the "R" word. Having retired from a university here in the US of A I have learned that no matter where you are or whom you are, you must be politically correct to survive. Both sides needs to get over that. Next week we will have some one getting in trouble for using the "A" word or the "D" word, or maybe the "Z" word. We only have so many letters in our alphabet and now we have to wach what we pick out and say. We are advancing to a point that we can not use our vocabulary without offending someone with each and every word. GET OVER IT!!!
I think she needs to apologize. If she had said the N word, people would be protesting every move she made. WHy can we make fun of one group while another makes us a criminal. I believe it is because the mentally retarded are even more of a minority. Because you do not know anyone who is mentally handicapped, you don't care if they are ridiculed. This is just as bad as the N word – we just don't see Al Sharpton jumping up and down about it.
Whatever in the world has happened to our freedom of speech? Is there anything else more important going on right now that should be commented on? This is ridiculous, the media has gone berserk!
Jennifer is one of the most liked celebs, who has always been above the standard. I do not care what people from the Special Olympics think because their thinking is retarded. So lets look at what that means. Definitions of retard on the Web: cause to move more slowly or operate at a slower rate; "This drug will retard your heart rate" be delayed, check: slow the growth or development of; "The brain damage will retard the child's language development" decelerate: lose velocity; move more slowly; "The car decelerated" idiot: a person of subnormal intelligence. Here are some more. retardation; delay; a person with mental retardation; a stupid person, or one who is slow to learn; To keep delaying; to continue to hinder; to prevent from progress; to render more slow in progress; to impede; to hinder; To put off; to postpone; To stay back (en.wiktionary.org/wiki/retard). So a she could fall under a stupid person. So since freaking when does the Special Olympics have a ban on the use of this R-word. She did not say the R-word she said retard. Get it right.
I have worked with them for 18 years, I call them Ricky, and Mary, and Mike, and Robert. I don't call them by yelling "hey, person I serve #5" I say hi Mike, how is your day.
Retard. Retard. Retard. Retard. Now, I fell better.
Man, this is "retarded", why must everyone be so weak? Grow Up, get a life and stop whining, there are worse things in the world
"....one person even tweeted that they're thinking twice about heading out to see "The Switch." "
What a retarded statement....
This story is retarted!
I worked with various Developmentally disabled individuals for over 15 years, and at first we called them "Clients", then we had to change the wording to "Residents". Later they felt that was too condescending too, so they changed the wording to "The Individuals we Serve". And of course, that too was found to be offense in time. No matter what label we give them, they are what they are. Just as we are what we are, whether it be fat, thin, tall, short, smart, dull, depressive, entertaining, etc. What really make this issue so stupid is that most of that population does view themselves as any different as you or I, and they aren't the ones that are offended by the term. The the "Bleeding Heart" fools who always have to make big deal out of something unintentional.
I swear everyone in this world is waiting around to be offended by someone else...like a bunch of retards.
I cannot believe the ignorance of most of your commenting. For one thing, not all people who are mentally challenged are Down Syndrome. For another a lot of Down Syndrome, as well as mentally challenged can read, work, live independently, but to them the "R" word is a slang and makes them feel less than a person. This my friend is verbal abuse, which can hurt a lot worse and last longer than physical abuse. I have a 38 year old son, he reads, writes, works, but he cannot live totally independent. (also, when these people work 40 hours a week they make less money than the min. wage, in most places, such as rehab centers, they are only paid by the piece but they keep working for the pride they have in making their own money0. He keeps learning and trying and has the most gentle soul. But he has had people laugh, point and call him a retard. How would you feel? How do you think this makes a parent feel? Would you look at a cripple person and point, laugh, and call him a derrogative word? The Special Olympics in non profit and it helps to instill personal pride and accompolishment. My son can swim with the best of them. The money is used for allowing them to participate by providing hotels, food and equipment. The coaches are not paid, they volunteer.
I would suggest that you get your facts straight and put yourself in someone else's shoes and stop being ingnorant and selfish. I will take my son and the whole group of them over your ignorant souls.
Spoken (written) like a true retard.
There is nothing wrong with the word retarded. It means "slowed, obstructed" That's an accurate description. It's not bad, it's not good, just accurate. She did nothing wrong, and she should not apologize for other people trying to stir up controversy....lots of wimps in the world these days.
Jennifer is hot... I would love to lay in bed with her and have her wisper sweet "R" in my ear...
I blame the n*ggers.
all I can say is WHO CARES
Stupid people really offend me. Does that mean we can get rid all of them too.
I find it interesting that JA's 1st amendment right is overwhelmingly supported, yet Dr. Laura's is not . . .
We should have Dr. Phil comment on this... The dam retard, he is probably out cheating on his wife...
See, we can't agree on where Muslims are allowed to pray. Now we have to watch each and every word we say? This political correctness has gone on long enough and has been taken to extremes. I'm really beginning to wonder if this is the same country that I was borne in.
we are in two wars...economy tanking...people out of jobs....people dying by the dozen in pakistan.... are americans that retarded that we care more about what a celebrity has to say????
This is downright ridiculous...that is so "retarded" means, that's so "lame." It's not a derogatory remark against any group at all. Yes, they wanted to get away with the phrase Mentally Retarded, which was the term that HAD been used to described the mentally disabled. Or whatever the politically correct word(s) is/are. I am so sick of this crap.
At least she didn't say the C word, the W word, or the V word!
I coach Special Olympics, the word is offensive to me but almost everyone says it. When I explain why it is offensive reasonable people understand, unreasonable people make comments like the one below pasted from an earlier poster
"I don't get the issue, if you're acting like a retard, you're acting like a retard. No biggie."
I do get the issue and it is this, retardation is a medical diagnoses, willfuly stupid or willfully ignorant are not. You can cure yourself of stupidity and ignorance, you can modify your behaviour but once you become mentaly retarded, either at or before birth or afterwards due to illness or trauma you are retarded for life. When you refer to bad or silly behaviour as retarded you are denigrating people who can not help their condition. You equate bad, stupid, silly behaviour with who they are. How can that not hurt someone.
When someone does something stupid, people tend to say that is retarded, or that is gay. You never hear them say that is black of you, or white of you, or ohh, how Muslim or Christian of you (in these cases it is often diserved) but it the case of the two groups who can't change who they are it appears to be socially acceptable to scapegoat them for bad behavior.
I have no problem with Jenifer Aniston, I am sure she understands and will learn from this, but there are many in this world who are willfully bigoted and know darn good and well that for no at least they can say "retard" and get away with it.
Hey look they linked a site where you can pledge to censor yourself ... how about we just eliminate all words from the English language. For instance Im a geek and I find it offensive when non geeks call me a geek ... how dare they use that word it should be considered the g-word and not used. While we are at it lets put the term nerd on there and jock (since geeks use it as a belittling term for athletes) and any other word we come across that might offend some person. Stupid people being stupid because we have nothing else to deal with in this world than the R-Word. GHEY.
Seriously? There are so many more important things going out out in the world than whether or not a celebrity uses a " -word" We still don't go after rappers and other artists who still use the "N-word" and we don't go after women who call each other the "B-word". These are still all high offenses in my book but no one seems to care. She had a slip of the tongue. Get over it and move on. This country is so big on getting offended over the smallest, dumbest things yet important things like homelessness and rising poverty levels are completely ignored. In my opinion, that is being retarded.
WHO CARES!!!! RETARD RETARD RETARD..IT IS A WORD, it is an accurate word, pOlitical correctness is BS. RetaRDed people have slow thought processes, thus their thought processes are retarded, just like weed killer will retard the growth of weeds...the only folks who will complain about this are RETARDS!!!!...LOL
What's up with all the freakin' retards on this blog?
This whole topic is RETARDED!!
Well thats what they are, Getting so tired of this PC BS. Look the word up the the Dic,
its what they are. Retarded is one of the nicer terms
This is such a stupid issue to discuss... I mean I believe the last thing this woman wanted to do was to offend anyone, it's not in her nature. Sometimes people just need to let things roll off their backs.
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if you don't like the word then don't use it. for those of us who have no problem with the word, let us use it all we want. first amendment, people. and i don't believe that she should have to apologize for this, either. she can say what she wants and just because she is famous doesn't mean she has to have limits on her free speech. i imagine that the rev al sharptons of the special olympics are going to come out and call for her to make a public apology?
Sticks and stones may break my bones; but words will never hurt me.
Lighten up, Francis...
If people don't start standing up for "Freedom of Speech," all of these whiney, sensitive, overly dramatic, "people" are going to take it away from us!!!!! I wish that one celebrity would stand up for what they say and tell the world if they don't like it to lump it! If we don't stand up for "Freedom of Speech," we are going to fall because of all of the overly sensitive idiots out there who are trying to undermine it! WAKE UP AMERICANS, GROW SOME BACKBONE, DON'T LET ANYBODY DICTATE TO YOU WHAT YOU CAN AND CANNOT SAY!!!!!
You politically correct morons need to get a life.......
I can't believe we've become a society where everything has to be so politically correct that we have to watch everything we say or do so that we don't offend someone. Get over yourselves!! She wasn't using the 'R' word to referrence people who have mental disabilities. Most people with commen sense know that.
this is going toooooooooooo far!!! u cant use the "D" word, u cant use the "F" word ,u cant use the "N" word, u cant use the "R" word, lets c from A-Z what can we use??
Don't act like a bunch of retards....it's just a word, for christ sakes.
Moron, Imbecile, and Idiot were terms used for lower IQs before the medical establishment made them obsolete due to the public "misusing them" (http://www.iqcomparisonsite.com/IQBasics.aspx); they should do that for "retard" then. The root word of retard means slow. Next thing you know the PC police will be complaining about the musical use of the word "ritardando" >_<
Give Aniston a break.
Another Hollywood trash who will do anything to get press or on a cover page. Attach th W-word to her and let it go.
"R-word" in the headline? I thought it was going to be "Republican". bwahahahahaha.
This is so silly... here is the defination.
http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/retard
re·tard /rɪˈtɑrd, for 1–3, 5; ˈritɑrd for 4/ Show Spelled[ri-tahrd, for 1–3, 5; ree-tahrd for 4] Show IPA
–verb (used with object)
1. to make slow; delay the development or progress of (an action, process, etc.); hinder or impede.
–verb (used without object)
2. to be delayed.
–noun
3. a slowing down, diminution, or hindrance, as in a machine.
4. Slang: Disparaging .
a person who is stupid, obtuse, or ineffective in some way: a hopeless social retard.
5. Automotive, Machinery . an adjustment made in the setting of the distributor of an internal-combustion engine so that the spark for ignition in each cylinder is generated later in the cycle.
Stopping the use of the word is not the root cause of the issue and does more harm than good. The minute you ban a word, you're simply creating a double standard for the offended group of people. That does little but cause resentment. I use the R-word, but never to describe anyone with any kind of disability. I only use it to describe people who are otherwise "normal" but act "retarded"...because they have no excuses for their behavior and deserve it. In my opinion, anyone who does not go and see a movie or bans Jennifer Aniston is "retarded". And I will continue to use the word as I have already described.
Retard, retard, retard. I wish she would get even by mooning me!!!
Can we find a way to blame the White House on this one?
Seriously? So what!!! Retard is a word and where in hell is her free speech? So yesterday they were "retarded", and today they are "special"? This sad little country needs to look at what's really going on behind our backs. There are way more important things then the "R" word. Morons...
In written music there is a term "retardendo" or something to that effect, it means the music slows down. Do you think we will have to change that for fear of offending??
I use the word retarded in a humorous context, and so does just about everyone I know...and in case you're going to comment that we're rednecks (oooh, another "r" word), I am a lawyer and work in a law office. It is not a slam against any group, it's a word that suits a funny conversation. I will continue to use it, and I have no problems with anyone else saying it in a funny way: I just hope aniston doesn't cave with the standard-issue public apology to appease ubersensitive lobby groups with nothing better to do than lie in wait for the rest of us to "insult" them (in a real or imagined way).
this article is retarded.
I just don't know what to say about this hyper sensitive country we live in. I had to read the article to find out wth they meant by the "r word". I use a tweaked verison of that word on a daily basis- insread of "retard" I say "f*tard".
LOL @ JB1960's comment.
We should bash gardners that use growth redardant as well because they might mention it retards growth. Might also hunt down any one that uses the flame retardant, because you know.. they retard flames. Those planes that drop retardant fly.. hmm retardant tankers so they should be bashed as well. If you go to the store to buy paint make sure you don't use retardant paint it may offend someone. Or maybe we should stop acting like its not a word that has been used for years to mean "slow", to "delay".
This word "the" offends me. Cease using it immediately.
All of you people that are making a big deal out of the use of the "R" word are SEVERELY RETARDED!!!!!!!
CNN moderators are all RETARDS
I am offended by mean people. She does not seem to be one.
Attacking her demonstrates your limited mental capacity. Now go sharpen some pencils and think nice thoughts.
The "R" word, used in this context, means nothing.... I used this "R" word the other day at work, and my co-worker said I offended him, well when I use the "R" word, the mentally challenged or life skilled people are the FURTHEST thing in my braind. My teen daughter works with Life Skilled Children/People. When I think of people as having mentally challenging abilities, the "R" word isn't even in the same thought. So this is a slip of the tongue...GET OVER IT!!!
this is bs. tell everyone to quit being so freaking sensitive. it is JUST a word. start focusing on REAL issues. ie: we are at WAR!
This is so stupid. Every word is going to be considered offensive.
Who cares? I always have and will use whatever word I want. If you are sensitive about your kid, then get some genetic testing the next time you breed.
Gee folks – it's a word... get over yourselves –
This whole debate is retarded...
Yep – I said it – Retarded. It's a simple word that a handful of 'feelings on their sleeves' people have taken up as a personal battlecry for some sort of attempt at change.
Gorw up -
C'mon really "The R word" ? That is not even a legitimate phrase or reference. The fact that CNN is even attempting to legitimize this ridiculous controversy by printing an article about this is also beyond reason. Slow news day is it?
I am sure Aniston did not make the remark in a knowingly hurtful or derogitory manner as was only using it as the accepted medical community uses it to describe a slow state of physical, intellectual, social, or emotional development in an individual.
Let us not start fearing words or listen to others who do, in order to perhaps further there own personal or professional interests & agendas.
It is ridiculous how overly sensitive people are becoming.She was not making any deragatory comment anyone with a mental hadicap.She was talking about herself nor was she making fun of anyone.What I think is offensive is that people that relate that word to those with mental disabilities, that offends me. People need to stop making a big deal over nothing.
What a retard I am! OMG, didn't even know what a "r" word was!!!!!
Yes If you aren't Rush Limbaugh or Sarah Palin you aren't allowed to use the word retarded
Really????!?!?! People are making a big deal about this???? Only the retards are making a big deal of this. Damn yuppie phonies.
this article is retarded.
Love it Saboth. BABABOOIE. BABABOOIE
If you have nothing bright to say then shut up already. The world doesn't need to hear you talk just to be talking. Silence is golden.
But duct tape is silver.
Holy COW! (sorry to all those in India) I can't believe that so many RETARDS would comment on such a GAY article. This is just RETARDED and GAY and GAY and RETARDED!!! Newsflash!! Jennifer Anniston is no different than you. Her breath smells like the butt of a groundhog laying on the yellow line in August when she wakes up, her hair is equally pleasant in style when she wakes up, she stinks when she sweats, she puts her pants on just like you, without 5 layers of Hollywood makeup she probably looks a little buck too. This goes for ALL in Hollywood. And just like the media has made a complete Mt. Everest out of an ant hill, so have they made a star out of these common people. So RETARDED.....and GAY. Love you all!
I'll save Dr. Laura the trouble...retard, retard, retard. There.
She called someone a Republican. How terrible. No one should be call that even in jest.
A day will come when we will be left mute for fear of offending someone... Political correctness is the most RETARDED thing ever invented, especially in a world where the majority is so insecure they have nothing better to do than look for excuses to be offended.
People, there's a little concept that we have all forgotten called "context". If she was using the word to disparage a person that is mentally challenged, that's one thing. In this case, she was using the word in the sense that she acts silly. We have to get our feelings off of our sleeves in this country. Words only hurt you if you let them. I can't wait for Sarah Palin's reaction to this, especially considering that she is championing Dr. Laura for her use of a racial slur 11 times on the basis of free speech.
this is the wussificatiuon of America. This is why they hate us. Bleeding heart liberals with nothing to do but blame someone for all the worlds problems.
Haha, this story is so retarded.
Retard. Retard. Retard. Screw this PC nonsense. "We prefer to be called height challenged, low center of gravity short lifespan individuals". How about 'midget'?
Seriously, I am so sick of this PC bull*hit. I use the word "retard" about a thousand times a day. I love that word. I'm not saying anything bad about people who are mentally retarded, it's just something I say. People in this country are way too uptight with this stuff. There are more important things to worry about.
How insensitive. We don't say retard anymore, we say republican.
Retard is an acceptable word. It also mean republican
This is becoming so ridiculous... pretty soon there will be a whole dictionary of words we can't use. R word, F word, N word. What idiot started all of the " " word business. And what's worse is we as a society go along with the idiots and somehow automatically subscribe to this and adopt it into our vocabulary. Stop recognizing these special words and assigning them to a letter...this day in age, nobody should even know what the N word is...when somebody says N word, or R word or F word, they should get a blank stare. To me, saying N word, or F word is just as bad as saying the word itself, so you're not really fooling anyone by just referring to it by it's first letter...we all unfortunately (thanks to the idiot) know what word you are talking about. Looking forward to the day when people think before they speak and try not to waste their breath saying stupid things. If you have nothing bright to say then shut up already. The world doesn't need to hear you talk just to be talking. Silence is golden.
Before jumping all over JA's case maybe they should contact Webster's dictionary and have them change their definition of retard.
I remember my daughter who is 38 and her friends using that term when they were in school as a slang term for doing something silly. I don't think any malice was intended by the remark. That is what a slur is, a remark made with malice, give the lady a break.
Make her wear a Scarlet R on her forehead. Ban her from acting. Improversih her in civil court. Make her walk around nude. Good Riddance. She's clearly another personlity disorder. She should become "friends" with Dr. Laura. Keep them both away from children. That is my opinion.
OMG are you serious? The "R-Word" What happened to freedom of speach, when did this become America, home of the easily offended.
you can sarah palin for this one...total nonsense, lets find something more productive to talk about
WOW , how ignorant this nation has become.. now in a country with freedom of speech we can even say hi cause any other retard will feel ofended ,, was a stupid ignorant ppl this nation has become,, this is why to much freedom F...s UP A NATION.. NOW ,, NO ONE CAN SAY THE (N) WORK if ur other race cause the NIgros take it ofensely , but we here ofend the hispanics , other ilegal imegrants , abuse them , we think this nation is better than other when reallity its not cause fighting here cause using the RETARD n NIGRO word makes u offended PPL STOP BEING IGNORANT N RETARDS AND GROW UP,, this is America,.,well i thought it was but this is just a freaking battle ground ... strupid retards ,.,GROW UP
I agree that words are powerful....life and death are in the power of the tongue......but aren't we going over the edge with our word police....from the sublime to the ridiculous. She was talking about herself for goodness sake. When you arrive at perfection then be her judge...until then get a life!!!! If you are going to get crazy about something let it be for a worthwhile cause not because a notable person calls herself a retard. Public expletives and tv viewing full of "nasty" words is a lot more in need of "police". We are losing our minds in ridiculous matters. Kill the babies but don't say "retard" . I think the fact that it was even noticed is "retarded".
Who cares. stop being so sensitive. Retards don't find it offensive. they are retarded and don't know. they just want to stop drooling. Child molestation THAT IS OFFENSIVE.
And here i thought the 'r word' was going to be Redneck... Most retards are the result of choice, I've never used that word to refer to a person with a bona-fide medical disorder. Most celebrities are retards, most people at Wal Mart are retards, people who stop to have conversations in doorways or narrow walkways are retards. Retards are all over. I'm not giving up the word retard, the mentally disabled can have "mentally disabled", the rest of you are still going to be retards to me.
So who can say the "R" word? Down syndrom rappers?
I didn't know what the R-word was, so I guess that makes me a retard.
She probably said it because the recent movie The Hangover made the word popular as a joke. I find it interesting that nobody said a word about them saying it in The Hangover, yet she uses it lightly and gets attacked for it. Seems to be a bit of a double standard because I didn't hear anyone demanding a boycott of The Hangover...
Just a suggestion in terms of when one should be hypercautious about words we choose: Ask yourself this question. Does the person potentially offended have the capability of understanding that he or she should be offended? If not, why are we going apes**t?
It's not the "r-word," it's retarded. Just say it. And don't worry about the spineless worms that fret over your use of the word. Only a fool would take offense over her use to the word. Get over yourselves.
Oh, PUH-LEEZE! Enough with this PC society where you have to watch your every word! She did not mean it to insult REAL retards lol
Honestly she wasn't saying it with reference to people with special needs, just to herself. I mean, really, just because people stop saying the word retard publicly doesn't mean they are not thinking it or saying it privately. Same with the N-word, the F-word for gays, or any other social insult. Stop trying to change the way people act and think and speak because you can't change human nature. I think it's hypocritical to go about thinking you're an enlightened human being with no prejudices whatsoever when in reality ALL of us have prejudices against anyone who is different. I don't just mean with race, but with age, religion, appearance, etc. I think this just breeds hypocrites.
Now, if she had said "like the Special Olympics" (as another famous person once did a little while back) I could see why the offense. Or "I do it for a living. Like those retards in the Special Olympics." But she didn't.
I figure if they want respect, maybe those retards from the Special Olympics should stop acting so retarded. In fact, this whole thing is retarded.
this story is retarded.
Not a real flattering picture of Jen there is it? What do you expect from a person who makes their living reading other people's words.
whatever happened to "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but names can never hurt me". ??
I thought the "R" word meant Republican.
My own Dad called me a "retard" once – when I told my younger brother that the dog pooped on his pillow (we didn't have a dog...). Until this news release, I thought a "retard" was someone who pooped on his brother's pillow. There's little comfort in knowing that I was the real victim in all of this.
Whatever happened to 'Sticks and stones will break my bones, but names will never hurt me."
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This whole thing is blown out of proportion. How retarded can you people get?
come on... I was blindsided when all of the suden there was an R-Word. It happend like overnight. Retard is in the dictionary. Maybe we should ban all dictionaires that contain the word. Or maybe we should high-light in red italics all words in the dictionary that cannot be used in the spoken language.
If I were special needs I would be mad at Special Olympics for thinking of me every time some one says the word retard.
This whole subject is retraded.
I'm not going to stop saying retard. I'm not using it as an insult to people who are mentally handicapped. Nor am I going to stop calling things gay, as I have nothing against them either. On the day when society stops sing words for female parts and animals as some of the ultimate insults, we'll talk. Until then, stop being retarded. You are too easily offended.
Do you think any 'mentally challenged' (that sounds so much better huh?) people were really offended by this? The mentally challenged people I personally know exist on a level of consiousness that is way above this silliness. Even if they understood the unintended implications of her comment, it would roll right of their backs and they'd just keep smiling.
I was raised in the 60& 70 s . Retard was always used as an expression and still is from my generation .So was pinhead, pizza face, ears like cab doors, loony toons , mental .. Most still use it , so arrest us who say in jest , you bunch of "DUNCES " !! Nothing better to do then pick,pick ,pick . GET A LIFE.
Seriously not a bit deal. She was poking fun of herself.
Some people always need something to complain about; they're not happy otherwise. Leave Jen alone.
WHO CARES ?
I've used the word "retard" and not once was a referring to someone with a mental disability. Sorry to break the news that no one has the right not to be offened...that's the great thing about free speech. The same right that lets the "retards" complain about a slip of the tongue is the very right that protects those saying the word. Every time groups like the Special Olympics jump up saying "Waah, that word makes us feel bad!" it only reaffirms the negative connotations. If you don't want the word said, stop putting it in the spotlight with stupid articles like this one.
I'm a retard.
RETARD!!! Hey if Dr laura can say the N word and Palin supports her saying the N Word then I can exercise my FREEDOM OF SPEECH and say RETARD. is ti right, nope, but this is AMERICA where I have the FREEDOM to say as I please.
It's nice to be decent and socially concious and respectful of others.......however ANOTER letter word? Are you serious........I think we as a society should aim to speak a certain way but not demand it the way certain liberals do. Any words should be useable, its just that the user is never free from the consequences of those words
"A" word "B" word "C" word? Sounds like kids on a playground!
My kids can't even say "sit Indian style" anymore for fear of insulting someone... Now they have to say sit criss cross applesauce or something like that... I;m thinking Home Schooling is sounding more and more attractive everyday... PC is the undoing of this country...
