After weeks of the Greek (media) chorus asking anyone and everyone, “Who in the world would cheat on Sandra Bullock?” her estranged husband is ready to provide some answers.
Former reality TV star Jesse James will finally open up on ABC’s "Nightline" on Tuesday, giving some insight into what happened in his marriage to America’s Sweetheart.
James is also expected to share the reason why he went to rehab and what role he wants to have in baby Louis’ life.
This is James’ first television appearance since allegations of his infidelity first surfaced in March. At the time, James issued a public apology to his wife and kids, stating that “the vast majority of the allegations and rumors are untrue.”
However, James added, “There is only one person to blame for this whole situation, and that is me. It's because of my poor judgment that I deserve everything bad that is coming my way. ... This has caused my wife and kids pain and embarrassment beyond comprehension, and I am extremely saddened to have brought this on them. … I hope one day they can find it in their hearts to forgive me.”
However, on April 28, the same day that Bullock revealed she’d adopted a son from New Orleans, news hit that Bullock was seeking a divorce.
Set your DVR for 11:35 p.m. ET on Tuesday, May 25.
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I would watch Monster Garage every chance I could. I would also watch all the West Coast Chopper shows I could find. Mr. James shows were watched by many. I did not watch "Jesse James is a Dead Man". I, as did alot of viewers, liked the hands on design, build, and be successful concept. This was just after 9/11 when Americans were needing the idea that you could go out into your garage and put something together. It would work, you knew how it worked, and there was no mistery of where it came from or who was going to knock it assunder. These shows made no excuses for the biker image, Tattos, or skulls and crossbones. I did not buy into that portion of the saga. But, Mr. James made it clear as to who he was, what his postions was, were he came from, and where he stood at that date.
There are always 2 sides to every story – so what if he gets to have his told.
Cheating is bad. Sandra Bullock is no exception to the rule. It hurt me when my husband cheated on me.. The only difference, mine wasn't displayed on TV. Who knows what their life was like. She's probably not perfect either.
Lynn May 20th, 2010 4:02 pm ET
Please....YAWN!!! Nightline has not been the same since Ted Kopel left!! He didn't waste his time on this type of dribble!!!
I think you mean drivel.
My man, Yo Bro, we do these things because there are 7 women 4 everyman. Look Sandra knew who you are a bad boy. Come don't tell me she fell in love with to reform him make him a nice husband that just wait at home while she finishes movies. Jesse will be fine there are many chicks out there. Sandra well you will be single for another twenty year unless you stop being attracted to bad boys.
I hope Jesse tapped the BIMBO doing the interview!!!
I'm still trying to figure out why she married this clown to begin with.
lol jimmy, I was waiting for someone to respond...
Todd that is messed up.... I am still LOL. Love it.
Who cares! This is a personal matter between these two people, not the world. All I care about is what movie she will be in next, not who her husband is sleeping with or her for that matter. I am so tired of the world having an opinion about someone cheating. Does it personally affect you???? There are thousands of men and Women cheating right now. Get off your high horse. I wonder how many of you have cheated and are now preaching?????
The man was just cleaning his dip stick.
Maybe, just maybe, it is Sandra who is to blame and not JJ. Maybe Sandra is not what we all expect her to be in the bedroom and JJ is looking for something better. I don't have personal experience with Sandra in bed, I'm just saying ....
I've had to do business with this D-bag and he's a complete tool. He's a bully though and through and he needs to go back to being a talented metal bender and shut his pie hole.
Please....YAWN!!! Nightline has not been the same since Ted Kopel left!! He didn't waste his time on this type of dribble!!!
hey debra, can I eat my semen out ouf your birthing canal after I blow my load in it?
Has anyone considered Sandra could be a complete nightmare to live with? Maybe she was never home, shooting movies etc. Nobody knows what goes on in their home. That being said, Jesse showed some very bad judgement on his part.
This will be a very short interview: Yes or No
1. Did you serial cheat on your wife: YES
2. Was it stupid: YES
3. Did I deserve to lose my wife, credibility and happiness: YES
4. Am I really sorry I was caught: YES
5. Am I ever going to cheat again: YES
Funny, has anyone else noticed that everyone is so down on him for speaking out yet when Tiger tried to say this was primarily between himself and his family, he was ripped up by the media. He made his mistakes but he also tried to gain some level of privacy for himself and his family. I also feel that their private lives need to be left to themselves. The comments made about all of them are unnecessary since there is one truth: we don't know exactly what went on in anyone's marraige. Often not even family and friends know the whole story, only the people involved can know the whole story. Whether the couple end in divorce or try to work it out is their choice no one else's.
I TRUELY FEEL THAT THE MARRIAGE LISCENSE SHOULD BE RE-NEWED EVERY 5 YEARS. IF YOU HAVE AN ISSUE EACH GOES THEIR OWN WAY NO QUESTIONS AND LAWYERS. IT WOULD WORK!!!!
How many of you who posted the nasty judgement comments have never made a bad decision or needed to seek forgiveness. This is Sandra's injury to forgive not yours. I hope she finds peace and he learns from his mistakes.
give him a break already!!! he lost everything over this...what do you want ...blood?? Why do people want to keep piling on the misery?
Has it occurred to any of you that Sandra might just be really bad in bed and this guy wants something more? He is a biker.. her likes to party and thats his lifestyle.. Sandra Bullock who hooked up with him WHEN HE WAS MARRIED TO SOMEONE ELSE KNEW THIS. WAHT DID SHE EXPECT!??!?!?!?
ITS HER (SANDRA) FAULT ALL HER FAULT, SHE COULDN'T SATISFY HER MAN AND THE TATTOO BABE COULD. OH I BET SHE COULD TOO!!!! JESSE CAN I HAVE HER PHONE NUMBER???
JUST REMEMBER ONE THING BIMBO'S SANDRA IS AN ACTRESS !!!!!!!!!!!
I, personally, am on Jesse's side. I'm sure he had a reason to do whatever he did. Remember it takes two to tango...SDMF
Do you people have no life? Most of you are talking like you know
Jesse or Sandra or it somehow affects you. GO OUTSIDE, TALK TO YOUR FAMILY, HAVE LUNCH WITH A FRIEND, Pay attention to the people that care about you and quit sticking your nose up stars butts.
why does he even think that we care what he has to say??
Jesse n Tiger can share a bunk bed in hell. It sickens me when i hear about married people sleeping around. Marraige is a sacred spiritual ritual between man and woman in the eyes of the Lord.
Why ABC thinks anybody cares what he has to say at this point looks like a desperate attempt to boost ratings.
Do you think the real Jesse James went around crying, "I am sorry, I'm sorry." This guy is has shamed his own namesake. What a pathetic wimp!
He's no worse than many of our elected officials and Roman Catholic clergy
James your stupid!!!!! Now your sorry and wish you could change things – well most men feel that after they have been caught. I don't understand why he even took the vows of marriage? I know Sandra will come through this even stronger and she now has a beautiful son to love and may God hold them close and keep them safe.
Unless he's talking about motorcycles no one cares what he has to say. Move on.
Dave May 19th, 2010 6:42 pm ET
So many bitter unemployed housewives
and what's your excuse?
Some people are plain stupid i bet if Jesse James never apologize for what happend you people will say he is selfish an does not care for anyone for what he did but himself...if he apologizes he is being selfish an only wanting to fix his image an only caring for himself its a loose loose for this guy...1st of all Jesse doesnt owe us an apology or an explication of what happend i sure dont aprove of what he did but if you were in his shoes would you want cameras an people asking you about your pesonal life...i sure wouldnt...2nd just because they have money an fame doesnt mean their happy like the saying goes more money more problems..therefore i dont think any of us are in the position to judge
"If any one of you is without sin, let him be the first to throw a stone at her."
John 8: 7
What he did was wrong! But besides it being nobodys buisness but theirs, who hasnt wronged??
Isn't it funny how the villian tries to become the victom.
We are still talking about him...Why???????
Like Tiger and a LARGE group of superficial Hollywood types and corrupt, hypocriticial politicans.....the only thing James is sorry about is that he got caught. Period.
He should give Janine a call. Janine was hot!
This Jesse Jame sounds like Tiger Woods. Somehow Sandra Bullock should find in her heart to forgive him. That is got to be a joke. Who is he kidding? I can't believe he said that. How stupid does this man think the world is. Just because he did well in Celebrity Apprentice doesn't make him the Champ and somehow cool enough to fool everybody.
Just leave man nobody cares from now who you are James, just go clean your toilet you, the s*** is simply flowing out in all directions.
I agree 100% with Fobner. Everyone's opinion of marriage today is that it is disposable, convenient. Like most other things. I have been married for 21 years, raised two great kids and it has been an extremely difficult road at times. BUT, this is why it is an adventure. I know there have been times in each of our lives that we have had chances of infidelity but chose not to out of love and respect. And speaking for myself, I always was the type to weigh the consequences and my life with my husband was always worth so much more. But I also don't think that a marriage should be thrown away for mistakes either. They need to look at what made them fall in love in the first place and determine what caused them to get on the path they did. AND I DO MEAN THEY! It takes something, or the lack there of to make a marriage break. I personally think they should at least try to work it out before DIVORCE is a consideration. She knew of his bad boy image before, she obviously saw something in him that we all didn't and that is what she fell in love with and he did not marry her for her money or image because bad or not, he had an image and fame. And if anyone would do their homework, he is worth more financially than she is.
It's easy to point the finger and say Jesse's no good or ask why did he do this to his Wife and Children...These are things I'm sure Jesse struggles with daily. PEOPLE we all need to stop judging and start loving...Pray for Jesse and his family.
He was USED to changing female partners for a long long time. Even if he was willing to change and stick with Bullock, he had no training to do so. Fidelity is not easy. It takes some self-control which cannot be built overnight just with marriage vows. It would be like thinking you can suddenly become a really good runner even though you've been a couch potato for 20 years...Fidelity is not a passive thing, it needs to be built up.
Noname.... Can you say creampie? I'd even eat it and spit it back in your mouth.
All I see is women being upset with Jesse and telling him to keep his mouth shut. Yes, what he did was wrong, but if Sandra had cheated (or actually came clean about it) all you women would be saying that he deserved it. This is a lose/lose situation for him.
I wish I were as strong and financially secure as Sandra Bullock. Maybe then I would be able to ditch my lying, cheating, so-called husband. As it is now, I've been married to him for 31 years and he has cheated on me a few times within that span of time. He thinks that not saying anything to me about his deceit is good enough. Sometimes I wish I didn't know what he had done – then I wouldn't be in this terrible pain all of the time. Sandra Bullock will be fine!
Don't care. Take up golf and bootyism with Tiger idiot.
Who in Hollywood has not cheated? Why is this a major story?
Didn't he cheat on his other ex-wife to be with Sandra Bullock? Aren't we told to watch out for guys like that, if they cheated on someone to be with you, they'll cheat on you to be with someone else? This is one of those 'it's suprising, but not really' situations. Sandra really should have known better with a guy like that. Cheating seems to be his thing, doesn't sound like he's changed and probably won't change and there won't be any shortage of gullible women for him.
I have no sympathy for Sandra. If she couldn't see this coming from a million miles away (or thought she could change him) then she is flat out delusional. Another case of a good girl making a terrible choice of partner then having remorse after the fact.
I would have cheated also. The only reason he is sad is because he got caught!
I agree with Dave! Too many bitter houswives!!! I saw something on Jesse's face when Sandra won the Oscar..... I think he knew what was coming and what he was going to lose. Too bad he didn't put more value on his life "before" cheating.....
Wow, who cares about this fool? This is newsworthy? And honestly, I like Sandra Bullock but I could give a crap about her love life. We all have more important things to concern ourselves with.
Jesse your attempt to redeem yourself to make this all go away is crystal clear....and oh, so selfish. This whole situation is no longer about you anymore, you have done the damage now trying to do damage control to clear your name and move on...good luck with that. You will forever be seen as the bum who cheated on Sandra Bullock. She did not deserve that, no matter what reason or justification you come up with...poor judgement that is so lame...you knew what you were doing!!! Nothing you say can change the way people will forever see you and that is as a no good for nothing bum. Shut your mouth and disappear if you REALLY want to help Sandra and your children heal!!! And leave Sandra alone to heal and rebuild her life WITHOUT you!!!!
What Jesse is going to say is BLAH BLAH BLAH ! BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH ! Go hang out with Tiger ! LOL !!
well as i always say. it's not jus his fault, its her fault to. yea mayb he is a dog but she had to do sumthin that turned him off and made him go get IT from sum1 else.
i mean men cheat and they lie, but so do women. plus we're not perfect. and let the man talk.... who said we had to watch and listen
Stay away from him Sandra, he will do it again.
People should pick up a bible, start believing that there will be consequences.
Sandy and Luis....RUN don't Walk to the nearest EXIT!
noname, I want to eat your tasty niblets!
Can we talk about something else now?
Sandra is not all that, there are 2 sides to every story, i have followed Jessie from way back, he is a good guy, i am sure there is more to the story then what miss goody 2 shoes has already said....i think she is a sub par actress and not all that to look at. I want to hear both sides to this one, no way Sandra is squeeky clean, she prob got some dark secret stufff going on he couldnt deal with !
An explanation offered, although not asked for, is simply an excuse.
Go away little boy you are pathetic
Not all men do cheat and not all women do either. Stating that we do is just an excuse. We all can choose to do it or choose not to do it. I have never cheated on anyone, by choice, even with ample opportunity. Why bother? It's so much easier to do the right thing, but then I guess doing the right thing isn't exactly popular these days. Saying everyone cheats is a cop out. Choose to be faithful or get out of the relationship. Period. Don't hide behind the "all guys do it" line. We were all given free will. If he were what I consider a real man, he would shut up go back to making a living and living his life. Advertising his stupidity is only embarrassing his family further and is completely unneccessary. His initial public address of taking the blame for his own actions, was the honorable thing to do. He should take his bow and move forward with his life. He needs to ask himself if what he has to say needs to be done publicly or will just be another thing his kids will need to overcome.
Sandra Bullock married this piece of trash – she got what she deserved!!
Just a typical pig. And yes, there are women out there that act like pigs, too.
It's clear that Sandra just didnt have enough tattoos.
Hey super-brain, care to cite a source for that high divorce statistic? One that's actually an academic source with source data, and not just citing an "expert" or "group"?
Here's a surprise: you won't be able to: nobody knows where these "50% of marriages end in divorce" or "70% of marriages end in divorce" statistics really came from.
For university-educated people, the divorce rate is less than 20%. It appears that the vast majority of people CAN handle monogamy. The real problem is people like you, who obviously don't like the idea and want to promote the idea that there's something intrinsically unnatural about it.
this idiot would be better off to keep his mouth shut!
If Bristol Palin can get 25-80k per speaking gig on teenage Abstinance maybe Jesse can get 100k speaking on fidelity :)
Ah...nine dogs in bed? And no choice from Sandy? Hmm, I would have wandered too...just after filing.
come on noname, I want to drop a 3 day buildup on your chin....
Phil, they are with my car keys........
superbrain.....absolutes(all, every, none etc.) are raely true....all men do not cheat......
Has anyone seen my dog in here ? Or how about my blue hat ?
He made mistakes and will pay....good luck convincing everyone you are not a NAZI racist........SUNS ARE DONE!
Shakes head, snickers as she walks away pffffttt
All men cheat, as do many women. What surprises me is that so many people are suprised that he cheated on his wife. Sure, she has a reputation as a sweet, wholesome person and that reputation may very well be justified. But the fact that she is sweet and attractive has no bearing on why he cheated. He's a man, so he cheated.
The concept of marriage or even committed relationships is dead. You don't agree? You think my view is hyper-cynical? Look at the numbers: Nearly 7 out of 10 marriages end in divorce and that number is climbing, not declining. Of course the high divorce rate is not strictly tied to acts of infidelity, but it does strongly suggest that couples are much more willing to part as oppossed to trying to make things work. Please note: I'm not making any judgements here. I'm simply stating, for those who refuse to acknowledge reality, that relationships have become a fleeting enterprise. People may care deeply for one another, but those feelings fade – ever more quickly it seems – and then go their seperate ways.
Sandra Bullock, America's sweetheart? are you kidding me? she's an overrated actress whom got cheated on. Nothing more or less....is Sandra Bullock too good to be cheated on? give us a break!!!! Keep cheating Jesse!!!!!! She wasn't worth you in the first pplace
Good for him!! I still respect him as a person... nobody's perfect. To all the people that say "how could he do this to her?" How can you pretend to know what goes on in someone else's relationship. I cannot judge someone without having walked in their shoes.
I hope he comes out of this situation a better person. The biggest mistake would be to not learn a life lesson and grow from it.
Good luck Jessie!
in your case jj, oncea loser always a loser
WOW! It's great to see so many perfect people hanging around... none of you have EVER done anything then regretted it? I don't condone adultrey... I've never done it but the bottom line is, that for whatever reason, he did it. He didn't have someone write a "apology" then present it to the public. He seems like he truly regrets what happened and who are any of us to pass judgement on that?
I would still rawdaog it if you let me...
At the precipice we change – Klaatu
Jesse is just a dog. cheaaa.