No kidding. Amen to that.
Oh no, did I offend someone because I said 'Amen' and didn't mean it in a religious sense?
Okay guys honestly no1 gives a sh1t dat she sed RETARD okay? stop being so sensitive.
I can't tell you how many times I have used the "R" word. I never ment it though with the thought of people with down syndrome in mind. I think saying retarded is someone's way of saying that someone is acting goofy or dorky. And, I honestly think that if someone is going to take offense to the word retarded than they should also take offense to the word mentally challenged; that in my opinion doesn't sound any better or safer. Why is it now that we have to watch and becareful of every word that comes out of our mouth for fear that if we say something that someone may think that it's offensive and make this big to do over nothing. If you listen to the interview with Jennifer Aniston you can tell that it was said with harmless intent. I'm tired of everyone flipping out and making a mountain over a mole hill. It's rediculous.
A-word and then he Z-word until the P-word came and made him run back to the ,GH-word which ended up making him a I-word.WHAT is wrong here people ? Are we living in the America or some Soviet Brave New World 1984 commune where everyone has to speak in acronyms to keep from huritng some over sensitve pathetic persons racila, ethnic, religious, idiot-o-logical beliefs. Sad pathetic state of a great nation now brought to it's kness by thought and word police.
Every year, just like words are added to the Webster Dictionary, words are added to the Politically Incorrect Dictionary. Unfortunately there is no such book and I'm sure it would be as interesting to read as a regular dictionary. Maybe it would be though just to get a laugh out of what words might be considered PIC. Soon you won't be able to refer to your dog as a "mixed-breed". However, the "R" word is one that people have been trying to get out of the habit of using just like we all did, (and some still working on it), the "N" word. I don't ever hear the "R" word out loud but I have caught myself saying it in my head a couple of times. You know, most people don't remember that both are/have been legitimate words that were/are still found in the dictionary. The "R" word does not have to refer to a person's mental abilities and the "N" word does not and never did specifically refer to any race of people. That does not mean that we sholud apply words with derogatory meanings to other humans. Some are still OK though, stupid, a**hole, cheesehead, d**kweed, etc. Use 'em while you can.
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This is the bad thing about being a celeberty, your tongue slips like any other human being and you are run over the coals.
The definition if the word retard is to hold back, delay the progress. Those thin skinned people who get angry at the mention of a word are retarding our society from moving beyond the name game. Remember children, sticks and stones may break my bones but names can never hurt me. And get over it.
I'm getting so sick of people being overly sensitive over language. First it’s Dr. Laura using the N-word, now Jennifer Anniston using the "R-word" (retard on Regis and Kelly). They are just words. If you apply a derogatory meaning to them and then say they are wrong to use, and then say you should use this word instead, then that word becomes derogatory. We have seen it with the N-word, first it was that, then colored, then black, then people of color, now African American, next it will be “people with an excess of melanin who are better at sports than people with a melanin deficiency and were a minority but are quickly becoming a majority who may have ancestors who originated in Africa, but have never been out of the state they were born in” The same will happen with the word retard, before the dreaded “r-word” it was slow, stupid, mental, now special or challenged are becoming the next norm, what’ll be next? We are so damn sensitive over a language that we created, use, and modify daily. You never see animals bicker over a particular word, bark, howl, cry, hoot, caw, screech, coo, chirp or moo. It just makes one wonder if we really are the most intelligent species on the planet. We get angry over a word, kill people over religion, or less, and have heart attacks over the stress we put on ourselves over petty everyday stuff. We are, for lack of a better word, retarded.
geeez people sure pitch a fit about the dumbest of things these days. Retard has been used for years as a way to call yourself or a friend an idiot, just like saying 'you are a douchbag' or 'you are an imbecil'.....yet people have become so sensitive these days that you can't even beat yourself up without being chastised. Give it time and kids playing games in a playground and throwing around words that ALL of us have used when we were kids and the parents are going to be accused of being bad parents for letting their kids use that word, and call the cops for endangerment. Where does it end people...geez
This article is RETARDED. Who the hell cares if she said that. People are starving and dying all over the world and everyone is up in arms because Jennifer Aniston called HERSELF a retard. Ridiculous.
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I never understood what the big deal was with the "R Word". Retard is exactly proper word since it means to make slow; delay the development or progress of (an action, process, etc.); hinder or impede. It is unfortunate that people must suffer from retardation but it seems that only doctors can use the word to describe the affliction. If some one else uses it in light hearted banter...the world turns the proverbial nose up at them.
well according to sarah palin logic isn't it her first ammendment right? come on jennifer...don't retreat.."reload" sarah palin better not say a word about it if someone can spew the N word 11 times and mean to say it and aniston say the r word and not mean it in a hurtful way!
your a retard if you say R-Word for retard. There are bigger problems in the world to worry about.
Anytime someone on the right says something like this the left denounces them and people loose jobs. When the left does it it is brushed under the carpet and excuses are made. Until blacks stop using the n word I say its fair game. Eveytime I walk back to our warehouse I hear it from them. Its a bs excuse and they know it. Maybe I should go to human resources.
This whole debacle is retarded.
My haven't we become a bunch of sniveling, whiny babies! OMG did I just offend any babies?! I said the G word did I offend any religious groups?! GET OVER IT PEOPLE! What she said was not toward anyone else, but herself. If she had called someone a freakin' retard maybe I could understand that person being a little put off. I agree with a lot of others who have commented here, don't we have bigger issues to worry about in the world today other than some actress using a word that I would bet lots of us have used at one time or another? If we have to watch every single word we say it's going to be a very uptight world to live in.
Goodness, can we just leave Jen alone? She is constantly being harangued in the media no matter what she does. I feel bad for her having to deal with the hand that Brangelina delt her in public. Now about that "r" word – I hear it a lot just in general conversations, not in public on the tv, but even I have used it myself. I mean no offense to folks who actually have a metal handicap, it's just a word in the the English language (that's anouther story isn't it?). My son has cerebral palsy and we have used this word in conversations. Jen – just apologize, let it be and move on; there's much more important news going on people.
Arguing on the internet is like running a race in the Special Olympics, even if you when you’re still retarded.
"WIN" dummy.
WHO CARES ?!?!? So she said retard. There's nothing wrong or offensive about the word. It only means slow. This mindless society is obsessed with wanting to make every single word an insult!!! GROW UP! People are just sitting around hoping to be offended so another word can be banned. They should stop acting like retards.
When I read the headline on CNN's news ticker, I clicked on the story because I thought she said "REPUBLICAN" - didn't know the "R-word" was "retarded." This is Ridiculous! OMG, another R-Word!
That is so gay.
I like the whole boycott someone because we're offended idea. Several posters on here are going to boycott Jennifer Anniston (whom I otherwise despise) because of this. Well, I'm sick and tired of the political correctness that is eating away at our society like a cancer. So I'm sitting here with my United Way contribution for 2011 and I'm going to check the box to exclude the Special Olympics because they – as an organization with agenda of pushing political correctness rather than focussing on providing services – chose to enter the fray. Does that make me a retard? Maybe so, but its time we all start to take the cue from the "insensed" groups out there and vote with our pocketbooks. I dumped Target along time ago, but made my first visit there in almost two years at the first of the week because of the "boycott" staged against them for making a corporate donation. We actually had one guy out front holding a sign about how Target hates gays. Then I was checked out at the register by a guy/girl crossover whom I'm pretty sure is gay (or at least tranny). I guess he wasn't aware that he was working against himself – he needs to wake up! This is all so hilarious!
Oh for the love of God!
Just stop it with the "oh, this WORD offends me" carp, people. I am officially done. From now on, I will automatically vote for whoever the "offending" party is. Whatever "offensive" word may be used, I DO NOT CARE ANYMORE.
I am sick and freakin' tired of all the stupid crybabies. GET OVER IT.
My sister called me a retard the whole time we were growing up. She told me it was a compliment. This has caused so much confusion in my life... I don't kniow whether to be offended or not.
This is absolutely asinine. Every potentially offensive word is now relegated to “first letter of potentially offensive word –‘word’”. That is retarded.
I don't like Jennifer Aniston at all! I can't stand her, but as for this it is simply the media trying to beat upon her again. Seriously how long can the tabloids keep talking about her and Brad Pitt, that ended how many years ago? So she said retard, I say it multiple times every day, its not like she called a disabled person a retard or anything, she called herself a retard. Anyone that has a problem with that is a complete retard!
RETARD: of all the dictionary definitions applied as an alternative for this word is SLOW DOWN! Retard, therefore, was used for a long time to describe someone who is supposed to quickly understand something, but is so slow is understanding that s/he is described as a mental retard. The word has nothing to do with mentally challenged persons among us. At the rate of politically correctness we're going, soon we won't be using words to describe thieves, murderers, rapists, stupid, etc., Everyone will just be accepted for who they are we will all live in a bubble of expanding acceptance where there is no line demarcating acceptable from unacceptable. Where is all this crap coming from? Hollywood? Socialists?
This whole situation is mentally retarded.
Who cares? What about Cartman (South Park) trying to be in the Special Olympics...BFD
RETARD: –verb (used with object)
1.
to make slow; delay the development or progress of (an action, process, etc.); hinder or impede.
–verb (used without object)
2.
to be delayed.
–noun
3.
a slowing down, diminution, or hindrance, as in a machine.
This is what it has meant forever. Usually more in terms of a verb, but certainly in all manners of speech. To refer to someone who is challenged in this way is slang and offensive. This was not her intent. She did not look at a profoundly altered child and yell "retard!", she referred to herself as slow and impeded!
GET OVER IT!
There will come a time when celebrities will appear on "talk" shows and not say anything for fear of offending someone. It will be like charades....Swinging their hands around and pointing....Sorry if I just offended any mimes......This hyper sensitive ideology is becoming increasingly mentally challenged!
so tired of labels......seriously the word "retard" is what you make of it. And if anyone says that it represents mentally challenged individuals – then they are at fault – serioulsy fed up with the media blowing stuff like this out of proportion or people who say they represent the rights of various groups doing the same – just for the glorified attention that it brings.....it is ridiculous
"someone who is influential to society" ? Come on !
All I can say is
FIRETRUCK
I can count to potato
Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me..
Otay!
So now we have the "R" word and "N" word. "Fat" is fast becoming more difficult to say due to the preponderance of obese people in our society. It's more PC to say "heavy" or "heavy set". Wouldn't want to offend people who don't care about their health or appearance.
But how will we know which "F" word is being used?
What if they're both used in a sentence to describe someone?
Retarded doesn't mean a mentally or physically handicapped person anymore. I don't remember the last time I heard someone refer to the mentally or physically handicapped as "retarded". The nature of English allows for definitions to change. Every swear word we have can be traced back to benign acceptable roots. This is a ridiculous thing to take issue with.
I live in the northeast, and I still hear the 'R word' every single day, usually at work. It's part of our language, so it's not going to go away that quickly. Part of the problem is the R-word is being used properly according to the dictionary. It's not meant to be considered derogatory against disabled people, but just against the person being described.
That's retarded.
Like all you self rightious people have never used that word. Get your head out of your ass. Stop making a mountain out of a mole hill.
COME ON AMERICA YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME............... RIGHT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HOW MANY TIMES HAVE WE ALL SAID THAT, NOW ALL OF A SUDDEN IT IS NOT SOMETHING YOU SAY. THAT COMMENT WAS NOT DIRECTED AT ANYONE OR ANY GROUP. GIVE ME A BREAK. PEOPLE GET YOUR HEADS OUT OF YOUR ASSES
too funny – a person who has their head so far up their ass they can't turn off the CAPS lock key telling anyone else to they have their head up their ass... LOL
too funny – a person who has their head so far up their ass they can't turn off the CAPS lock key telling anyone else they have their head up their ass... LOL
OMG! I got an error message so I re-posted and ended up with a double post.................. I look like a retard! LOL
OMG, it is ridiculous how PC society has become. Celebrities are people, just the same as all of us. So what if she said retard, who really cares. It has come to the point now where no one can say anything without offending someone. If everyone was to watch their P's and Q's everytime they opened their mouths no one would say anything at all. Unless you're perfect and have never said any derogatory comments about anyone or anything in your entire life then don't judge or ridicule someone who has made an obvious slip of the tongue. There is a difference between intending to offend someone and saying something purely by accident.
So what that she said retard? Have you seen the way retards dress? Not to mention their bowl cuts. There is a hell of a lot worse things to be offended by than a word. Get over it and get a life!! You retards!!
The fact that we even have to discuss this is retarded. I mean that in the most insensitive way possible.
Does this mean we have to develop a new label for "Flame Retardant?"
So retards, or R-words, or whatever they desire to be refered to as, should take solice in knowing that sometimes they are just as smart as Aniston...not that that's a lofty goal but when you're retarded you take what you can get. All these R-words, N-words and M-words now need to chill and stop acting like such F-word C-words. It's not like they're naming baseball MLB teams like the Pittsburgh Retards, although that wouldn't be to far off from spot on. It's amazing how people spend their days sifting through life looking for things to be insulted by, while others live their lives muted for fear of insulting others. 2012 can't get here fast enough...
How retarded. Music uses the word "retard" too, which means "slow". Are we going to change that now too? How retarded...
What I find sad is that you can say God Damn on the radio and on TV and everyone seems ok about that. A person says the word retard about herself and people freak out. We (Americans) are the biggest bunch of spoiled crybabies on the planet. We are the absolute best at pointing the finger though.
Geez I thought she had done something serious, like taking a D-Word on the set. Now that would have been F-Word awesome. : – )
Get a grip. Everyone everywhere will get offended many times in their lives. The more you shield someone the worse it will be. If I offended anybody,,,,,,GET OVER IT. I do.
I have a special needs child and I am 43, of the generation that grew up using the word. I don't have a problem using it like she did in referreing to herself. I think that's the problem today. Too much political correctness BS! Why all the judgement all the time? Ridiculous!
Growing up having a brother with learning disabilities gives me a strong feeling about this word. In school, he was called the R-Word, contantly made fun of, had things thrown at him- all because he has learning disabilities. The word was used quite a bit when I was a child too, but watching someone grow up with that word being thrown at them daily really puts it into perspective. I agree that Jen Aniston probably didn't intend to insult someone with disabilities and it was probably an accident to use the word on TV, but when you are paid millions to be in the spotlight and to represent a movie or brand- you have to watch what you say. If I were paid even half of what Jen is, I could guarantee there would be nothing coming from my mouth that could be taken as an insult to any group in our society.
I have vowed not to use that work or surround myself with people who insult others by using it. I honor my brother and everyone else in this world that were not given the choice and were unfortunately given a disability. Slip of the tongue or not, Jen was wrong to use the word.
I'm sorry, but you can't "guarantee" that you'll never say anything to offend someone, because you never know what will offend people.
The only way you could guarantee not to offend any group would be for you to sit there and not say a single word.
"Intellectual disabilities" are the reason that garbage men are now "Sanitation Engineers, Stewardesses are now "Flight Crew Members", and Mailmen are now "Postal Carriers."
The whole issue is just plain retarded.
I still love you, Jenn, even if your are a retard.
This is retarded......
Seriously, This Politically Correct stuff has gone WAY to far. Everyone has their feelings hurt over something. GROW UP people..arent there WAY bigger problems to worry about? I have a special needs son and I am not offended. Good Lord people....This makes me sick...so tired of being PC. SHe wasnt saying anything bad about people with special needs, its just a word Get over it
My kitty is so soft
Open mouth, insert foot. It's happened to all of us at one time or another. I'm sure she didn't mean anything malicious by it.
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Everyone knows that only retarded people (and retarded comics) can use the R word. Whites especially cannot use that word. Blacks use the word – but ending with an A – as a term of endearment. Please make yourselves aware of your hurtful (and hateful) comments. Regis should be taken off the air for not defending retarded people.
T-word i-word s-word a r-word d-word!
With CNN leading the pack, that is what english will look soon. Why don't we talk about real problems instead of this shallow debate? I guess it goes with the level of CNN, filled with r-worded people.
Grow up people! This word, although not very nice, has been used forever! This worl has become so PC I can hardly stand to talk to many peopel because I have to figure out what the new word or meaning to a word is before I can respond. I do not speak PC and I am proud of it. I speak respectfully which should be enough for anyone at anytime. Jennifer has the unwelcome pleasure of being scrutinized constantly and when she slips the world falls apart. I CAN'T BELIEVE THIS! GROW UP!
Jeez, is this country going overboard or what? When is some celebrity going to slip up and utter the "F-word" to describe, no, not the dirty word you all think, but the three letter word that, as kids, we used to call people who were overweight. Then there's the "B-word" for those who are losing their hair. And the "U-word" for those we deem unattractive. Pretty soon we'll all be talking in shorthand. Then again, isn't that where this generation of kids is heading? Have you ever seen a sentence like this:
"What R U guys doing bcuz Im going 2 the mall." Call me old school but this kind of stuff drives me crazy. Are we really getting that lazy? It's even becoming pervasive in advertising. It all started it in 1984 with the song "I Would Die 4 U". Thanks again, artist formally known as Prince.
America is getting so bloody P.C.! I am glad I don't live there any more. She has every right to use whatever word she bloody wants to. Get over it people!!! I didn't evern know an "R-word" existed!!!!
Here's the deal: people can be fat, thin, smart, dumb, retarded, crippled, attractive, ugly, crazy and everything in between. This lame pc crap is simply a typically American way of avoiding reality. Playing language cop will not change anything and in fact makes things a lot worse by failing to acknowledge our very humanity.
So Freedom of speech only applies to "nobody's"? Why is it that everyone makes a big deal when someone famous say something. Get over it. I am sure she didn't mean anything by it.
This is ridiculous. We have all used the "R" word at some point. It's not like she has turned into Mel Gibson.
I am so tired of all this "politically correct" bologna.
At the end of the day, the PR Department was pleased with all of the free advertising, we lost over 4,400 troops in a trumped-up war, two million more foreclosures will occur this year, and this story will drop from existence once everyone hits "Delete".
Retard retard retard ... get over it, retard.
Well Rainman practically bankrupt the casino and he was a ratard. (as pronounced in "The Hangover")
Retard retard retard retard retard ... get over it, retard.
Sorry but this article is retarded. PC people are retarded. The Special Olympics people are acting retarded. The people who are called "retards", well they are just mentally deficient. Everyone else ... retarded. Actually the word Jen should have used is "stupid". So what's going to happen now? No "S" word???
The Orwelian thought police aka "Corporate Media" is at it again manufacturing another non-story.
Timo....that is EXACTLY what will happen.
We are just too sensitive on words these days...pretty soon we'll all just be walking around not allowed to say anything but a very select group of words....would make a good movie
The work basically means slow or half-witted – I don't think there is anything wrong with using it to describe silly behavior. The offensive thing is probably that we have used it to describe people with developmental disabilities.
Who Cares, We are in 2 wars the economy sucks and people really give a s–t that Jen used the word retard. Get a Life you F–king retards
I Think That Jennifer Aniston Just Said a 'B' Word Like My Friend Up Just Said... She Is Beautifull And Brazilian People Loves Her! ; D
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N*****, R*****, N*****, R*****, N*****, R*****, N*****, R*****, N*****, R*****, N*****, R*****, N*****, R*****, N*****, R*****, N*****, R*****, N*****, R*****,
Anyone having a problem with that can kiss my first amendment A**. And that includes N******* and R******!
So.....one would think since we crucified Dr. Laura for saying the N word that Jennifer should also be crucified for using the "R" word....but that won't happen in a million years now will it.....she will just go on with her toothy smile and people will still lover her....talk about a double standard.
What's all the fuss about? The retards on this post don't seem to be offended. NEW RULES: All "normal" people should stay home and shut up. Only "challenged" people can say what they want. Offenders will be stoned in public.
In this day and age, “free speech” actually means, “I disapprove of what you say, and will defend to the death my right to ensure that your right to say it is only an illusion.” I’m soooo tired of “PC Police Officers” popping up with their self-righteous blather. But there I go denigrating police officers. Sorry!!!
Shame on me! I've used the "I" word numerous times! I'm an idiot!
"Political Correctness" is for retards. ANYONE who subscribes to it is a retard. No...I'm not referring to anyone with "intellectual difficulties". I am referring to the retards who claim to speak for the Special Olympics.
Retard Retard Retard there I said it now come and get me morons.
i'm so sick of all this political correctness. just say what you want. you're never going to please everyone! life is too short to be worrying about the "R" word jennifer anniston used. MOVE ON!
No one got upset when they called GW a retard....lol
Retard is just a word...nothing rude or crude. Words are used every day in many ways...none of which really
amounts to anything. My problem is the press. Writers will do anything to get their name up in lights. Does't
matter who it is or what damage they do...to them, its a story. We do not have the right to judge this lady...How many times have you used this word...RETARD....Yes I feel like a retard somethimes when i do things wrong . Oh by the way I have a brother that has extreme learning disabilities. He is unable to care for himself. Do I call him retart...NO...
I call him my brother and love him very much. People its only a word...leave this lady alone...nothing was meant by its use!
thats retarded
Pretty soon we will have a 'letter' for ever word that offends everyone. Come on people. Lets get a grip. She was not trying to offend anyone.
Dis is wee Todd did, sofa king wee Todd did!
It's bad enough that folks think there all that and a bag of chips,however,jumping on a useless terminoligy like retard because someone used it to represent themselves is quite frankly their beeswax.She obviously was not talking about those who are impaired.Sometimes we all need to step back and think before we speak,including those whom believe they need to jump on every little thing they do not like the sound of,get a grip people.
Pretty soon all we will use is the alphabet to communicate. Then somebody will be offended that they called them an A or a B and next we will all become mimes. Then we will get offended because someone made a facial expression or pretended to be in a box (oops...we are offended at that one already).
This is just the most idiotic subject out there. Why is this news? She can say retard all she wants. Dr. Laura can use her special words (which get taken out of context so as to offend whomever wants to be offended) and CNN can rush out to report the offense to all who can't stand real words.
"You don't call retarded people retards. You call your friends retards when they're doing something retarded." -Michael Scott, The Office.
When did America become a country full of such pansie cry babies. Don't we have more important things to concern ourselves with?
I thought retards were too retarded to be offended or even care about the word retard. How retarded.
When has Jennifer Aniston ever been significant? Self absorbed brainless and no talent.
Oh for cripes sake...this is just getting stupid. First the "N" word, now the "R" word...are we 3 years old here? Get over it you retards.
The "R" word?!?!? REALLY? What's next? The "Le" word or the "hyphen" word? Here's an idea, grow thicker skin. You don't like Anniston, fine, don't see her movies. But stop being so oversensitive about words. What happened to this country. Mamby-pamby amerika...no wonder we can't win wars anymore. Isn't it time for your warm milk and a nap amerika?
It is absolutely disgusting that we are wallowing in a prudish Victorianesque society where "politically correct" is all the rage and people have totally lost their senses and sense of humor. Anybody over the age of 40 remembers growing up with commonly used words and terms that are now all but banned from conversation. Take Aniston's word "retard". According to Merriam-Webster it means: 1) to slow up especially by reventing or hindering advance or accomplishment; 2) to delay academic progress by failure to promote. So where are you people finding this offensive? How is it you have become fearful of a 15th century word that truly is innocuous (maybe you should be afraid of the word 'innocuous' also). Lighten up folks. You don't want anybody to offend you but I'll bet you take certain pleasures in deliberatly offending others. Here's a word you should learn and be afraid of...hypocrite. For a definition - look in the mirror.
Marni's words: it's a non-issue – UNLESS, say a Republican or a Sarah Palin were to say it – THEN there would be an inquisition and a stink would be raised to the heavens. but celebrities and democrats can say anything they want and all will cry '1st amendment'. the same standards should apply across the board.
Well said. Clear as day with the recent battles of what can and cannot be said by certain people.
Did Regis take offense?
Trust me, I love Aniston, and I agree that it's really not anything to have a fuss over. But, if someone else had said it, like Palin or Obama, then the flap would be much less supportive.
This story and the controversy around it are retarded.
I am sick of special groups, period. Lighten up and quit acting like tards.
Oh Good Lord-its a WORD. Its ok to say idiot? Ass? Loser? redneck? but retard is "offensive"? I agree that retard to MANY equals goofy. I dont think anynoe thinks the special olympcis kids as "retards" honestly. Those kids are quite amazing and stronger willed than many people who do not share thier challenges. If you treat them like a target, they will be a target.Does a person with Downs Syndrome get offended when you cal lthem stupid or an idiot?
Sad...when did our country become so stiff?
Get over it people. She didn't say it as a put down to anyone but herself.
All this political correctness would be different if it really meant anything to anyone but the ones that want to cause trouble.
come on, Retards don't even watch Regis.
Sorry but this story sounds Retarded!
Yes, I used that word and I don’t care who is offended by it. Some times free speech is something you might not wish to hear or agree with but it is a right that must be defended.
In addition, a use of a word is no big deal and if people want to act as if they are offended by such words then they themselves are retards.
This is so retarded. Why is this even an issue? People should be teaching each other to have thicker skin, not to be uber sensitive to mere language
Who is doing the brewing here other than you? Please grow up!
So what are the words you can't say? Is there a new list? It is political correctness which is retarded.
OMG I had to read the story to find out what the R word was! This is a non-story. Why has it because so important to police what we said? Now someone will undoubtedly try to sue because of this. America put on your big girl panties and suck it up! The R-word LOL what a joke
F-word'n god damn N-word R-words.
HILARIOUS! :O)
This is sooooo retarded
Oh my "G-word". Can people please stop being so "S-word" and "D-word" to get along with. I'm sick of all the "B-word" and "C-word" every time a celebreta....celeb"R-Word" says something off the cuff. I swear some of you "P-word" actually LOOK for reasons to be offended so you can raise your "D-word" little hands and say "Oh...oh....OH I'm a VICTIM!! Jennifer Anniston verbally insulted me, I'M A VICTIM!!!! PLEASE PAY ATTENTION TO ME!!!! VALIDATE MY EXISTENCE!!!!"
Buncha "R-Words"
Okay, let's use the "M" word for these hypersensitive people who take offense to anything and everything these days - MORONS!
Dont you think that all these comments are a little "R" as you read them all in sequence ?
bcause this bimbo is so important that everything she says needs to be archieved at the library of congress...
oh cnn and ur yellow journalism, u got me. you gaiz don't know how powerful the media can be, do u?
no wonder advances in technology is not going as fast as we hope, stories like these poisoning our mind. while stories that can potentialy inspire future great scientists are locked away in obscurity behind the front page.
We are all retarded in some way. Big deal.
Who cares? Why is this on CNN?
if you can say retard wouldnt that be the same as saying n|gger
I like how we now have a- words,h-word, f-word, n- words, r- words etc. Maybe Mirriam Webster will come out with a dictionary so we know which letter belongs to what word; this time.
My daughter with down syndrome loves Ms. Aniston's movies and looks forward to seeing her new ones. I, on the other hand, cannot tolerate such insensitivity and stupidity. She should be thanking her lucky stars every day for her fortuitous position because she did not get there on her acting ability.
How about giving it all up (I wouldn't miss her acting one bit) and helping those that need and appreciate it, Jennifer?
I remember my Mother correcting me as a child when I used this word in a derogatory way. She told me I may hurt someone's feelings because someone in earshot could have a disabled loved one. I try not to use language that may hurt someone's feelings, but really, this is no crime. A simple "i'm sorry" is enough. Everyone's looking for a crime.
Oh good lord. So some celebrity called herself a retard. Get off your period everyone. God, back to real news, please...
I'm all for calling a spade a spade...You go Jennifer...
agree 100% – it's a non-issue – UNLESS, say a Republican or a Sarah Palin were to say it – THEN there would be an inquisition and a stink would be raised to the heavens. but celebrities and democrats can say anything they want and all will cry '1st amendment'. the same standards should apply across the board.
That will never happen. Republicans will always get the worse of that exchange because the press and liberals will spin it that way.
Randy, I'm not media or liberal but I say yours is the most moronic post on this entire thread........ you & your professional victim sarah are a couple of retards....
RETARDED!!! If I were her, Id tell them to kiss my retarded ass. Grow some balls and tell them all to F.O.! and Id respect the hell out of you.
I've been using "retarded" (and "gay") since I was in junior high school. No one even uses Mental Retardation anymore. Now it's "Intellectual Disability" according to the CDC. I support Jennifer Aniston 100% and I really hope that she doesn't give these retards the apology that they are looking for. And what's with the "R" word? Nice try but it's not the same as using the "N" word which is what I'm assuming is the basis for using the "R" word. Retard means slowing down or to slow down or hinder and is used in many other contexts. The N word isn't used anywhere else in the English language.
As a certified retard (I have Asperger's Syndrome)... I say WHO CARES!?? I'm a retard. You're a retard. That's all get together and have a retarded o-r-g-y (in a singing voice).
LOL...THat has got to be the best comment of all times! Thanks for the laugh
come on people its funny how people get so mad at someone for a slip up when talking, but its funny like someone else said that people use the N word all the time and no one says anything but a famous white person says the word retard and its a fricking big deal, what would have happened to this story if it would have been someone that wasnt famous that said it.... i will tell you nothing no one would have said anything but of course its a big deal because all the newspapers need to have something to talk about
If you can get a retarded kid to spell the word 'retard' correctly THEN you shouldn't use it. But who cares really? That should be today's take-home message – nobody cares and the world will still continue to turn as it always has.
This woman is a monster! I mean how dare she!! I too live with daily abuse received from my peers. I have been cursed with red hair and every day I hear comments like ginger and freckle face, I cry myself to sleep at night. Add to the fact that I am irish and I get called mick and paddy and you can imagine how hard my life is!!
Damn it people really need to get over themselves, the above was sarcasm for those too dumb to realise, oh wait can I say dumb or does it insult stupid people? If Jen had said to a disabled person "oh my god you are a retard" then yes she would be wrong but she didnt, she used the word in a self depricating manner and meant no insult to anyone. I can guarantee you 70% of what is said on fox news today will insult a lot more people than what she said!
i thought "r" word meant republican...
I think it's funny that an organization defending people of intellectual retardedness would use such huge words all through out their statement...you'd think they'd want to state a phrase that would need less explanation.
Also to back up my drop of the R word is I used it in a grammatically correct way, and just because it's not PC doesn't make it any less grammatically incorrect.
Just once - the reporters life should be followed
lets expose their fat or coming out of a bar getting drunk
or what words they say
Same true for all do gooders.... we all are human
It is unfair and unrealistic to expect anyone to be perfect - to please everyone– impossible
This type story is garbage.
It is obvious that she did not mean disrespect. - that being said.
it too is ashame that some groups take ownership of words perpetuating this
instead of blasting her... ask her to help in the cause..
I am sure that she would be part of a solution ...
We are a sad culture at times
Just occurred to me.....even CNN is afraid to use the word Retard in their headline! Or could they simply be sensationalizing an otherwise unimportant issue. Lets face the facts. Had they used the phrase "Backlash brewing over Anniston using the word retard" most of us would have simply shrugged it off. But, put a reference such as "R-word" in its place and watch the interest change. Like many here I had to read the story to know what they where referencing to. CNN must have some pretty smart "R-words" working in the editing department.
Larry
CNN's r-words... refers to their Reporters..
especially the idiot... can I say that word? who wrote or reported this piece.
Da wittle witods got aw upset??? Otay, fum now on jis say "HALF WIT" Miz Jen!
why can't we say retard? that itself is retarded. now it'll not be ok to say every second word.
Oh Jesus fukcing Christ people! Have we buried ourselves deep enough in the bowels of political correctness yet!
So you had to drag the name of my Savior Jesus Christ through the mud huh? Every other person on here has class except you. Just because everybody here is laughing at this article b/c the PC crowd has made a huge deal out of the word "RETARD" doesn't mean offensive words do not exist. There are offensive words that shouldn't be used.
I didn't know what the "R" word was until I read this piece! What, is there a ( fill in the blank ) word for every letter in the alphabet? When did this happen? There are tons of schools for retarded children with the word retarded included in the name of the schools! Is anyone ( ie the press) going after them?
People have taken this PC (Political Correctness) way too far this time.
I think the Special Olympics Committee should research the definition of the word 'retard'. It in NO way what so ever implies a cognitive disorder. It is simply a measure of IQ (Intelligence Quotient). When people use the word retard, it should be seen in that context and none other. The more common, which i would rather call 'slang' usage of the word retard is derogatory, but almost noone uses it in that fashion any more.
On a side note: this world is starting to seem more Orwellian every day. George would be ecstatic.
Who. Freaking. Cares. Can't we focus on something more productive or important?
It's about time for people to grow up and start practicing what they preach to children. Sticks and stones my break my bones by names will never hurt me. A word is a word. It won't kill you, it won't even scratch you. It can't hurt you at all unless you let it. People need to stop being babies and freaking out every time someone uses a word our "society" has deemed inappropriate. Grow up, get a life and move on. If we were anywhere near as advanced a society as we think we are, if we had evolved as much as we think we have, we wouldn't be fighting with each other over words now would we?
I thought maybe she said Rigger
LOL!!!
i can understand the word "retard" needs to be used with sensitivity and should not be used as a verbal insult against those with mental challenges. i wholeheartedly do not agree with any individual using it in a derogatory fashion and it does not take much intelligence to understand why it would hurt certain groups in our society.
having said that, jennifer aniston should be cut come slack. it is obvious she is not using the word to be offensive. it was just a slip of the tongue, there is no need to rake her over the coals for it. she comes across as an insightful and caring lass and not a person of insensitivity as some people would make her out to be. who has not said something that was taken out of context?
Jen,
What ever you do, don't apologize. I'm so word-weary. People want to destroy public figures for every little thing. Everyone gets so up in arms about every little thing. Stop making such a stink over every little thing, you retards!
thank goodness there are only 26 forbidden words we can have at any one time
i think shes a nice person, and i base this on a few media articles that i'm sure people are paid to manage.
though i'm sure mell gibson had people too..so maybe there is something to guessing what people are like based on media..shrug..
This is retarded! What about the "S" word? I hear it all the time. "Gosh. You're such a schizo", "Are you schizoid? Are you going to go "postal" on me?"....My father is schizophrenic.....and I take NO OFFENSE when people use the word ... even if inappropriately. Why? B/c schizo means just that – split. Geez! Pepole....only in America!
The Special Olympics people are acting like a bunch of retards about this. I'm offended by people who get offended at any silly little comment that hasn't been run through a political correctness filter.
If you're one of the political correctness Nazis who took offense to Aniston's remark and felt the need to tell everyone about it, try this on for size: I hope you drop dead of a heart attack on Christmas Eve at a relative's house and fall into their Christmas tree knocking tinsel and presents and all the joy of the holiday season to the ground. Whenever I meet some hypersensitive idiot I make it a point to offend every little pansy sensibility they have. If you find that you can't turn on the TV or go for a walk without being offended by something you encounter, do yourself and the world a favor by making yourself some water-toast during a bath.
I have all of the respect in the world for the Special Olympics and for anyone who is mentally retarded. I honestly don't know why everyone is taking this way out of proportion. Clearly, she was not insulting anyone directly. She was clearly making a statement about herself being goofy. If she called herself a dork, would everyone who is not considered popular be insulted? This is not a good reason to stop liking someone or lose respect for them.
Is this just a controversy manufactured to get Special Olympics in the news. Seriously- who cares. Aniston shouldn't apologize.
I dare Sarah Palin to say something about it after she defended Dr. Laura for her N-word rant.
This is extremely silly. We have become a nation of politically correct idiots where we are too careful about what we say in public. Jennifer deserves a pass on this one.
Oh good grief~!
What's next ? The "thought police"? If we are all expecting such political correctness from people on TV then we better da** well be able to say we 'NEVER' slip up ourselves..I worked in special education for years.Have total respect for the mentally handicapped.. And the world "retarded" was considered Ok just a few short years ago..
So she said it...Tell her it is "mentally handicapped" ( which that might be wrong now~!) And she will probably never say it in public again..
We will never keep up with the quickly evolving names for everything.. Lighten up folks...~!
We would all be much happier if this country wasn't so damn politically correct.
Seems to me the only people that truly take offense to the word "retard or retarded" are the parents and family members of individuals with mental retardation. Many individuals with retarded mental capacity's either don't care or are unaware of their condition.
I find it extremely "RETARDED" that people think they can use a single letter instead of stating the entire word. Do they think that because they didn't say a particular word that no one will mind. We all know what these "letter" expressions mean...unless of course you happen to be a person of diminished mental capacity....more commonly known as RETARDED!
Today I learned that the word retard was a bad word.. I must start using it more now.. RETARD, RETARD, RETARD.. Anytime I can irritate the Hyper Sensitive, Politically Correct Retards of this world I am all for it.
I was working on my old car, and the timing was off and it was running rough. I used a timing light and found that I needed to advance my spark because it was "retarded". (as described in the repair manual) Now it runs fine, but I feel an overwhelming need to apologize to my distributor cap
OMG, this is the funniest comment on this thread. I laffed unti tears were streaming down my face. Have you considered a career in comedy, Mr Skip? LOL still....
I like Jennifer Aniston more now. I still probably won't ever see her movie, but anyone who makes fun of retards on live TV sounds like a hilarious person.
My sister is downs, I use retard all the time when talking to friends, but not to my sister. She is cogent of the fact that she is different. If I was on stage as a comedian I would use it. If I was on an early morning show I would not. Should she be lambasted, no, freedom of speech trumps political correctness. However, it is the right of anyone offended to express their opinion and ask for an apology. The greatest evil that could be committed over this or anything that is controversial, is to say that others shouldn't speak about it or just get over it. If you're not interested in other's opinions, get off of an interactive medium. Those of you that are just completely dismissive of other people's feelings, lack the empathy or intellect to better this world; you're the type that just regards this in an indifferent dismissive way.
The use of the word 'retard' is only offensive when used to describe a person with disabilities. Calling yourself a retard isn't affecting anyone with any disability – you didn't call them a retard, now did you?
So when exactly did the 'r-word' become taboo? And how does it rate to the 'n-word'? Is it worse, not as bad? Who gets offended if I use them in combo?
Well dang it, I'm Polish, so nobody better use the 'p-word' around me!
The overly sensitive people who are making statements and blowing this out of proportion are the RETARDS and I do not say that in the sense of people who have unfortunate physical issues, but for people who have ridiculous political correctness views and need to get a life (no insult meant to all those dead people out there).
The whole R word thing is retarded in itself. If we want to treat pepole equally, then teach the retarded people to get over it like the rest of us. Next topic please....
I saw my typo btw. But I'm a blonde, so I can make mistakes and still be gorgeous doing it. Oh and we have to have the word "retarded" for people like Jessi Slaughter. I challenge anyone to contradict this.
This is disgusting. It's amazing to see the society that we have created where everyone is hypersensitive. It was a simple slip up get over it. As much as you people out there think you're changing the world by complaining you're not.
What the hell does that mean? Anyone uses the word always sounds like a dumba**.
I love how people think it's makes them sound smart lmfao
As I'm sitting here watching your reports about Jen Aniston's "R" word remark, I can't help but realize how each of you are so easily forgiving her. Although her comment was not degrading in nature, I can't help but wonder how you would have reported the story if Mel Gibson made the same comment in the same context. What about the recently charged "annoying" Snookie or convicted Lindsay Lohan?
Isn't that the truth!!? No matter what Mel does, he's called a bigot and racist, but let someone like Jen Anniston say some of the same things, and she's just had a "slip of the tongue", or "everyone is over-reacting". Like another poster said, "little miss can do no wrong". Whatever. If you have a mentally disabled child or know one well, you have strong feelings against that word.
Mel Gibson is a pimp
It seems some people are trying very hard to say something negative about Jennifer. They are taking really small things that she does and trying to blow it up. What gives? She is one of the most beloved, beautiful and charming entertainers around.
What's better than winning a medal at the Special Olympics Games? Not being retarded.
OMG! Jen,,,,quick,,, call Courteney,Lisa,Matt,Matthew & David! I've got the 1st episode for the 11th season of Friends.
Its gonna be hilarious. NBC must see TV will rule again! Its called " R you kidding me? You'll win your 2nd Emmy.
Oh, by the way, all of you Friends still "got it". Can't wait to see the episode in Sept. !! See ya Jen
I was not aware retard was a horrible word now a days well times are a changing.
R-word??? We have R-word now? Oh gee. The list gets longer and longer. I'll say it now: 'RETARD!' the word exists in dictionary! So what if anyone says it????? I am not Aniston's fan, but she obviously didn't mean what some overly-sensitive people are complaining about.
Only blacks can say the N word...heaven help you if your white and say it! It s just words people!
P.S. from the dictionary:
Retard, noun, slang: a mentally retarded person. Go crusade against dictionary.reference.com. They're fine with calling the Down's kid a mentally retarded kid. That should keep you busy while us 'normies' call everyone else and ourselves retards.
WE HAVE BECOME WAY TO SENSITIVE TO WHAT PEOPLE SAY.......AND HAVE GOTTEN LESS SENSITIVE TO WHAT PEOPLE DO....I WOULD RATHER PEOPLE REALLY SPEAK THEIR MINDS AND USE ANY WORD THEY WANT RATHER THEN TO ACT VIOLENTLY AGAINST ANOTHER HUMAN BEING....
Was I the only person that looked at the headline and had to read the story because i didn't know that the r-word meant retarded. WHEN DID THAT HAPPEN?
There's a synonym for 'retard' in half the letters of the alphabet. Cretin, dolt, moron, idiot, etc. These are all synonyms for how people typically use the word 'retard.' If I yell at a Down's kid that he's an idiot, with the same tone in my voice, I'm effectively bashing him the same way. So are you gonna have an i-word, a d-word, a c-word, or an m-word? Yeah, thanks, God dealt you a bad hand, but don't censor me for it.
RETARD, 'tard, what ever, get over it people; don't be such retards about this retarded word. Quite being a bunch of retared hypersensitive morons about what everyone says "ohh you offended me, I'm soooo hurt, so scared for life". Give me a freaking break. Grow up. Get a life.
Really... Have we sunk so low that THIS is what we are making a big deal out of now? No wonder we can't solve our real problems! Give Jen–and the rest of us–a break!!!
Awesome. People need to relax.
Friggen retards and n*ggers, always over-sensitive about everything. Hi, it's just a bunch of letters arranged in a particular order, get over it!
You can't say any word anymore without it drawing as much criticism as murder! Incredible. I'm glad I already have a copy of the movie "Blazing Saddles" because in a few years they'll bleep out half of the language! It's ridiculous.
NOW – THIS – IS – A – GOOD – EXAMPLE – OF – HYPERSENSITIVITY! Nothing wrong with the word except that is had become "politically incorrect tp utter in public". Plus, Aniston was using the word to describe herself NOT someone else! To those who think the R-word is such a terrible thing to say....get over yourselves you...retards! LOL!
RETARD RETARD RETARD RETARD
I think the real problem is that Aniston is "influencial to society". Please, she should be able to say anything she pleases, and we should be able to dismiss it just as easily. Disagree with her, even hate her for it if you'd like, but don't for one moment weigh her down with your expectations of what celebrities should do or say. It was midly amusing when Obama compared his bowling to the Special Olympics, but this is just ridiculous.
Shame on Jennifer !!!! Guess she's never had any one with special needs in her family!
I DO have a brother who is special needs. Yes, he is retarded. That said, Jennifer's comment doesnt offend me in the least. And further, it doesnt offend my MOTHER, who gave birth to this retarded brother of mine.
So she said it. So what. Grow some thick skin, get over yourself and quit being so self righteous.
Funny, the courts in the state I live in use the term mentally retarded to describe people who are mentally retarded.
Who hire this retard to write this.
I just clicked on this to see what the "R word" was... that's retarded that we are letting ourselves get so worked up over retarded little words like retard.
All this hoohaa about the word retard? Jeeez people! There are real issues going in the world that require our attention!
this is retarded.
The word "retard" or "retarded" IS DEROGATORY just as the "N" word is DEROGATORY to African Americans. People are "mentally challenged" is the correct phrase. Why is this so hard to understand? If you were to use the word "retard" in your work place I'm sure you could be reprimanded for it. It is plain and simple ignorance.
a rose by any other name....is still a rose!
Thesaurus words for "retarded": arrested, babbling, back, backward, behind, behindhand, belated, blithering, blocked, bridled, burbling, checked, constrained, controlled, crackbrained, cracked, crazy, cretinistic, cretinous, curbed, delayed, delayed-action, detained, dithering, driveling, drooling, guarded, half-baked, half-witted, held up, hung up, idiotic, imbecile, imbecilic, impeded, in a bind, in abeyance, in check, in leading strings, in remission, inhibited, jammed, late, latish, maundering, mentally defective, mentally deficient, mentally handicapped, mentally retarded, mongoloid, moratory, moronic, never on time, not all there, obstructed, on leash, overdue, pent-up, restrained, set back, simple, simpleminded, simpletonian, slobbering, slow, slowed down, stopped, subnormal, tardy, under control, under discipline, under restraint, unpunctual, unready, untimely
Who Cares!!!!!!!!!!!! there are starving children all over the world...why care about a word people..."this" is "retarded"......
.....unless it's said about YOU or YOUR loved one!
You would care if you had a child or sibbling with a learning disability and they had to live with being called names on a daily basis. One is retard, which is just as bad as ethic names.
I totally agree with what Mary said !!!!!
Not yet again. Maybe, we need to see and hear less of Jennifer and then she won't be sticking her foot in her mouth.
The only thing retarded about Aniston is her choice in scripts. Enough with the mfword whining about the r word. I dont give a s word!
this retarded!
So where does this end? Is it still okay to say "moron" or "idiot"? Idiot has historically been used as a derogatory term for simple minded people, as in "the village idiot". For that matter, is it okay to say "simple minded"?
One of the newer slang words is "sick" to describe something cool or exciting. Is the American Cancer Society going to release a statement saying that the word sick is demeaning to people who are truly ill? That using the word "sick" in a positive way is an insult to those who are fighting a deadly disease?
Or how about "jock", "meathead", "musclebrain", or "musclehead"? Perhaps the NFL should start a campaign that only the word "athlete" is acceptable because the others denote a person with great muscular but not intellectual ability.
Jennifer Aniston is becoming more sensational after the O'reily debate. Every word that comes out of her mouth now is being censored and criticized..and turned into issues and more debates. Obviously for most people she is very influential to society, so why not elect her as a President instead..so we can listen and talk about her everyday. The retard word is commonly used by everyone, I even heard it spoken by children and teen-agers. So why suddenly when Aniston is the one who said it, most of those with the rude comments are jumping on her. I bet they have been saying that word also, the only difference is.... they are not being heard, printed or posted for the whole world to see. So can everyone just relax, let it go and moved on?
Angelina loves having a 3 way with some retarded chick..... or dude.
Never go full retard.
You ma ma ma, ma ma ma make me happy
I aint got a g g g g good brain......whats a r r r r r retard?
If someone is retarded, then he is retarded. Why cover up the situation by using a different word. The words mean the same thing.
Can I say n-tard on tv?
Someone should send that retarded organization this link:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Euphemism#Euphemism_treadmill
I love tards! Love Jenn more, but tards are cool.
I'm going to go rub one out while I think of some retarded things to do to Jen Jen.
She once told me my ding-a-ling was retared, haha, but I showed her!
OMG .... GROW UP ...it's a word, nothing more!!!
the R word, N word, M word, got 2 more for the PC word crowd, Pi$$ Off, get a life and stop whining
People need to lighten' the "f" up...seriously. Yeah, not the best word to use but I seriously doubt she meant any disrespect to any handicapped people. Give me a break. I wonder if those pointing the finger at her have ever said something stupid. How would they feel if people wanted to hurt them financially over it? Yeah, they would think it was totally unfair but they'll jump on the bandwagon when it's Jennifer Aniston. Pathetic.
Oh my! From the headlines I thought she called someone a republican.
Haha! I never know what words I can say anymore without offending someone. What's next?
Hey people, its ra-tard not retard!
I bet the people that are b**t hurt don't have a sense of humor, been to a comedy club, watched a movie comedy, laughed, or watched a sit com. Those people would have a heart attack if they watched All in the Family, There's Something About Mary, etc.
BFD!!!!!!!!!!! Get effin over it! Next thing you know talk show hosts will be sewing their lips shut as well as guests.
We have become the land of the offended. If you don't like what is on TV or the radio then please by all means switch channels or simply hit the power button. We are so concentrated on not offending or discriminating against a certain race, religion, gender, etc., that we trample on and discriminate against others. I am not excusing rudeness, ignorance or cruelty but remember just as you get to speak your opinion or thoughts so does everyone else. Last I checked a persons words only have power if you allow them. Not to mention that we all need to find some humor in ourselves otherwise it just seems we are embarrassed by what we are instead of bracing our individualality.
perry GLAD TO SEE YOU KNOW WHAT IS IMPORTANT IN LIFE...YOUR IDEA OF DOING GOOD IS "CAPS OFF"
THAT IS WHAT IMPORTANT TO YOU.. I BET YOU WERE OFFENDED BY "CAPS ON " SORRY, YOU ARE SO SENSITIVE...
Apology accepted....precious.