I wish that I had Jesse's girl...
My husband is also called James and I caught him cheating with an old lady recently. He is much much older than I am and still cannot understand why he should cheat on me. Sandra is one of my sweetest actress and was very sad when I heard the news. Sandy please move on with your life, he doesnt deserve you.
To bad for Jesse, he cant control his penis, his mouth, or his life. Dude should just take one of his bikes ane ride out to the sunset.
I for one am tired of hearing about this loser. Sandra is much ebtter off without him in her life.
If I hear one more person say his meal ticket is gone now.
NEWSFLASH EVERYONE ! !
Jesse James is worth in excess of a $100 Million dollars. Jesse's business, West Coast Choppers in does in excess of $200 million dollars a year in business. He's loaded big time in his own right and
does not need Sandra's $90 Million.
I rest my case everyone, Todd has just proven his mentality is on the same level as the dirtbag this story is about. Todd you will have to find some uneducated woman to do that for you-I am not interested! roflmao
noname you can suck it....
Would we being hearing about all this if Jesse James had not gotten CAUGHT?!?! I don't think he would be "fessing up" and apologizing unless someone was about to the spill the beans or Sandra found out! SLIME BALL!!!!!!!!!!!
Response to Mac up above – Yes, JFK is still revered – for his presidency, his legacy, definitely NOT for being a good husband. So many famous men have screwed around on their wives – JFK, Clinton, hell even Dr. King and Bill Cosby for crying out loud. And their wives stayed with them, and took it. I have always admired Sandra Bullock and I hope that bum left a 30yard skid mark out the front door when she gave him the boot! It's extremely refreshing to see a woman have some self respect and toss that cheating bum out of her life. If men want to screw around – feel free. But don't drag your wife and kids through the muck with you.
new uk parliament still to decide on child killers and money extortionist Universal Church Kingdom of God
The new uk government is still to look at the case of child killing by Universal Church Kingdom of God in London.A young a black girl called Kimble was murder by their bishop and his pastors.They appeared in court sometime back.The same people appeared in court for exporting millions of pounds illegally to Brazil and Portugal.They have also been cautioned on abuse of children by the police.The money which they were supposed to declare before being exported to Brazil and Portugal to build big houses for their pastors and bishop was not declared as required by the law.They wanted to avoid paying charges thereby depriving the revenue department of money to develop infrastructure of the country.How can men of God really be involved in murdering a young innocent girl and also in scandals of money.When they were caught by the police and arrested they apologised but then they continued to do that until they were charged.Why no obey the law as christians.The bible is against corruption of christians and the killing of people.It is believed that they killed the girl for sacrifice.Every year one member is chosen for sacrifice.
This guy is simply a stunning piece of trash – I’d have sympathy for Sandra Bullock if it wasn’t so painfully obvious from the first time he appeared on that stupid motorcycle show that he is just a gutter rat.
Can we say "Spin Control"? Dude, you got busted, the public backlash is overwhelming and you will try anything to look contrite in the public eye. Not gonna sell. This has been seen before and it won't work. Nice try. Gim him an A for effort.
Sorry, Reality Check – but Sandra is not to blame for Jesse's behavior. He had CHOICES and he made the wrong ones – nobody forced him. I won't be listening to his sob story on Nightline. I hope Sandra keeps moving along in another direction.
What more does he have to tell? The pic of him giving the nazi salute explains it all. He lived a double life & got caught. He played the bad guy gone good on TV, he did that pathetic cry as Sandra gave her thank you speech. All in all he's dumb & shouldn't get anymore airtime.
He's not sorry he cheated, he's sorry he got caught. He's trying to do a little damage control so he has a career left when the dust settles. Who cares? Besidse, a mistake is a one night stand, giving into temptation with a hot co-worker on a business trip or meeting up with an ex when you have had too much to drink. Those are mistakes. Cheating on a regular basis shows a lack of character and morals. Men and Women like Jesse and Tiger will never change. Sandra (and Elin) should get out and move on while they can.
It's amazing that there are 254 comments and the majority of them are negative. "Let he who is without sin cast the first stone." John 8:7.
Everyone is so quick to pass judgement on a man who they know very little about, they only know the person he has shown himself to be on camera. There may have been problems in the marriage that nobody knew about ect.. ect.. The old saying, behind every beautiful, talented, smart, and sweet woman, there's a man who's tired of her ____. I bet that when the interview airs all the negative nancies in the group will be watching it ...
HE LOOKS LIKE A "RETARDED"
Maybe he should just S*T*F*U and go back to his quasi-celebrity life. But that's the new millenia media for you, making "news" out of nothing.
Todd if you believe that, you are as delusional as Jesse is.
well said People Wiggle. When are you going to start looking
You are all soooo gay for commenting here! Get a life!
Why is everyone assuming he married her for her money. Jesse has a very successful business he did not need Sandra's money.
There are alot of men who cheat on their wives, they go through counseling and put their marriage back together. but because no one will stay out of their business I feel Sandra is thinking to save face she has file for divorce. At least Jesse wants to do what ever he can to put their marriage back together. Sandra is taking the easy way out. Marriage is not easy you need to work hard at it to make it work.
Who cares what he has to say. Washed up has been. Sandra is better off with out this player
Who would want the idiot - he is a white supremacist!
What could he possibly have to say that would explain why he would cheat? POS! Dirt-ball! There are NO EXCUSES!
Jessie is a dud! All men cry "I'm so....sorrry" when they've been caught!!!!!
I'm not going to pretend that I know anything about the relationship they used to have, but I am certainly glad Sandra kicked him out. A message needs to be sent that guys (and ladies too, I'm not saying that just men should be taken to task for their infidelities) cannot so completely and irrevocably disrespect the person they claim to love and then go back to the life they lived before like nothing ever happened. Cheating on someone you pledged to remain faithful to and in a relationship with is the ultimate form of disrespect. By cheating you are sending a message to that person (intentional or not) that you are willing to humiliate and cause them extreme emotional pain because of your own selfish reasons. Now, I know that we are all human and we make mistakes, but that doesn't mean that those mistakes will or should be forgiven, particularly when it involves cheating. If you are unsatisfied with your partner, man (or woman) up and tell that person that things aren't working. You at least owe them that tiny speck of respect.
Once a dog always a dog!
Stop sensationalizing this story. This is a matter between a man and a woman and nobody else. Ms Bullock is a big girl and knows how to handle this. I'm not a fan of Mr James either and I don't think too much of him, but that does not give me any right to interfere in his marriage. That is between him and Ms Bullock.
Why is it men like Jesse, are oh so sorry AFTER they get burned?
Does he really think he can be sorry enough for her to return?
This is something that is so unforgiveable and unforgetful that this realtionship could never work now.
Duh, Jesse, stop trying to defend yourself. You put your needs ahead of your children's and your wife's. NOW your sorry?
@ TC – NEWS FLASH TC! Women cheat too! Your enormous ignorance shines through when you isolate one gender regarding cheating. Get a life... employment might help as well...
"Former reality TV star Jesse James will finally open up on ABC’s "Nightline" on Tuesday, giving some insight into what happened in his marriage to America’s Sweetheart." LOL!!! Hopefully the interview is not with a chic- he might bang her too- of course it would be her fault- not his..LOL!!!
sorry noname but YOU don't always find out...
besides maybe sandra wasn't putting out?
A friend of mine a while back once said that you trade up to the bimbo. When you look at Tiger Wood's wife or Sandra Bollock, you have to ask yourself: What possibly could you trade up to? Jessie and Tiger, you are idiots. You were thinking with the wrong head and got caught. Enough said.
Earlier in these posts one of the posters stated that only God can forgive. To that poster I have one thing to say: Get over it. Instead of being born again, just try growing up. Religion and faith does not cure (or excuse) bad behavior. People have to owe up to their mistakes and take responsibilty for them.
Who Effin Cares?? It always amazes me at America's need for shallow, mindless tabloid entertainment. It's obvious this guy has issues.. get over it and move on
what more can he say? "uh, I did it, I'm truly sorry????" that should take all of 30 seconds. I wouldn't waste my time watching that show,
But I will watch Sandra in her movies.
This is damage control. Jessie ruined a good thing and he knows it! He should just stop making excuses. I'm sure so many women throw themselves at him. It's a physcial thing not an emotional thing. It is what it is and he should try to have a good life with or without Sandra.
Well Derek you are leaving comments as well so are you a close personal buddy of the two? Pot meet kettle lmao
Really, now – does anyone really care???