GROW UP PEOPLE ..THANK GOODNESS MOST OF US DO NOT BELIEVE IN A GOD THAT HAS A WAY OF PUNISHING PEOPLE...I AM SURE SHE DID NOT MEAN IT IN A CRUEL WAY... IT IS JUST A WORD....WHY ARE WE ALL SO SENSITIVE.. LET'S PUT THIS ENERGY TO SOME GOOD USE.. GET THE HOMELESS FOOD.. SHELTER..MEDICAL CARE...INSTEAD OF BEING ALL WORKED UP OVER A WORD THAT WAS USED IN DESCRIBING HERSELF ... BEING FUNNY...LET'S GET ON WITH LIFE & DO SOME GOOD...
Doing good would be sending you money for lessons on how to turn your caps lock key off.
To be a retard, you must have previously been a tard...right?...I'm just saying.
Can they be cured? Detarded?
WOW, That C-word is such an R-word she should go tell the n-words to f-word themselves. Oops I hope I didn't offend any L-words. I'm just such an A-word, OMG ...
F-wording right on!
It took me til the second paragraph to figure out what the hell the 'R' word was. Boy do I feel like a retard.
Who gives a turd what this ditched witch says anyways? Im sure she wouldnt take care of a child with disabilities herself if she had one but if she had a child like that I bet she'd never use that word.
Yep, your right.
I am waiting for the Palin's to issue a statement....
I remember when Palin got busted for calling her baby a retard, so I can't wait to see what she has to say for once. Now THAT's a retard.
Oh for god's sake, people, get the eff over it. She slipped, as I and probably every one of you do, in a so-called "politically incorrect" moment, and now has to backtrack to make it better. Frankly, everyone needs to get the eff over themselves and just laugh. At what point did our society decide it was bad to laugh, even if a little uncomfortably?
-Usually used to label someone as stupid.
-Not commonly used to make fun of the disability.
When I was growing up in the 70s, we were taught to grow thicker skin and shrug off insults. Sure, it doesn't always work, but why are we not teaching our children to ignore things they perceive as insults? I've been called names throughout my life for various things. Did it hurt? Yes, but I also learned to look past that because I had a good sense of worth instilled in me by my parents. Aniston wasn't saying this to insult some group of people specifically; if she had, it would be a different matter. As others have said, what should matter is tone and intent. How to distinguish the tone and intent of words is something parents should be teaching their children. You can't shield your child from all of life's unpleasantries, and you are doing them no favors by trying. All you're doing is allowing your kids, special needs or not, to have thin skin and not know how to move past something like this. And yeah, I have people with special needs in my family, so any attempts by the likes of "elizabeth" or "ann" to try to discredit the truths I'm speaking will fall on deaf ears. (And no, that was not a slur against deaf people.)
The mentally challenged would have a had time understanding your point.
You're kidding, right?
I'm not quite sure.
I mean... you, yourself, called your brother retarded... but then went on to what sounded like a legitimate statement against the use of the word.
Gah.. this was suppose to be in reply to RJS.
Get over it people. relax...Worse has been said...
Obama Jokes About Bowling: "It's Like the Special Olympics" (March 2009)
President Obama, in his taping with Jay Leno Thursday afternoon, attempted to yuk it up with the funnyman, and ended up insulting the disabled.
Towards the end of his approximately 40-minute appearance, the president talked about how he's gotten better at bowling and has been practicing in the White House bowling alley.
He bowled a 129, the president said.
"That's very good, Mr. President," Leno said sarcastically.
It's "like the Special Olympics or something," the president said.
"The president made an off-hand remark making fun of his own bowling that was in no way intended to disparage the Special Olympics," White House deputy press secretary Bill Burton said.
Jennifer has had a charmed life and is everyone's "darling" these days. I have a younger brother who is severely retarded to the extent that in his 54 years on this earth he cannot walk, speak, understand or even recognize me. He is fed through a tube in his stomach. He is confined to his bed and requires diapers. There is nothing funny about using the word "retard." When I hear it my blood runs cold as I envision my brother in his bed. God has a way of punishing people for the kind of cruelty demonstrated by Jennifer. Some day, Jennifer might have a baby and we'll see! I wish that Jennifer burns in hell for her stupidity and ignorance.
Wow, you know, I think there are far worse things people can do in life to deserve someone hoping they "burn in hell." Seriously, I'm sorry about your family situation, but I think it would benefit you to step outside yourself for a second and re-read what you just wrote from a neutral standpoint so you can see how out in left field your comment is.
LMAO....AGREED DAVE IN aRIZOna...
I'm sorry to read that your Brother is severly disabled. I'm sure that is very hard for your family and for you. That is something I know nothing about. I understand that you might be upset by her comment but in the context of her comment it really has no baring on your Brother and his disabilities. For in my opinion your Brother is not retarded. He is disabled. But I do have this to say to you. To wish harm on another person or her unborn child makes you a far worse person then she. Your comments are deliberate, intentional, and extremely hateful. You should rethink your comments and judgements especially when comparing them to your Brother. I am sure if he could have an opinion himself, not even he would be so cruel to wish something on a newborn baby.
Oh Please!!! You've never said anything stupid in your life? Do you deserve to rot in hell because of it? Give me a break. Your statement is retarded.
Seems to me the only people that truly take offense to the word "retard or retarded" are the parents and family members of individuals with mental retardation. You are more concerned with people thinking you are retarded because someone in your family is mentally and/or physically incapacitated. Its called quilt by association. Many individuals with retarded mental capacity's either don't care or are unaware of their condition.
When I read your ridiculous rant, I have no sorrow or pity for your family situation. If anything, it seems your family got what it deserves having someone as retarded, backward, and f'd up as you are. I have a feeling it is you that is paying for some cruelty you must have done in your life. Perhaps it is your own guilt speaking, guilty that your actions have resulted in your brother's ailment. To wish someone's death for using a simple word, and to hide behind the disabilities of someone else to justify your comments is for lack of a better word, completely RETARDED! 'Jennifer's Cruelty,?' what, using a simple word to describe herself???? Get over yourself, and for goodness sake, everyone who is offended by such a silly word, grow the hell up. All this whining 'I have a friend, a child, a brother/sister, I know someone,' please, all of you, just using others to somehow make your self feel better for defending their reputations, reputations that have not been tarnished accept by the whackos such as yourselves who have made the use of this word a bigger issue than it is. You are all truly the definition of Retarded!! Jennifer, you have nothing to apologise for. I am sure all these idiots clamoring against you use much worse words in their daily lives, but heaven forbid, someone famous actually use a simple little word like Retard. Screw them all!
Wow! Which person is worse? One who makes fun of themself by using a word that some people find offensive....
OR one who spews hatred and really hopes someone burns in hell? Just saying – maybe you ought to take a close look at yourself before critiquing a remark made with no intent to harm. People need to lighten up.
I have a mentally challenged sister....and I didn't take offense to what Jen said....BECAUSE she was talking about herself...not to any particular group....!!!! We really do need to lighten up......there are soooo many other issues we need to concern ourselves with.....pick something else!!
Yeah, and G-d has a way of punishing those that want people to burn in hell. Look, I really do feel your pain. My son is 33 years old and profoundly mentally retarded. He is non verbal, can barely feed himself, wears diapers, etc., and doesn't have a line in his face. Why? Because he is totally innocent and doesn't have the worries we "normal" people have. He is also the greatest gift I could have been given. He has taught me how to love unconditionally. There is a purpose for us all...even Jennifer Aniston.
i cant believe how retarded people are...you have to be joking me that this made news today...we have people waking up in war, unemployment at all time highs, family's who cant afford to feed children and this is a big deal? This country has become a sad state when people cant just talk off the cuff. To everyone on this site saying stupid retarded things like say it to an elementary...really you freakin retard??? she didnt go to a school or child care center and start bullying children or knocking handicap people over....
To everyone I say people are dying for our freedoms in this counrty which of one is freedom of speech...
It's not the intention of the person who says it, but the interpretation put on it by the person who hears it.
To some point I agree, but intent also counts for a lot. If Aniston's intent was to be hurtful then I would have no issue with her being socially slammed for it, regardless of how others take it. It's true people need thicker skin but that doesn't excuse others from being bullies.
This story is Retarded!!!!!!!
Also, Jenny's looking kind of old. And intense. Is that a word I can use or should I call it the "I-word"?
yeah, and it's sad, because with her money she could have surgery to make her look less retarded, but I mean that in a good way, really, because retards can't change their skill set but they can always have surgery to look better, so she's already 1 step ahead.... to illustrate, she won't bring me a vodka tonic when I asked plainly for a vodka and soda...
I thought it was inappropiate to say that, I did lose a little respect for her. All of the people who are saying lighten up, tell that to the children who have mental impairments and are laughed at and called "retarded" everyday. I am a teacher, I see this all the time.
They're probably called stupid, too. Should "stupid" now socially be referred to as the "S-word" and should articles be written for it when someone jokingly refers to themselves as such?
It doesn't matter what words those kids are using. What matters is that they're picking on these kids; that their intent is to be hurtful. As a teacher I sincerely hope you understand that. It would be pretty disgusting to think you'd let these kids pick on them so long as they don't use the "R-word".
i agree with you at every level here. i was saying the same thing above. its hurtful and they don't realize it. i look at students everyday that are called those names- if only they could see their pain.
Dave in AZ
You say the same thing in every post. Should the Z word be censored, should the X word be censored, the M, N, O...and on, and on, and on. Try a different approach, this one is really stale.
I agree! Don't we have bigger things to worry about? I'm more upset that we're exposed to Sarah Palin's & "dr." Laura's espousing verbal vomit than anything Jennifer Aniston says.
This is a news story??? America, you need to get a grip. Holy crap!
Sorry, See what happens
She was happens when these dopes go off script.
Okay, now that comment is just asking for a retard joke.
Congratulations Aniston you got the media your sorry ass loser career is craving for. Do something worthwhile for once.
Wow do you sound jealous or what!
I had a stroke and when I hear someone say something like, "Man, I was so busy I had a stroke", it really iritates me because they have NO idea what having a stroke is like. But, on the otherhand, she said what she said and I am sure some people were offended, but most people know that she did not mean what she said. It is a word that has many different meanings. Just like with the 'stroke' word, I don't like it but I live with it when it is used inappropriately. People do not always understand that they may be offending someone, and I am sure that I probably do the same sometimes myself and do not even realize I am doing it. Come on folks, grow up.
to everyone who said– "get over it" or "stop being so sensitive"
i would like you to say that to an elementary student that was or has been called "retarded". then look in their eyes and see the pain. its hurtful.
That's funny because they are the ones that called others that. It's their nature to bully. Watch how they respond to my comment.
It's the same "h" in hurtful as in hilarious. And you mean look in their eye, right, because in retards they're usually crossed.
i guess you haven't been in a school recently. they seem to be more mature then adults now a day.
I was reffering to the "to everyone who said– "get over it" or "stop being so sensitive" not the metally challenged.
my mistake.
spread the word to end the word. http://www.r-word.org.
...but if you say it like it's a present or delicious ice cream then a retard will smile really big and get all excited, then pee... that's why they smell...
eBorg
You're a troll...no one cares about your childish comments.
At least she wasn't drooling, slapping her chest with a limp hand while grunting "Unnnnngh."
or, maybe, she was grunting and drooling – if everyone grunts and drools then everyone thinks they're speaking the same language. Retards are gods punishment for hubris, by the way. Talking about it only makes it funnier.
Not gonna lie, I laughed out loud, read it again, and laughed even harder. Thank you.
It's retarded that anyone freaked out. I don't think I've heard anyone in the last decade refer to a mentally handicaped person as retarded. People have done well to move away from that. Usually they are refering to somethinge else, like bad luck. So people just need to chill out!
I'm still mad at her for her man hating comments about men earlier. She is advocating single motherhood by choice!! Who does that, every single mother I know didn't set out for that situation. They made the best of bad situations, what women do best. Who wants to raise a child on their own. Find yourself Jen, then maybe you will understand why you can't seem to keep a man, and stop taking your hatred for men out on innocent kids that you might adopt or get sperm donated to make in the future. At some point you must stop blaming everyone else for your in ability to have anyone put up with you.
so i can say R word and not retard but then u will still know i mean retard, jeez.
My god... way too many people need to get a life! That is not offensive to anybody. Grow up people.
just like the "N" word is not hurtful to African Americans? Same difference pal!
The 1rst amendment says we have the right to say anything we want to. Common sense says that just because you can say something does not mean you should. I hate the PC police but when it comes to people who can't defend themselves properly like the mentally challenged, then I say don't use it. Find a different pop term.
Hey I know some of you may not care, but it's super offensive, I mean I've seen people cry over it. Nobody's perfect people, but for the ones who the word is talking about, it is very offensive.
People have killed themselves over being called fat. Does that mean people aren't allowed to refer to themselves as fat?
Perhaps Jennifer would like to make a donation to the Special Olympics. Several "M" might be in order. I'm sure it wouldn't cut in to her wardrobe & shoe budget, Cabo San Lucas vacations, personal trainer, stylist, make-up artist, hair stylist, too much.......
Although using any word to hurt someone is wrong, it is important that we use words properly. 'Retarded' is actually a great word that denotes slowness but with the eventuality of moving forward towards betterment. A much better term with much less condecension than "handicapped" "handicapable" or "Special" etc....
Why do people jump on everything we say? Educated people knew how she meant that word.It was supposed to be funny and not aimed towards people who really have a problem with mental retardation.This R word and many other slang words have been around since I was in elementary school,and that's been 63 yrs. ago.People are too sensitive or they just like to stir up trouble to get attention.Should we do away with the U word-Ugly,the F word-Fat,the S word-Stupid.You get the idea.Pretty soon we can't talk at all and have to use sign language,but wait,we might sign those words by accident and then boy will there be hell to pay.Come on people,use the brains that God gave you and you'll know what is really wrong to say and what is right to say and what is meant to be humorous and not meant to hurt anyone's feeling,etc.We have more important and urgent things to worry about in our lives,in this country and in the world.Focus..Focus! Yes,that's an F word.Oops !
Great, now we have an "R" word to go along with the infamous "N" word. Let's not forget the "C" word or the "F" word either. They are all just words people. Get over it.
yes, indeed they are words. however words are hurtful. why would have to put someone through so much pain by using such offensive words. you tell a 3rd grader with DCD to not be sensitive because they were called "retarded." you will see the pain in their eyes.
@guest
Any word can be made hurtful. Should we censor them all?
By the way. You're unintelligent.
Sorry. I mean you're the U-word.
.....until it's YOU that fits into one of those descriptions! Easy when you're on the outside looking in! It's IGNORANT and hurtful, plain and simple!
Dave in AZ – you're not unintelligent, but you are unsensitive. The word unintelligent doesn't point out one specific group of people. You're smart enough to know that. That's a completely bogus argument. The fact that you don't find the word offensive doesn't mean it isn't. So, she used the word in the correct context. So what? It's still in a derogatory context, which is the issue. Most people don't take offense, but there are many who do. She used it in an inappropriate forum, that's all.
well the good news is 'little miss can do no wrong" is finally picked on for a change! it gets so tiring to hear how Ms 'A' is so flawless..everyone has flaws including her. But with this recent 'slip up' by her, I beg to differ, It is not appropriate term to refer to the mentally challenged as retarded, If you do that, than there lies the problem. When I hear someone refer to themselves as 'a retard' it does not cause me to think of people with challenges or the mentally impaired in that way. it makes me think it is synonomous of goof and people who are mentally challenged as just that, mentally impaired. ( Im sure most of has been in the company of folks throwing the word around without issue) ,
Retarded also means (Occurring or developing later than desired or expected; delayed)
Retarded is an outdated term. relax everybody.
And if the word does make you think of someone who is mentally challenged, than that persons needs to tale a long look in the mirror – guilty as charged!
I'm sorry, did you say she's "finally" getting picked on? Where have you been for the last 5 years? The girl can't do anything right in some people's eyes! She's been picked on for everything from this to how she wears her hair! There are some people out here who are probably picking on her because they are truly offended by the word "retard," but far more of them are most likely picking on her because it's yet one more thing they can virtually stone her for.
Why do we worry so much in this country about what people say? Jen was talking about herself, she meant no harm to anyone, nor was she being insensitive. She just made a statement about herself, with a word, that was used a lot during her childhood era. I know this because I am the same age as her. I know she is no longer a child but sometimes we all say things that we said as kids growing up. If we are going to get mad about something, or be proactive, then do it for a worth cause such as, the children that are going to bed tonight in America hungry, homeless people, or raise money for someone who is sick and really needs it. Not someone saying a word that was not used in a hateful or derogatory fashion. Go do something real!!! Please!!!
Thank goodness me and my special needs friends will not ever read this. I use spell check, in case you wondering.
this is retarded
Exactly what stereotype is being perpetuated ? Mentally challenged actually sounds far worse than retarded. Retarded has a sense of having the ability to pro-tard while mentally challenged has a finality to it.
I am ashamed for her. What's she going to do next? Use the "N" word? Maybe she should use the "C" word to describe herself. She is the worst person in the wold. She needs to apologize to us all and banned from ever making another movie. How dare you Jen? You are a horrible horrible and offensive person.
Are you retarded ? How can you be ashamed for her ? Doesn't even make sense.
Relax and take a Valium, Doc, I think Me was kidding.
Get a liife you "DEGENERATE LOWLIFE " There's a world outside your door. Contribute your brainpower to move on ,or are YOU BRAINDEAD .
OK is this is serious story? It's just retarded. No where in the conversation on "Live" or at any point did I think of people with intellectual disabilities when the word RETARD was mentioned.
What's the problem ? Retard is a word used to describe normal people with a stupid moment. Mentally challenged is for the clinically disabled. The two have no relationship. What a mentally challenged world we live in when every word we say has issues.
.....I'm quite sure you KNOW the difference and you also know it's wrong!
All this debate over a simple slip of the tongue is so gay.
@Shiki Damn you stole my thunder. Anybody that gets upset over a word is "RETARDED" what can you not say next, "Muslims aren't terrorist"
Where do you draw a line on something that if you told a retarded kid they were retarded wouldn't get it. It upsets you so nothing can be said. Give me the list of words you can't say so " I CAN SAY THEM"
Grow-up, you'll let homeless starve and waste more than most country's on the planet and you're OFFENDED!!!!
Be ashamed all you intolerant retarded censor pukes. Start burning books to make yourself feel better.
What happened to the old adage "Sticks and stones will break my bones, but words will never hurt me"
...........said the white man to his slave. Yeah, that's always worked real well!
Yeesh, cry me a river! It's a freaking WORD people! Get over it.
Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will scar for life.
I love how people are so quick to come to the defense of fun, cute, lovable Aniston, but when that mean, ugly, Dr. Laura say the "N word" she is vilified. Who exactly is it that gets to determine which words are alright to use. The bottom line appears to be, if we like you, you can use any words you want; if we don't like you, you can't. Truly a pathetic double standard. If Dr. Laura was forced to give up her gig, why aren't people screaming for Aniston to give up hers.
Why are you assuming the people defending Aniston are the same people condemning Dr. Laura?
Aniston used a word to its proper English meaning.
Dr. Laura used a word specifically to get across a psychological point.
Both cases are completely and entirely legitimate and neither one deserves to get any flak.
I use the N-word, C-word, F-word, R-word, J-word constantly and love doing it. Is that wrong ? That F-word Pokemon is always correcting me.
Dr Laura was not forced to give up anything...she chose to.
This whole issue is totally retarded.
I am all for the mental break from reality but seriously who cares what she said. Kids killing kids , civil rights injustices, wars, deaths left and right,and yall waste ur breath on this crap. She's an actor are they really supposed to be smart? Sure there are exceptions but really????????????????????THIS IS RETARDED!!! Stop wasting energy on this crap and get to real life issues. Contact your senators and congressmen help out at your red cross or food shelters. Do something to improve life for everyone. no wonder America is failing.
Maybe she and John Mayer should have stayed together – they seem to share a flair for words...
Additionally, all you clowns who think it is funny to use RETARD in your comments are insensitive boobs. xo
This article is absolutely RETARDED!
The political correctness of our nation has got so insanely out of hand! We have become a nation of pansies.
We want people to be fired for using words we don't like. How childish. It reminds me of kindergarten when my teacher would put Billy in the corner because he said something "mean" that made little Sally cry. Children NEED that kind of intervention because they are incapable of separating themselves from the insults, but adults... WE SHOULD be mature enough to look past snide remarks... differentiate between innocent, off-handed comments and REAL words of hatred.
Eliminating the use of certain words is about as laughable and effective as telling people to just think happy thoughts and the world will automatically get better.
The INTENT behind the usage of words is what these groups should be addressing... not the use of the words themselves... THIS IS AMERICA, PEOPLE... a nation built upon the FREEDOM to say WHATEVER THE HELL WE WANT!
GROW UP!!!
And by the way, I'm a gay man, and would NEVER want to see ANY of the derogatory words used to describe me and my friends erased from the English language. WORDS are powerful (and yes, they can hurt). We should use words carefully, but there is a time and a place for even the most offensive words to be used!
When over 40 yr old Jennifer has a baby that is affected by a chromosomal defect and her child is "retarded" perhaps she will no longer feel it is ok to use that term. It is an ugly word. Same goes to the rest of you who feel people need thicker skin and need to stop being so sensitive. 50 years ago it was acceptable to use the N-word and it no longer is. Same holds true for the R-word.
This is without a doubt one of the most retarded issues being discussed in the news. The R-word? I clicked on it just to see what the "r-word" was. I for one would be deeply concerned if the Special Olympics took issue with my choice of rhetoric, being that they hold so much authority. The man hours dedicated to this story by news organizations, the public relations folks for the Retard Olympics, etc. would have been better put to use helping those with special needs...no? A retard is a retard is a retard is a retard is a retard...which is a retard. Get a life.
I too only clicked on this to see what the r-word was. This is soooo effin dumb.
wish we could back to the 50's when you could say anything you wanted and insult anyone with racial slurs..this country is too damn pc !! besides, how many retards even watch talk shows..?
This is such a non-news story. Who cares if she accidentally said "retard"? Get a life.
I can't beleive she said that. How re-tarded.
who ever wrote this article is a ****ing retard, get real. with all the problems today, this is an issue? I hope you get hit by an over sized truck on your way home.
make that an over sized truck driven by a retard
She was still thinking about O'Reilly....
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to his deaf daughter and they both laughed!
the next person to post here is a retard. HAHAHAHAAHA
Whew! I'm relieved. I thought she said the other "R" word: Republican
@Who? Me? I don't care what anyone says that thar's funny. The only comment worth reading.
This whole thing is freakin RETARDED!
There is Gary the Retard... Wendy the Retard..... RA RA Retard!
And another thing..... STEWARDESS! HANDICAPPED! MIDGET! BLACK! ORIENTAL! Any other BS that is not politically correct?
I'm giving your mom the pole the hard way, and she likes it.
This really is RETARDED.... especially since we know the retards didn't object to this all by themselves. It was friends and family members.
Retard retard retard retard. Last time I checked, it was in the dictionary. So Jennifer called herself a retard...so what?
Retard -- You are being hypersensitive
As some of you think that this is not a big deal, I am going to clarify this issue. IT IS A BIG DEAL and it is a big deal to those who have been diagnosed as mentally handicapped yet are aware enough to understand when they are laughed at and called the R word...and it is a BIG DEAL to their families. I have a sister who is 42 and when she was born, it was called mental retardation and everyone was afraid of it and thought it was somehow my mom's fault. My dad's family were all quick to say "that doesn't come from our side of the family". There is a HORRIBLE association with the word and it needs to stop being used. There are TONS of other options for words and it DOES NOT NEED TO BE USED, EVER. Jennifer Aniston is a public figure and therefore, she needs to watch what she says. I have become less and less enchanted with her acting 'career' and this just proves it. She is in her 40s now – certainly she has a better command of the English language that using words like this and should be more mature. I am so tired of hearing people saying "oh, we have to be so politically correct now"...and whining about it. How about just being more polite and more aware of others – it doesn't kill you and our society is going downhill and it is appalling.
Retarded: slow or limited in intellectual or emotional development or academic progress.
Aniston used the word in a completely proper way. If you can't accept that and can't accept that "retard" does indeed apply to a great many mentally handicap individuals, the fault is yours for not grasping the English language.
The road you're on is a foolish one. How long before "mentally handicap" has been used enough in a derogatory way that you find another word to describe them and then condemn people for calling them "mentally handicap"? The only problem with this entire situation is you empowering these people to terrorize you. Any word can be used in a derogatory fashion. If we allowed political correctness to censor every word used in a derogatory way, we'd run out of ways to communicate with each other.