Jessie..you just don't get it Sandra moved out to a different state...don't you get the message it is sooooo over dude.... You cheated, yes you did admit to it but you could always do it again... You say sorry, gurl accepts you back, do nice things for a couple of months, win her trust, then bang you are back to your old self....And you once quoted in an interview "Sandra is too old fashioned for you." Dat says it all
Who cares? All the important news stories out there now and people leave comments on here like they know the two, cracks me up.
who cares what he has to say, he's a loser baby!
He's got a nerve. How low will he go for publicity. Really who wants to hear his crap!! His actions have proved beyond a doubt that he is a stray dog in heat!!! He makes me sick looking at him.
I hope Sandra doesn't take him back. She deserves better than him. He is ugly and guys like that are only sorry once they are caught. If he felt bad and was so sorry then he would have stopped at the first girl.
Todd: thats exactly what he thought as well, funny how that didn't work out for him huh - woman are smarter than you think and we always find out.
I would have been slamming all those women too, but I would have never been caught...
White trash = poor judgement!
He's a con man and probably needs him some money now that his meal ticket is gone.
What explanation could he possibly come up with that would excuse what he did. Here's an explanation that everyone will accept: "I couldn't keep it in my pants because I am so important in my own mind I think that every woman will forgive me" What a pig!
I dont know if you remember or not but when he had that show on the Discovery channel he was married then and had 2 or 3 little boys from his first wife. Sortly after the show he got divorce then he got married to Sandra a couple years later. Maybe he shouldnt get married.
Yeah...tell your side of story jess...see if sandra or anybody cares about it...loser
I know Jesses was wrong but I dont think it was fair of Sandra to punish him by having Tiger Wood's child!
Who cares about either one of them? They are BOTH cheating dogs.
There is no "reason" for his actions... only excuses. AND, no one should give this upcoming broadcast the time of day. Do not view it.
So called News Journalists – find something and someone "news worthy" to report on. Geez, Louise!
Have you ever been cheated on you creep? It takes every ounce of energy to get out of bed in the morning because you feel so betrayed you can't imagine the guy of your dreams would ever hurt you by cheating on you with some piece of crap woman who thinks she is anywhere near as good as you are.
What the heck were you thinking? Were things going so badly for you that you had to hurt a genuinely great person? Forget about her being an actor, she is a person with feelings and you ripped her heart out of her by you infidelity......................YOU MORON!!!!
She likes the badboys. Google who she's dated previously. This is what happens. Doesn't make it right, but not surprising.
It's a shame how often infidelity ends marriages. Marriage is a lifetime commitment and I don't believe you should be able to marry and/or divorce as casually (without deep consideration and soul searching) as so many people do.
There should be no infidelity and there should be no divorce. Unfortunately, both are rampant and occur in MOST marriages.
Affairs are always a symptom or a manifestation of something else that's fundamentally wrong in the relationship. If you both want to and are willing to put in the work, you can find out what it is and work on fixing it. You can rebuild the trust and save the marriage. But if your marriage isn't something you were completely commited to and not entered into solemnly with a clear picture of where your newly combined journey was to take you, divorce ends up being the only thing that can restore your own peace of mind.
Even if divorce becomes the only possible solution, couples should in the very least, explore why affairs happened. Try to identify what went wrong and whether there's any possible way to rebuild that trust. Divorce should not be a reaction to infidelity. It should be the last resort of a marriage that cannot be repaired. And if your relationship isn't strong enough to withstand that exploration, why did you get married in the first place?
The feelings of pain and remorse that he currently syas he has weren't there when he was with the other women. Do these kind of people not understand that in this day and age of cell phone cameras and the internet that you cannot get away with anything any more. Besides, the bottom line is that when he required self discipline and love of family he chose the other woman. He needs not explain anything. It was his decision to cheat, he got caught, nothing else need to be said. Why tie up the airways with his story.
What story! He cheated, he got caught, THE END>
I would say at this point all he can do is make things worse.
So Jessie James broke his silence...Does this mean he will be going back to golf...wait...That's the other guy. Robbing trains and banks...no, wrong Jessie James. ...Now I remember, he had that TV show where he put his life on the line...his last stunt was sleeping with some tattoo model while his wife was away making a movie...How did that stunt turn out anyways.
I dunno Sandra is looking kinda old these days and she's not as sweet during her interviews the past couple of years.
Sometimes partners in marriges need something else. It happens. Jesse's human. No big deal....
Jesse – DON'T DO THAT INTERVIEW, MAN! Just take the hit and move on. She knew what your were when she married ya. Nuff' said.
Just goes to show, no matter how much America Loves a person, someone somewhere is tired of her crap.....
I read he hit on the reporter during the pre-interview. She likes the bad boys.
it bothers me when I read comments from everyone: "Shame on your Jesse" I mean people come on something has drove this man away, something made him seek to another woman's arms. If she is not giving him what he wants they he will find it some place else. Enough said!
He says . Most of the stories in the press are untrue ,but the one story that is true is you had an affair thats all that counts, we don't care about your play with words jessie your still a chump who deserves no more TV time.
I just find it funny how no one who cheats is sorry or apologizes until they're caught. Obviously to continue to cheat, especially with multiple partners...they can't feel all that bad about it.
Why do we need to see any interviews from any cheating spouses or the people they're cheating with anyway? It's not our business.
This guy has a personal net worth at least equal too if not higher that his wifes. He can buy himself a lot of tattooed hoochies with his wealth. He got just what he deserved. I'm so glad she filed for divorce. And the face. Now come on here . . . his face looks like a horses behind. His looks are nothing to write home to Momma about.
seriously? Jesse is a man. He likes women. ALL men are tempted and most men will take it when they have the chance. Better than half of my married friends have cheated and the majority of those affairs were with married women. Men cheat, women cheat. Who cares!!
Men are dogs, if you don't feed your dog he will eat in the neighbours’ garbage. It’s really that simple, if you’re not keeping your man happy, someone else will.
I like everyone who says "why would he cheat on Sandra?" She might be a good actress, but maybe Miss Goody Goody is terrible in bed, so Jessie went looking for something a little more exciting. OK so what.
Are you people stoned or stupid? Jesse James is a biker turned businessman, born and raised on the tough streets. He's a badboy and alot of women are attracted to his type. What the hell did she expect? He's no choirboy...DUH!!!!
It is not his (JJ) Butt that got bit.
He needs to keep his toolbox shut and zipped.
I would not let him near my lawnmore let alone my car or bike.
In the words of Dolly Parton in the movie 9 to 5, Sandra B. needs to pull pull her cookies from a different cookie jar.
back to JJ -> Crap in only comes with crap out.
Team Jesse! Lets move on people! We didnt live with her. She may have been the biggest pain in the A**. No one knows whats its like to be in their home. Still like Jesse!
JESSE IS A MORON
CAREFULLY CHOSEN WORDS, PROBABLY WRITTEN BY SOMEONE ELSE. YOU ARE DISPECABLE AND JUST TRYING TO JUSTIFY YOUR DEEDS.
The only reason someone would try to blame Sandra for this situation, is because they have been in an affair situation. I blame anyone who does not hold their vows seriously, men or women, this is why our society is going to hell in a hand basket, you just don't get the 'concept of marriage!" Infidelity is wrong, no matter how you look at it. It is even worse, when you pour your heart out on national TV, telling everyone how much you love them, and then this comes out.. This guy is not sorry for what he did, just as Tiger Woods is not sorry, they are only sorry they got caught!
Give him a chance to talk. I never thought they were right for each other but let him own up and talk. It's America, remember.
I am certainly grateful everyone's reality is not the same!!!!
reality check May 19th, 2010 6:55 pm ET
Ladies, I've said it before and I'll say it again...
SHE was just as much to blame as HIM.
If you saw Jesse on Celebrity Apprentice you would know how big this is for him to be on tv. I dont really think it is necessary for him to be on TV crying and being sorry and all its not going to change anything. The only one that can help him in this time of crisis is the Lord and Savior Jesus Christ and not the media....amen
Hey Jesse, grow some and tell the detractors to get bent. People in Vegas were taking money on when this would happen. It wasn't like all of a sudden you "Changed". People should understand and except the fact that people are who they are, and no matter how pretty or rich they are, they are not going to change you. Dude, you don't need her. Be yourself and flip everyone else the bird.
Only a bonafide, moronic, loser would care what "Jesse James" or Sandra Bullock has to say; about anything! Get a f–kin' life. There are greater issues to contend with.
Just because she's considered beautiful doesn't mean she was easy to live with.
Most of these types of women have huge egos & expect men to worship them–who wants to? She'll find happiness married to some regular dude & Jesse will end up with the waitress at IHOP.
What happened between them is nobody's business but their own. My personal opinion is... she didn't trip his trigger. She doesn't look like the type to really get down with it. Her career caused her to be gone a lot... Man's gotta eat... Bottom line, people... its their business, not mine, not your's.