We can use whatever term we wish at any time, YOU RETARD! Don't you have something better to do than be the vocabulary police? If you don't like what someone says you have the option of turning away, changing the television channel or listening to another radio program. Are you really going to sit here and lecture people about their vocabulary when our soldiers are dying in a war in Iraq! Do you know how stupid you sound? Our children are dying in a war and you think that someone using a "bad word" somehow is equally important.
RenderMaster – this has nothing to do with the war in Iraq. Nor the war in Afghanistan. She finds the use of the word offensive, as do many, many other people. That's her point...I'm sure she deosn't find the deaths of Americans in battle to be unimportant.
Dave in AZ – here's another dictionary entry for you from the Urban Dictionary (not my words):
"A person born with a mental condition and therefore has to work a million times harder to be able to do simple things (such as learn and communicate) that we take for granted. On top of this, a retard will usually suffer a lot of ridicule from society because people fear what they do not understand. The people who choose to make fun of the mental retarded tend to be complete morons and cannot comprehend that these people have feelings and emotions just like anyone else. I find it amusing that saying somebody has cancer would not be taken as a joke and yet, using another disease such as mental retarded as an insult is common among society, and many do not realize that it is very offensive and that there is something seriously wrong about it."
Obviously, Jennifer Aniston wasn't using the word with the intent of demeaning mentally handicapped individuals, but it's still a pretty stupid thing to say on national TV. Sorry, but I have no sympathy for her.
Where is Al Sharpton?! Oh wait... This is a retarded story and people who are making it a big deal are tards. Lighten up. Ann: Why are you making it a big deal? If I was retarded, I would hate to be your child.
She was not referring to someone who is mentally challenged. Websters defines Retard as: "a person who is stupid, obtuse, or ineffective in some way: a hopeless social retard. "
your a retard!!!!!
Clearly the Special Olympics should sue Websters for attacking mentally handicap people.
Who hasn't made a mistake using language? Lighten up on the criticism-she doesn't deserve it. Now if someone like Mel Gibson had said it, then the criticism would be justified.
Oh stop it stop it stop it! You are all making me cry!
Stress level of people has gone way up in recent times. Add to it "suing somebody" has gone viral. It sometimes feel like everybody has kind of gotten into hatred mood! Everything anybody says is analyzed and scrutinized hoping to find conspiracy or "What's the catch".
Tolerance, Trust, Harmony seems to have completely disappeared.
World has become small i.e. "Global Village" and I guess these are the side affects of shrinking world.
huh?
I'm a retard sometimes and I mean that in a self abasing way lol
but then I am Australian who cares what I think????????
LOL well I, for one, love Australians! It's my dream to some day make it to the other side of the world to see Australia and New Zealand. My sister lived in Adelaide for six months as part of a study abroad program and LOVED it. From the pictures she took, you have a beautiful country, Irene, and I can't wait to see it for myself!
Retard is not a bad word. There are people out there who are retarded. It is fact of life.
Her use of the term is actually correct. Retarded means that one's growth is halted or slowed before reaching maturity. In this case, she is referring to retarded emotional growth and saying most people grow out of dress up, but she never did. Just because people use it in derogative terms doesn't mean when used correctly it is derogatory. Besides, as a physically handicapped person I am aware that to most people in general the term just is synonymous with stupid choices – not with mentally challenged people. It isn't like most people are aware that dork actually means penis. If they did it would probably be used less. (or more?)
Well put.
I see the same problem constantly with racism, where the accused spoke or acted in a completely non-racist way, but people still accuse him of being racist. They fail to realize that to be racist is to see a separation based on race, and in such a situation they're the ones being racist- not the accused.
Back to this situation, Aniston did nothing prejudicial. The only people here guilty of looking down on mentally handicap people are those who had the knee-jerk reaction to assume she was attacking them.
Well said, Dave in California, and to Dave in Arizona – your comment reminds me of something that I unwittingly said once that could have been terrible. I used to work at a local PETsMART as a cashier, and one time this little boy came through my line (I'm not sure where his adult was) and wanted to help me bag for the people checking out. I don't know why, but it was really cute, so I let him. I made a joking comment to the woman whose items he was bagging that "It's like I've got a little slave here" – and then realized the little boy was black (I am white) and that comment could have been utterly disastrous if heard by someone looking for a fight. I meant no racial implication whatsoever, nothing to do with equating the blackness of the child with slavery....but an easily offended person could certainly have taken offense. Now, I am someone who has always tried her best to strive against racial stereotypes in her mind. I know that everyone is guilty of a little racism now and then, so I try to use my own self-awareness of this fault in order to catch myself and correct myself. This was not an instance in which I was falling prey to any sort of unintended racism. It was purely an unfortunate comment, given the child's race, but if someone had misinterpreted it, I'm sure I could have lost my job. I know this is only slightly relevant to this discussion, but I guess my point is that what I said could have been horribly, horribly racist and offensive. But I didn't mean it to be, and only realized after I'd said it that it could be interpreted so badly. I think it's worth giving Aniston the benefit of the doubt here – she meant no harm, she wasn't trying to make an insulting comment. It was simply an unlucky slip that could happen to anyone. I try not to use "retard" like that because I know it offends people (and I have a cousin-in-law who is mentally retarded), but very occasionally it just slips out before I even think about it and can stop it.
This is, forgive the pun, retarded. Instead of waging war on a word, they should be working to educate. That being said, it is not right to deprecate someone for a disability, but it is silly to think that they should be treated the same as everyone else, too. We need to figure out why these conditions are becoming more prevalent. We need to find ways to cure them.
OMG this bullcrap is getting crazy.Im getting scared to open my mouth now.What ever happened to free speech.You dont like what i say then walk away or shut up.
Argggg
Well, the irony here is Jennifer Aniston is a rather unintelligent person. To be honest with you, I have no problem with her using the word. I just find it funny that she, of all people, would be the one using it. She's not very smart, never has been – anyone who believes otherwise hasn't been paying attention.
Would they have preferred her saying "I do it for a living, like a special person?"
No. It has nothing to do with the "R-word". Some people are so overly sensitive that any mention of mentally handicap people, in any way, in any context, will offend them.
It's up to them if they're offended or not. Call me any name you want. Either you're right and I should deal with it, or you're wrong and it doesn't matter. Either way, there's no reason to be offended.
I was gonna take you up on that, Dave and was thinking of which name to call you – then realized you lived in Arizona and figured you already had enough trouble in your life... so I'll let it slide... LOL!
@sheppard
Yeah.. no kidding. I'm embarrassed to live here right now.
It's one thing if someone makes a negative remark or uses an "inappropriate" word-("retard")toward, or in reference to, someone who is actually mentally retarded-(which in literal terms refers to one's IQ level; often lower due to a mental disability), but in this context, it was not intended to insult or offend. While this may have been an adverse effect (for which I believe she is truly sorry), I don't believe that it requires the uproar that followed. When you're in the spot light, you have to be careful what you say, but come on-we are all fallable.
OMG, the woman made an innocent mistake, she has been in the "spotlight" for almost 20 years, and she makes one minor infraction and it is like she committed murder or something! Jennifer, no worries girl...we ALL say things we wish we hadn't, yours just happened to be on national TV where it seems people who have no lives sit around and watch just waiting for someone to slip up so they can harp on it! Anyone who has NEVER used the word "retard" can step up on their soap box and criticize all they want, but since we ALL know that isn't the case SHUT UP and find something worth spending your time on.
Yeah, everyone do something productive, like harping at others!
This forum reminds me of a funny day back in fifth grade. People were giving each other the middle finger secretively back in forth in math class. Teacher finally catches on to what's so funny and calls in the school disciplinarian. This psycho lady strolls in, eyeballs everyone up and down, then suddenly busts out both middle fingers, double-barreled, and flips the whole class off. Then she starts screaming "GET IT OUT OF YOUR F@&#ING SYSTEM!" and waves around two middle fingers at everyone for five minutes. Then she leaves. The math teacher was a little thrown off, then starting going over fractions again. It was awesome. Like something right out of South Park.
Hey... only special people can use that word. As in "Hey, you my retard..."
People, people, lighten up. What world do we live in where we are constantly being analized about the words we chose. I doubt she would call any child with down syndrome that, so lighten up. Just like the "n" word. Some people can use it back and forth to each other, but someone like myself can't use it against them. I never would even if I had the green light, but it's just an example. If someone doesn't want to see her movie over her choice of words, they are sadly the "retards" and I doubt Jennifer Aniston is going to care or miss them. Over sensitive Tards!
Um, you mean analyzed, right? You perverted moron.
I dont agree with all the parents who dont agree with this word... For one, SPECIAL NEEDS people do not refer to themselves as retards, nor do their families so how does it directly affect you??... retard is not meant to hurt anyones feelings in the sentence it was used in... and anyways, people still throw all sorts of insults at everyone else, so why should the word "retard" be hated so much? special needs kids are happy as can be and I am sure after spending their whole life being called special needs, they wont hate jennifer aniston, or people who use the word retard in a way that just talks down about themselves...
I looked up ignorant in the dictonary and this entire quote was used as an example...you're an inspiration jennifer.
Hey... I know you didn't mean anything by it, but "special needs" is being phased out because of how "special" has started being used in a derogatory manner. We're supposed to be using "exceptional" nowadays.
Give me a break! People are way to sensitive! This is a wonderful woman who has done a lot for charities. These words are part of our lexicon .. R-word, N-word, etc ... whether we like it or not, they are.
Can't wait to hear Prez Oprah sound off on this one ... or is he too busy on vacation on E-word (Elite) island of MV? Hmmmmm!
Give me a break and take your political crap to the proper forum. Always some numb nuts who will use any excuse to promote their own political agenda.
I am sick of all this ultra-sensitivity to everything in this countrty..it's ridicilous. I am overweight by genetic disposition, I eat less and healthier compared to my husband, who lives on pizzas and burgers and is skinny like a toothpick due to high metabolism. I hear fat jokes all the time on tv and in life, doesn't bother me (well, I used to be more sensitive to it when I was younger), should I get on my soap box ? There will always be something that is going to offend someone, because it hits close to home...the real issues we need to deal with are prejudice toward people because of their race, religion (especially these days..no people, actions of terrorist groups do not represent the viewpoint of a whole religion)
Damn straight, well said!
Seriously, do you even work. If you actually work with people and live in this real world we should not have to keep highlighting these sorts of incidents to show people what not to do. You should be ashamed at yourself if you think this is acceptable and I dare say that I would not want anyone to teach that word to my children. I have educated a lot of people that I work with about how insulting that word is and I do it in the best way possilbe. Their response is typically "wow, I apologize, but I did not realize that it was insulting" and they remove it from their vocabulary which is my intent to begin with. They are usually very grateful that I took the time to educate and not just dismiss them. Would you want your child to talk like this and sound ignorant??
@DSJ, I know you have good intentions, but how is it your right or responsibility to make someone else change their vocabulary? I'm sorry, but it's just none of your business. And I seriously doubt that anyone is "very grateful" for your condescending attempts to "educate" them.
So, to be politically correct, Aniston should have said "I dress up. I'm intellectually challenged"? To be sure, I doubt seriously that Aniston meant any harm... aren't there many words that we all use in a general manner...like Xerox for all copiers, Kleenex for all tissues, Rollerblades instead of inline skates and retard for feeling one isn't up to their potential. I agree, it sounds cruel and she probably wanted to immediately apologize, but not everything is said maliciously. I doubt that anyone on this blog, including myself, hasn't slipped and said something wrong accidentally. We are fortunate to have organizations to raise our awareness. UNfortunately, it seems a moral imperative that those with opinions need to cram them down everyone else's throats. Including me.
Oh my god... THE R WORD !!! Have we gone nuts with political correctness or what?
This is F-wording R-worded !!!
I think a lot of people are speaking from ignorance in these comments. When you choose not to use degrading words like this, you learn about understanding of people, and in return we become a more understanding society that respects others.
I understand that Jennifer Aniston didn't mean any harm, and I'm not pointing a figure at her, but I think maybe we should all be aware of what we're throwing out into the world with our actions/words.
Really sad that people think that using words like retard, gay, and the n word are no big deal. When do we become better people than this? Personally, I have more respect for people who understand this, than people who think it's not doing any harm.
There are only two things that make words degrading:
- Intent of the speaker
- Interpretation of the listener
Words only have the meaning we put into them or choose to see in them. She didn't put any harmful meaning into the word. What does that mean? It means that you did.
Case and point, I often call my wife the "B word". Are you going to assume that makes me some violent, abusive husband? It doesn't. We've been together for 7 years and we've only had maybe 2-3 verbal fights, and those we haven't had in 4+ years. If I ever use the "B word" it's in a joking context. My intent when using it is clearly not harmful.
If you were to assume derogatory meaning in every use of the "B word" then you would be the ignorant one and you would misjudge me every time I use it. The same goes for the "R word", the "N word", or any other such piece of nonsense.
Well said Susan.
Dave, try using the 'C' word on your wife, with no derogatory intent, and let us all know how that goes over.
JBB, for a long time my husband called me "SBC" the three words women hate being called the most. I found it to be quite hilarious. They are just words. If I choose to take offense, that's my problem. As long as he doesn't treat me like I'm an "S" or a "B" or a "C" than what's the problem? He's not hurting anyone by calling me that. I'm not hurting anyone by thinking it's funny. It's all about how you interpret the words. My husband gets upset when someone calls him stick or something referring to his very thin body. However, if someone called me stick, I'd be fine with it. Now, which one of us is correct here? Because he finds being a stick offensive, are we never to use that word? One person's perception does not a bad word make, sir.
Ok, look. Hyper-sensitive yuppies such as yourself are what's going to cause the 1st ammendment to be, well, ammended. Because of people like you, I can't say things like "Man, that was retarded." or "What the hell? Is that guy retarded?" Or even "You drive like a retard!" I say it all the time, and you know what I do have those with "special needs" in my life, and they hear me say it too, laugh it off, and know that I'm not making fun of actually retarded people. It's called a figure of speech, and if you're going to get all "boo-hoo-ey" about it, maybe you need to get some thicker skin. I'll say whatever the hell I want to, and there's not a damned thing any of you "bleeding hearts" can do about it. Stop being hyper-sensitive and stop trying to make a mountain out of an ant hill. God, you people are so retarded sometimes!
M – the fact that YOU do not take offense to being called a 'S', 'B' or 'C' is not the point. If I used your rationale, I should be able to call anyone a S,B,or C and expect them not to be offended? Right? If it's OK with you, then all is fair. I'm saying their is a specific group of people offended by this type of language, and I can sympathize with that. I tell my kids to NOT use the word retard. Why? Because the only time I've ever heard them say that word is when they are trying to be hurtful to another person's feelings. How is that funny?
JBB-
Yes and no. If I call YOU an 'S', 'B' or 'C', then you have every right to be offended. If I call myself or one of my friends an 'S', 'B' or 'C', then you have no business being offended because I'm not talking about you.
I can't see how someone calling herself a "retard" or "retarded" could be construed as "trying to be hurtful to another person's feelings"
(not that i think people should go out of their way to start using these words, but we're getting to the point where there are just too many words that some people find offensive even when not being used with the intent to offend - or even worse: are offended when the actual word used only sounds like a word that is offensive, but actually is a completely different, non-related word)
Jennifer is the one with the insensitivity chip....she complains about Angelina taking her man, complains about not having a man, then complains about someone calling her bluff, then pouts and tosses her hair....sorry, I'm not feeling any sympathy for her , who makes $27 million a year and cries all the way to the bank....you are responsible for your actions, your failed marriage, your remarks.....enough about this pitiful woman please!!!!
Ha ha, you are just a hater! Let me guess you are a fan of Angelina's?! ha ha, you're rediculous!
Why don't we just ban everyone from talking? That way nobody will ever again be offended by something someone said.
You can't use the "N" word and you can't use the "R" word and you can't use the something else word.
What ever happened to freedom of speech and freedom of expression?
She is free to say whatever she will and the public is free to interpret what she says in its own way
You N's are all R'-ed
She did not mean it in a derogatory context. I am sure what she meant was that she acts simple minded at times or something to that effect. Boy, you cannot say anything anymore without some Group getting upset.
I have a severe hearing impairment and I don't mind the occasional 'deaf' joke or comment. It isn't personal, all walks of society need to toughen up a bit. Get Over It!!!!
I use to say this word but after hearing how it hurts some people I've chosen not to say it any more. I don't think badly of Jennifer.
its only insulting if you have a special needs child..you know..like calling a black the n-word. Odds are not in her favor she will have "normal" child with the autism rate at 1 in 100 children so she may find this situation painfully ironic
Actually, if the odds are 1out of 100 children has autism then the odds are in her favor for a "normal" child. It's okay patman, statistics can be hard for special people.
Hahahaha you just brightened my day
Hey Nick...you just proved your point on yourself...moron
She's ugly anyways.
your point being?
All of this politically correct garbage that spouts from the people who think it demoralizes someone by using the R-word or any other word is a RETARD to begin with....... there I said it. Covered by the first amendment, last I checked. Last time I checked, just saying..
"I bet we can squeeze some controversy out of this"
Is this woman drinking? Does she drink before she goes on camera for these interviews? I wonder. I've seen a few of her interviews and it always looks like she is "on" something. She blurts stuff out of her mouth and is not watching what she is saying.
I want to thank EVERYONE for the good laugh. I haven't laughed this hard in a long time.
I'm more offended by her retarded movies than her use of the word "retard".
LOL! So true! I couldn't have said it better!
The smart thing for the Special Olympics to do here is don't even acknowledge the word retard. React to that the same way you would react to the word "dirfhim" (which is not a word, I know). Forget the idea that she is perfectly capable and is disparaging the mentally slow individuals. She wasn't protesting money for the handicapped or trying to cut handicapped services. She just had a slip of the tongue. If you ignore it, it would be like it never happened. Somehow you ignore the crazy guy on the subway discussing the end of the world for you sinners, yet Jennifer Aniston's slip-up needs hours upon hours of attention. Gosh, don't be so gay! (Yes, that was meant to be ironical).
Special Olympics now that's about a scam & a half.I know a few of the so called educators who joke about the retards in their charge.Just a bunch of hypocrites who found a cash-cow to milk!!!
This is retarded.
Agreed.
I have a niece who is severely physically and mentally handicapped and the use of the "R" word is all in the intent. Self deprecating humor directed at oneself falls well outside the pejorative use of the word and this "scandal" is complete BS.
Retard. There, I said it.
People need to get over the use of words because it's in the intent and what lies in someone's heart, NOT in their choice of language. To assume that someone is acceptable or unacceptable due to vocabulary completely ignores those that choose the right words but do the wrong things. It needs to be about actions and ignorance, not simply using a specific word.
Retard. There, I said it, again. Get over yourselves.
First, i do not believe for one second that you have a neice w/ special needs. If you did, you would understand that using words in a derogatory way hurts our children. We are not simply being too sesitive. We are asking for respect for a group of people who wrok hard to achieve what you most likely take for granted. Words create perceptions. Perceptions become my childs reality. I know that you think this is all one big joke most likely because you haven't given it much thought and you have not faced the struggles that my child will face! Why be so difficult about it? If those with the experience of a child w/ special needs say its detrimental, why do people like you persist.? Would it hurt you to stop saying the word in a derogatory way?
To ann, it baffles me that you'd doubt that anyone who uses the world retard when not referring to mentally disabled people could not possibly know or love someone who is. I myself never understood the controversy with it, and I knew someone who passed away last year after battling severe mental and physical disabilities all his life.
I think the difference is, for me, I never saw him (or the several DS kids I went to school with, and loved 'em to death) as retards. They were people just like me who had a disability. Didn't change the fact that they were awesome people. Would I use the word retard around them? Of course not. Would I still say it in reference to myself when I did something stupid, or to a friend who uses it too? Sure. I would never call someone handicapped a retard because I don't see them that way – never did.
And to answer your question, no it would not kill us to stop using the word, and I've been careful not to use it in groups where I'm not absolutely sure that no one will be offended. But to turn the question back on you, would it kill you not to jump down someone's throat when they slip up? This word has been in casual use for decades – slip ups are going to happen.
Wow, very well put. I agree wholeheartedly. Thanks for such a clear, levelheaded reply!
@ann
You completely missed the point of their post. Their post explicitly states that words *nod* used in a derogatory way are fine. The problem you seem to have is that you don't recognize that people could use the word "retarded" in a non-derogatory way.
You know what that says? That says that *you* see "retarded" people in an inherently derogatory way. The way the word is used doesn't matter to you because you only see the negativity. That's effectively stereotyping.
To reiterate the OP, words are never a problem. The problem is in how words are used, and the intent behind their use.
I agree with your beautifully written response.
Jeez. What a bunch of retards to think this is important.
Some people have nothing better to do than critique every thing someone says. And some people try to make everything so politically correct. I agree we should have respect for others but c'mon. Have the people complaining ever said anything someone else would find offensive? I'm positive they have. I find it offensive when people use God's name and drop the F bomb all the time but for some reason society seems to think that is ok. It's probably not the best thing she could have said but to make it a big issue seems pretty silly especially when it was directed at no one besides herself.
I couldn't agree more. If this is what we have to complain about then we have some serious priority issues.
uhm... Orca.. theres only a few billion people on the planet.. i think you stopped a little shy...
Folks should start saying "I'm so autistic!" That's the thing they call the kids that we would have called retarded when I was young.
Oh, wait, autism is a cause-celebre so they can't do that? Dang.
Considering there is no connection between autism and what was classically called "retarded" years ago, I'm not sure what your point is.
Obviously you know nothing about autism.
Most autistic kids are NOT mentally retarded. In fact, they are just as likely to be retarded as typical people.
Great attempt at being funny, but FAIL.
The 'Word Police' are at it again!
Do retards even care?
lmao @ Corvatte...good one.
You are absolutely rude and ignorant. I have a sister who is 42 and mentally handicapped. When she was born, it was called mental retardation and no one understood it and were afraid of it. It being changed to a different term is very important. You are not funny.
Actually, that was funny.
Insensitive, yes...but still funny.
Actually, SeedCake...it's not funny at all. It's much more ignorant than using the word 'retard' the way Aniston did. The question, Seedball, is do you and Corvatte have the decency to not deliberatly insult people. The answer is obvious. I could care less about the PC aspect of this, you two are just trolling. So, I ask you both this question...do ignorant people know they're ignorant?
Victorian and JBB – it's only your type of over-sensitivity that makes any particular word or phrase objectionable – I bet in highschool you cried because you didn't like your nickname – don't be such retards – does that carry more or less weight than "don't be such as*holes" or "don't be such d*uches" or "don't be such chimps" (though the last one is insulting to chimps... sadly, and I'm sorry I wrote it, chimps, forgive me; if only they understood... can you look in their eyes and see the pain...?).
If you look into the eyes of a retarded chimp, he will fling his poo at you.
I know your question was retorical, but my retarded daughter really doesn't care if you call her a retard or not. She's too retarded (and blind) to understand. What she does understand is the tone of voice that you use.
Also she's a great tough little kid, retarded or not.
JBB, I am offended by your use of the word "ignorant". I find you to be very insensitive to my natural personality.
Seriously people, GROW UP!
Ok, that is funny. I'm not debating the lack of sensitivity or ignorance, you all can have fun with that. But, "Do retards even care?", that's funny.
Id let her influence me... but srsly... "what ever happened to sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me"
I guess you lovely, tolerant folks don't have a child with Down Syndrome. Thanks for your generous compassion. Maybe while you're at it you might want to lobby to bring back the N-word, too. Anything that hurts others is hurtful - just because you don't feel the hurt doesn't mean you didn't injure someone else. How about helping make life a little better, not worse?
I'm not one to argue, but when someone calls someone else fat, stupid, lazy, crazy, ugly, idiotic, etc, etc, etc do they need to apologize and watch what they say? "Anything that hurts others is hurtful"–of course it is. But why is using the word retard so much worse than using the word crazy. Maybe someone would have been equally offended has she said she plays dress up all day like a crazy person. What about all the crazy people in the world? Equally offensive to someone else. Silly silly people. Oh, I'm sorry. Was that offensive?
Don't be so friggin sensitive. Does your Down Syndrome child not have a sense of humor? I'll bet he/she has a better one than you.
I agree. Why not start calling gay guys "f___s", while you're at it. If people ARE offended (whether you THINK they should be or not), for goodness sake, use other words. Be polite, be kind. Nothing to do with your political leanings, or "correctness." I don't care what's politically correct. If I know a term is offensive, why in the world would I choose to use it?
So, those with children who have down syndrome don't want their children to be in any way associated with being retarded. I completely understand that. Why is it then, that when someone uses a word like "retard" they automatically associate the word as a put down of their child?
If the word "retarded" does not define your child, why would the use of the word "retard" be an insult to your child?
@Exhaustedbysociety
At last ... the first comment that makes sense to me.