Ain't misbehavin', "Sweetheart, she forced me!" Ain't misbehavin', Savin' my love for youuuuuu!
why would rich successful men want to have s** with multiple beautiful women? It's gotta be the aliens in independence hall !
I'm still trying to figure out what he did wrong !
I will listen (or catch the 500 replays of it), just like I listened to Tiger...remember him? That's my point. Sandra is here in New Orleans, going out in public with her new child and the City embraces her. Her soon-to-be-ex would not receive the same treatment. Actions speak much louder than words.... maybe he should just tattoo his apologies on himself. Adding this sad chapter to his already graphic collection may help inspire him to do better. If nothing else, it would serve as a warning to his future ex's.
Since Sandy adopted the baby as a SINGLE parent, why would she have to, or want to, allow Jesse to be a part of his life? THAT is not the kind of male role model you want that young boy growing up idolizing, and wanting to "be just like Dad".
There is no excuse for cheating. He should have divorced her if he wanted to mess around.
Who cares about this no-talent idiot?
Looks like most of you one here are haters!! He isn't the first star to cheat and he won't be the last. He messed up and he has admitted that. Why is it such a big deal to most of you to hear his side? Everyone deserves to have their side heard, not matter what your opinion is of the person. As for the people who are saying he is a loser and/or wants her money, are you kidding me, Jessie James has one of the biggest custom (if not the biggest) chopper companies in the world. Ever heard of West Coast Choppers or how about that small t.v. station, Discovery Channel. Ever heard of that, he has had three shows on that station alone, but ya I'm sure he is now going to go after Sandra money, give me a break the man has his own money. I am not saying what he did is right, or do I think that it is ok because he is a biker and has tattooos and is a tuff guy blah blah blah. All I am saying is, he is a person who made a HUGE mistake, and he wants his side to be heard. For those of you who don't want to hear his side, don't tune in, but I for one will be listening to what he has to say.
Stop hating already!
Jesse is a white, racist, swastika wearing, neo nazi.
Sandra wanted to start adopting a black baby 4 years ago.
The same time Jesse started cheating on her.
Now I have no problem with the adoption thing if thats what Sandra wanted to do.
But a person like Jesse adopting this child? I smell problem.
Just a thought.
He's a losser , anyone who has affair on spouse , doesn't deserve to be married . If you couldn't handle being married , stay single for life . This way you can't go destroying " someone's life " .
And leave this woman ALONE! Leave her money ALONE! Let her raise HER SON ALONE!
Am I the only person who sees these photos and clips of Jesse and thinks, "When did Sandra Bullock marry Fred Durst?"
To balance out the comments of the men who think that all men cheat and somehow, it's Sandra's fault and all that crap. I'm a married man that works on the road hundreds of miles from home every week and I would never, ever cheat on my wife. Not because I couldn't. Not because opportunities don't exist, but because I don't believe in it. I wouldn't forgive anyone else for it, and I wouldn't seek forgiveness if I did it. It's a game breaker for me.
Some men still take responsibility for their actions, just for the record.
I can't even phathom Sandra's heartache and humiliation after praising Jesse and declaring her love for him at the Oscars. The wound in her heart must run deep. Some of the negative comments made here are like kicking her when she is down.
The breakup of a family unit is always hurtful no matter who is at fault . No one wins and no one leaves without emotional pain. Perhaps when the anger, grief, and pain is under control, the two can resolve issues that will help them in raising Louis together. Sadly, the loss of trust has killed any hope of reconciliation.
May the good times that Sandra and Jesse shared outweigh the sad times.
"The vast majority of the allegations and rumors are untrue," but Jesse James gets to share why it was okay to cheat on his wife to justify the ones that *were* true? Hmm.
Oh poor Jessie. Maybe you should hook up with Tiger and practice some sad facial expressions before you go. Karma is a b****
ONLY GOD CAN JUDGE.... Noone else. So Yes, we think it is wrong, but never should we judge him. He is human and will make mistakes as everyone does. If his 'act' was warranted in his eyes, so be it for him to think so. He will get his later, regardless. Live and let live . If he repents, and he sure better, then he is forgiven by the only one who matters anyway.
HE IS A BIG JERK! I WOULD NOT BELIEVE A WORD THAT HE SAY. NO, I WILL NOT WATCH HIM ON DATELINE. IT WOULD BE A WASTE OF MY TIME. ONCE A FOOL, ALWAYS A FOOL!!!!!!!
Please tell this guy to drop dead.
Obama is to blame. is that a good answer?
BOTH OF THEM HAS TOO MUCH MONEY
"NO BRAINS"!!!!!!!!!??? U BOTH UGLY JERKS !!!!!!!!!???
WHAT DO YOU EXPECT HES A MAN JUST A MAN ARE YOU LOOKING FOR RESPECT MORALS VALUES JUST TILL ITS OVER REMEMBER JUST A MAN UNTIL HE SEE THE NEXT ONE REMEMBER HES JUST A MAN ......
Awww. He so sorry now. He wanna help Sandra raise Webster.
Wants to be a part of Louis' life... ummm, how is gonna explain the pictures when the tot gets older and why am I thinking the "Dave Chappelle Show"?
This blog is far more interesting and gives more insight into the human mind than any interview with Jesse James . Pretty sad.
It's Bush's fault
Nobody is interested in what this guy has to say. His actions spoke louder than any words he could come up with. He needs to go away!
Yeah, let's just put all the blame on Jesse. Sandra Bullock knew what she was getting into when she married the bad boy biker type. If she didn't give that serious thought before matrimony she's not very bright.
She may be known as America's Sweetheart to the public because of her movies and manufactured Hollywood persona but do any of know you really what she was like in private? I guess not.
Maybe she is really lousy in bed, a bad cook, snores and farts in her sleep, whatever.
Bottom line for me is she knew she wasn't marrying an angel.
Your all suckas.
Sandra has always had a wild side to her and that is probably why she ended up falling for this guy. But in all fareness she should have known being married to someone like Jessie would be like to keep a wild animal tamed.
I have always loved Sandra and think she is the hottest woman alive, and yeah this guy needs to get everything coming to him and then some. Sandra is a very independant woman and will cope well on her own but she needs someone to love and someone to love her back.
Hope it works out well.
He given tattooed men a bad name.
The days of all the hotties wanting hard-edged, pierced, tattooed, motorcycle riding bad boy types are gone. The nerds are now getting the babes. It's true, it's revenge, and it's sweet.
Oh, and to Jesse James...step off a cliff you major league d-bag.
Does anyone remember the song "Mmm-Bop"?... Huh?... Anyone?....No?
I hope nobody tunes in to listen what he wants to say. He is just trying to get attention to make money off some Tv show. What a looser.
Jesse, are you that desperate? You think anyone really cares what you think? Why don't you be a real man, and just go away...let people forget so that you quit embarassing your ex-wife and kids- once again, your sociopath tendencies taking over, its all about you, only you and no one else. Let the healing begin for your family and just fade away...respect those that treated you well- haven't you done enough? When are you going to stop?
I'm not surprised he was cheating on her but I am surprised at the type of women he was cheating with. Yuck.
By reading some of these comments, I cant help but think some of you are using Jesse as an opportunity to voice your own frustrations with the issue you find yourselves dealing with.
Whatever floats your boat ladies...
what in the world are all of you people talking about and why do you all care? i feel as though i have just entered an alternate universe where the once respected " nightline " is airing a show on a celebrity's marriage troubles and hundreds on cnn.com are actually debating the issue as though they have a vested interest. people, go outside and live your lives.
I hope Jessie kept his tool box because his 15 minutes is gone!
some of you act like he killed someone. he made a mistake and now he has taken steps to try get his life back on track. he takes full blame for everything and apologizes. what more do you wan't from the guy, ever heard of a 2nd chance?
He's a narcissist. He's sorry because he got caught and yes, flagrant self-promotion is all that this guy is capable of. Grow up and put on your big boy pants.
Why is everyone so obsessed at hating this guy. It's like every ounce of repressed hatred towards men pours out on these blogs. No one here knows his ex on a first name basis, let alone ever met her. Why does she get a trophy just because the dirty laundry of these two is in the media. All I know is that Jesse James is an amazing artist and his work will probably set him in stone as one of the most important artists of this era in American history. If you disagree, look at other famous artists and the personal lives they had. Nobody is a saint and I highly doubt those posting here are worthy of picking up a stone let alone throwing it. Just zip it and worry about your own life, Sandra ain't coming over to your home for tea and advice.
LUCKY? shes lucky cause he even gave her the time of day with her old rotton ovaries..
It is too bad. Out of all public couples they seemed so much in love. Maybe they still have a chance.
Sandra youre lucky hes gone...I like the way youre handling this.
Sorry for all the Kennedy family tragedies, but revere them? I think not!! What goes around, comes around and when it does, it usually bites youin the butt!!
Jessie. you go ahead and cheat some more. its your we-we. who cares.
Hey Jesse, I can beleive you did what you did to SANDY, you should go back to the TRAILER PARK you from and bring the TATOO girl along with you, there is ware you deserve to be living untill you go PENNI-LESS...Iam taking about MONEY..Drop in hell and kiss SANDY GOODBYYYYYYYYYY.
Fiction can't keep up with reality these days. Why go out to see a movie when there is plenty of entertainment right here on the internet!
She wanted a bad boy and that's what she got. Shouldn't be a surprise to anyone - especially her....
anyone who watches "his side of the story" needs to get a life.
Who cares what I, you, or everyone else thinks of a story that unfolds everyday in the married world. Jesse is merely another man who has made his own mistakes, and has to answer to his own fault and his soon to be ex-wife. Whatever comes his way, is out of any of our influence as well as control.
It's only because this is a celebritized story, that we all feel the need to ride the coat-tails of their infamy so that we too, could practice our own form of ego advertising through self-imposed opinions on and of a very cliche, Hollywood married couple. In the end, both are filthy rich, will marry again (it's a Hollywood thing) and everyone will scatter to the next CNN topic to flex their insignificant "insight" on another "topic".
Anyone have a good recipe for popcorn while enjoying this online, genious-based, Marketing (circus) campaign?
Women always go for the "bad boy" persona. They dream about , drool over and lust after the "bad boy". Then when they get together with one, they are surprised and upset when the "bad boy" turns out to be......bad. Jesse is an idiot who had it better than most and screwed it up. If I were him, she'd still be happily married.
I want to hear what he has to say. Maybe the truth he'll reveal will bring an end to that woman and her ill begotten fame. He said some is true but most are untruths, never denied cheating, so hopefully what he has to say will end her little career.
JJ, why dont you and Tiger go swap some #'s or some text messages?
Ramjet – NICE, on the head
Poor stupid Jesse is just so egotistical that he thought he could get away with anything. He is blowing smoke in the wind. Its over Jesse !!!
Why do we have to hear from yet another self promoting jerk about his lame excuses for his adulterous behavior??? Get over yourself, Jessie, and Nightline, stick to some real stories that are important.
Jesse, Jesse, Jesse. This a bad idea.
There's photos of you in a Nazi hat !!
If you think your little attempt to rehabilitate your image is going to force Sandra to give you alimony or split custody of baby Louis; You can FORGET THAT.
You're a liar and fugly.
This is going to blow up in your face, badly.
Seriously?! He has "His Side" of the story? I'm a married man as well, and I have to think that it's pretty much impossible to have "a side" to the story which makes it justifiable.
I believe that Jesse could teach lessons on how to be sincere and apologetic.
I'm gonna watch just to see if he can string two sentences together, and without grunting and mumbling, or using the term "dude", "awesome", "um, like" and all the other skater dude speak he usually uses. His apology statement was obviously crafted by a publicist. It didn't sound anything like him. He has the vocabulary of a seventh grader. And, apparently, the self control of one as well.
Ah, put a sock in it will ya! You're just sorry you got caught. We really do not want to hear your 'sob' story. Get lost, loser!
Maybe she's a bum lay.
Absolute trailer trash and not much of a man who goes on national television to tell all of the sordid details of a failed marriage.
Look JJ: you did the wrong thing. No matter what kind of spin you put on it, the girl is gone and it's your fault. You had what appeared to be a most satisfactory arrangement with SB and your decision was to do something else. Now you pay. Sorry, but that's how it goes. Suck it up.
Without a doubt he's a low down dirty dawg. But these two have a family and you know, why bother with vows if you're gonna toss them aside. If they could work this out, they'd be better than ever. It can be done.
I agree, if your unhappy step up and tell the old lady, be a man and tell her that, if she is understanding that he has needs she will do one of two things, and we know what those are.. Just be a man and talk! We all have needs of differnet kinds, but I dont raid the bank account without tellin the my best friend first. She may need to buy somethin too..
Can't you just go quietly away? Really, just shut up and leave your poor soon-to-be ex-wife alone. Anything you say will just feed the paparazzi fire. I'm embarrassed for you dude.
Who cares what that loser has to say.
He's a man, a man with some low level of fame. It goes to their heads (both of them) leave him alone. Sandra is beautiful, but men where never meant to have one woman. He should have been a man and told her first he was restless. Don't forget EVERYONE told Sandra that he wasn't right for her and to her credit she hasn't come out and blamed anyone else.
One wonders why so many chicks get their nickers in a knot when a man puts his you know what you know where – it's not like he didn't do that before they got married?!
Wait wait you all have it wrong!! He will say. What really happened was I was walking along one day, and tripped, and Mr Happy landed some place it shouldnt have, then stumbled and it happened again, sorry.. LOSER, LOSER LOSER, always was.
he would do himself a favor by being totally quiet about the whole situation. i'm not going to tune in.
Man, you got caught. Just keep your mouth shut and you will go to obscurity. There's no need to apologize for a thing you are not sorry for ...unless you want to promote something.
Whats the big deal with Sandra Bullock? Shes not "all that" either.
Just as with Tiger. This is nobodys business but theirs and fall under the "who cares" category for me.
later loosers,, you better hurry up though,, I thin ET is starting in 5 minutes.
Bad boys never change. I hope SB finds an actual man one of these days.
Jesse James had a history of "interesting" behavior long before he married Sandra. She knew what she was getting into. He never advertised himself as a saint. He was always going to do something to blow up the relationship. It was just a question of whether it would be sooner or later.
This dude is an idiot, period!!!
DON'T DO IT !!! Just keep your mouth shut nothing but nothing you say will fix this. It could be saved but the problem is that you are in the lime light, just like you wanted mind you, so it's not what you say it's what your fans and non-fans have said and will say that matters. So again ...just shut up.
This story has all the makings for a modern day Beverly Hillbillies episode. Sandra should be tested for temporary insanity. WHAT WAS SE THINKING?
Who cares, how much did he get paid for this? If he was a stand-up guy he would stay home and move on....ADULTREY what does he not understand....get a life and some more tatoos and build some more bikes......are you ready to talk to God Jesse? I guess all your TV shows will show your how you earned your way to heaven. Get on your knees change your life...you screwed up move on! Great example for a Dad...that is why this hurts...Dad. You hurt your kids with your Zippper...........
you are all idiots that seem to dwell on the problems of others just so that you may cover your own. MISTAKES happen.... now do us all a favor and go F@#$ yourself while I enjoy my burger in LBC
um, Jesse, it's done. Move on. Get some help and call it a night. Have some dignity moving forward. And remember...lessons are only lessons if you learned something.
Maybe sandy wasnt all that in the sack. Go jessie.
This is an attempt to "rehab" his image hoping that Sandy will take him back. Don't believe for one second that Sandy has NOT approved this interview. He's taking his marching orders from her now. Even if they don't get back together, SHE needs him to somewhat rehabilitate himself so that SHE doesn't look so bad.
you go jessie,get all you can get.....
Ruffnut is a COMPLETE idiot
Let's not forget that Sandra was seeing Jesse while he was still married!
Men want to be him, women think they can change him.....
Jesse – its all good. You meeded up as everyone does at sometime or another.
If you ever want to switch teams, I am here waiting for you.
I have learned through experience that no outsider can judge another marriage. Sure he cheated but I guarantee is isn't that simple or clear cut.
It is quite obvious that Jesse has risen above many of the obstacles in life that he was born into, and financially he has succeed, yet his low class, trailor trash ways are far too embedded in his soul. Look at that woman he cheated with, total white trash. It is said, we are creature of habit, we return to what is comfortable. For the love of God, if he was going to cheat, couldn't have picked somebody more classy?
I read these comments with amazed fascination after my 12 year old asked why you guys cared enough about this topic to post comment. I really could not answer that question. Can I get some imput please? Is your life that dull?
No dought this is awful. And I hope that Jess James is sorry but this is for him and Sandra to work out. Don't get me wrong I have been with cheeters too. It hurts, really bad and for me I can forgive but I don't forget. The damage is done. Lets hope he has learned from his mistakes. It not than life isn't gona be to kind to him. Sandra my prayer and thoughts are with you and the childern. Maybe someday soon this will be out of the headlines and you can figure out what needs to be done. That baby is adoreable!!!!!
He Better really really becareful not to play the POOR ME CARD, or his career wil be over.
You are all way out there. She is not that great. Not good looking. Not a good wife. Jesse James all the way! If she really cared for the marriage, she would have been there before all this happened. Two way street.