I am not a RETARD so it does not bother me.
It is only derogatory if the term applies to the group it is meant to offend.
"Retard" means "to (be) slowed". You might say a developmentally delayed child has mental development which is retarded form the norm. If your child is not developmentally retarded, then they are not a "retard" so why worry about it?
You are right, I do not have a child with DS. But I know for a fact that kids with DS or other cognitive impairments will call each other retarded. Every child has hurt feelings after someone calls them a name. Let's use this as an opportunity to teach kids to perceive things correctly instead of teaching them how to be whining victims.
Paul, I am sorry to hear that your child has down syndrome. However, I feel more sorry for them, that they apparently have a weak, spineless, hyper-sensitive, male father figure. If anyone is offended by any of those words, please, lock yourself in a room and never come out.
Children need strong influences in life. The fact that a word exists and is used, does not mean that it has to be offensive. If Jennifer Aniston was having a moment of mental challenge, then, yes, she was acting RETARDED! So, she said it aloud! Maybe she meant it to be EXACTLY what it is. We all act SLOW, TIRED, CHILDISH. Those are words relating to their meaning. Teach your children how to be strong, to survive without using excuses and crutches. Maybe one day we will be the nation our fore fathers imagined.
I don't know about you ... but I am more offended that she is considered "influential to society"! Who in there right mind would actually be influenced by this "retard"?
So she said "retard"??? BFD. People are too damned PC these days. Damn.
but but but. if sarah says it was OK for "Doctor" L to use the N word and to 'reload' (what a moron), so sarah must have also changed her mind about using the R word... you remember – she had another hissy fit. Right/wrong wingers are so much fun... constantly blathering that this country is becoming too PC – but of course only when that PC doesn't conform to their personal agenda.... bunch of hypocrites...
Hilarious. How much do you want to bet that all of the people who are threatening to boycott The Switch have used that word on many an occasion? People are so full of crap.
Some of those folks that spoke out against Jen are probably the same folks that defended "Dr" Laura. LESSON LEARNED: You're not offended by a derogatory remark until someone says a derogatory remark that offends you.
Really? And you know this how? I was offended by "doctor" Laura and Jennifer Aniston.
What a retard
it's worse than the N word!!!!!
so you think the work retard is more offensive then the N-word? Sorry but for how many centuries have we used that word to descibe african americans so I think thats WAY more hurtful than "retard"
Your an idiot!!!
What a retard.
People have got to stop giving so much power to words. I'm sure she didn't mean it be offensive so stop being so sensitive.
Don't be so naive!
I agree with you Kate, I believe allot of people have used this word to be playful. I remember when i was in my early 20's and I used the word joking with my girlfriends...I used the word "retard" by stating I felt like one. Not thinking about what I had just said, an older lady approached me and was quite offended with the word. I learned from that day, and never have I used it again. I think Jennifer Aniston is harmless, and she messed up. She really didn't mean anything by it. Unless she was calling someone a "retard", besides herself. this should be forgotten about!!!NEXT!!!
Who said retard is a bad word, S. Palin? She's a pathetic power hungry christianist slob.
If Sarah Palin was running for office and her opponent was a retard ... I would vote for the retard. I mean... Bush was pure comedy... not that he was a retard THAT is insulting
I'm waiting for Palin to drag herself out of the woodwork again amidst supporting the use of the N word to bash Jennifer Aniston for using the dreaded R word...
same when uneducated thoughtless peeps say...."that's so gay".
I said 'That's So Gay' today when someone suggested I put sun-in in my hair to make it more blond. Now I feel like a retard.
Baba: On an internet where every yahoo with a keyboard thinks he or she is funny (and aren't), you win the Funniest Comment of the Day award. Thank you.
What is it about intellectual disablities that makes this such a huge issue. People can say "My G-d are you blind" "Are you effen deaf" and not be impugning the visually impaired or those that can't hear. Yet the statement is just as "insulting"
EXACTLY. People are such babies.
OOOPS! OMG, did I just offend those under age 1??? I hope not! I apologize to all infants everywhere.
I forgot who I was responding to. Anyway, after reading many posts here I dub every one of you whom use improper "your" "you're" "to" "too" etc. to be in serious need of remedial education lest someone call you....gasp...retarded.
And some would even be willing to type God, or even god and not be afraid of offending him/her.
Perfectly said. Maybe she was just having a "blonde" moment?
If a word offends someone, continuing to use it in complete disregard of their feelings, makes you a tool. You people claim your 1st amendment rights to free speech. This shows your ignorance. The 1st amendment protects you from the government. It does not give you the right to decide what should or should not offend a group of people. It is a derogatory term for mentally challenged. And you know it.
sad to see her fans (paid posters) hitting all the sites saying things like "it'l OK" and "people are too sensitive". the usage was in a defamatory manner, as self deprecating as it was. It's not OK and she (or her pr machine at the very least) need to address it and apologize. she was on a highly rated morning tv show and she's been shilling her 1 star movies for decades, she should have known better IMO.
You're a retard
I am now a FORMER Jennifer Aniston fan. She's an immature, selfish, insensitive person. Besides, her movies suck.
Why are we giving too much power to words? If we really care about our kids with learning disabilities (I have one with learning disabilities, too), we should stop treating them as such. They, too have the ability to learn and understand if guided properly. Teach them not to use their disability as a crutch but as a tool to educate people. My child knows that the word "retard" is just that – a word. It's a part of her vocabulary and it does not offend her in any way. Let's try not to put too much meaning to what others say other than what they actually meant. It's more derogatory to say "the R word" that saying the actual word itself – retarded.
Anoni and Ann, I agree. People take being born without disabilities so much for granted, that they are not sensitive to the challenges facing children and their parents. This was such a flippant, insensitive comment Aniston made. I never liked her and I will never like her after she said this.
Oh wow boo hoo the dreaded R WORD. Not everyone lives in a blue and pink padded nursery room where we have to sugar coat everything so that you special needs people can sleep at night. Too bad everyone is still laughing behind your backs because you are still retarded and will never be a functional member of society.
OMG!! She just abused herself by calling herself a retard! I think she needs to sue herslef!!
Please! I am not a Jennifer Aniston fan. I could care less about her. I highly doubt you have NEVER, EVER called anyone a name in your life....and she wasn't calling anyone a name! It's not like she went up to a mentally retarded person and said, "You retard!". Come on. To the people who have issues with this: You crave conflict...you are weak...you live life too seriously....I feel bad for you!!!
If you think this is news you are a RETARD. Sorry retards, the word is part of our culture. The only reason a retard is hurt by people using the word is because non-retards tell them they should be hurt.
Well, Dave, you are ignorant! My 9 yr.old daughter w down syndrome is hurt every time someone calls her retarded usually in a derogatory way! I don't have to tell her that it is used in an insulting way – she knows it! She is not stupid! She is developmentally delayed. It takes her longer to learn but that doesn't mean she will not learn! Maybe you could better yourself by educating yourself!
The N word used to be part of the culture, too. If you don't have kids with special needs, you have no idea how it makes them feel when they find out what the word "retard" means. They hear it a lot, as their school peers love to call each "retards" in a very derogatory manner. Many kids with special needs know they have exceptlonalities; to know that other people are insulted by being compared to them ... well, it's cruel and unnecessary. Has NOTHING to do with politics.
@ann – "My 9 yr.old daughter w down syndrome is hurt every time someone calls her retarded usually in a derogatory way!"
The difference is in how the word is used. There is clearly a difference between calling another person 'retarded' or 'a retard' and using these terms in a self-depricating manner referring to oneself.
One of the biggest problems with modern society is that people act first and think later (if they bother to think at all). Collectively, we seem to have lost any concept of self-restraint, be it applied to our own actions or our reactions to others. People want to be free to do their own thing without regard for others while they have little tollerance for others whose actions are perceived to impact them.
Guess what? We can't have it both ways folks.
Sorry your kids are retarded. Sorry some people may be insensitive in front of them. But "retarded" is a real word with real meaning, it is not an intrinsinsically derogatory word, it is a descriptive word, descriptive of fact. The "n" word is a derogatory word specifically created to denigrate people; There is no valid comparison.
The fact that you use that word like you do only shows your ignorance. If you ever met someone with down syndrome or any other mental disability then you would learn what kind and caring people they are. I used to go to summer camp with some one who was mentally challenged and you have no idea how angry it makes me when people like you use the r-word the way you just did. I can forgive jennifer aniston for her momentary lapse as long as she didn't start using it in everyday conversations. I understand that almost everyone still uses this word but I think that if they ever educated themselves they wouldn't be so quick to use that word.
@fifi- it actually is quite comparable to the n-word. The n-word is used as an extremely derogatory word aimed at a specific group of people, which is why it is (rightly) no longer used. The r-word is used as a derogatory word aimed at a specific group of people, whether the speaker is meaning to or not. A mentally challenged person likes people using the r-word just as much as a black person likes people using the n-word.
I'm so Ann, but you are confused. Your daughter with Down's Syndrome is mentally retarded. She is NOT developemently delayed. No matter ho hard she tries, how intensive the intervention or how many years of special education she will not function on the same level of her age peers. She will not learn enough to make it to college, become science researcher, get hire by NASA, or even the military. She will not get her Master's Degree and become a teacher or become a licensed electrician or a proof reader for a publishing house or tv show producer.
I'm sorry if no one has ever told you that. She will not function beyond a certain age point – age depending on the severity of mental retardation. Most children with Down's Syndrome are moderately mental retarded will always need signifcant support services through out their lives.
A person with deveoplmentally delays, with intervention and hard work can catch up to their age peers. Most premature babies are deveolpmentally delayed. But they will catch up. If they don't then they are not delayed but disabled. (Yea, eventually some group will again start attackling the use of the word disable).
Retarded is a diagnosis generally referred to as Mental retardation. Retard is a derogatory term and only shows someone stupidity and insensitivity. Grow up!
to Carol- It amazes that you presume to know my daughters diagnosis. At this point, thru much hard work on her part, she reads at grade level , completes her school work her her mainsteam classroom, plays sports (although she will never get an athletic scholarship) and she dances. There are young adults w/ down syndrome going to college across this country every year and many, many who live on their own albeit with minimal support. She will never be the physician that my other daughter is however, she will contribute in a maeningfull way. Now, you can make all of your predictions, but perhaps you should educate yourself before you start preaching to me! I live in this world! I don't need to be told my daughters capabilities – i will not limit her by labeling her. And I will not limit her by the labels others put on her.
let's stop and think here what this word, literally means. retarded basically means slowed down. 'ritardando' in music means 'slow it down'. mentally retarded means slower mental capabilities. 'retard' is not like the "N-word" because retard actually means something and is used in that context, whereas "the N word" was invented only to cast hate.
VERB:
re·tard·ed, re·tard·ing, re·tards
VERB:
tr.
To cause to move or proceed slowly; delay or impede.
VERB:
intr.
To be delayed.
NOUN:
1. A slowing down or hindering of progress; a delay.
2. Music A slackening of tempo.
Get over it, it's just a word. Words have no intrinsic power, only the power we give them. The offenders do not give these words power, the power comes from those who are offended by them. If you choose not to let a word offend you it no longer does, if you choose to be offended it's your own problem.
Carol, you are just mean.
But Ann, actaully you are wrong.
Someone with the congenital condition of Downs is not "developmentally delayed"; but rather is "mentally retarded"
Ann, I am very syphympathethic to the challgenges that your child faces. And I am absolutely certain that with love and patience and understanding she will excel. My brother has certainly excelled and I could not be more proud of him!!!!!
Yes!!! The whole PC thing has become sickeningly insidious, and this is just one example. It's being perpetuated by a bunch of retards, and I'm NOT talking about disabled people!
Wow Dave that was really deep, thanks for the info. Oh and Carol, in all of your knowledge and wisdom perhaps you would have known it is called Down syndrome NOT Down's Syndrome. Aside from of your mis-information about the diagnosis and what individuals with Down syndrome will and will not do in their lives (work for NASA, really Carol? Isn't that a strech for ANYONE not just those with Down syndrome?) all I can do is thank God that he saw you had no strength of character to be given such a gift of child with a disability. And all I can continue to do is pray he never does. You might think you are being 'realistic', 'calling it for what it is' but you are incorrect in so many aspects of your logic it is obvious you know little about these individuals. Enjoy your blissful little life.
I can't wait to hear what Sarah Palin has to say about this.
Clearly it was an insult to her child! (Also: retards are retarded)
I was so waiting for someone to stay that....lol
Sarah Palin is selectively offended...she defended Dr Laura for what she said, but had the following to say about
Rahm Emmanuel when he used the word retarded..... ."Just as we’d be appalled if any public figure of Rahm’s stature ever used the "N-word" or other such inappropriate language" In Palin's alternate universe it OK to say the "N" word only if you are a conservative radio host. Rush Limbaugh used the term retarded and got a verbal slap on the wrist from Palin, while she called for Emmanuel to resign. She's a hypocrite.
who gives a crap! her 15 minutes should have been up a long time ago.
totally agree what words are acceptable to say these days people are just to sensitive my nephew is special needs and ive been taking care of him his 13 years on this earth and i wasnt offened at all i dont like the word and choose not to use it. But she didnt use it in a bad manner so please get over it people.
Oh for god's sake – lighten up ...... your behavior is retarded!
LMAO.... thank you!! Someone needed to say it!
Soooo agreed.
Thank You
MadCityBabe, you name makes you sound like a silly c_nt, but that is a good point!
Love it....she wasn't being malicious...it's a word everyone uses and it's not putting anyone down for goodness sake...get a life folks
"the R-word"... give me a break! I'm so sick of this society being so politically correct! There is no way to go through life and never say or do something that someone, somewhere may find offensive. People need to get some thicker skin and stop being so damned sensitive.
To Marr – I totally agree with you – you sensitive types should just grow a pair and buck up!
Well said Marr....
FINALLY! A voice of reason...
I totally agree. I was just about to post that people in America need to get some thicker skin and stop being such a bunch of pansies. I mean, come on, it was just a slip up. S**t happens! Learn to roll with it.
Tell that to those who have wonderful people in their lives, who happen to be born with mental impairments to who it is an insult to. It is not about being overly sensitive, it is about educating the not so intelligent people who can't see their own ignorance for what it is.
My mentally retared nephew called a redneck at Wal-Mart retarded last year while Christmas shopping. Does that mean he is insensitive to what he is? That he is uneducated to the life he has been living for the past 16 years? Get over yourselves. Words are not wrong no matter what the word is. I can call you an idiot but in a laughing good natured mannor or I can yell it in a hateful way. It's still a word. The mannor in the way it is said is what makes it hateful or the other.
Couldn't agree more!
Eh, I can understand the PC movement occasionally, but yes, this is just stupid. It's one thing for someone to call a group of people "Nappy Headed Hoe's", but calling oneself a retard? Please, if we can't let a little self degradation slip, then what the heck are we allowed to say. This is especially true when people are taking offense at something they really have no right to be offended by, if you don't have a mental disability, them you really shouldn't complain. Who's worse, someone that calls themselves a retard, or someone who takes it upon themselves to feel outraged for an entire group of people that they aren't even a part of?
The "R" word, the "N" word, the "G" word. Pretty soon we're going to be "text talking" to each other instead of using REAL ENGLISH! People, NO matter what we say or to whom we say it, SOMEONE, SOMEWHERE is going to be offended! We cant keep being so PC. And to those "offended"- STOP LOOKING for someone to prove your point or promote your cause and help those who really NEED helping!
AMEN!
This article is f-in retarded!!!
Actually it's our perverted justice system. if someone thinks they stand a chance to sue and make some free cash, they become real offended, real fast over nothing at all. It's all about greed. Look at the lady that just "can't" accept an apology from Dr. Laura. That has lawsuit written all over it. Who's worse? The person that used a "word" or the one trying to make money from it?
You took the words right off my fingertips, Marr! I'm tired of this political correctness movement, having to walk on egg shells around everyone because of their insecurities. If there wasn't intent to harm, and you can't deal with it, then find a different psychiatrist.
This whole "war on words" thing the press is putting on is getting really retarded! Last time I checked I didn't the power to force somebody to use certain words. But I had the power to choose to be offended by them or not.
I agree Marr – this issue is soooo retarded
Tripchick: You could not be more wrong. It is not acting PC to actually BE compassionate. It is not acting PC to actually HAVE a heart. It is not acting PC to actually want to live my life in a way that makes me proud and sets a good example for my children. Let me guess, you were a latch-key brat who "grew-up" watching cartoons after school or running around the neighborhood unsupervised. Some people actually give of themselves for the greater good and do volunteer work. I'd say you should try it sometime, but do the people with special needs a favor... and DON'T.
Does anyone even equate "retard" with "developmentally disabled' anymore?
Agreed .... you should be allowed to use offensive words in an inappropriate manner in public at least once a day... or twice? three times? Gosh ... ok .... everyone has a 10 r-word, n-word limit per week ...that's it! And after that you are fair game for anybody else you offend!
Right On. I'm so tired of every one getting upset by what other people say. The R word or or N word mean the same even if you don't say it. People need to get a life and quit complaining about everything. Life is to short to worry about all this politically correct crap.
No kidding, I think I'll go see "The Switch" about 10 times in the theater to show my support. Is that retarded or what?
Totally agree! She called herself a retard, not some disabled person. The losers who have nothing better to do than whine on Twitter (aptly named) should get a life. When I saw the headline of this article I was actually hoping that she had called Bill O'Reilly a retard, ha ha.
I bet a lot of people have rolled their eyes at overly sensitive Karen throughout her life and probably have called her a retard often due to her tunnel vision view of how the world works and considering herself to hold the ideal vision and self appointment as a spokesmodel for compassionate behavior. Her ability to enlighten us all to the defining life processes that create a sense or lack of philanthropic behavior are astoundingly retarded.
I wonder where Sarah Barracuda Palin stands on this........Which cheek will she turn towards the camera.....The "its insensitive to my little retard" face or the quit being so PC face........Lets watch and see.....You know she's too stupid to sidestep it.....
Here, here! I have to say that I use the word a lot!! That being said, I have a sister who is "Intellectually Challenged." Do I run around and say retard to her or in front of her or in reference to her. In fact I also don't use the words "Intellectually Challenged" either. She's my sister and that is how I talk to her and about her. For those of you who keep making issues of nothing..."Please, GET A LIFE!"
Bravo, Marr...
You are correct. The N-word...the R-word...the F-word...when will we, as a nation, grow up? "Sticks and stones will break my bones but NAMES will never hurt me". Hmmm...someone else mentioned idiot, nimwit (oooh, another N-word!). Big deal.
Also, someone else mentioned that Jennifer was a SNOB (gee, that's the S-Word! We can't have that...)
We must all take each and every phrase/label/etc. that is stated, written or otherwise conveyed in CONTEXT and via the INTENTION.
There are some people that can say "you are a good person"...that's a great phrase, right? What happens if it's said sarcastically? All of a sudden, it's the "G-Word"! Here's another G-Word (phrase) "GROW UP"
I have to agree with DSJ. Tell that to those who have wonderful people in their lives, who happen to be born retarded to who it is an insult to. It is not about being overly sensitive, it is about educating the retarded who can't see their own retardation for what it is.
As an effeminate male, I take offense at Nick's characterization of me as a 'pansy!"
It's not like she said it 11 times and told Regis he was being hypersensitive.
The Special Olympics has a chip on their shoulder.
We were taught our whole lives that "words cannot hurt you". Now it seems we've switched over to the exact opposite. Somewhere along the line society has devolved into a bunch of weak minded, depedant non-individuals that need constant care and nurturing to be able to make it through the day. It's a bit depressing to watch the slow death of the human race. Everyone is acting like a bunch of R-words so they can sue over a word and make free money.
I want to know...let me use a few synonyms to ask my question.
If Jennifer Aniston, the "idiot", had used another word instead of "retard", would it have been ok in context? What if she said she liked to dress up like an "imbecile", "moron," or "half-wit"...would we have accepted her commentary then?
Or perhaps Aniston really (as she was talking to Regis) really had a lapse OR "delay" in her thoughts at the time, and the word just slipped out like a "dimwit."
What I find particularly fun in all of this is that the word "retard", used by Aniston (and 90% of the country), is actually, generally used incorrectly.
Does it make the use by Aniston a hate crime to the disabled? Not at all. Does it make her accidental and foolish like a lot of other folks? Of course. Should she be judged by 99% of the folks replying on her that have even bigger skeletons in their closet to be ashamed of? Heck no.
Nexttttttttttttttt.
I love that word and NO ONE is going to tell me I can't use it. Can we please talk about the REAL issues please!
She said retard? big deal, half of the people I know are retards.
Move on people....this is just BS. Get a life.
The "N" word is really the one that applies itself to Jen Baby. When she is naked the "N" word applies.. "NICE". When she talks, the "N" word applies.."Naive".
Who really cares except people who think we should be living in utopia. Retard is nothing but a word and I use it often. Half the people who are writing comments sound like they are retards. We are raising a bunch of faries in this country. Ooops can I say fairy???
Oh, I didn't even know we were not supposed to use the word retard. Just in case, can I get the list of all other words not to be used, so that I would know them and done with them all once and for good?
This whole thing is retarded... Ooops! I used the word too. Should I send in a photo of me so the news can call me out along with Jentard? No, probably not interesting enough to your advertisers. JA don't roll over for these jerktards!
Hahahahaha. The lady of the special needs child in Texas ripped Jennifer Aniston a new one on here....even brought up old Brad Pitt drama....but literally ripped her a new one.
And then....
wait for it.....
I said wait for it.....
called Aniston "an unforgiving person."
Hahahahahahahahahaha. OMG, blogs can be priceless with the retards that post on them.
Hahahahahahahahahahaha.
I can't believe this is even a news story. I could offend somebody by simply saying I eat fish if they were a vegan! Grow up folks, please!
DSJ
Tell that to those who have wonderful people in their lives, who happen to be born with mental impairments to who it is an insult to. It is not about being overly sensitive, it is about educating the not so intelligent people who can't see their own ignorance for what it is.
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@DSJ - so in other words this person you speak of, you consider them to be retarded and that's why you're offended...seems that you must be the ignorant one cuz i personally would never think of a person like that to be retarded so i am not offended that word
Sticks and stones retards, sticks and stones.
Learn it, Know it, Live it!
as an older person, I find it absolutely stupid(l will i be criticized for that one) but the word retiard was away of describing diabled children in my youth. it is a word in the dictionary and i am sick and tired of people being so politiclly correct in the use of words that they just cann ot wait for someone to use a word horrilby. Yes she diduse it worongly but give us a break. htere is too much wrong in this world that we cannot just let it go. Harvey I cannot agree with you more in your commnets. Polically correct is a bunch of BS
Makes me want her even more.
It's all about perception. She said it, probably without really considering every single person's perception of what she said, so the word came out – about herself. The word seems to be more of a slang word than a clinical term, and isn't used to describe anyone with an actual mental or physical impairment...
The word "republican" is far more offensive to me than "retard", or any other synonym of fox news.
I hope she gets arrested for this unheard of bashing.........
I got dibs on doing the strip search when shes booked into jail !
Definitions of retard:
cause to move more slowly or operate at a slower rate; "This drug will retard your heart rate"
be delayed
check: slow the growth or development of; "The brain damage will retard the child's language development"
decelerate: lose velocity; move more slowly; "The car decelerated"
idiot: a person of subnormal intelligence
wordnetweb.princeton.edu/perl/webwn
The "R-word"... seriously?
We are all retards. Get over it!
I though "Regis" was the "R" word.
Retard.....
Retard, Retard, Retard, Retard......
Big deal
I love where this is heading!! I'm bald and from here on out I declare it an offense to bald ppl everywhere to use the B word unless you are bald yourself... you know kind of like black people can say the N word and it doesn't offend black people and how my autistic brother can say retard and other retards can't be offended. Grow the !@#$ up people! They are words, stop being so weak minded! I'm going to digress here a little bit and call out all you people that are offended by "Merry Christmas" too... This is a free country where we are free to express our religious views and if you don't share them, walk away, no need to get so bent out of shape, hire an attorney and boo hoo about how your were offended and your religious rights were trampled. Ugh... if we Americans were always this weak we would have never made it past our first conflict. We would still be crying in our mama's skirt that the enemy used harsh words at us or some bs.
Asbestos "retards" fire......OOOOOPS!!!!!!!!
It's ridiculous. She wasn't calling anyone a "retard" or even referring to special or disabled people. This term is used so loosely and people shouldn't be offended by this. No one calls "special" people retarded anyway! She was using the term as if she were saying "goofball", etc. Relax people!!
What is wrong with this world – first it's the "n" word, then the "r" word. It sounds like the world is run by kindergarteners!