She's trash. He'll be announcing the creation of his new chopper – 'The Bullock'.
CHICKS WITH TATOO'S ROCK...sandra is just to old...5 years she'll be 50.
jesse was just probably tired of the dark & missinary only. if she had any skills at all she wouldn't have cheated on her.
It was such a weird match to start with – I thought...HIM? Just goes to show us that we really don't know the real Sandra Bullock...we may think we do but obviously we don't. Alot of us were truly shocked when she married this guy....I still wonder why. Of all the people. Strange.
reality check- seriously how is she as much to blame as he is? I completely disagree with you. No one deserves to be cheated on. And this is coming from a woman who was cheated on by her husband while 7 months pregnant. When I married my husband I had no clue that he was the type of person to do that. He even made me a promise that he would never do that to me. I know how my husband likes as you call to "have it served up." My husband's problem was he wasnt getting it as much as he wanted it because it was painful and difficult for me. Being cheated on hurts in more ways than you can understand if you have never been cheated on. My question to you is have you ever been cheated on or cheated on someone?
Jesse James made a vow to love, honor and cherish Sandra and forsake all others. He CHOSE not to do that. I dont care how many times he apologizes. The only reason he is doing this is to save face.
But answer me this how can you say that she is just as much to blame? He knew what type of woman that he was marrying. He knew that he was marrying an actress and that she would be gone from time to time shooting movies. I dont believe that Sandra is the type of person to cheat on her husband, especially when everytime she made an acceptance speech she made sure to include him in her thanks. How does a woman like that deserve to endure so much heartache? Atleast now she has baby louis to give her some well deserved happiness admist all the pain and sorrow she has been dealing with.
Did he really HAVE to go to scankville? Yuk Jessie. Are you serious. Please set your standards and expectations a little higher next time if you want sympathy. I am not sure who's scanks are worse... yours or Tigers.
It was clear that this man had no character when, on his TV show, he allowed one of his pit bulls to continually attack and harass a smaller one, day after day until it eventually killed it. He laughed about it, that jerk! He better never find himself within ten feet of me.
"Poor judgment"? Are you kidding? How total lack of basic intelligence and complete disrespect for his own wife and family? How about the absence of any ability to control his animal urges, to the point where he was having menage a trois in the family garage? At least Tiger Woods had the sense not to screw around in the same house where his family lived. This guy thinks that by pleading guilty that he's somehow repairing his reputation and marketability. No way. He's a dirtbag who has NOTHING to offer anybody.
I Will marry you Sandra!!!! And I would truly love you.
thats funny he would rather bone some hoe with a tattoo on her forehead...
I wish that I had Jessie's girl!!! (soon to be x)
How can he cheat on Sandra Bullock? The only thing she has that they didnt was money!
It's basically a PR move...he's lost his show, and now has to "win" back fans to jump start his career. I don't really understand why "celebrities" feel the need to tell their story to the entire world. The only ones that matter are his family and friends.
Any self respecting man would do the same so stop apologizing, your tainting your image, she wanted a bit of rough and that is what she got.
Keep your image and self respect man
I really like Sandra Bullock as a person. I'm on her side.
what is he trying to do? Nothing will make him look good. He can gravel and whine and complain how his dear wife was gone all the time....sorry dude. You are a multiple cheater and no excuse will "set you free". Gag.
Not again. Another contrite a**. IF only the media would spare us the drama.
His side? His side should be the same as hers: to love, honor, and obey, in sickness and in health, til death...
Nobody is perfect! We all make mistakes in life and we all learn from our mistakes. They are human beings like any other person. Just leave Jesse and Sandra alone they know what is best for themselves nobody needs to decide on their behalf. They have the right to defend themselves. Go Girl...
Jessie James is a average Joe that won the lottery when he conned Sandy into a relationship. The dude is average in every way, looks intellect, body, pp, and he wants to partner up with American's sweetheart? It's nice to see JJ got back to the trailer park where he came from.
No one wants to hear your side of the story, dude.
Another crying wanabee...... its to late don't you get it?
All right. Sandra, a lot of women in the lower 48 states have been cheated on their husbands while they either were out of the home, at Mom's house, or escorting the kids to the museum. These women were not manufactured by an agent or studio. And they either went to counseling(with or without their husband)and if the counseling worked, they successfully stayed together through the worst. And if counseling didn't work, and all of the therapy sessions have been exhausted, then file for seperation, then divorce. But Sandra and Jesse cut out the middleman and are heading down the divorce road as we type. Sandra didn't do(or did do)something wrong, like having a career outside of the home. Jesse didn't think(or thought incorrectly)about the consequences of his actions. Now he has another broken marriage and more unhappy kids.
Way to go, folks. Neither one of you have my sympathy.
I guess some of these posters have never made a mistake before!! Yes, he screwed up, but he deserves a chance to make amends and talk about it, for pete's sake. If Sandra is ready to move on, I think people who DON'T EVEN KNOW THEM should too.
Can't wait to hear the ramblings of a sociopath. Sociopaths just don't get it. He is going to give us some charming poor me BS and blame blame himself in some twisted way that screws with your head. I like you Jessie but you are a sociopath. Look it up. You have no real conscious and will say or do anything to prove that you do in order to get what you want. Seen it, been there, done that!
Young girls need to wise up and watch out for these type of guys. They are the worst kind of predator. Angels face in devils clothing.
Her career was at a low point and he had money. As soon as she hit it big with the last movie she blew town. typical woman.
What was he thinking??? I know, he was thinking with the wrong head
the question isn't why Jesse did this, the question is why would Sandra marry a d@@@head like Jesse???
what was she thinking?
OH SHUT UP PEOPLE!!! JESSE IS GOING TO OPEN UP AND TELL THE PEOPLE THE TRUTH AND ABOUT HIS LIFE!!! I DO CARE ABOUT JESSE AND HIS KIDS!! HE WANTS TO WORK OUT WITH SANDRA!!
YOU PEOPLE ON THE COMMENTS ARE RUDE ABOUT JESSE!!! JUST LEAVE JESSE ALONE!!
HOW DO YOU PEOPLE FEEL IF THEY WILL TELL ABOUT YA?? HUH!!!
sandra bullock is a dog
he can do better.
You're just embarrassing her further.
Ok since they didnt post my first comment.
i think the whole thing was a set up.
He is this big bad biker and instead of being known as a racist for her wanting to adopt a black child the cheating story was made up. it makes him look less like a bad guy.
What do you expect when women want the thuggish type. So I say she gets what she deserves!
He really shouldn't say anything. What is the point? He'd still be doing it if not caught.
There's no excuse to cheat. He's wrong no matter what. end of story
Am I the ONLY person who can't STAND Cathy Lee Gifford Mark II? I can only imagine that cheating would be the one pleasure he had left in life after shacking up with the single most over-rated actress in America...
The guy looks like a refugee from an amish boot camp.
....if you're looking for someone to turn into something better...look no further Sandy, I'm here to be your silly putty
You are a JERK!!
Let's hope he is smart enough NOT to try to pin blame on Sandra.
Don't even utter a single word Jesse. If you think you're at your lowest point now – you will find out how low you really can go in the public eye.
Use your last shred of decency and honor to be a man and admit you are the only one to blame. Anythlng less and you might as well just dig a hole and crawl into it.
it takes two to make a relationship work. for some reason their relationship did not work. i don't think it is fair to cast blame on just any one side here. how in the hell do all of you judgmental people know either sandra or jesse personally? also, how do you know what went on in their personal lives? you don't? that is what i thought. judge not, lest ye be judged.
I would say that not everyone is guilty here, firstly what did Sandy think? ...that she was going to turn this man into something more than what he'll ever be?
Now...take me for instance...I might not be employed but I'll work 3 times harder not to burn your toast in the morning...I might not be rich but I can pay half the waiter's tip after you take me out to dinner...I might not know how to ride a motorcycle – ok anything with only two wheels...but I can down 1/2 a liter of Rootbeer without breathing...
Sany, next time, you really need to look harder because we're out there....
i'd like to hear his excuse – i cant imagine how he will try and explain it away ... but why is he talking now ? isnt this old news ?
and what makes him think going public will do any good ? i'm sure he already did his 'splainin' to Sandra and if she wont take him back why should we ? :P
The Clintons R still together, Tiger Woods and his wife haven't got divirced yet. What the big deal with Sandra B and Jesse J. Right place wrong time!!!
who really cares?
Jesse, if anything you say is even a little bit of truth then why didn't you stop your behavior long long long ago? Carrying on your behavior, like you have, just doesn't go along with your words. No real woman should ever get involved with you again. You are one sorry sick individual. What ever happened to you that you don't know about love, trust, and loyalty? If you didn't want Sandra then at least an divorce would have been more honorable. Don't marry again, as you will only cause more people more pain.