Of course nowadays the word "special" has become as perjorative as "retard(ed)." Will the Special Olympics be changing their name soon?
But if someone is a retard,then they won't understand what was said or be "offended".
The level of ignorance displayed in this feedback forum is staggering ... and while there are many candidates, Doug Plummer seems to be the ringleader.
She didn't call anybody a 'retard'. She was simply making fun of herself. Some people make things into such big issues, when bigger issues are made into smaller ones.
By the way, the online Webster's Dictionary defines 'retard' as follows: 1. to slow up especially by preventing or hindering advance or accomplishment : to impede 2 : to delay academic progress by failure to promote.
Nothing in that definition is against a person or persons. Let it go already and move on!
Who cares that she said that? Are you telling me that you people never said "That's retarded" in your life before? For all the people that arn't gonna go see it, I'm gonna see it now like 3 times to make up for a few that didnt go. If it's an amazing movie then maybe I'll go 5 or 6 times.
I had no idea what the 'r-word' was supposed to be...for a half second, before reading the article I tried to guess what it might be, I was pretty sure you can say 'republican'.
Retard, that's what they meant, wow. The argument doesn't make sense. I tried to lift the car, but I'm a weakling. I tried to catch the football, but I'm an oaf. I try to look intelligent, but it was as if I had diminished mental capacity.
It's English. I guess it's also slang – 'retarded' is more correct. "Retard" is slang.
I suppose if enough mentally retarded people, truly find this offensive – although in all likelihood it's their handlers that are offended, and they would be blissfully unaware – but if it's a real problem, I will change my word choice.
However, my adopted brother had a very low IQ, borderline retarded, and he wouldn't have had the first clue that someone insulted him. You would have had to train him for months, maybe years to pick up on a subtlety like that.
THIS WHOLE ISSUE IS REALLY RETARDED!
Special Olympics change the name "retard"!!! NEWSFLASH: Retard will always be looked at as a derogatory term! Who came up with that word for people with disabilities anyway!!! It's demeaning!!! Hold your head up Aniston!!!!
We are really talking about this? In America in 2010, you can't say ANYTHING without fear of offending someone or some group or organization...then the news and blogs pick it up and turn it into something much larger than it should be....what have we become?
what about the Black Eyed Peas's song "let's get retarded"? ...
I am tired of the Society of the Perpetually Offended
She should of said it in a French accent, like re'tard. Then the retards at the Special Olympics would not of gotten upset because they would not of understood her.
I personally don't feel that she said this word to offend anyone. I am a mother to a child with special needs and I think she meant it as if saying "I am a goober". Right? I may be wrong, but honestly I think it slipped out and she used the wrong choice of words. I do however feel the word retard is used too often to hurt people. I feel people should be a bit more mindful of what they say and consider how they make others feel.
I don't know what the big deal is. Rainman was a rah-tard and he practically broke the casinos.
I am tired of people using the word "retarded" out of context. It is insulting to all people who are mentally retarded or have a family member with someone who is retarded (I don't have someone in my family that is retarded but is still drives me crazy). It bothers me that our society is full of immature and insensitive people who don't think about what they are saying when they say it. I can understand the younger teens and kids using this word because they don't know any better but if you are an adult, you should know better. Jennifer probably had no intention of being insulting and she should probably just apologize and be done with it. Most people who use this word don't mean to be jerks but they are being jerks when they use this word (unintentionally). I have friends who use this word and I try to refrain from correcting them all the time because it can be annoying but grow up. People who use this word in a derogatory way are people I don't want to be near. Along the same lines, stop using the word "Gay" in a deragatory way. Regardless of if you think gays are "Right" or "wrong" in being gay, the word shouldn't be used in a derogatory way. For example, stop saying "that is so gay!" when you mean "that is so stupid!" I'm tired of it. People are soo insensitive. Our society is just going downhill. Ignorant and stupid people are really bringing our society down. We are mean to each other and I am so incredibly tired of it! Stop being an butt head and start treating each other w/ respect and acceptance (not just tolerance!) Thank you
ok look,the way i see it we are all retarded in our own way,and Jenn did not make ANY comments to those in the special olympics,BUT OH NO cant say that word retarded when they are around,uh oh im gonna have a lawsuit on me please,if they want to take it to heart then they need to sit there get off their high horses and see that she was not making refernces to them,she was making reference to herself,HELLO,get a clue ppl,grow up and learn that when people make a comment directly to you,yea then get all offended,but until then,shut up sheesh.....
I am the mother of a child with Down Syndrome and fall well into the category of people who could get all offended everytime the word is used, but I don't. I use it all the time!! As long as you're not saying it to my child as a slur I could care less how you use it. People need to get over their soft skin and learn to live and let live.
What!? The F-word is in almost every movie and you are fretting over the R-word?
Very confusing news coverage, UPTEEN references to R word without telling viewers what it means. A friend and I ran the R's for offensive terms: RACIST? REDNECK? REPUBLICAN? The R word isn't racist but discriminatory and should be banned. But it's slang and rednecks (ignorant and backward) from the east and west coasts to the north and south will continue to use it. Please ban the B words-Blago and Biden. Theirs' aren't innocent slips like Jen's but permanent hoof and mouth disease.
Give Jen a break! She doesn't have a teleprompter and a spin doctor's B.S. speech. Don't ban the B.S. word!! How would we refer to the manure peddlers in Congress?
Ihave to admit I I didi not know what the R was. I had too google it lol. I belive it is only offensive ifyou are talking about a person who does have Down Syndrom . i have cousin who does. i'm white if somoene called me the N word i would not be offended either, get over it people
Good God, can you please stop being so sensitive and get off the "lets outlaw words that make me cry" bandwagon!
It must suck to be so weak that you are wounded by words. But there is hope, you'll whine loud enough that our weak ass goverment will hold your hand and throw anyone in jail that says any of those outlawed words that kick you in the pair you never grew.
I can't believe people are so pickey on the words we use. thats whats wrong with America today .people want to sue over the N word, the R word, the B word, what happen to the freedom of speech. get over it .if you don't like it move to another country where they don't allow you to chew gum in public, and have to wear your laundry on your head.
I think socity has become completey crazy. The R-Word, the N-Word. What about the C-Word? It seems to be ok to call White people Crakers on TV. Frankly, people need to get a life.
That's just retarded.
The only thing retarded are the people who actually think that this is a story.
I won't say words are not powerful because they are and offensive words are just that...offensive. But then so is the negativity that follows when such a word is used. Both are bad and unneeded.
retard retard retard retard wetard wetard shmetard shut up already this country has become panzyfied
I being a big fan of Jennifer Anniston and the mother to a severely disabled son, I have to say I was not offended by her choice of words.I consider my child disabled and not the "R' word; that is so old school.His 13 year old brother uses the "R" word and has never associated that word with his brother.
COME ON PEOPLE!! THIS COUNTRY HAS SOOO MANY MORE SERIOUS ISSUES TO WORRY ABOUT THAN THIS. GET A GRIP AND STOP BEING HYPERSENSITIVE!! WHATEVER HAPPENED TO FREE SPEECH? IF THAT'S ALL YOU HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT YOU ALL NEED TO GET A LIFE!
You can't say ANYTHING without offending some thin-skinned retard anmore!
Funny. If we all understand what the letters stand for (N, R, F,etc), how is it any less offensive using a letter instead of the word? Using the letter doesn't change the definition of the word it stands for, so are we just being lazy using the letter???
You would flick her in the arm with your digits and then cower in her presence. Seems strange but whatever floats your boat.
don't waste you C in her A...she wants it deep in her P, so she can have a B...haven't you been keeping up with all the JA press lately?
LMAO @ Nick.
Very well put. I couldn't agree more!
Exactly, it was a slip of the tongue. When I was growing up in the 70's and 80's, the word was pretty commonly used by us kids. In some parts of society, it still is; these are also the same people that also still use the N word. That one took a long time to become a really bad word in society to where it's just not said.
Jennifer is the same generation as me, and it was a slip of the tongue. I'm personally quite certain she didn't mean it as an offense to people with disabilities.
Its sad that we have to be so careful how we speak now so we won't offend anyone.. Um.. 1st ammendment ring a bell to anyone?
I do understand that certain words can be hurtful to groups. Like saying "that's gay" when you think something is stupid. I think the take home message is one your mama said a million times.. think before you speak.
I think folks hsould give her a break. She meant no harm, and lesson learned.
And then the world kept on spinning and no one cared that Jennifer Aniston was a retard and said "retard" on TV.
retard doesnt mean down syndrom to me....to me it is a term of goofy...down syndrom ppl are awesome soooo not goofy!!! stop acting like this ppl...soooo quick to jump on bandwagon!
When did we start having so little to do that we make a big deal out of such a small thing.
Also when did we become this sensitive OMG. It's painful to watch intelligent people
even talking about this in a negative way. This particular celebrity does nothing to hurt anyone
and has a little fun at her expense. Come on people!!!
I thought R-word meant redneck.
A retard has always meant someone who doesn't think about what they do. They do what they feel! They don't think of the consequences! Jennifer's comment means nothing more than she doesn't think about getting dressed, she just does it! Stop reading more into comments than are meant! Who hasn't called a close personal friend the same thing when they have done something without thinking about it that ended badly!
Get over it people, must we be so petty and hang on every single word everyone says!!!! I mean, who doesn't have a slip up once in awhile. Now I understand she's a celebrity and is constantly under scrutiny, but she is also human and is allowed to make mistakes (if you call this a mistake). Seriously people, get a job, a life, educate your kids, read a newspaper of importance and stop wishing the world must cater to you and your every need.
I had to read the article to find out what the "R" word meant. The political "correctness" of this country is going way over board. Leave the poor girl alone, she meant no harm by it, and I'm sure did not mean to insult anyone that was mentally or physically challenged.
Bad retard Bad.... Bad Jennifer Bad
Totally agree!!!
I agree. it wasnt used in a harmful way , hey look people with R-word difficulties, dont be so sensitive. everyone gets called something by somebody. Knowbody is getting hurt. Give people some credit for understanding. pls stop being word policeman, its so tiresome everywhere now.
They think this is news? Sorry but this story sounds Retarded!
Yes, I used that word and I don’t care who is offended by it. Some times free speech is something you might not wish to hear or agree with but it is a right that must be defended.
In addition, a use of a word is no big deal and if people want to act as if they are offended by such words then they themselves are retards.
I dont like it, but I will die for her right to say it. Lately everyone is so sensitive, dont say this or dont say that. I will say exactly what ever is on my mind.
I agree just a slip ot the tongue and not meant to offend !! She will give a million dollars and willie's happy again !!
Remember what your parents taught you. Sticks and stones may break my bones but words can never hurt me...only if you let them. Get a grip people!
I don't see why people are making a big deal out of this! People these days will just get offended no matter what and it has gone to far. Get over it people, you being *r-word* over this
So for those not offened by this harmless slip of the tongue, go see the movie twice. I'm really tired of not being able to speak freely in the land of the free.
This is insane. Can I still say that? Should I be saying this is 'Mentally Unstable'. 'Unstable' too offensive? Get over yourself. Come on idiots, words don't matter. This false sense of outrage makes me sick. We need to really let go of this "OMG he/she said A WORD!!!!" We're on the road to Newspeak with this mentality.
This is just, wait, I can't use that word because it offends the yuppies. Give it a rest, slang has been used for a long time and I'm sick and tired of people trying to be holier than thou just it can make themselves feel better.
I'm offensive, so what. I'm also smart and contribute to society.
I have a sister who is "retarded" ooops, "slow", ooops, "genetically challenged"????? The definition of the word retarded is "slow or limited in intellectual or emotional development or academic progress". I am sorry but this is the exact definition of what my sister's problems are. I'm tired of people trying to tip toe around words like this, especially when it is the correct word to use. Does any other word change her abilities, or the facts? The problem is the way kids and others used the word. After a while the new words will no longer be politically correct.
It seems like lately everyone just wants thier 5 minutes of fame. who cares what she said, she's famous, OMG does she have to perfect for the rest of her life just because she makes movies...if everyone stopped criticizing everone else we would be alot better off-BUT someone in Arkansas "probably" said honey OMG did you hear her say that...i work in a hospital, and believe it or not The people that are mentally challenged call eachother the R-word when they get mad or fooling around. The Black people I work with call each other the N-word too....OMG lets end the world, it's every where.....Who Cares. Se's still HOT and a good actress. I'll see the movie no matter what comes out of her mouth. Face it, people are people. And while you sat hear and read this, those words were thrown around all over the world. They are just that WORDS. Get over it!
Hey Jenn,
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Distasteful, but a slip of the tongue, give the lady a break!
Wow.........how will a pilot tell his co-pilot to move the power levers to a slower setting?? How about a mechanic and setting the ignition timing on a engine?? This is stupid!!!!
I agree as well. C'mon! Obviously she meant no offense to anyone and you know we all totally said that when we were teens. Doesn't mean we can use the word whenever we want but instead of tearing down her name let's be a little careful before we judge others while we have much worse problems in our own lives...
Words like this are a moving target as far as what is considered offensive or politically correct. Idiot and moron used to be formal classifications for people with mental retardation, and these words are now used freely.
With that face and that body, she can say "what ever" she wants "when ever" she wants. Hey Jen, when you get tired of being single, drop me a line.
This is a word with multiple meanings. It doesnt apply to just one group of people. Buy a dictionary and get over it. We have become waaaaaaaay too sensitive.
I can't believe she said that.... what a retard.
I couldnt agree more, for heaven sake we have "the n word" now the "r word" what next, come one people stop whining!!
totally agree there. let it go.
Freedom of speech.Freedom of religion. Freedom of choice. Born with free will. So when can we be offended when people who want rights can try to infringe on ours. I dropped the "f" word that everyone is starting to reject. FREEDOM
OMG this PC crap is getting so annoying. She was NOT making fun of anyone. Im so tired of hearing people who say "You wont believe who said the ABC-word" Someone above made a good point that growing up in the 70's and 80's we had a different mind set when it came to speech. Ive used the word retard in NO WAY MAKING FUN OF ANYONE. Ive used it on MYSELF meaning I just acted like an uneducated no clue idiot. NO reference to a challenged person at all! If its so PC now why is it ok to have certain songs are the radio that talk about killing cops and "tapping" women? Its so hypocritial......this country needs to stop being so freakin sensitive already.
Agreed. Totally blown out of proportion. Although originally intended as a synonym for "slow," which at the time was also used for those with learning or mental disabilities, the word evolved in use as a juvenile term for "dork" or "idiot." She sounded juvenile but she was not insulting those who do struggle with disability.
the contex she use the word in wasent reffering to anyone or a group. she was talking about herself .people need to focus on more important stuff and leave that beautiful woman alone focus on all them gays trying to change god plan.its adam and eve not adam and steve.
HI! Welcome to America! If you'll step over here, you'll see some members of the American Neo Nazi Party, and the Ku Klux Klan. Directly to your left, you can see the pedophiles and rapists. And just down the hall, if you look closely, you may see a Muslim Fundamentalist or ten, but they're really good at hiding. All of their rights are protected by the first amendment (at least talking about their actions), but please, don't EVER say the 'R' word, or the 'N' word. No, those are BAD. Now, if everyone will please step to the right, so the Fundamentalist Christians can make their way through...
It's not like she went FULL retard.
Whoever thought that this story was newsworthy is a retard.
Sounds like she's been taking foot-in-mouth tips from her ex John Mayer.
You are so CORRECT!
We have become a country were you have to be politically correct or else you will affend some one. We all need to just get back to the basic! LET IT GO ALREADY!!!!
The R word is offensive to many people and an enlightened society sets aside those words that offend others. Setting aside those words is how society does away with prejudices and moves forward. The "N' word was once acceptable and now it is not. Once a word disappears from the language the prejudice does as well. Do you have the right to use these words? Yes! But, as with so many things, just because you can does not mean you should. You are a part of a comunity. You can help your community move forword or you can hold it back by your words and actions. You get to choose which sort of person you wish to be. Choose wisely. Anniston offended many and a recognition of that fact on per part and an apology is appropriate.
absolutely. come on, folks. look at who she is, what she does. she is a class act and nobody is perfect, for heaven's sake. i work with the DD community on a daily basis, and sure, they don't like to hear that word in person or in movies. it makes one more sensitive to it. if you want to pillory jennifer, stop and think: when was the last time you said 'D'oh!' "durrr!" "dur-dur-dur" from that stupid comedian whose name i forget. we all mime 'developmentally disabled' (retarded) to make fun of ourselves.
Since when is retard not part of the English language, because Sarah Palin says it's not correct? Paleeesseeee.
Nobody said a word when the Peas put out a song that said "Let's get retarded.." people are blowing this way out of proprotion.
Wrong, wrong wrong. You are defending the indefensible. If this word wasn't already a part of her vocabulary she wouldn't have made a "slip-up". Do ministers drop the F-bomb in their sermons? No, because they don't normally use those words. It is time to stop defending and start helping. This word and the way it is used is demeaning to a group of people most of whom aren't capable of defending themselves against its use. If you are laughing this off, brushing it away, or worse, defending it, you are part of the problem. You are wrong. Stop it and start being part of the solution.
This is getting ridiculous. People are expected to be robots with pre-programed responses. The word "retard" has always been a slang for someone stupid, not handicapped. These people that live in fear of words need to get a grip or else we just choose to ignore them and go on with our lives like normal people. Bunch of babies. Oh no...now the national baby organisation is going to get me.
So agree – we have to think through "every" word we say now. Just is crazy (oops) that our society has to be SO politically correct. She is a great actress and I enjoy her movies. Let her be. People need to think about what they may have said to "offend" before criticizing.
oh who cares... anything and everything is offensive to SOMEONE... blah blah blah freedom of speech... she was making fun of herself anyway.
I agree - let it go. This is getting pathetically ridiculous! R-word, B-word, S-word, N-word...when are we going to stop being overly concerned with the what people say. The only people offended are the ones that WANT to be offended...the ones that walk around with a chip on their shoulder just waiting for a chance to get made at someone. I have never really liked Jennifer a lot, but even I know she did say anything offensive. Grow up, you retar....oops, I can't use that word, can I?
I did not even bother to read the 600-something posts here. If I had read all of them, it would have retarded my morning ritual of drinking coffee and reading the news paper. However, if I did read them, it could retard the effects of all the coffee I am drinking, so maybe I should. In the end, I do not believe Jennifer's intent was to retard the velocity of her career by using the "R" word.
As the 14 yr olds might say....I think the overeaction to this pretensious story is retarded....by the way . I am handicapped and find no problem with the word.
Come on....society is seriously messed up when it's ok to cuss on tv but when someone slips up and uses a word like retard it's the biggest thing in history! What's wrong with the world?!?! Think about it people!
So it is freedom of speech to claim that you served and were decorated in the military even if that is not true – but a simple human slip of the tongue is not allowed?
Maybe we should just take this word out of the dictionary and the English language as well. One other thing, people would have moved on without thinking twice about this until the idiots at ARC or Special Olympics come out to have their own "15 minutes" of fame decribing how disappointed and shocked they were that someone were to use this word. Crap! I suppose they need to justify getting paid for doing nothing...maybe arguing about such non-issues gives them the impression that they are doing SOMETHING. Even if that something is making a real fool of oneself!!!
Good god. lets all grow up.. its a simple word.. let it go and move on. If we censor every word out of everyones mouth then we are in a sad state of affairs. there are more in=mportant things to look after in comparision to using the R word, like leaves falling off trees. thats on the same level right?
I agree, big deal.
Are the people of one of the greatest countries in the world really that shallow to be fighting over a simple "WORD". The way I see it we have allot more important things to whine and cry about, than to worry about someone saying the wrong word or calling someone a name. GROW UP AMERICA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Get a life!
You know, she didn't mean it in that context. She was refering to her self, not to the Speacial olympics, nor to anyone person who suffers from a mental disability. In the slang part of dictionary.com the definition is -n. a stupid person(Also a term of address.) : Don't be a retard! Get with it! . It has more than one meaning. Do people forget that? Or do we all assume the worst when people speak?
All of this political correctness is retarded.
Wholeheartedly agree. It seems that our whole society has devloved into a group of people walking around with a chip on their shoulder just waiting to be "offended".
I grew up with the word “retard” as part of my vocabulary, often using phrases like “that’s so retarded” or “you’re a retard”. I absolutely understand how easy it is for that to become just another word in your vocabulary. And I certainly never thought twice about using it well into adulthood.
That is, until I gave birth to twins with a genetic condition who will forever be globally developmentally delayed (retarded). I can tell you, my views on the topic did a complete 180. I’m not unaware that this makes me a bit of a hypocrite. That’s why I try to be very understanding and not pass judgment on someone who casually and without malice throws that word around, even if I personally find it hurtful. I chalk it up to them just not knowing or understanding how hurtful a word can be, a position I was in not too many years ago.
But I can tell you now I fully understand the impact a simple word can have. And to those of you making your witty “retard” comments on these boards knowing that it IS hurtful to some people I just don’t understand you.
You can call it irrational, you can call it overly sensitive, you can call it retarded. But you now know that the use of the word is hurtful to many people, particularly those of us faced on a daily basis with the realities of caring for retarded loved ones. I can’t understand why you would continue to do it and do it in a confrontational, cruel and hurtful way. You are doing it intentionally to spark controversy at the expense of others, knowing that it’s hurtful. You can try to put any spin on it you want but in the end you’re still INTENTIONALLY causing pain to people you don’t even know. There isn’t any justification other than you just don’t care. If that’s the way you choose to live your life there’s nothing much I can do about that. I just find it sad. I think we as human beings should be better than that.
I have an overweight friend. But if I ever inadvertently made a “fat” comment and she said to me, you know, saying that is really hurtful to me you can bet I would do my very best to NOT say that type of thing again. Heck, it doesn’t even have to be a friend. If a perfect stranger told me something was offensive I wouldn’t intensionally continue to try and hurt their feelings by reiterating the hurtful comment/word. It’s common sense and decency.
I will say that more than one person made great comments about the word only being hurtful if you let it be hurtful or only being derogatory if you take it in a derogatory manner. I can tell you I thought long and hard about those comments knowing that there is truth in them. I am not unaware that at least half of my sensitivity on the topic is my own.
That said, it still hurts my feelings. When people use the word it’s a painful reminder of how difficult and uncertain my future will be. How hard my children will have to struggle to learn every little thing. So maybe I put too much emphasis on the word. However I’m telling people it’s still hurtful. It hurts my feelings, breaks my heart, makes me cry on an almost daily basis. Now tell me, is there ANY justification to continue using the word knowing how hurtful it is? If you can still say yes, you have every right to use the word if you want, but you are not someone I want to know. And quite frankly – in my opinion – I think it makes you a bad person.
I am only a few years older than Ms. Aniston and I have NEVER used that word. I learned when I was very young that it wasn't appropriate.
Come on really. Why are people so caught up in what the stars are doing? I am willing to bet one thing. While we are all watching this, she is probably making a million. Think about it.......... I sell dirty south beats, but when I say retard nobody cares. So if I sold a beat to T.I. tomorrow I should begin to watch what I say. lmao Club, Hip Hop, R&B, Dirty south beats and more at http://www.dirtyscopebeatz.com
I totally agree!!! I mean come on people say it EVERYDAY with no harm intended, I wish people would take their feelings off their sleeves and quit making BIG issues out of things people say. If she felt like a retard so what, I do to sometimes.
I'm just an average Joe checking headlines and I saw this article which obviously shadows Dr. Laura's using the "N" word. In short, I'm sick and tired of the over sensitivity of people.....give it a rest for heavens sake! People read way too much into this stuff. And it doesn't help when the media throws fuel on it.....which is exactly what happened with Dr. Laura and Anniston.
Since this has dived to playground level, haven't we all heard the old 'sticks and stones' saying? So many people have become way too touchy, almost going out of their way to look for reasons to be offended by someone. Look, it's obvious that she meant nothing mean or insulting by her comment; it was simply a word, not a judgment on any one group. Alot of folks simply need to get over this pettyness that seems to have gripped our society. Or else people will be afraid to say anything other than a simple 'yes' or 'no' for fear of offending some group, somewhere...
Agreed, we need to get over it. SHe's sorry, and has no reputation for being insincere. While we're at it, we need to leave Jen alone. She's never done anything to anyone, and is not a bad person at all. The media make her out to be some pathetic thing, and that's sad.
I have a sibling that is mentally challenged, and I have work in a group home for the mentally and physically challenged, and truthfully I don't find it that offensive, asinine and juvenile yes but not really offensive.
The thing is its a word, is just a word.
At one point in the past the term "IDIOT" was used only to describe a person that was mentally challenged, but people applied it to anyone that did something foolish.
The same is true with the word "DUMB", and "MORON".
In fact the words "SPECIAL" and "CHALLENGED" are used with the same connotation today.
If the new "TERM" for the mentally challenged was "young minded" people will soon use it insultingly as well.
The main reason I'm not insulted is because most sane people are not using it in regards to people with special needs, they are using it in the sense of a regular person doing something unintelligent.
I disagree this was a little slip up. It was hurtful. Just like Dr. Laura – the majority group does not get to decide what is hurtful to the minority group, that is the essence of prejudice (if the majority group gets to make that call). You can't know what it's like to be on the other side, and you shouldn't presume you can.
Who cares? I'm more concerned about Dr. Laura and her thoughts about using the N-word and the people who insist that she did nothing wrong (Thanks Palin, you are a TRUE American Hero!). This is a stupid story because you know she meant no harm, besides she's an actress, who CARES? This should not be a story.
So what. All of us say stupid things, and who us haven't said retard or retarded when referring to something that is odd? What do some people get so upset when a word that can mean several things is said. Do they get upset when they heard about brake retarders on trucks? People just need to drop it and move on. She is a person, even though in the public eye. Move on people.
Honestly, it is getting very annoying that in such a "free speech" society, we have to think about everything we say ALL the time. I agree that we need to be sensitive and not insult people, but this one is rediculous. Do you honestly think that J. Aniston said this to offend anyone?? Come on people, you waste your time with so many petty things when there are so many problems to deal with that are way more important.
I think Jennifer did not mean it the way she said it. I also believe that people are not perfect so if they want to bash her then they need to look in a mirror and think about the stupid things they did in their life. Believe me someone who is mentally disabled won't be sitting at home thinking how horrible Anniston is! This kind of targeting always makes waves at any given chance. Everyone needs to take a chill pill and think about how we can fix this economy. Now the men and women running our country are truly mentally handicapped... What if we called them the r-word? No backlash there!
I agree with the last two posts. This country has got way to PC. It is pathetic. If one looks at the Merriam – Webster definition of the word retard, it explains in plain language what retard means. A retard is a retard...forget about mentally challenged. 1 : to slow up especially by preventing or hindering advance or accomplishment : impede
2 : to delay academic progress by failure to promote
The a/holes who come up with different rubbish to say the same thing are retards with nothing better to do. Get a life!
Well, that's just retarded... Why can't a word's use change over time and become less of a negative word referring to someone with mental disabilities and more a of a word referring to anyone of the human race? (which, honestly, is the way most people seem to use it)
In the words of comedian Ralphie May, "If you're a Retard, you don't understand the word "Retard". Everyone needs to stop making everything a Politically Correct matter. I just read that the assoc. for the Deaf want Forever 21 to have their staff go thru "sensitivity to the deaf" training. Why, because one of their security guards tackled a shoplifter who failed to stop when told to stop. He was DEAF, SO WHAT??? He was still a shoplifter. If your handicapped, get used to the name calling. People are cruel. Try being fat or to tall or to short. These people get the same ridicule.
I am beyond outraged at the responses I'm reading here. I understand that most of you don't equate the word 'retard' with someone that is mentally or physically challenged in some way. You think it's just a simple word to describe someone or something that is silly or goofy or stupid. Hmm, I wonder where that connotation came from in the first place? This is something that you will never fully understand until you have had a child that fits this description. The pain in mindboggling when you see someone making fun of your child because they are different. The word does hurt a group of people. Period, end of story. It's not like you are required to include the word in your vocabulary, so please, be sensitive to other's feelings and leave it out.
The issue is not whether or not it was hurtful to some. It is whether or not it was meant with malicious intent. It was not. Slip of the tongue. Lets move on.
I'm offended that she hasn't used that word up until now. I guess it's my sensitivity vs yours.
who freaking cares?!?!?! even mentally challenged people probably won't care. Why is this country so sensative? why have we lost our guts and out decency? this is just rubbish...
Oh, PLEASE! ENOUGH already. What on earth is this society coming to? If I want to call myself a RETARD, then so be it! It doesn't mean I have any disrespect for persons with disabilities. This stuff just makes me sick to my stomach about where this country is heading at this point. Awful, just plain awful
People need to get a life. Our society is too politically correct. Our society has not improved with being politically correct in public, hence, has gotten worse.
People are responsible for their speech. Just because we honor free speech in this country, it doesn't mean you can run your mouth off without responsibility and conscience. Speech is a very powerful thing. Perhaps if those who like to run their yaps were as consciensious about their speech as they are about their guns and hateful politics, the discourse in America would improve signfiicantly.
This is retarded, I can believe this is news. People need to thicken their skin a bit. I work for a major proffesional corporation, and to be honest my co-workers and I use the word daily. Articles like this are a perfect fit for something that is retarded. Freedom of speech, if you dont like it then ignore it. You have to live with it. People say things all the time I dont like, oh well.
I have a sister whom I dearly love; but she comes over to my house and feeds my dog Frito's and cheese. It makes my dog constipated. Does this means I can no longer call my sister a retard. For the love of Pete, Aniston sounded really dumb; but can we find it in our hearts to forgive the girl. It sounded like she was referring to herself as a retard. I kind of admire her for being able to laugh at herself with a cool head. Jeeesz
Are we really trying to equate the "R-word" with the "N-word"... I have had it up to "here" with all this PC crud. Move on people....
No big deal. People need thicker skin!
To Ruth Butler who wrote, "A retard has always meant someone who doesn't think about what they do..." Strange. All this time I thought it came from Old French retarder , from Latin retardāre , from re- + tardāre to make slow, from tardus sluggish.
Heaven help the composers who want the musicians to slow the tempo down.
SenseiC bows out.
Why is the use of Retard offensive, we stopped using that word eons ago do described CHALLENGED people. Retard is a word now used to describe stupidity not challenged-ness. please people we need to just stop. We will never please EVERYBODY Ever! She was not being derogatory she was just being herself – leave it along and let it go its so retarded you even take offense .....Well unless you are retarded yourself.
in older cars you could turn the distributor to the left to "retard" the engine timing and turn in to the right to "advance" the engine timing. retard, retard, retard.... see it depends on the context!!
WOW this is the dumbest thing i have ever read. I cannot believe this is news. I cant believe people actually care. So what if she said RETARD. WHO CARES. whats even more disappointing is all the people who say "well now i might not see her new movie blah blah blah".... Really? bc somebody says retard you are so high and mighty that you completely change your judgment of somebody... oh wait you dont even know that person in real life so im sure she could care less what you think about her........get a life people. quit hanging on every word, literally that comes out of celebs mouths. they are just people. quit being cry babies and get a real life you tards
This is rediculous! Do these people have nothing more to do then get upset by such a harmless word as this. To be honest, I'm usually ultrasensitive to some of the things I see and hear around me, but they are important issues. This one, however, is just plain stupid. I wasn't planning to see this movie, but I just might, just to support her. By the way, if people want to attack jennifer Aniston for this, they should also attack Airbus, maker of airliners....their on-board computers say "Retard" upon landing to remind the pilot to pull back on the engines. Dang plane has no respect for people.
No intent to harm – Curious that many politically correct intentions are intellectually dishonest.
Its Rih-tard...not Re-tard Jennifer...sheesh! BFD its just a WORD! Sticks and stones people! If people expect them to be considered equals then making a big deal about the "R-Word" every time someone says it is not the way to do it.
Aniston just needs to keep her mouth shut. First, she tried to say that kids don't need dads. We've seen the outcome of kids without dads over the past 30 years. That was a bonehead statement. Now, Aniston can't seem to filter between the brain and the mouth and uses the word "retard". That was another bonehead statement. A super genius of PR she is not.
Hmm, I guess if she had said "like an Einstien" Mensa would have to issue an official statement as well. "R-word", really? Is it really coming down to this? Anything that could be construed as offensive has to be hyphenated now? I'm giving up on Americans. We have all become a bunch of P-words.
Seriously?! With all the issues going on in the world... we're going to get hung up on every little word we utter out of our mouths? What a bunch of retards. : P
Nothing personal, and I seem to be in the minority - and, I couldn't care less if it's Jennifer Aniston saying it, versus an "ordinary person" - but the word is very negative and shouldn't be used casually. Whether intended or not, it's an insult to people who have these personal issues...essentially saying that their condition makes them "lesser human beings." I've worked with the mentally retarded, and their level of humanity, dignity, honesty, kindness in fact tends to be greater than that of a lot of "normal" people.
The Special Olympics statement uses the word "dehumanizes" and I think that's exactly correct. I'm not some "PC nut", at all...but I hope people will consider that the "R-word" does truly hurt and insult people with mental handicaps. See, I even used the word "handicap"....
Every one needs to get over this thing with words, there are more important things to worry about today, economy, jobs, ect.
A slip of the tongue is not using a population of people as an insult to oneself or others. To say its not big deal would mean that we could say derogaotry remarks of gays, aftrican americans, or any other racial group. I could even use your child's name as an insult then. Still no big deal?
The idea that the use of the word 'retard' does "no harm" is ridiculous. I'm sure no harm was intended but that doesn't mean it's acceptable. What was acceptable (although still uninformed) twenty years ago is not acceptable now. While the first amendment allows you to be as ignorant as you'd like, those of us that are a little more senstive to the struggle of people with intellectual handicaps also have the right to speak out about it. Words have power and the word 'retard' devalues people. The "sticks and stones" argument belongs on the playground.
Jen...I love you and you are beautiful! But, the correct word is.."Tard"...Or you can use the new word for retard, Bama.
The 'R' word, are we a bunch of children in this country???? OMG
Aren't all acrtress's and actors retards?
Agreed. People need to get over it. You would think she committed a crime the way some people are acting. If nothing had been said it would not have even been noticed. There was no derogatory remark made. Does anyone know the meaning of free speech!
HA! and people are getting upset by this? Get over it you over sensitive pansies. And people wonder why our country is losing strength...because we have people getting upset and "offended" over this crap. Grow up and grow a thicker skin ya knuckleheads!
I wonder how the Special Olympics and other special populations' societies would have viewed Aniston if she used the new word every student and adult in the country uses now when playing......Tard.
Or maybe if she quoted Matt Dillon from "Something about Mary", and said "I love those f***** retards!"
The cringing I would want to witness with those assisting/mentoring/teaching those with disabilities would cause me great laughter...as the majority of them take their jobs too damn seriously.
Lighten up, Aniston made a mistake.
I use the "W" word a hundred times every day. Why isn't this reported?
people need to get over themselves – the N-word, the R-word blah blah blah – there should be a movement to end political correctness – what crap!
When will we have another "N" word and a "G" word to represent Geek and Nerd? Those words are used all the time and can be very hurtful and in many cases scarring to smart children and can continue far into young adulthood.
Maybe a national organization to represent intelligent people should be formed to come out and fight against the use of those words, derogatory or otherwise. Especially since those in that minority are often shy and not as strong as others and therefore have a much more difficult time standing up for themselves.
re·tard /rɪˈtɑrd, for 1–3, 5; ˈritɑrd for 4/ Show Spelled[ri-tahrd, for 1–3, 5; ree-tahrd for 4] Show IPA
–verb (used with object)
1. to make slow; delay the development or progress of (an action, process, etc.); hinder or impede.
–verb (used without object)
2. to be delayed.
–noun
I am SOOOO sick and tired of being given a list of words that I can't say, while, the people that say they identify those words use them freely and then run screaming and crying when someone else uses them. (r-word, n-word, f-word, etc-word) It reminds me of Elementary School where the bully could say or do whatever he wanted, but the minute somebody else did it, he'd go tattle. Aniston had a slip of the tongue at her own expense, get over it!?!
The "N" word applies to Jenbo...."Naieve"
The only "backlash" is from the retarded organized associations who are making it a big deal. Jennifer, you should have referred to "tardy" instead of reatard. . . get over it.
Jennifer Aniston and using the "R" word was once used by doctors to describe people with cognitive disabilities. Back then,the word basically meant that the person literally couldn't think and was worthless and brain-dead.
Until you walk in those shoes you have no idea how hurtful the word is. My grandson is to young to realize people in this world think less of him but there will come a time he will really know the word and know that people like you think less of him. It's a good thing she is not rasing children.
I don't get it. They don't want to be called retarded, they want to be called mentally challenged; however, they are the first to be offended when the word retard is used. I use that word everyday to describe my bosses and some of the idiotic ideas that they come up with. It is not used as a derogatory reference to someone with mental/physical disabilities. We have got to get over all of this politically correct BS. It's called the first amendment folks. If you don't like what someone has to say then don't listen.
Exactly!! I guess the fire department will have to start calling fire retardant ..."that stuff that makes it hard to start a fire". Come on people...
Why is this even an issue? When will we stop being so dumb about things, use it in context, it wasn't used to dehumanize people with mental disabilities it was used to make fun of herself... I just think people get stupid about these things.
So this is only a word, is it? Maybe for those of you who view it that way, it means little more than a thoughtless moment, but for the parents of a child with a challenge, it means far more, especially when that particular thoughtless word is directed constantly at their learning-disabled child. I had to listen to thoughtless children taunt my child with this word because she was just a little different than they were, and I knew they hadn't plucked it out of thin air; they learned it from equally thoughtless parents who believed that if you didn't learn as quickly as other children, you were dumb, stupid, the "r word."
Damn right I'm sensitive about it, because said child (now in her 30s and a professional woman in a responsible job) wasn't stupid or dumb; she simply had to learn a different way to learn. Not all of those who called her names and believed her inferior finished college or even high school, but she was valedictorian of her high school class and graduated from college with honors. Before getting to that point, we had to dry her tears when people called her names and tried to make themselves feel bigger by putting her down.
I'm sorry, but these labels HURT. These names HURT. Thoughtlessness HURTS. It has absolutely nothing to do with political correctness and everything to do with being aware of others, awareness that not everyone is a cookie-cutter version of the next person, and being able to see that this kind of label follows thinking that has no place in modern society. Believe me when I tell you that the parents of disabled and challenged children feel every word wound in a way that bleeds long after everyone with "NORMAL" children forget that they ever let something so hurtful slide out of their mouths.
Would it have been more acceptable if she had used the "n" word for an African American? Or the "f" word for a gay man? Somehow, I doubt it.
Shame on you, Jennifer Aniston. You need to learn that you are responsible for your words and actions, since you're so very fond of being in the spotlight; I don't think you would have liked this word if you'd had a child like mine, who struggled hard to get where she is, shedding tears over all the name-calling, all the prejudice that is so carefully hidden behind the guise of political correctness. You need to learn the power of words before you get your next multi-million dollar paycheck for spouting someone else's lines while proclaiming yourself to be empty-headed.
Anyone who has an issue with this is a retard!!!!!!
Pretty soon every word in the english launguage will be off limits. We need to grow up and not be so sensitive. We all say things we shouldnt, but this is so minor, it should not be news.
And you are beyond ignorant. Let me guess, you've never worked with someone with special needs in your lousy life, have you? Grow up.
I totally agree with the previous comment. I can’t control what all the RETARDS out there think, but I can control what I say. In no way will pseudo activists control my freedom of speech. Additionally, if what I say offends or hurts your feelings I don’t really care. Censorship has gone rampant because people have become soft. To all you softies out there, get over it get out. This is the United States and this country has been founded on the blood sweat and tears of hard working, tough skinned settlers. I am one of many that will never bend to the woes of the weak. This paragraph is a tribute to those that don’t.
Oh spare me! I am so sick of political correctness! But then again why is everyone so fixed on every move and everything that Hollywood types do and say?
People are getting to sensitive about "slang" names. It's obvious she wasn't using it to hurt anyone. Just let it go.
People are seriously getting offended way too much these days. It must be a trendy thing.
Come on, Geez. What do these people do, wait for some story or person to include a catch-word so they can get another 15 minutes. This is Sharpton / Jackson-esque in its stupidty. There is no backlash, or not one that matters anyway to 99% of the decent people. This entire attempt to demonize people through their use of words which everyone else uses all the time is simply, how does that go, RETARDED. Deal with it, you can't take away my 1st amendment rights even though you'd like to, so stop being retarded.
Gina said:
"A slip of the tongue is not using a population of people as an insult to oneself or others."
That only works my dear if one believes, as you clearly do, that people with challenges are Retards. To me, and to many others, they are not. I believe some of us are born with or develop mental/physical issues that leave us more functionally challenged than others, but not 'retarted' or 'slow'.
I have an 'odd-jobs' guy who, by conventional standards, would be classified as mentally challenged. But he is a whiz with all those physical things, painting, gardening, fixing things in a way that I lack the skill to be. We are differently abled.
You are a very angry, pitiful person. I feel bad for your sad life.
thank you, nick. you words seemed heartfelt and sincere...
Well, even though your comment made me laugh, it's a bit harsh! I would next like to hear of her when her PR people announce "Jennifer has decided to stop offending people on a global level by dropping off the face of the earth- no more movies, no more interviews, nada!"
Now that would be awesome.
Who is this woman anyway? She was entertaining on a TV show for a few years- that's it! I think she's a useless boob, and evidently, she herself agrees!
Watch and see, she'll be making PSAs for Special Olympics within the month. PATHETIC.
Wow, you are so clever. You're my hero.
Gasp!
You used the "B" word!!
So then you should also please drop off the earth along with her??
Who is she, are you retarded, wake up. Obviously you just read something about her so you must have had some sort of interrest.
Useless? Quite the contrary! She has a very nice set of bo... oh, wait. Sorry, I misread that.
I don't get the issue, if you're acting like a retard, you're acting like a retard. No biggie.
So acting like a Gwhat is... being ignorant in what you say and saying it anyway?
@STFU! Acting like a Gwhat is saying what you want to and realizing that some idiot will be offended no matter what. It also means that you really don't care about the panty-waist dipstick dim bulb that gets offended because other people say things that offend you, BUT YOU JUST DEAL WITH IT and let it go.
AMF, STFU.
lol you acted like a gwaht.
"So acting like a Gwhat is... being ignorant in what you say and saying it anyway?"
Logically, if you are ignoant of the things of which you speak there is nothing to inhibit you
Exactly, like where I work the toilet is always overflowing or stopping up. Someone will come out and say "Man, there's a great big chris floating in the bowl and I can't flush it. Sometimes chris will spill out onto the floor and people will track a bunch of chris outside before they notice it. We just tell them "chris happens, get over it."
I have never heard anyone use the word "retard" to mean a person who acts without thinking first, so how has it "always" meant that? The way you say it, it almost puts a positive spin on a word that many find offensive–like it means someone who isn't inhibited or something. I think you mean to say that that's how YOU always mean it, because that's not the commonly accepted usage of the word.
Life is not fair, and thoughtlessness exists. Unfortunately, you will have to deal with that and teach your child to overcome challenges not only physically and mentally, but those that are inevitable based on the condition ohf humanity at this moment. We are a hurtful human race. Look around. How many wars are we fighting? How many marriages end in ruin? How many children are abused both physically and mentally. Jennifer Anniston was not being derrogatory towards the mentally challenged, she was making a statement concerning herself, and by the very definition, when "retard" is used as a noun in a self-depricating way, it doesn't apply to those with disabilities.
Stop using your child's disability as a way to control the thoughts and actions of others. You fight the impossible fight. Teach your child who and what THEY are...a human being who will face difficulties, but not to let those challenges define them.
Life is not fair, and thoughtlessness exists. Unfortunately, you will have to deal with that and teach your child to overcome challenges not only physically and mentally, but those that are inevitable based on the condition of humanity at this moment. We are a hurtful human race. Look around. How many wars are we fighting? How many marriages end in ruin? How many children are abused both physically and mentally. Jennifer Anniston was not being derrogatory towards the mentally challenged, she was making a statement concerning herself, and by the very definition, when "retard" is used as a noun in a self-depricating way, it doesn't apply to those with disabilities.
Stop using your child's disability as a way to control the thoughts and actions of others. You fight the impossible fight. Teach your child who and what THEY are...a human being who will face difficulties, but not to let those challenges define them.
I will stop using the word Retard when a retarded person tells me it's hurtful. Not someone who is related to a retarded person, or someone with a retarded child or any sort of organization. Until then, it's open season. Stop projecting YOUR emotions into other peoples heads! I've met retarded people who call themselves __________ the retard.
I would also like to say.... Stewardess.... Black..... Gay..... and any other NON PC term I can think of.
You are a wonderful person and I am so happy that there is one voice of reason in this abyss of insensitivity. Why are people so vehemently defending their right to hurt other's feelings? I just don't get it. What kind of parents did these people have, to not teach them that if something bothers someone, you stop doing it! People should understand that once innocent words, over time, can develop negative connotations. This is one of those words, and to them it may seem like it no longer is associated with that derogatory meaning, it actually still is in the eyes of someone.
Shut up, nobody cares, your friends don't even like you, they only pretend because they know you are a poser and really have no idea what you're talking about. It is strictly for their amusement!
Removing that one word doesn't change any of that. Children will still pick on your child, they'll just use a different word. Being sensitive to a specific word does not change the cause of your child's trouble. Forcing people to not use the word 'retard' won't stop your child from being made fun of. You are barking up the wrong tree.
I would just like to tell you that you are a sad, sad person. This hurts YOU so much becuase your children take after you. Oh by the way CHALLENGED = RETARDED.
I fell asleep 3x reading your diatribe . Each time I had a dream about you being a retard for writing something so long and boring
AMEN!
A thousand times yes! I know you said the word is hurtfull to you and makes you sad. And I am sorry for that, but if we stop and say this word is bad because it makes someone upset, then where do we stop? I hate lots of words, and there are some that make me sad, but once we start down the road of what is right to say and what is not then we are doomed.
Well said, well said, well said. 1,483 comments on here and ONE thoughtful, intelligent person. Hats of to you for your caring and kindness. Those children are very blessed to have someone like you for a mom. I wish CNN would put your post at the top of the list and keep it there, so all the thoughtless, heartless, inhumane souls who keep posting drivel had to read it first. Thanks for reminding me there are a few decent human beings out there.
This is post a comment not a book! Go tell your story to Oprah! And I wouldn't want to know you, you smell funny... are you not feeling fresh? Better get that checked right quick!!
Soit's bad to say retarded, but mentally challenged is ok?? How soon before someone comes out after this phase?? Is different from others ok?? Wait, because that a classification of too many other groups. Gay folks are different and they use a rainbow as their symbol. Idiot, retard, slow , dumb, one card short of a full house, one card missing from the deck, et al, should be stricken from the English dictionary. My mother died of ovarian cancer. I don't like the word, so everyone has to be more sensitive to me!! No more mention of the word cancer. My dad died of a heart attack, so no more mention of that word either. How about we just say about people that are retarded, or slow, or whatever that they just don't get it?? Would that make you happy?? "My children, although I love them to death, and will do anything for them, just don't get it."
Sofie....you must be one of her fans.....
You're a retard
Oh, Johnny! You are so smart! Where do I get some of those smarts? Are they cheese flavored? Liberals are hiding n your mush! Watch out! Those smarty pants liberals. Dontcha just hate 'em?
It's spelled N A I V E. And with her personal history, she probably isn't.
I just flushed a jon in your honor.
First amendment makes us ignorant?? That what does the 19th amendment make us?? Retarded and soft thats what.
I think demonizing a word just gives it more power. People use that word all the time to be playful, not to insult mentally challenged people.
I have a brother with profound mental retardation due to autism. He is nonverbal, but he still does the same things as everyone else. Just yesterday we went on a bike ride and some guy yelled "look at the retard in the baseball cap". The fact that his diagnosis is being maliciously twisted to become an insult him makes me sick. Even if he doesn't recognize that he's being insulted, the people who love him do. Why would you go out of your way to hurt others? Also-who are you trying to fool? I'm sure you don't use other offensive words all the time either- this is the internet after all.
I agree with you 100%. Unfortunately most people will not change their hurtful behavior until someone they love is affected. Their are many words that were once acceptable that are no longer acceptable. There is one that begins with the letter N that comes to mind. People argue that "Oh, that isn't the same thing" but actually it is. Both the R-word and the N-word are derogatory terms that are used to trivialize a whole group of people. Whether your intent is to dehumanize someone or not, that is the result. No, the "life is not fair" excuse doesn't fly. You have the right to say what you want, but others have the right to not acknowledge you when you do so. More people are realizing the impact that their words have and are choosing not to say the R-word, much like the N-word has been virtually removed from the lexicon, thankfully. To say words like these just shows your lack of compassion, and if that is cool with you then keep right on. I like to think I am better than having to feel good by picking on an already marginalized section of society. The Civil Rights Movement helped eradicate hate speech from everyday life, so why shouldn't equality and respect also apply to those with intellectual disabilities? I am saddened by the lack of civility and respect on this forum.
Doesn't that halo pinch? Ya know, a bowl of bran would help your condition.