Jesse who? GO LAKERS
What a dope! He never deserved her and threw away the best thing he could ever find. What did she see in this garbage?
She needs to kick him back to the trailer park...oh, she did already. Good job, Sandy!
i guess i'll just say it since now one else will.
she must have not been satisfing him. she's like 45 anyways, and proably wears granny panties.
The guy confesses to some of what we hear that is a major mistake in a relationship. He's vilified by the press and anyone else who holds an opinion. Now he has his day to be heard and everyone on this list want's to hang him before he speaks. And you question why there are problems in this world.
Why is anyone talking with him? Could care less...
All men will cheat given the right opportunity and los of women cheat also. All the people posting on here putting Jesse down probably sleep around also.
im actually interested in hearing what he has to say. no matter how bad a person people think he inherently was, he obviously at one time commited to changing his ways, thats why he married a woman so opposite of what he used to be. at some point he decided to revert back to his old ways and perhaps Sandra's ways were the root cause. I don't think that all these people bashing him really knew what the relationship was like on the inside, they just know Sandra as this all american sweetheart...well obviously she can't be 100% what everybody thinks she is because she married a man with such a checkered past and everybody including her knew about that. I think theres more to the story than we're being led to believe by the media.
Shame on ABC.Nightline for giving him airtime!
No one cares what his side of the story is. Just take responsibility and accept the consequences. Which includes losing his wife and family. He should just tuck his tail between his legs, sign the divorce papers, give Sandra whatever she wants and walk away. Keep your mouth shut. There is never an acceptable reason for infidelity. Same speech goes for Tiger Woods.
The bigges thing is this and simply this... he was married. He made a vow and regardless of how he will try to rationalize his behavior. I think that this is sad and that he is showing his wife what that commitment meant to him. Believe it or not, he married up and I am waiting to see how he tries to blame this entire thing on her.
NEWSFLASH WOMEN: Men cheat, always have, always will.
Silly drama queens, flashbacks of someone cheating on you does not justify flinging so much hatred at Jesse. He screwed the pooch and he's paying for it. None of us are in a position to judge.
Michelle McGee v. Sandra Bullock...wow! this is a tough one.
talented actress, won awards for such, gorgeous, big heart, lots of money, knows just about everyone in the business, etc. vs. big hoo-haas and tats? WTH?? am I missing something here????
I respected you Jesse...but, thinking with the wrong head, you lost any fans you ever had.
Of course he cheated! The question we should all be asking ourselves is, "Why did he marry Cathy Lee Gifford in the first place?" Blech.
Who gives a rats butt what he says. Former reality TV star? What a stretch that is!
do you think anyone really cares, moron?
He will let the world know how lonely he was with a wife that was gone all the time making movies. Jesse just had to let his inner self out to overcome the loneliness. We, as mere mortals, will never understand his the sacrifices he had to make.
no great guy would do a national interview about how he CHEATED and broke his wife's heart.. that's private stuff, putting anything out public is not wise, except for brief apologies and other interview material unrelated to the indiscretions.. he lied to her, putting all that out public won't help.
the tattooed chick he fell for... amazing to leave sandra for someone on a whim like that... sad.
who cares what this bozo has to say? he is lucky to make motorcycles, and should lament the lost chance to make a great life with sandra bullock, who seems pretty sharp by any standard.
Both are trash
1. Sandra Bullock is an idiot for ever marrying such a piece of white trash, but hopefully she will now learn from this big mistake.
2. He should have come down harder on himself when making these comments in the PR. Instead of saying "bad judgement"....he should just say that he acted like a compete fool.
Alohawilma, sound like you would hang any guy just for being a guy. There are a bunch of us out on the planet who have been wronged by women, but still realize there is two sides to every story. Hear them both, from the source, not the media, before you get your rope out. With all due respect
i don't see what jesse is so upset about . those hollywood women are a dime a dozen.
I don't blame Jesse as much as I blame Sandra. Jesse was just being himself, somethings never change. But how Sandra could make such a gastly error in judgement in marrying this guy is beyond belief. I guess as the old saying goes, play with fire and you might get burnt.
Uh, PRiscilla Knutson... the show will be on the same time in your area the same time it's been on for the past 31 years!!! LMAO
PRiscilla Knutson May 19th, 2010 6:49 pm ET
Is this program airing at 11:30 pm Eastern or Pacific? Article is showing Eastern, which would make it 9:30 Pacific. Normally this show comes on after the 11:00 news.
Did it ever occur to anyone that maybe his apology is sincere?
He finally got his due with his own TV show, probably gathered up a sizable sum of cash, and scored a Hollywood hottie. He was probably invincible in his own mind. Did anyone ever read Bonfire of the Vanities? Cut him some slack.
Having beauty, acting talent, money, a fan base, or a Grammy does not bring happiness! The Hollywood stars should re-check their priority if they're looking for happiness in their so-called marriages.
That photo of Sandra laughing sort of fits, eah?
It's about time. I was beginning to think he might have gotten smart.
If he had even an ounce of class, he would keep his big mouth shut, period. Do we really need a kiss-and-tell diatribe from this guy? Giant ego does not equal having a pair.
If he truly respected the marriage and Sandra – he would not be doing this appearance on TV AT ALL. He would keep things private as they should be.
Exactly why was Jesse playing house with a prima donna? He is way above her and her Hollywood associates. He needs to go back to his roots and build, not play games with the media and the phony "stars."
What a waste of valuable TV time...I'll pass...He's a dog...It takes a Dog to screw something that ugly...If he was going to cheat the least he could of done was do it with someone who doesn't look like something off of Jerry Springer...
Yuk Who cares? Only Tiger will watch that show.
When a man cheat he's considered a jerk. The woman he cheated with were somehow fooled or taken advantage of...
When women cheat he must have deserved it. The men she cheated with are dogs for doing that with her...
Yeah sure... Give Sandra Bullock a lie detector test and see how many skeletons she has in her closet.
why would this guy cheat on her? i dont get it. Maybe he's too insecure
about his looks, his lack of millions of dollars, his talent etc.
First of all he should have been thinking with the head with the brain in it thats why he's in the spot he's in.
I just hope he doesnt play the "Blame Game"
You know it is so easy to judge, but people cheat on their spouses all the time. JFK did it and he is revered, while Jesse James is not in the same status as a former President of the united states, their wrong doings most certainly are. Obviously he was struggling with some major issues, I mean why else would he do this. The thing is that he needs forgiveness and unconditional love just as much as the rest of us. Be careful as you cast the stones at him, to first check your own life. He really hurt Sandra Bullock and his family no doubt, but we are all just a step away from hurting those we love and we need to stay humbleand remember that. Be angry, but don't be judgemental. It is only by God's grace that you can forgive such a thing, but thankfully noone including Jesse James is beyond His grace.
Is this program airing at 11:30 pm Eastern or Pacific? Article is showing Eastern, which would make it 9:30 Pacific. Normally this show comes on after the 11:00 news.
Bottom line is this: HE GOT CAUGHT! and now he has to say something in order to not looking like a complete jerk.
I don't want to hear it.
So many bitter unemployed housewives....
He did it, he owns it. I give him credit for that. Karma's biting his butt and will continue to do so. I hope he's learned.
The initial shock of Jesse's behaviour may be over but the sting still bites. Can't understand your rationale for this poor behaviour, Jesse, so I'm wondering if you were thinking at all when you chose to play around. And then to apologize after the fact! Only now do you realize it wasn't "worth it" – well, that's mighty big of you to admit it at this point, after getting caught. Your insensitive actions towards your wife (and your vows) totally disillusioned my belief that you two made a great couple – that you both came from different worlds, met, fell in love, got married, and were planning to raise a family together. I do think Sandra's made the right decision though, to move on without you. You had your chance and you know you blew it. What a shame that you thought so little of yourself, your wife, and your kids to do what you did. So, why did you get married? I'll listen to what you have to say in your "Nightline" interview – but somehow I doubt it will be very convincing to anyone – especially Sandra. Good luck in any case.
Oh, shocker! Jesse James cheated?! That's so freakin' unbelievable... He's such a winner. High quality man. Not.
No one wants to hear his stuff and nonsense, really. What can he possible say that would justify his behavior?
(fed up with Jessie) GO SUNS!
I hope this guy doesn't hope to promote his "brand", TV show and public persona by appearing on this show. It seems to reek of self promotion.
Yes, Jesse you comments are so sincere - I have an apology letter from my ex from many years ago that is very similar to yours. Get over yourself.
This guy is an idiot! Sandy is dumping him and he certainly deserves it! You go Sandra!!!!!
Go Jessie's Girl.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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